Avalon Singles

[Wormhole]

I felt inspired to create this thread to bring together people who may be looking for a little star-inspired romance! If you are a single and want to meet people of like mind, here is a place to do it. Please state your stats honestly and enjoy...

Now, I am happily married. So this will be my last post here. :lol3:

But, I am one of the lucky ones who has a husband who is also Ground Crew. This is rare. I know a lot of you out there who have been finding it difficult to find like minded partners. Why not try here?
Peace of Mind,
Worm

Best of Luck and remember, "To be loved, be lovable!" - Ovid:wub2:

[burgundia]

Ok, i am divorced. But i doubt any romance when we are thousands miles away from one another makes sense...

[waitinginthewings]

Ok, i am divorced. But i doubt any romance when we are thousands miles away from one another makes sense...

burgundia: you never know who else is reading this site from Poland? Maybe you could state if your male or female, age etc.

[burgundia]

burgundia: you never know who else is reading this site from Poland? Maybe you could state if your male or female, age etc.

Anybody from Poland will know that I am a female because of my nick:original: however I do not want to disclose too much personal information about me on the open forum....

[waitinginthewings]

Anybody from Poland will know that I am a female because of my nick:original: however I do not want to disclose too much personal information about me on the open forum....

Ok then.......not sure how this will work then. I do agree not too much personal info, but we will need to say something in order to get a certain someones attention:mfr_lol:

[burgundia]

Ok then.......not sure how this will work then. I do agree not too much personal info, but we will need to say something in order to get a certain someones attention:mfr_lol:

There is always pm

[waitinginthewings]

There is always pm

Bingo......that solves it:mfr_lol:

[waitinginthewings]

Ok....I'll throw my hat in the ring also.........female, divorced, late 50's.....where are all the great guys in my age group:wink2:

Changed my mind, I withdraw my hat. This thread has turned into a state of confusion. Too many mixed messages from some posters. My apologies to wormhole, I thought this actually might be a serious opportunity to connect with a potential partner of like mind, but I feel the thread has been hijacked.

[Humble Janitor]

Single here and when asked by friends if I needed a woman or even a man, I declined. I need no one. I'm simply not interested in pursuing romance or anything with anyone. I attribute it to years of letdowns and broken hearts.

[THE eXchanger]

I attribute it to years of letdowns and broken hearts.

a let-down implies an eXpectation

perhaps, it is wise, to let them, find you

if you are eXactly what they are looking for

perhaps, there will be NO let-down

and, if it is your heart, that has been broken -

at least, you know, you have a heart - that can feel ;)

that is a great thing of value to have, and, to hold

the best thing is, that it is only good when it is active

and, it only getting better, when it is shared

it starts, i think, with sharing your lower self with your higher self

and, when you have forged that connection

PURRhaps then, you are ready for someone else
to enter the equation

i would rather be happy and alone

than be with another, that does NOT make me happier

i think another,
can simply make us, happier NOT happy

remember anything that is good that is shared,
is NEVER halved, but doubled

love / susan
the eXchanger

(i have been single for 50 years)

[THE eXchanger]

I seem to be a magnet for lying and cheating. It's the law of attraction, I'm attracting that which I abhor.

i think, those that lie / and, cheat
look for those, they think,
they can pull wool over their eyes,

since you are single
it's a good sign,
as, it is quite apparent,
you do NOT keep others around that do such things

you may attract them...
however, it appears, you repeal them,
equally well

that is what is called doing "good work" ;)

love / susan
the eXchanger

[Luminari]

I'm looking for my galaxy girl/space princess/love goddess

http://Luminari.fileave.com/goddess.jpg

[henners]

I think they should add a box some where that you tick so all of us can tell if you are male or female. Thats not revealing too much, is it?
http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/images/unbranded/m/unbranded-male-&-female-urban-steel-bathroom-signs.jpg
Henry

[Antaletriangle]

I think a box in the middle also-hermaphrodite/eunuch!lol.

[777 The Great Work]

I think a box in the middle also-hermaphrodite/eunuch!lol.

: :mfr_lol: WTF U R http://freshimagehosting.com/images/c8m91i4dybesvv7vld5w.jpg (http://freshimagehosting.com/) :lmao: Hermaphrodite. I love Avalon

[Swanny]

You can tell by my avatar that I'm male :original:
If I was female I'd have hair

[THE eXchanger]

this meeting people online
is actually, pretty strange, and,
can also be pretty weird

people using webcams ... half naked / or completely naked
and, think cause they are doing that,
you too should also join them, in doing it too :mfr_lol:

(that isn't going to happen)

(the old statement-- fair is fair,
you see me, and, now, i should see you)

(like monkey see, monkey will do)

and, chat lines, that show others that
have an eyeball on your computer,
however, do you really want to give someone
a birds eye view of you & your home,
that you do NOT know ???

i also wonder if anyone else, can see you, without it turned on ???

also, i have had people send odd things

i once had a guy from wales,
a professional photographer,
who was quite an interesting guy,
however, i suppose, when his brain ran out of things to talk about,
he started sending me
photos of other women, he was photographing,
in a sideline business of his,
and, i am sure, they would NOT have appreciated him,
sending these shots, to others ...
and, then, shortly after, him starting to do that
he actually send 3 shots of his member aka his privates
and, although they were good shots
i actually NEVER responded back to him
as, i felt, he likely sent this to a lot of different women,
and, it had the exact opposite reaction,
i am sure, that he thought it would have,
as, it actually totally shut me down ...

i am sure, he thought, sending those 3 photos
of himself, would have had the exact opposite reaction
and, had me running towards him,
instead, i figured, if that is all he thinks of himself
to send pictures of himself totally nude to others,
esp. me, who he didn't really know,
who else does he send these types of picture too ???

it is a strange world, as, it is,
online, perhaps, it is even stranger

women do like nice guys

i often hear nice guys say,
women are NOT interested in nice guys

however, maybe it is only the nice guys,
who finish in the end

on the topic of online dating sites...
i think a lot of busy people utilise them,
so, they do NOT feel lonely,
or, can have their hands in 101 cookie jars,
at the same time

perfect a form letter--and, you are set :mfr_lol:

yesterday, i went out,
to check out some local places to have a meeting...
and, it was quite obvious
who the people where, who were meeting people for the 1st time
from online dating sites

my friend elaine, and, i, had some very good laughs !!!

love
susan
the eXchanger

[Dantheman62]

I agree henners!

[Dantheman62]

Online dating? never! I just need to find someone with money so I can stay home. Not because I'm lazy, but I love to cook and grocery shop and all that good stuff.Hmmm I guess I would make someone a good husband, oops I mean boyfriend. LOL! I'll never say the M word, as in marriage.

[burgundia]

I'll never say the M word, as in marriage.

Neither will I. One experience is enough.

[Antaletriangle]

: :mfr_lol: WTF U R http://freshimagehosting.com/images/c8m91i4dybesvv7vld5w.jpg (http://freshimagehosting.com/) :lmao: Hermaphrodite. I love Avalon

I always wondered where they stored their nuts!lol.

[piers2210]

Interesting point that Henners raises, i'm always thinking that posts are from men when i finally discover they're from a woman, and posts i think are from women are from men.....hehehehe - but this is the first internet forum i've ever particpated in so i guess i'm just not clued up enough!

I "deconstructed" my life a short while ago, let everything go, including shaving my hair hahaha but its a natural process when your consciousness or vibration changes, you simply can't stay where you were. I'm not sure where things will go from here, except i know that the world we create is a mirror of our thoughts, so you will attract into your life the same vibration. Something exciting is always just around the corner......

[Humble Janitor]

I must correct my original post by adding that even though I am not interested, I still long to find someone that I can connect with. For some reason, it's not easy to find time to do so with the kind of schedule I put myself through.

Certainly not bitter but at a point where I want people more than I need them.

[piers2210]

Hey HJ, how did you come up with the name "humble janitor"? I really like it, its one of the best "pen" names i've come across, near perfect! Its such an ego-free concept....you see egos everywhere, even on the avalon forum! I used to do seminars with top business guys and i always started with a section on egos and how ego-based decisions can wreck viable companies...well, i'm out of all that now...phew! best, Piers

[Seashore]

I am a single woman and I would like to hear from a single Avalon man about my age (64), in a private message...

Thanks, Wormhole, for this.

[Antaletriangle]

Hey c'mon folks this post isn't that cynical.,read between the lines..
Have a listen-quality music;even for the youngsters.
I'm not in love,10cc.:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rgepWg4rzw

dreadlock hols. for helv and brinto an' crew!!lol.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVArC_klWEI

Lyrics:

I was walkin' down the street
Concentratin' on truckin' right
I heard a dark voice beside of me
And I looked round in a state of fright
I saw four faces one mad
A brother from the gutter
They looked me up and down a bit
And turned to each other

I say
I don't like cricket oh no
I love it
I don't like cricket no no
I love it
Don't you walk thru my words
You got to show some respect
Don't you walk thru my words
'Cause you ain't heard me out yet

Well he looked down at my silver chain
He said I'll give you one dollar
I said You've got to be jokin' man
It was a present from me Mother
He said I like it I want it
I'll take it off your hands
And you'll be sorry you crossed me
You'd better understand that you're alone
A long way from home

And I say
I don't like reggae no no
I love it
I don't like reggae oh no
I love it
Don't you cramp me style
Don't you queer on me pitch
Don't you walk thru my words
'Cause you ain't heard me out yet

I hurried back to the swimming pool
Sinkin' pina coladas
I heard a dark voice beside me say
Would you like something harder
She said I've got it you want it
My harvest is the best
And if you try it you'll like it
And wallow in a Dreadlock Holiday

And I say
Don't like Jamaica oh no
I love her
Don't like Jamaica oh no
I love her oh yea
Don't you walk thru her words
You got to show some respect
Don't you walk thru her words
'Cause you ain't heard her out yet

I don't like cricket
I love it (Dreadlock Holiday)
I don't like reggae
I love it (Dreadlock Holiday)
Don't like Jamaica
I love her (Dreadlock Holiday)

[Antaletriangle]

This one is for all of you valentino lovers of cricket-chill test music,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGnYuQdSEMw&feature=related



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGLsAkeRd84

[Swanny]

Dreadlock Holiday :thumb_yello:

[vipassana]

Hello All
I've recently joined Avalon Forum. My Birth Certificate classifies me as 50 but age doesn't mean anything to me now and it doesn't come into my mind much :original:
I haven't had a partner since 1998 after my second divorce. I've learnt that my partner relationships were doomed to failure because they were built on illusions of romantic love and expectation. I don't have expectations and
I'm not looking for a partner just trying to build friendships but you know the saying...never say never.....who knows i might be with a co pilot one day?
I agree with you eXchanger that it's better to be without a partner than being in a relationship that isn't right. It's great to be absorbed and fulfilled pursuing interests and activities that you enjoy or interest you.....like reading all the thought provoking and interesting material on Avalon for one. :thumb_yello:
One day at a time
Kind Regards
Helen

[Jacqui D]

Hi everyone, well i'm not looking for anyone because i've been married 38 years this year phewwwww!! does that warrant a trophy or something!
Anyway what a good idea for you singles to get together.

Many would say i guess that they are concentrating on their higher self and this would only complicate the matter but hey you can still do that and find a like minded person to share your life with.
Especially here i would say this is probably the best place to find someone.

My other half is convinced i'm chatting to guys all night lol!!
Well he's right isn't he ha ha!

But seriously, i think if he could use the pc he would be on here as much as me!
He listens and watches all the camelot interviews with me.

[futureyes]

live in the moment ...

love life ...
love your self ...
love others ...

never say never ...
be and be open hearted ...

true love arrives when least expected ...

explore it ...
embrace it ...

never close your heart off because of what did or didn't happen to your heart in the past ...

always leave the door to your heart open ... the continuous flow of fresh air will one day bring with it ...

your true love ...

never say never ...
don't say anything ...
feel your heart always open ...

true love will enhance ... not hinder ... your life journey ...

:wub2:

[Lunaris]

I think this is a funny thread!

I am female 33, divorced...

Many of my ex's were narcissists..one MAJOR sociopath..a "junkie/musician/actor"....lots of "creative" guys that ended up getting envious and then "competing" with me...

I have my moon sign in Aquarius so i am not "typical" of a "female"...i love people but i don't "need" anyeone...I am very independent and need some decompressing "breathing room" because i work very hard everyday multi-tasking many different things. I am not clingy nor do i like it. I stayed too long in all of my relationships because i can't deal with making anyone cry so i am the suffer in silence withdraw from reality type...

I have cleared my life the past few years to just the basics...

Work,family,doggy,....only nice people as "friends" ...research, reading, creating, living, helping peeps...etc..

I feel quite exhausted on the relationship front...

feel like i want to make up some "lost time" from giving my energy to the wrong peeps...

[burgundia]

i was married for 12 years. I am not in a relationship right now but I am not sure I want to be. I am happy living my life the way it is. I am alone but i do not feel lonely. I guess I do not necessarily need another person by my side to be happy.
The relationships of most of my friends are falling apart now so there is nothing I could envy them.

[piers2210]

This has to be the most "uplifting" pop video I've ever watched...my favourite all-time pop vid....so perfect for anyone feeling down and alone...there's a great world out there..its the Avalanches "since i left you"...if it doesn't bring a tear to any singles eyes I'll eat my socks!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMg9kX_K21k

Anyway, it felt right for me seven years ago.....

[THE eXchanger]

i think, that, you got to find someone
who you just can NOT live without...

and, that you have to be
very specific, in what you want,
and, what it is, that you are willing,
to give, in order to receive, what you want

it is a two = way street

however, most people i have encountered
seem to see, the street, as having one way, their way
what is in it for me ? and, they forget there is an US

and, myself, when i see that,
i take the next exit, off the ramp,
why bother --
if you can NOT improve anothers life,
and, another can NOT improve your life
then, why bother to waste time,
being in it !!!

personally, i think the key words are
being caring, kind, and, thoughtful
and, giving more, than you take
and, remembering a life that is properly shared,
is never halved, but doubled

after 50 years of being successfully single...
i think, i learn,
how to wear the pants/and, wear the skirt
in my family - and, as a result of that
i think, i would have the potential to be a good partner,
for the right person

being with the wrong type of person, is draining

and, who needs that !!!

another is there to make us happier, NOT happy

and, who has time, for sad sacks with sad tales

[burgundia]

There is a proverb:better alone than in a bad company...

[futureyes]

your words resonate with me susan ...

a true relationship is a "two = way street" ... giving and receiving equally = balance ...

one way streets lead us in different directions ... this then is not a true relationship ...

it is not up to one individual to make another happy ... a true relationship is not about "making" anything ...

it is about the effortless flow of travelling together ... sharing and experiencing equally ... respecting the "us" factor ...

some just take longer to realize the two way at some point became a one way ... but at least it's realized ... and the exit ramp is then taken ...

and happiness resumes ...

:wub2:

[Dantheman62]

HaHa great video piers!

[burgundia]

it is not up to one individual to make another happy ... a true relationship is not about "making" anything ...

it is about the effortless flow of travelling together ... sharing and experiencing equally ... respecting the "us" factor ...

some just take longer to realize the two way at some point became a one way ... but at least it's realized ... and the exit ramp is then taken ...

and happiness resumes ...

:wub2:
you futureyes have that talent to say so beautifully what I think:original: and feel. There is poetry in your heart....

[Czymra]

Sorry to throw this in here but whoever enjoyed that video can't dare to miss frontier psychiatrist.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8BWBn26bX0

Regards the two way street, I also found that couples that try too hard to be a single unit don't make it either.

[Carmen]

Great video Piers, that guy could move!!!

Why is it that so many couples cancel each other out? Often you get married people away from each other and they are personality plus, but put them together they become neutral and boring. One controls the other, no fun, no trust. Its sad to see.

I go on week long horse treks most years, into the high country of New Zealand. Its a week of fabulous scenery, through tussock and bog, up mountains and into valleys. Nights of song and dance and drinks. Quite hard yakka, but great fun. I love to observe people on these treks. They really come out of themselves. Women on the treks love what I call the cowboy ethic. The men really look after the ladies, and the ladies feel appreciated in a way they may not be in their ordinary life. People become very real when the going gets tough. Of course, attractions happen, partnerships crack, and others are formed, but not as often as you might think.

One interesting observation (and this is from the men!) is that women are tougher, have more endurance. We are more likely to dance all night, drink the men under the table, and be up riding all the next day!!!

I am noticing more and more that young people are more androgymous. Woman are accessing more of their capable maleness, and men allow themselves to be softer. Men and woman are more likely to be great friends and mates, than they used to be when I was a kid. I love my men friends, but I certainly don't sleep with them, would bugger up a good friendship!:naughty::naughty::naughty::naughty::na ughty:

[Noela]

Dantheman62 - Now ain't that strange - I've just
lately been feeling the need to have someone
cook and grocery shop for me.

Bit of a hike to bring it from Georgia though!:thumbdown:

[Dantheman62]

HaHa Noela, I'd be happy too! but if you're in the UK than it is a little far, plus I don't know anything about english food, LOL! Tea and what?....crumpets?

[Noela]

Excuses! Excuses!

[Humble Janitor]

I'm still single.

[Dantheman62]

Here's my definition...........

Single
http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/291038/2/istockphoto_291038-hamburger.jpg

Relationship
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3091/2782336139_46e77fb531.jpg?v=0

Single
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3119/2743124159_33da935b1a.jpg?v=0

Relationship
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3018/2753521943_16fc4e4d46.jpg?v=0

See how that works! HaHa

[Humble Janitor]

If only there was a manual on how women work. I'd be set if I had one.

[Dantheman62]

Wisconsin?.....COLD
Humble Janitor, no such manual exists, It's the ultimate mystery!

BwaHaHaHa

Remember, men are from Venus, and women are from Mars, LOL!

[Dantheman62]

Oh I should say to Luana, I might've grown up in Minnesota, but I've spent the last 25 years in Florida.

[Dantheman62]

My daughter had posted something on my facebook that went something like... love a man less understand him more... love a woman more understand her less. I don't get it
hmmm kind of makes sense, hmmm

[Czymra]

My daughter had posted something on my facebook that went something like... love a man less understand him more... love a woman more understand her less. I don't get it


Seems like your daughter has got it figured out.

[Swanny]

Dan Dan the ladys man :thumb_yello:

[addalight]

:wink2:Just luking. This thread makes me smile. I'm not willing to give up my gender neutrality.

[Swanny]

Anyone want to survive the next few years with me???? :snog:


:insane:

[burgundia]

Anyone want to survive the next few years with me???? :snog:


:insane:

:roll1: what surival skills would one need?

[Swanny]

Ah that's the tricky part :zip:

[Czymra]

:roll1::roll1::roll1:

[THE eXchanger]

at least when you are single...
there are NO restrictions,
about whom, you can mingle with

being tied down the wrong person...
can be a big drag,
isn't a wedding ring, the smallest handcuff in the world ???

For many people,
they think, you get married to have sex,
and, then, they find out, after the "i do's"...

YOU DO NOT !!! :lol:

[piers2210]

You guys crack me up!

You're all too happy to be single hahahaha!!

By the way, that burger looked great, pity i gave up meat, i had lentils and rice tonight!!!

Czymra, just realised i never replied to you on the London thread. Response coming!

P.

[THE eXchanger]

You're all too happy to be single hahahaha!!
P.

PURR-haps, that is why we are happy !!!

Another person, simply holds the potential, to make you happier !!!

The best part of being single - is,
that NO ONE understands why you are single

in 2048, on my 90th birthday - it's a maybe !!!

i am the oldest NON married person, in my family...
and, i think, i am, the only one, who has NEVER married
(ahhh...i have one younger cousin, who is about 40ish,
and, he has NEVER married either)
he is cute, and, quite reserved and shy

Like me !!! (believe it, or NOT, the eXchanger, has a shy side)

at the cost of a wedding today,
that generally lasts about 2-5 years,
you can buy a house - crazy what some people will pay, to get married

[Swanny]

Being single has many advantages, but I can't help thinking it would be great to share them with someone :blink:

[THE eXchanger]

do you think meyers briggs test - help you to identify your strengths ???

i was an i N T J, when i was really young
they term that one, a master_mind
but, i now developed into

a slightly i / and, a slighty E
N
T
(don't think you can change those two, for something else)

and, j/p is balanced at 50/50

so, i am an * N T *

is there hope for me ???

i am still verifying potential candidates
so, that means, i am, still,
in the running, and,
in the positive pole of a spiritualist...

if i had faith, they eXist, i would be in the negative pole

and, i do NOT think, that is where, i want to be !!!

also, if you think about it,
doesn't the charm of faith, hope, and, charity --
have an anchor in it, i wonder, what the anchor is all about !!!

if you go out intentionally fishing for one,
often you find

a hook, a line, and, a stinker !!!

:diespam:

sooner or later, i will find,

a hook, line, and, NO STINKER !!!

i think, they are called KEEPERs

[waitinginthewings]

Geez....I thought this thread was started for singles who would like to meet each other for a potential partnership. So far, it appears that some who post on here are quite happy being single. Why then do they keep posting on and on about how happy they are, & trying to convince the rest of us, that there must be something wrong with us if we are seeking a partner.

Perhaps they should start their own own thread, where they can espouse the benefits of singledom.

[THE eXchanger]

waiting in the wings,
maybe, you should be waiting in The Pivot ;)

my purpose, of enjoying being single,
is, so that i might have twice as much fun,
if i meet someone special

however, i think, first, it is necessary, to love thy self ;)

and, then, a person would be ready !!!

[Orion Morris]

Good point.... You cannot love anybody fully until you are stisfied being by yourself....

Since I am posting I will say that I am single and I enjoy the freedom but I would love to meet someone who was a little more likeminded...

I live in a small Wyoming town where it is very rural and dominated by the typical male attitude. I have had 4 pretty serious relationships but most of them were based on external attraction rather than internal.. Not saying I didnt love them but I feel like the only reason we started talking was because they were beautiful girls. Either way, it didnt work out and they all moved away.

I am 24 male

Gemini

I would rather be around someone who enjoys cutting loose... I love music and spend most of my time in the summer traveling around and hitting up music festivals.




[QUOTE=Kathleen;113299]I just think it's a part of waking up spiritually and realizing you CAN live alone.QUOTE]

[solitaryman]

Hi eXchanger,I don't know to use quote.I'm refering to your Myers-briggs test.You are revealing a lot of yourself.I think you have a lot of guts to do that.I decided to do the same thing:INFP.That may explain my attitude.

[vipassana]

I just think it's a part of waking up spiritually and realizing you CAN live alone.

Yes I would agree with this because before I awakened spiritually I was needy and dependant on others whereas now I am able to embrace and enjoy being alone. However I'm open to the possibility of meeting a like minded person and continuing on my life journey with a co pilot. :original:

[Czymra]

Yes I would agree with this because before I awakened spiritually I was needy and dependant on others whereas now I am able to embrace and enjoy being alone. However I'm open to the possibility of meeting a like minded person and continuing on my life journey with a co pilot. :original:

I really have gone through the same process but sometimes it does seem like one is utterly stuck when alone. Having an opposite doesn't only give more energy but also the checks that, if no one is there to mirror you actively, you have to run (or let run) them passively. Meaning it's much harder to engage with the 'harsh truth' as one must humbly observe the world around one, while a partner usually slams it in your face.

I for once, like the slamming and can be more humble because of that.
Where was that thread for single sexual spiritual development?

(Oh oh, Kathleen, you wanted to end the rambling on why, yet your statement clicked with three more people that now ramble.)

[williamfmartin@gmail.com]

I have always been single and probably always will. Doesn't mean I want to. Just the way it has happened for me, and I accept that. I have a lot of wonderful and very close friends. Just not getting sex anymore.......
We all adjust.........

[David]

For any not knowing what the Meyers Briggs test is....here's a link:


http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp (http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp)


INFJ, today anyway!


Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

[burgundia]

Thank you for the link Kathleen. now i know I am INFP (healer)

[Czymra]

Don't you just love how that happens? :original:

I love rambling.....

and notice they said they'd like a partner?

the subtleties of searching for love.

Ahhh, if you were only 3 decades older!

See that's exactly why I was thinking twice before writing anything in this thread. ;) Well there I have it.

[THE eXchanger]

Hi eXchanger,I don't know to use quote.I'm refering to your Myers-briggs test.You are revealing a lot of yourself.I think you have a lot of guts to do that.I decided to do the same thing:INFP.That may explain my attitude.

ahh- you are, what you are, and, why hide it LOL

i turn 29, every year, and,
i just had my 22nd -29th birthday
at the end of 2008

i think, that is a secret, to staying young,
is, thinking young

i still feel, 29, but, probably look 35ish

another trick, is this...

i get up, and, i eXpect to have a good day
& generally, that is eXactly what happens

NO one believes, i am 50 -- which is good

and, everyone thinks,
that there are 101 other men hiding out, in my closets :mfr_lol:
which is sadly, NOT the truth :(

however, sometimes, i think, you have to reach this age
before, you really know, what it is, that you want

as, an i.n.f.p.,
you are one,
who feels things deep, and, are a perceptive one
your type of gal/or guy,
you run very deep,
however, you need an assortment
of picks and shovels, in order to get at your deepest thoughts,
and, get them out of you !!!

they are also, the silent, and, very strong type
and, are NOT likely once committed to something,
highly unlikely to ever stray :mfr_lol:

also, since, they are so perceptive,
it is NOT only very hard to pull any wool over their eyes,
it is virtually almost impossible, to do that :mfr_lol::mfr_lol:
(that's a double LOL)

they know, they just seem to know things,
infp's are interesting people,
i know, as, an intj - we can appear, to be slightly aloof,
and, cool, but, that isn't the truth, we run quite deep too

anyway...it appears, discussing M/B's might spice up the chat a little

[THE eXchanger]

i did that test , and, honestly answered the questions
(for a job interview, as, a master_mind, i could tweak the test, a little)
& it would show me, to be an entj, but, the real truth is, i am an definitely an iNTj
Your Type is INTJ
Introverted 33
Intuitive 38
Thinking 62
Judging 11

Qualitative analysis of your type formula

You are:
* moderately expressed introvert
* moderately expressed intuitive personality
* distinctively expressed thinking personality
* slightly expressed judging personality

that is a good test, as, it also tells you what careers, etc., would be good for you

also, you could maybe figure out, who you have been, in a past life

however, askahic records, are, much easier to tap into , earth ones, or galatic ones

there is some good info online http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INTJ - less than 1% of the population is intj - or master_minds


Masterminds are introspective, pragmatic, directive, and attentive. They tend to be capable leaders, skilled in contingency planning and entailment organizing, which are directive activities that tell the planner what activities to do and in what order to do them. Despite their leadership capabilities, Masterminds prefer to stay in the background until others demonstrate ineffective leadership. However, once in a position of power, Masterminds are known for their efficiency and willingness to adopt useful ideas.

Masterminds are strong willed, self confident, and decisive. They are also highly theoretical and the most open-minded of the 16 role variants. Before Masterminds adopt a theoretical notion, they insist on researching all the available data and checking the idea against reality. Masterminds are suspicious of theories based on poor research and will discard ideas that cannot be effectively implemented.

Masterminds are highly pragmatic, and they will put forth a great deal of time and effort to implement effective ideas. They are driven to solve complex problems and to create organized, decided, and executed solutions. Masterminds tend to make positive statements instead of negative ones, focusing on how to make the organization more efficient in the future rather than dwelling on past mistakes.

[edit] Notable Masterminds

For illustrative purposes, Keirsey and his son, David M. Keirsey,[2] have identified well-known individuals whose behavior is consistent with a specific type. Unless otherwise noted, the categorization of the individuals below, whether living or dead,
as Masterminds is a matter of expert opinion rather than the result of actual testing of the named individual.

* Isaac Asimov[3]
* Niels Bohr[1]
* William F. Buckley[3]
* Dwight D. Eisenhower[1]
* Ulysses S. Grant[1]
* Stephen Hawking[1]
* John Maynard Keynes[1]
* Lise Meitner[1]
* Isaac Newton[1]
* Friedrich Nietzsche[1]
* Peter the Great[1]
* Ayn Rand[1]

[Czymra]

also, you could maybe figure out, who you have been, in a past life

however, askahic records, are, much easier to tap into , earth ones, or galatic ones

You're taking this completely off topic but if you ever open a new thread with that, let me know please.

[waitinginthewings]

You're taking this completely off topic but if you ever open a new thread with that, let me know please.

:mfr_lol:

[Swanny]

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

And me :thumb_yello:
Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population

[waitinginthewings]

I have done the Myers Briggs test a few times over the years, & discovered that I had changed with each test. As we develop ourselves through healing our wounds and working on a spiritual path, this also changes some of who we become.

Actually, I and some friends who did the test one day, all agreed, that we had a piece of each of the categories within us. So we concluded, that the test could not give us an accurate "typing " of who we are.

As human beings we are constantly growing and changing, so we truly can not be typed as one or another imho. But its "fun" anyway.

[David]

And me :thumb_yello:


:thumb_yello:

[Humble Janitor]

at least when you are single...
there are NO restrictions,
about whom, you can mingle with

being tied down the wrong person...
can be a big drag,
isn't a wedding ring, the smallest handcuff in the world ???

For many people,
they think, you get married to have sex,
and, then, they find out, after the "i do's"...

YOU DO NOT !!! :lol:

Does this explain the high number of married men that seek out encounters with gay men?

After all, if they can't get it from a woman, they'll turn to a guy. That is just desperation.

[Humble Janitor]

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

I'm an ENFJ.

Though I think the test is a bit vague. It needs to go deeper into the questions as I am 50/50 on some of them.

I find myself becoming less introverted and more extroverted. I'd say that over the past 10 years, I've made leaps and bounds and continue to do so. I no longer yearn to be alone, though sometimes my schedule leaves no choice.

[David]

And me :thumb_yello:

I'm an ENFJ.

Though I think the test is a bit vague. It needs to go deeper into the questions as I am 50/50 on some of them.

I find myself becoming less introverted and more extroverted. I'd say that over the past 10 years, I've made leaps and bounds and continue to do so. I no longer yearn to be alone, though sometimes my schedule leaves no choice.

I agree. It is a little vague. I also find my self becoming more extroverted as I get older but then, there are the times when I need time to my self for a couple days to recharge. I have found the Chinese horoscopes do a better job at describing my personality than the western astrology. So maybe a mixture of ENFJ and the Chinese Tiger best fits me.

[THE eXchanger]

Does this explain the high number of married men that seek out encounters with gay men?

After all, if they can't get it from a woman, they'll turn to a guy. That is just desperation.

NO, believe it, or NOT, but, i have quite a few female friends,
who prior to getting married, they got it a lot,
but, after the marriage, well, the man, wasn't interested in that anymore...

i have also, heard my male friends, say the same thing,
i got it prior to getting married,
but, after the marriage, well, she is just too tired for that,
and/or NOT really interested

i also know a few people, that actually schedule it,
into their daytimers or dayrunners LOL

and, then, it is really a shame,
when you wakeup at 3am;
and; your fingers want to go walking
but, you are all alone :mfr_lol:

yeah--there are parts of being single, that really suck!!!

[THE eXchanger]

i can NOT imagine, two men together,
those types of thoughts, are just NOT something, i can imagine !!!

[THE eXchanger]

i have quite a few gay friends,
however, i guess, i don't think, or, spend anytime,
imaging, what they do sexually
and, then, i do have a few friends
who are bi-sexual, etc.,
however, i am straight

i kind of wonder, if the older the soul,
the more androgenous
(meaning/both female/male) we become ?
energetically, i am able to eXchange
with my own essence/or monad -
and, have some pretty wild dreams,
i suppose, that tides me over

[judykott]

I do not play bridge, but someone told me once that sex is like bridge. If you do not have a good partner, you better have a good hand!!:shocked:

[THE eXchanger]

The games people play, I don't get it.

OK, i tell you something funny
i hope it makes sense ...

many years ago, my main guide told me this
when i asked, a similiar question
about why it was so hard
to activate things, with a certain man

(who ironically, had been at some of the push-buttons
that destroyed atlantis) :shocked:

and, if, i had allowed him to push my buttons
he would very likely, have destroyed,
the potential, that, i am
(and, that can NOT be allowed)

:mfr_omg:

my guide, he says...
this is very applicable to share,
also to you, and, to others,
who might, find themselves in similar situations

i asked, ""why does he act, as, he does"" ???

and, i think, when you see these answers,

i think, something, might click
and/ or, you might hear a few bells,
and, maybe a few whistles

:mfr_lol:

my writing style - might get me a few bongs :(

however, i oft times, write in poetry / and, put in light encoding,

and, some people, do NOT get -- reading it 3 times, can help

what, i hope you see,
is, that, what you eXperienced with these game-players
at the hands, of those,
who believed, they could play their petty, and, silly games with you,
is that, these people, did not, NOR, do they,
exchange, at the levels you do

and, oft times, when, they did something wrong,

and/or acted, what you may have considered,

out-of-the-character, of what you were expecting,

that, you believed (note, the word believed)

that, you thought (note, the word thought)

and, realise, that, your beliefs and your thoughts

of who/and, what they were,

was NOT the REAL truth,

anymore, than, they were REAL TRUTHS !!!

YOU SEE, you would never behave, as, they did
so, you would NEVER eXpect,
another person to behave that way

YOU in your essence, are good - clear/fresh, and, clean

and it filters down, from essence,
to your lower expressions, and,

it is authenically weaved throughout you,
right into your "original spark"...

and, although,
you would like to see others,
as, you know, you are in yourself / and, your other eXpressed pieces,
it is a sad realisation,
that, all people, are NOT liKe you

sad, but true

You are ""much to much"" for many people
however, you do NOT see, is that,
much to much, is good, when it is good,
but, when it is bad,
it is rotten, very rotten, to its core

you see...

they act, the way they do,
because of who/and, what you are !!!

if you were NOT, who/and, what you are,
they would NOT act that way!!!

you see, many of these ones,
have NEVER met a woman, like you,
and, quite frankly, they do NOT know,
what to do with you,
so, they do NOT know,
how to have you on equal footing,
although, you, would make allowances, for them
that would NOT be good work,
as, that, could be likened,
to giving a bad person, a reward, for poor service,
and/or acting poorly ...

there was a part of these people,
that, realised, that, they could NEVER measure up,
to who/and, what you are,
so, they exercised their free will, and, their right,
to act badly, so, that, you might excuse them
and/or they might excuse themselves

BE THANKFUL, they are GONE !!!

remember, the journey,
it can be an incredible trip,
and/or, it can be,
a trip, (pardon the pun)
a trip, that is anything but, an incredible journey

your much, it deserves more,
MUCH MORE
and, quite frankly,
these men,
were OF the category of LESS,
NOT MORE

So, energetic interference SHOWED UP
and, energetic interference, took place,
this, so, you might be able to see,
their true colours/and, or the fabric of their real makup,
which, obviously, was NOT,
what it was, that you originally processed, and, thought it was, or would be

For, what it was, that was REAL truth
For, what it was, you believed it was,
and, finally, you saw, the real truth,
of who, and, what they really were

when, you originally, meet people,
oft times, we built them up,
and/or, try to see them,
as, we would like to see them,
NOT, as, they actually, really, truly are

there are,
what is termed,
""a few of the many"",
those, who will appreciate,
that much in you
and, since, it is, a very few, of the many,
who will appreciate, this much in you,
it will be, because, they have already come,
to appreciate, and, have worked upon,
the much, in themselves

hold out, for the one,
that one, who is,
a few of the many.

[THE eXchanger]

I really have gone through the same process but sometimes it does seem like one is utterly stuck when alone. Having an opposite doesn't only give more energy but also the checks that, if no one is there to mirror you actively, you have to run (or let run) them passively. Meaning it's much harder to engage with the 'harsh truth' as one must humbly observe the world around one, while a partner usually slams it in your face.

I for once, like the slamming and can be more humble because of that.
Where was that thread for single sexual spiritual development?

(Oh oh, Kathleen, you wanted to end the rambling on why, yet your statement clicked with three more people that now ramble.)

single sexual spiritual development...
that is easy, invite that, into your dreams
anything, that is in 100% alignment
with your mission/purpose/or task --
they do come if you call them :mfr_lol:
you just have to call them right :thumb_yello:

also, often, we meet people, who we eventually will end up with,
in our dreams first, a long time, before, we will cross paths
on the earth planes,
my advise, is to always learn how to dream,
and, dream properly

now, in 3D - single sexual spiritual development,
can be done alone

(i'll leave that up to your imaginations)

it is a wild and wonderful world,
we are all in
i say, look for a real eXchanger
someone who is willing, to give it all
and, someone who is willing, to receive it all
and, feels equally good, on either side of that equation

if two are both giving,
then, lots of receiving is going on
and, i think, when, that occurs,
the eXchange you are in, will really be worthwhile

in the in between time,
when you walk alone, remember,
many hours of the day, in your dreams,
you are already there, and, for the most part,
you are already together

eventually, you will weave the thread, together

however, are NOT the most interesting patterns,
in a quilt, the ones, that, move together,
and, then, move very far apart

dreaming is a dance,
and, it is, in the dance,
that you will discover,
that you will find the dream,
along with the dreamers,
for they, are both there,
in all ways, and, always...
and, then, you can weave those threads,
each, with the other,
into The Pivot of THE NOW,
and, it will come back together,
and, magically eXpress itself,
as a dream, within a dream

[Humble Janitor]

The older the soul, the more androgynous we become? I actually believe this and I believe it pays to keep an open mind on almost anything.

People in general are so difficult that sometimes, being single is much easier, stress-free and you have more freedom.

[Swanny]

Just did my daily angel card and got the wedding :original:

[burgundia]

ahh- you are, what you are, and, why hide it LOL

i turn 29, every year, and,
i just had my 22nd -29th birthday
at the end of 2008

i think, that is a secret, to staying young,
is, thinking young

i still feel, 29, but, probably look 35ish

another trick, is this...

i get up, and, i eXpect to have a good day
& generally, that is eXactly what happens

NO one believes, i am 50 -- which is good

and, everyone thinks,
that there are 101 other men hiding out, in my closets :mfr_lol:
which is sadly, NOT the truth :(

however, sometimes, i think, you have to reach this age
before, you really know, what it is, that you want

as, an i.n.f.p.,
you are one,
who feels things deep, and, are a perceptive one
your type of gal/or guy,
you run very deep,
however, you need an assortment
of picks and shovels, in order to get at your deepest thoughts,
and, get them out of you !!!

they are also, the silent, and, very strong type
and, are NOT likely once committed to something,
highly unlikely to ever stray :mfr_lol:

also, since, they are so perceptive,
it is NOT only very hard to pull any wool over their eyes,
it is virtually almost impossible, to do that :mfr_lol::mfr_lol:
(that's a double LOL)

they know, they just seem to know things,
infp's are interesting people,
i know, as, an intj - we can appear, to be slightly aloof,
and, cool, but, that isn't the truth, we run quite deep too

anyway...it appears, discussing M/B's might spice up the chat a little

We all know that time has been accelerating for some time so we do not age that fast.

[burgundia]

People in general are so difficult that sometimes, being single is much easier, stress-free and you have more freedom.

this is sooooo true.

[burgundia]

Just did my daily angel card and got the wedding :original:

So now you have to do a solitaire to confirm it.:lol3:

[Czymra]

also, often, we meet people, who we eventually will end up with,
in our dreams first, a long time, before, we will cross paths
on the earth planes,
my advise, is to always learn how to dream,
and, dream properly

I'm doing that but there is rather little material to hold on to. My dreams are really more feelings and ambiances then 'who, what, where'.
This morning a dream slid through my awareness just because of a single thought.

it is a wild and wonderful world,
we are all in
i say, look for a real eXchanger
someone who is willing, to give it all
and, someone who is willing, to receive it all
and, feels equally good, on either side of that equation

if two are both giving,
then, lots of receiving is going on
and, i think, when, that occurs,
the eXchange you are in, will really be worthwhile

Well, here we go. As people on the thread remark it ain't easy... and now don't give me the old 'but you're young' remark. Most girls are fine until they open their mouth...

in the in between time,
when you walk alone, remember,
many hours of the day, in your dreams,
you are already there, and, for the most part,
you are already together

eventually, you will weave the thread, together

however, are NOT the most interesting patterns,
in a quilt, the ones, that, move together,
and, then, move very far apart


I think I can see what you mean and that's one of the things that keeps me going... one can't spend life in bed however.

dreaming is a dance,
and, it is, in the dance,
that you will discover,
that you will find the dream,
along with the dreamers,
for they, are both there,
in all ways, and, always...
and, then, you can weave those threads,
each, with the other,
into The Pivot of THE NOW,
and, it will come back together,
and, magically eXpress itself,
as a dream, within a dream

Hmmmm.......
...that was pretty.

[David]

Well, here we go. As people on the thread remark it ain't easy... and now don't give me the old 'but you're young' remark. Most girls are fine until they open their mouth...


:roll1: :roll1:

Sorry ladies. I just couldn't resist.

[Lunaris]

OK, i tell you something funny
i hope it makes sense ...

many years ago, my main guide told me this
when i asked, a similiar question
about why it was so hard
to activate things, with a certain man

(who ironically, had been at some of the push-buttons
that destroyed atlantis) :shocked:

and, if, i had allowed him to push my buttons
he would very likely, have destroyed,
the potential, that, i am :mfr_omg:

my guides, he says...
this is very applicable to share,
also to you, and, to others,
who might, find themselves in similar situations

i asked, why does he act, as, he does ???

and, i think, when you see these answers,
i think, something, might click and/ or, you might hear a few bells,
and, maybe a few whistles :mfr_lol:

my writing style - might get me a few bongs :(

however, i oft times, write in poetry / and, put in light encoding, some people, do NOT get

what, i hope you see,
is, that, what you eXperienced with these game-players
at the hands, of those,
who believed,
they could play their games with you,
is that, these people, did not, NOR, do they,
exchange, at the levels you do
and, oft times, when, they did something wrong,
and/or acted, what you may have considered,
out-of-the-character, of what you were expecting,
that, you believed (note, the word believed)
that, you thought (note, the word thought)
and, realise, that, your beliefs and your thoughts
of who/and, what they were,
where NOT the truth,
anymore, than, they were REAL TRUTHS !!!
YOU SEE, you would never behave, as, they did
so, you would NEVER eXpect,
another person to behave that way
YOU in your essence, are good - clear/fresh, and, clean
and it filters down, from essence,
to your lower expressions, and,
it is authenically weaved through you,
right into your "original spark"...
and, allow, you would like to see others,
as, you know, you are in yourself / and, your other eXpressed pieces,
it is a sad realisation, that, all people, are NOT liKe you

You are much to much for many people
however, you do NOT see that,
much to much, is good, when it is good,
but, when it is bad,
it is rotten, very rotten, to its core

you see...

they act, the way they do,
because of who/and, what you are !!!

if you were NOT, who/and, what you are,
they would NOT act that way!!!

you see, many of these ones,
have NEVER meet a woman, like you,
and, quite frankly, they do NOT know,
what to do with you,
they do NOT know,
how to have you on equal footing,
although, you, would make allowances, for them
that would NOT be good work,
as, that, could be likened,
to giving a bad person, a reward, for poor service,
and/or acting poorly ...
there was a part of these people,
that, realised, that, they could NEVER measure up,
to who/and, what you are,
so, they exercised their free will, and, their right,
to act badly, so, that, you might excuse them
and/or they might excuse themselves

remember, the journey,
it can be an incrediable trip,
and/or, it can be,
a trip, (pardon the pun)
a trip, that is anything but, an incrediable journey

your much, it deserves more
and, quite frankly, these men,
were less, NOT more

so, energetic interference took place,
this, so, you might be able to see,
their true colours/and, or the fabric of their real makup,
which, obviously, was NOT,
what you thought it was,
or, what you believed it was,
and, finally, you saw, the real truth,
of who, and, what they really were

when, you originally, meet people,
oft times, we built them up,
and/or, try to see them, as, we would like to see them,
NOT, as, they actually, really, truly are

there are, what are termed,
a few of the many,
those, who will appreciate, the much in you
and, since, it is, a very few, of the many,
who will appreciate, this much in you,
it will be, because, they have already come,
to appreciate, and, have worked upon,
the much, in themselves

hold out, for the one,
that one, who is,
a few of the many.

wow...

this is so true!

this has been so much of my own experience!

it makes me want to cry that finally someone else gets it!

thanx for your shares!

hugs

[Relayer]

Aussie dude looking for romance with potential like minded lady for long term relationship. :D

My Stats....

Name: John (Relayer)
Location: Deer Park, Melbourne. Australia
Age: 49
Height: 178cm (5' 10")
Weight: 98kg (215 pounds)
Marital status: Separated
Body type: A bit overweight
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Brown
Smoking habits: Trying to quit
Have children: Yes
Number of children: 2
Live with me: No
Ages: 25 and 28
Religion: Agnostic
Occupation: Electronics technician (retired)
Star sign: Scorpio

Any interested ladies please PM me. Distance is no object if your the right woman. :winksmiley02: No one night stands please. :lmfao:
Love and peace to all.
Best regards always,
John
Relayer

[Ammit]

What the ****, thought this was Project Avalon, not sex in the city or**************, jesus get a life dudes. There are more porn or dating sites out there then tv channels on cable so use them eh.

[Relayer]

What the****, thought this was Project Avalon, not sex in the city or some********* jesus get a life dudes. There are more porn or dating sites out there then tv channels on cable so use them eh.

What's your problem griddley? :tongue2:
What's wrong with a bit of fun to break all this doom and gloom monotony?
Do you have a ramrod up your clacker or what? :mf_boff:
I noticed in your profile you have only two friends. Just shows me the type of person you are. :lmao:
If you haven't got anything positive to say my friend, then just shut the f.u.*.k up. No one wants to see a sourpuss sprouting his negative opinions. :thumbdown: :mad3:
No regards to you lame-o. :tease:
John
Relayer

[Czymra]

What the f..k, thought this was Project Avalon, not sex in the city or**************, jesus get a life dudes. There are more porn or dating sites out there then tv channels on cable so use them eh.

I'm sure those porn and dating sites are just filled with spiritual beings.

[THE eXchanger]

i corrected my typos/and, poor english :mfr_lol:

in message # 102

[Ammit]

What's your problem griddley? :tongue2:
What's wrong with a bit of fun to break all this doom and gloom monotony?
Do you have a ramrod up your clacker or what? :mf_boff:
I noticed in your profile you have only two friends. Just shows me the type of person you are. :lmao:
If you haven't got anything positive to say my friend, then just shut the f.u.*.k up. No one wants to see a sourpuss sprouting his negative opinions. :thumbdown: :mad3:
No regards to you lame-o. :tease:
John
Relayer

Well for one LAMO i am happily married and have no need to be a sad ****** as you call it, get a life *****

Check out the sites that cater for this type of erm thing, cheepest sex site i ever saw. Oh Austrailia, **** more girls then you can shoot with a machine gun, try a bit harder doode.

Oh and , nah not gonna lower myself.

[Relayer]

Well for one LAMO i am happily married and have no need to be a sad ****** as you call it, get a life *****.
Must be hard for your wife not getting sex from a ********like you. Are you sure your wife isn't a male? :lmao:

Check out the sites that cater for this type of erm thing, cheepest sex site i ever saw.
I'm sure you know where all the gay ones are my friend. :winksmiley02:
I'm hetro, so I wouldn't ask you for any links.

Oh Austrailia, **** more girls then you can shoot with a machine gun, try a bit harder doode.
Isn't it cool we have more women than men here in Oz. But I guess where you come from you prefer it the other way around I'm sure. You love a men fest I'm sure. :lmfao:

Oh and , nah not gonna lower myself.
You already did in your first post by mentioning *********. Kathleen had to edit you post. :lol3:

John
Relayer

[777 The Great Work]

The important thing as that we are talking again,and some times it doesn't matter what we are talking about. We are connecting across time and space and its beautiful. This is part of the process. No faces ,just energy.

[Ammit]

Appologies to all.

Just thought that this site was to help prepare people for the worst and inspire with advice, I got angry thinking it was going to turn into a sex chat site. Especially when certain people could find a soul mate if they atleast tried.

I am sorry for my out burst.

[Ammit]

Must be hard for your wife not getting sex from a ********like you. Are you sure your wife isn't a male? :lmao:


I'm sure you know where all the gay ones are my friend. :winksmiley02:
I'm hetro, so I wouldn't ask you for any links.


Isn't it cool we have more women than men here in Oz. But I guess where you come from you prefer it the other way around I'm sure. You love a men fest I'm sure. :lmfao:


You already did in your first post by mentioning *********. Kathleen had to edit you post. :lol3:

John
Relayer

And you being alone, nuff said pall.

[Colin]

Let's behave like mature adults in here people or this thread is history!

[Ammit]

Appologies Colin.

[THE eXchanger]

The important thing as that we are talking again,and some times it doesn't matter what we are talking about. We are connecting across time and space and its beautiful. This is part of the process. No faces ,just energy.

yes, those doors of perception ;)

aren't they great :)

[Relayer]

And you being alone, nuff said pall.

No problems.
Just don't cross my path again and we'll be fine. :original:
John
Relayer

My deepest apologies to all other Avalon members and mods if I've offended anyone with my comments (Ammit not included).
Just trying to have fun.
Love and peace to all (excluding Ammit).
Best regards always (excluding Ammit),
John
Relayer

[777 The Great Work]

No problems.
Just don't cross my path again and we'll be fine. :original:
John
Relayer

My deepest apologies to all other Avalon members and mods if I've offended anyone with my comments (Ammit not included).
Just trying to have fun.
Love and peace to all (excluding Ammit).
Best regards always (excluding Ammit),
John
Relayer
:lol3:

[THE eXchanger]

Appologies to all.

Just thought that this site was to help prepare people for the worst and inspire with advice, I got angry thinking it was going to turn into a sex chat site. Especially when certain people could find a soul mate if they atleast tried.

I am sorry for my out burst.

Apologies accepted --
remember this:


The best preparation we can do,
is, to share, everything we can,
one to the other

you NEVER know,
who your words, can help
there are many here, who read, but, NEVER make a comment

i can tell you, i know,
i do NOT need to type up stuff to this board,
for my own good, i already know most of this stuff,
(however, it helps me, to remember stuff)
and, it triggers my brain ...
and, YUP, i am sure,
to some it is just useless stuffing,
however, to some, it does, reveal to them,
ideas/and, thoughts,
and, it is those words that can matter,
and, can make a difference

we are all in this, together,
and, it is together, that can make a big difference
some of us, are near the south pole,
while, some of us, are near the north pole,
and, yet, through these boards,
we can bridge a gap, and, from our hearts,
really eXchange, with one another --
and, i think, that makes a huge difference

being single, and, having to face all of this alone,
is NOT always buns, hot_dogs and relish !!!

[futureyes]

Appologies to all.

Just thought that this site was to help prepare people for the worst and inspire with advice, I got angry thinking it was going to turn into a sex chat site. Especially when certain people could find a soul mate if they atleast tried.

I am sorry for my out burst.

what caught my eye ammit was that you thought this site was to prepare people for the worst ...

to inspire yes ... but inspiration moving forward for the best ... not the worst ...

what's with us now and ahead of us is something so amazingly beautiful ... a shift like no other ... a world like no other ...

the worst as you write is not of the future ... the worst is what we will be seeing in our rearview mirrors ... what we are moving from ... not into ...

this is the year of partnerships ... this thread is significant ... love on all levels moves us forward ...

love to you ...

[Ammit]

No problems.
Just don't cross my path again and we'll be fine. :original:
John
Relayer

My deepest apologies to all other Avalon members and mods if I've offended anyone with my comments (Ammit not included).
Just trying to have fun.
Love and peace to all (excluding Ammit).
Best regards always (excluding Ammit),
John
Relayer


Oh wow, hope i never do, might be scared of ya...LMAO:tongue2:

[Ammit]

what caught my eye ammit was that you thought this site was to prepare people for the worst ...

to inspire yes ... but inspiration moving forward for the best ... not the worst ...

what's with us now and ahead of us is something so amazingly beautiful ... a shift like no other ... a world like no other ...

the worst as you write is not of the future ... the worst is what we will be seeing in our rearview mirrors ... what we are moving from ... not into ...

this is the year of partnerships ... this thread is significant ... love on all levels moves us forward ...

love to you ...



Futureyes, many thanks

Your words not only corrected my anger response but also calmed me, this is the words of wisdom needed here. I am not as sensitive as most of you seem to be and I maybe like others do often find it hard to keep up with you all.

Love , peace and good fortune to all ( yes, including replayer )

[futureyes]

Futureyes, many thanks

Your words not only corrected my anger response but also calmed me, this is the words of wisdom needed here. I am not as sensitive as most of you seem to be and I maybe like others do often find it hard to keep up with you all.

Love , peace and good fortune to all ( yes, including replayer )

suddenly i feel this outpouring of unconditional love for you ammit ... oneness with you ... and others ...

you are loved ...

you need not be like anyone else ammit ... i.e. sensitive ...

you just need to be ammit ... authentic ... core essence of love ... that is who you are ...

you put a smile on my face ... thank you my friend ...

[Czymra]

Wow, right, can we get back to Astral Sex now. ;)

[THE eXchanger]

Wow, right, can we get back to Astral Sex now. ;)

NO MORE LESSONS

i was asked to cleanup some of my posts !!!

so, i have done that -- it appears that some of the comments were dumped already by a moderator ???

as, i can NOT find them ???

[Antaletriangle]

I have just looked at this thread-too much hot air-what is the problem with people -i can smell frustrations a mile away-cut to the chase folksies-ask,(if you don't ask you don't receive) and get on with it,THEN concentrate on being beautiful...lol

[Czymra]

I have just looked at this thread-too much hot air-what is the problem with people -i can smell frustrations a mile away-cut to the chase folksies-ask,(if you don't ask you don't receive) and get on with it,THEN concentrate on being beautiful...lol

Too true. Applause for Relayer. I shall draw out of this now as my age group isn't present and I'm obviously still hung up.
Adieu.

[orthodoxymoron]

The whole male/female, single/married, commitment/responsibility, freedom/irresponsibility, love/lust thing needs to be rethought. It's really screwed-up in my view. The divorce rate lends support to this view. Some view marriage as legalized prostitution! Come to think of it...why is a relationship any of the church's or state's business? Why do they have to butt in? As for government...we need to see other people. And don't get me started on protective parents butting in! Two(or three?!) people should be able to work out an honest, reasonable, compassionate arrangement without raising any eyebrows. It's up to them, right? Also, is it reasonable to expect people to stop looking at other sexy people once they get married? I have a bad habit of looking at other possibilities and thinking about other paradigms! What about fashion, tv, magazines, movies, etc, etc. Don't they unnecessarily and unfairly tempt us and taunt us? As for appearances...it's not how you look...it's how you see. Then add financial issues...and two loving people can become very unloving. Jesus seemed to indicate that being single wasn't so bad...and that in heaven there would be no marriage...and that we would be like the angels. Did Jesus and Mary have something going on? Hmmmm. On a site such as this...if someone is getting too hot(information-wise)...the potential partner may be CIA, NSA, MI6, Jesuit...or who knows who! I'm sure they are very nice...but business is business. On the other hand...I am getting tired of sleeping with myself...and having nightmares about the one that got away. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXZMZ-XvvzI&feature=related By the way...you astral projectors and astral sexers should beware of reptillian/demonic entities which can transform themselves into just about anyone or anything. They hate you and want to destroy you. They will screw you in more ways than one. No kidding.

[David]

No problems.
Just don't cross my path again and we'll be fine. :original:
John
Relayer

My deepest apologies to all other Avalon members and mods if I've offended anyone with my comments (Ammit not included).
Just trying to have fun.
Love and peace to all (excluding Ammit).
Best regards always (excluding Ammit),
John
Relayer

:mfr_lol: :roll1: :thumb_yello:

[THE eXchanger]

Too true. Applause for Relayer. I shall draw out of this now as my age group isn't present and I'm obviously still hung up.
Adieu.

since, some of us, are at least double your age,
you might find, some of our experiences,
of falling into holes etc.,
quite beneficial, as,
you could borrow on the raft of experience,
and, maybe, NOT have to live through,
some of the things, we have been subjected to...

all of us have, likewise,
could learn some interesting tricks,
from someone, who is still vital & young

i would think, there are a lot of women in their
20's and, early 30's that belong here
maybe they are silently watching this thread
(that is quite possible)

i enjoy your input, on other threads :)

[burgundia]

Must be hard for your wife not getting sex from a ********like you. Are you sure your wife isn't a male? :lmao:


I'm sure you know where all the gay ones are my friend. :winksmiley02:
I'm hetro, so I wouldn't ask you for any links.


Isn't it cool we have more women than men here in Oz. But I guess where you come from you prefer it the other way around I'm sure. You love a men fest I'm sure. :lmfao


You already did in your first post by mentioning *********. Kathleen had to edit you post. :lol3:

John
Relayer

The conversation between you two is ridiculous. Please stop or continue somewhere else.:thumbdown:PM each other

[piers2210]

K, why don't you just delete them anyway...no one will mind. Delete my last post and all related thereto (oh, now you see i trained as a lawyer) as well while you're at it.

Love, P.

[Lunaris]

oh...i missed all the good stuff!





LOVE TO ALL!

hugs

[burgundia]

I got angry thinking it was going to turn into a sex chat site.
.

i understand you and I am glad that you wrote that comment. There is "Avalon Lounge" which I believe is a better place.

[Czymra]

oh...i missed all the good stuff!





LOVE TO ALL!

hugs

Wait a second, what happened to this post?! This was excellent just 30 minutes ago!

[Lunaris]

Wait a second, what happened to this post?! This was excellent just 30 minutes ago!

duuuuuuuuuude!

all the good stuff got edited out!

guess we are not allowed to talk about astral sex???

i always miss out!

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

that's it!

i am quitting my job so i can post too!

ahahahhahahahha!

[Lunaris]

I loooooooooooooove astral sex!

Whooooooooooooooo!

I


love


astral


sex.


Ha!

[THE eXchanger]

UNDER MODES (it says)

Linear Mode Linear Mode

Hybrid Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode

Threaded Mode Switch to Threaded Mode


what eXactly does that mean ???

does that change, how you see the forum ???

[Lunaris]

sorry i did not mean to upset or hurt anyone's feelings by my above posts..

i was just excited to talk about it but i now realize that it is not appropriate for this forum.

so sorry to anyone that i offended...i really did not mean to..

and if you think i am making fun of you..i really am not..

i am mostly making fun of myself!

sorry to everyone!

[Jack]

haha this thread cracks me up! :mfr_lol:

Names Jack, Jack Jack. Ive got a girlfriend but i dont fancy her :zip: I dont fancy guys neither but tis the company thats important.

Age : 21
Sex : Yes please
Occupation : Whatever you want me to be :wink2:
Status : Clinicly insane


Aw no i cant believe your smexi message got edited lunaris! :shocked: Always miss the good stuff, came here two days ago and there was just a few pages :mad3:

[Lunaris]

astral sex is still safer than human sex...

i know..i know...

i shouldn't just have sex with every person i astral travel with...

its just new...

thanx kathleen i do appreciate your words...

i will be careful!

hugs

[Lunaris]

hey jack...

have you tried astral sex with your girlfriend??

maybe you might like her more??

ahahhahahaa...

ugh.

i am bored and alone at work now...

i also had too much coffee..

don't mind me..

i will be in my dark astral corner

having sex

sorry...

i just cant help it


edit away!

[Luminari]

i would think, there are a lot of women in their
20's and, early 30's that belong here
maybe they are silently watching this thread
(that is quite possible)


I hope so Susan :thumb_yello: some kind & etherically beautiful ones for me :wub2:

[Swanny]

Here is something strange that always happens with me.
I meet a girl we have a relationship might be for a few months or might be years, then we split up and with out fail the next man along is the one they have been waiting for. Marriage/babies etc follow.
It's happened so many times that's it's become a bit of a joke.
I say I am like Sam Beckett from Quantum leap, I leap into someones life sort them out in some way and they are then ready to meet Mr Right.

Bit like always the bridesmaid never the bride :sad:

Oh well not to worry :original:

[Jack]

Here is something strange that always happens with me.
I meet a girl we have a relationship might be for a few months or might be years, then we split up and with out fail the next man along is the one they have been waiting for. Marriage/babies etc follow.
It's happened so many times that's it's become a bit of a joke.
I say I am like Sam Beckett from Quantum leap, I leap into someones life sort them out in some way and they are then ready to meet Mr Right.

Bit like always the bridesmaid never the bride :sad:

Oh well not to worry :original:

I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.

For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.

Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;

1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.

Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.

If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.

[THE eXchanger]

[/B]that ALWAYS happens :sad:

Oh well not to worry :original:

dearest SWAMMY, re-read what it is, you wrote

it always happens
it always happens
it always happens

sad
sad
sad

why NOT start to create a new reality

where what you want, what you really want occurs

& then, what you want, will happen

[Czymra]

I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.

For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.

Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;

1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.

Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.

If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

[piers2210]

Hey Swanny, at least you're having relationships!!

Be happy!!

I'll buy you a beer some day soon.

P.

[Swanny]

Cheers Piers will look forward to it :cheers:
Thing is I have had more than my fair share of girlfriends, but that makes it more weird that they all meet the love of their life just after me.

Susan I know what your saying but it happens every time, and I'm sure it's not me making Mr Right turn up right behind me.

Oh well at least they are all happy :original:

[Swanny]

I'm going to get myself a dog for company :original: :dog:

[Jack]

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

This isnt being sexist or anything it is just a fact and of course information like this might seem a tad controversial because it could easily be used to take advantage of woman, which i dont condone in the least. And a fact that a lot of woman will be unwilling to admit. But thats just the way it is, calling a spade a spade.

[burgundia]

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

I am at this stage of my life that for me a man must be spiritually evolved and evolving...I know that I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where I know what is going in this world and he doesn't even want to know because is not interested in it at all. I noticed that I enjoy less the company of my female friend of many years, because she "is not interested in that stuff", and likes watching certain stupid programs on TV or soap operas. we are drifting apart....

[vipassana]

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

Here’s my comment on Jack’s post (no offence Jack just my personal view) :-

I agree that probably there isn’t any single person who is mr or mrs right. It’s likely that for all of us there would be a variety of people out there who we might be attracted to.

Regarding the four characteristic’s Jack states that women are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to:-
1.Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.

I would not be attracted to someone who continually reacts emotionally to scenarios by getting peeved off. This would make me think that the person was unable to discern between dispositional qualities and situational factors. Situational factors, like the name suggests, are factors present in a given situation (like spilling a drink). They are the causes for a behavior: Slippy glass, shaky hand due to an illness, distraction due to worry about someone close being ill, a hemorrhoid flare-up, worry about financial difficulties etc.

Dispositional qualities are qualities which are characteristic of the actor. They define who he or she is: a nitwit, a jerk, clumsy, an arrogant, selfish, no-good, low-down scumbag who ought to be obliterated from the planet.

Someone who fails to give others the benefit of the doubt when a mistake is made by automatically assuming that they are a bad person, clumsy, no good etc would NOT be attractive to me.

2.Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.

Yes I would be attracted to a person with this quality

3.Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.

A man would not NEED to have these qualities for me to be attracted to him. A hermit would be fine also.

4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

It would be irrelevant to me whether other women were attracted to a man I was attracted to. Furthermore if I was attracted to a man that was flirting with several women it would set alarm bells ringing for me. I would have to check out if he was a player, egotistical, into one night stands because I am NOT attracted to men like that.

I've read plenty of stuff also on what attracts men to women. I don't score well on a lot of the must have qualities etc. The last thing I'll be doing is changing to fit what men want. I'm happy to be me as I am now this moment and if no man is ever attracted to me well so be it. :original:
Kind Regards
Helen.

[Czymra]

This isnt being sexist or anything it is just a fact and of course information like this might seem a tad controversial because it could easily be used to take advantage of woman, which i dont condone in the least. And a fact that a lot of woman will be unwilling to admit. But thats just the way it is, calling a spade a spade.

I don't really mean to disarm what you said. In many ways there is more truth in it that I and supposedly many women would want to admit.
Nevertheless, I can easily sum up such a list for men, or for me for that sake, as well.

1. Must looks acceptable, how else are you going to sleep with her?
2. Must somehow appreciate, understand, respect, adore, either or all.
3. Must be mother and whore. Nothing wrong with that. Go figure.
4. May never allow to be completely be figured out or will be dropped like a hot potato.

Now, I've got a list that I may not fully respect, but something that, if the words were not so harsh, can agree with. (Alright, it's my list, tell me if you agree or not.)

But hey, Burgundia has made a valid point. If those 4 points are fulfilled, here I go, I can live with and love anybody, proven fact indeed. Is it healthy and does it make her Mrs. Right? No, because I love to exchange things beyond what's commonly understood as 'value of a relationship'.

This is where it gets interesting though, if I combine what you said with what was said earlier "love men less and understand them more, understand women less and love them more" it ends up either as a complete contract between partners i.e. "We agree to fake love for each other so we both get the gains of it." Or in fact it's a matter of "We recognise these basic necessities but beyond them our love is infinite and unconditional."

Can it be unconditional if the list is fulfilled? I'm not sure, they are conditions in a sense but I wouldn't be surprised if both is true.

I might not have found the right words to get this across, indeed I'm sure I failed miserably, but maybe someone gets it anyway.

Be that as it may, let the ladies speak... and I do hope you gals are honest.

[vipassana]

Ladies, I really want a comment on this.

I'm going to get myself a dog for company :original: :dog:

I’ve got a dog Swanny and she’s lovely, a great wee friend to me but she has some shortcomings in comparison to a man:-

Men only leave two feet tracks on the floor after a muddy walk
Men don’t eat turds on the sly
Men can open their own cans
It can be fun to dry off a wet man
Men don’t have dog breath all of the time
Men don’t have to play with every man they meet when you’re out for a walk
:original:

[Dantheman62]

Jack,Czymra,Swanny,it's all a game, hint "the three second look"

[piers2210]

Well you dog fans have just got to rent the movie "Dog Park" then....boy meets girl (as long as you have a dog)......

I'm not a dog fan but i liked the movie!!

[THE eXchanger]

swammy, maybe you were the real mr. right
and, then, who they think,
is mr. right-is actually mr. wrong
and, then, after awhile,
they realise, they are with the wrong / right guy
and, then,
they realise, just how terrific you really were
& still are !!!

is that something, like taking 4 right turns,
to keep heading the same way, on the high way of life ???

[Czymra]

Jack,Czymra,Swanny,it's all a game, hint "the three second look"

I prefer to stare down girls in the tube. HAha!
When one doesn't look away, we've got a candidate. ;)

[THE eXchanger]

i am getting some strange attacks through the ethers...
maybe, some of you, spirited types,
can come to my rescue :mfr_lol:

you think, they would leave me alone,
since, i am doing book-keeping / accounting work,
that is likely to send their garden some green :mad3:

however, their G.S.T. (THE GOUGE & SCREW TAX) IN CANADA
is likely, to return some green, to my lawn :lmao:
(just another way, they track you here)

i would like to stop, to write my damn book,
but, i can NOT seem to afford to stop, to do it,

& NOW, they have given me a deadline--
& on the GST side, where the deadline is,
& they owe me a $6000 refund ???
once, i finish, that part of it
(they are really nuts, the government, chasing you,
when, they owe you money ???) :mfr_lol:

[Jack]

Here’s my comment on Jack’s post (no offence Jack just my personal view) :-


1.Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.

[COLOR="Blue"]I would not be attracted to someone who continually reacts emotionally to scenarios by getting peeved off. This would make me think that the person was unable to discern between dispositional qualities and situational factors. Situational factors, like the name suggests, are factors present in a given situation (like spilling a drink). They are the causes for a behavior: Slippy glass, shaky hand due to an illness, distraction due to worry about someone close being ill, a hemorrhoid flare-up, worry about financial difficulties etc.


I should have elaborated a bit more on that. It was in the context that if someone intentionally spilled their drink there would be a desirable emotional reaction gauged accordingly to the scenario. But that was just an example. Ability to emote includes the ability to love animals to feeling sad when something upsetting happens and all the other multitude of emotions we are capable of.

Of course everyone has specific tastes. Likes and dislikes. But this an instinctual hardwired reaction which was in place to ensure the survival of the human race when our acestors lived in tribes.

And in most cases looks dont matter, if a man displays these four characteristics woman will be automatically attracted to him just like a man is attracted to a beautifull woman. Its to ensure that the lineage goes on and the family survives.

Dont ask how i know this, i just do. :wink2:

[Swanny]

Susan it's ok I don't mind that I wasn't their Mr Right, that really isn't a problem :original:
Just think that it's weird that it happens.
I don't have a problem being single, things are exactly the way they are meant to be.

[Dantheman62]

I can't believe how many people spell your name wrong Swanny!, it's so funny,I mean it's a simple name compared to like Czymra or something. LOL!, no offense to anyone, I mean it really is funny, as in HaHa that's all...oops off topic!....:offtopic::offtopic::ban::giveup::protes t::ot:

[piers2210]

I like your little men, Dan!! Especially the "ban" one hehehe.

Susan, no way will ANYONE get you!!

P.

[Swanny]

:naughty: I dont understand why it happens, maybe I should change it hehe

[Dantheman62]

Yeah LOL!, Change it to something like cxzytsvujsw3.

[Swanny]

Maybe I should change it to Swammy :naughty:

[Lunaris]

I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.

For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.

Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;

1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.

Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.

Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.

If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.



yeah jack...your are definately talking about the "typical" female..

and yeah...a "typical" equation is easy enough to find to explain motives/reactions etc...

i am not typical...

my ex's have had some of those traits but mostly after they met me they would get more attention from females than before they met me...loads of my bf's girls thought were gay till they saw how happy we were together then they all tried to hav e sex with them...

i never hold anyone back from doing what they really want..

but i do like to be fair..whats good for the gander is good for the goose in my opinion!

swanny i totally get you!

all my bf's were much better bf's after they went out with me..but they never get as much freedom as when we went out...but...they are much more understanding for the next girl although they always complain about being smothered...ahahhahahaha!

but when we were together i was accused of not being smothering enuff!!!


aahhahahhahahhaha!

[THE eXchanger]

its funny; thinking about this, as, i see
we oft times, repeat patterns

my pattern, has often been,
men who are too busy for a relationship,
and, then, i get myself too busy,
so, i don't have idle time, to miss them,
and, more often, than NOT they are at a distance,
and, you escape together, once in awhile...
now, i am just too busy having too work too hard
just to make ends meet in a big city...
without going into debt
there are times, i feel, like i will NEVER escape it...
and, there just isn't any extra time, for options
(i am sure, i am NOT the only one who lives this way)
so, i might as well, just build a business
(since, if a business, can work in this economy,
it will likely hold the potential to be a successful one)
i gave up, on thinking, that, a man on a white horse,
was coming to get me :mfr_lol:
eventually, i will have time, to do some audio /dvd's
and, with the money, i earn from doing those,
maybe, i can go out, and, capture myself a templar mansion :lmao:
and, turn that into a radiant zone
:lol3:
besides, i guess, i get tired of paying to play,
and, nothing more, than, a bunch of empty promises
i want a partner in life - nothing less will do -
and, as, i am seeing things here, i will NEVER get out of here alone
what is funny; and; ironic about this - is, even though i was alone,
i never built this, for just me, although, at the end of the day,
it is always, just me, against the world, alone -
and, there are days, i think, of mortgaging theplace to the max,
packing my RAV4, and, never returning (too bad, i wasn't in the usa)
here you have to put a lot of money down, to get into a house,
as, a single self-employed female (so, i have too much in, to walk away
from it) besides, edgar casey, always said this area is safe...
i would just rather NOT be in the city - but, out in the country,
and, maybe find a local barn, that i can board a horse at
watching that video on earthship homes on the www.stclairzone.ning.com
was pretty interesting, what 45,000 will build you--
hopefully a few of us, from this area, will attend a course,
in the spring/summer, to find out about it

i value, people who are caring/kind/considerate and thoughtful
and, funny !!! and, are willing to work, at common goals...
hopefully, they would be resourceful, like me --
if i had someone else, that worked as hard as i do,
it would be half as easy to get all the important things done,
and, then, oft times, i wonder...
do people today, really have time, for a social life ???

[Humble Janitor]

I'm going to get myself a dog for company :original: :dog:

I got a cat. All he wants is food and attention though. Selfish little punt.

Also, I don't believe in a Mrs.Right. There's no such thing. I'm resigned to just living life for the moment and not trying to get caught up in things that I can't deal with and so far, it's a nice existence.

[Lunaris]

I got a cat. All he wants is food and attention though. Selfish little punt.

Also, I don't believe in a Mrs.Right. There's no such thing. I'm resigned to just living life for the moment and not trying to get caught up in things that I can't deal with and so far, it's a nice existence.

HAHA! I have a cute cute bratty doggy..

I would say i agree with the fact that i don't believe in a "MR Right" either...when i was younger I was so into the "soulmate" thing..I ended up thinking each one was THE ONE!

The breakups were bad when he would say "but...but..I thought I was your soulmate..."

eh...no....i was wrong!...

over and over and over and over again!

oh well...

i must say i am very happy and content these days though ...no drama!

whoooooooooooooo!

[Lunaris]

i like brainy guys...guys that are a bit "odd"..and skinny..usually...

i think beauty is very subjective...to me they are super super cute but they are not typical..like a male model/actor..

i am not into that look..or too many muscles...

the movie donnie darko...if i was still in high school he would definately be my bf....odd,smart,kinda an outsider...cuteness!

ahahhahahhaa!

hmmmm...the guy who works next door is kinda like that...

uh oh...

ahahahhahaa...

nah....

i want to move to europe next year..the last thing i need is a "tragic love story" right before i get there...

ahhhhhhhhhhh....

i hope there are cool guys in europe!

[THE eXchanger]

i can NOT say,
i like gaunt/or real skinny-extremely thin types of men
to me, they are NOT a big turn_on
anymore, than, i like a heavy/or overweight men,
which is a huge turn off
i kind of like ratios of about 5 foot 10 - 180 lbs
maybe as short as 5'7" 160 lbs to 6 foot - 200 lbs
to my height of 5'4" - 128 lbs (which is less than 9.9 stones)
(however, most men, consider my height, as, being short)
if i put on high heels, i am taller :mfr_lol:

on the topic of dreaming, and, dream-time
how many of you think,
people appear in your dreams, before they cross your path down here ???

and, how many of you, invite people into your dreams ???

perhaps, a way, to slip around the NOT so popular topic of A.S.

[Lunaris]

ahahahhahha!

exchanger you are awesome rad!

yeah i don't like too skinny either..but i definately don't like too "perfect"...like a movie star kinda...i like them a bit rougher around the edges..

..edgier maybe??

I often dream of things before they happen and people as well...its hard cuz they don't always "appear" as how i dream them..or to be more precise...when i dream them they look different then they do in "real life"...

i had a dream of working in the place i am now about 2 years ago..

i became lucid and started "investigating" my surroundings...like "where am I??"

then...i realize..."oh! i work in a print shop! how funny!"

did not have any plans or ambitions at the time to work in a print shop....

...but...here i am!

the weird thing is sometimes i wonder if i am actually dreaming or am i going back and forth thru time?? because when i realized i had dreamt of this place it was when the "exact same" situation repeated from as in the dream...like a deja vu..

in the "dream" i was talking to my co-worker paul...he looked different of course but when we were in the exact same place same conversation i CLICK realized...woah...this is that dream i had!

these kinds of things happen loads...

[Humble Janitor]

I am not picky about women as much as it seems that women are picky about men on here.

I do not want a super-skinny woman and I do not want a super-overweight woman. I prefer balance.

[Lunaris]

are you talking about what i said??

ahahhahahhahhaa!!!

yeah...balance...

i guess i am talking more about what the girls in the city i live in now like...and how i don't...

that's why i said "skinny"

cuz they all like "buff"..."movie star,rock star" hotness....

and what i think is "hot" is so very different...

dunno if you were in fact talking about what i said...

but..

now that i went this tangent i am happy i cleared that up!

yay!

[piers2210]

Hey what are all you people on the other side of the pond doing up and about?? Haven't you got anything better to do than talk on this thread?? Only joking.

If you want to see REALLY good bodies, you have to rent a porn dvd. Oops....here we go again!! Now I'm not gay whatsoever, but I like to see guys who don't have fat on them, and these guys are ripped.

[Humble Janitor]

Just remember, even the hottest supermodel in the world will age: Her boobs will sag, her face will develop pock marks and she'll shrivel up in the usual spots.

Trying to say that in the long run, personality goes further.

[Humble Janitor]

Hey what are all you people on the other side of the pond doing up and about?? Haven't you got anything better to do than talk on this thread?? Only joking.

I work the graveyard shift.

[Lunaris]

i think i am a gay guy reincarnated as a woman.

[Czymra]

i think i am a gay guy reincarnated as a woman.

Your recent posts really entertain me. Keep going.

[Lunaris]

Your recent posts really entertain me. Keep going.


ahahhahahhahahha!

AHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAAA!

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh..

...a freak amongst freaks...!

hugs

[Lunaris]

just remember, even the hottest supermodel in the world will age: Her boobs will sag, her face will develop pock marks and she'll shrivel up in the usual spots.

Trying to say that in the long run, personality goes further.



agreed!!!

[Lunaris]

yup!

i am sure now.

i am a gay dude reincarnated as a chick!

that explains EVERYTHING !!!!

ahahahaahaahha....

[Humble Janitor]

Your recent posts really entertain me. Keep going.

Oh I think they're humorous too.

In reality, aren't there a lot of guys that consider themselves lesbians trapped in a man's body?

[Lunaris]

Oh I think they're humorous too.

In reality, aren't there a lot of guys that consider themselves lesbians trapped in a man's body?


"in reality"..you say...i would say i have come across this myself as well...


hmmmmmmmmmmmm...

what does that mean???!!!?!?!?


i have 'experimented" as you would say ....enuff..and now i come up with this...

what does it 'really" mean???

that is the question.

my "future" mates are waiting for the "answer" as well..

as am i...

if you have any opinion ...

you are very welcome to say it..

[Humble Janitor]

Nah, I am just very mellow now.

Kind of a dumb question, but are you male or female?

Also, if a man feels like he's a woman inside, he can get an operation for that and so can a woman if she feels like a man inside.

[Lunaris]

ahahaahhhahahha!

i am "mellow now" too!

ummmm..yes..that's what they call "sex changes"

i am not THAT EXTREME...

i seem to find mates in the "art" "music" "actor" "entertainment" scene quite easily...

i have left all scenes..

now i am just a "lone freak'...

i am good with that!

yeah....

i am very very "common" for some peeps!

funny i am so unusual for you!

[THE eXchanger]

me thinks, humble janitor, she is yanking your chain ;)

in a g(O)*(O)d sort of way !!! LOL

[Lunaris]

...ohhhhhhhhh..

i am FEMALE

[Lunaris]

me thinks, humble janitor, she is yanking your chain ;)

in a g(O)*(O)d sort of way !!! LOL


ahahahhahahah!


i am not!

what's "really going on"

then...

i am really retarded in some ways

[THE eXchanger]

:zip: censorship, is alive, and, well, in avalon :lmfao:

[Humble Janitor]

I don't mind if my chain gets yanked (and not the kind of chain you may think it means).

I like to keep it clean here. ;)

[THE eXchanger]

I can be very good, when i am bad :eyes:

[Lunaris]

whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat???!!!

whats goin on??

i am missing "the good stuff" again...

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

what am i???

the kid in the closet here???


jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez

[THE eXchanger]

someone should send me, to my room :tease::tease::tease::tease::tease::tease:
:woot_jump:
:bond::lmao:

[Humble Janitor]

What good stuff? All I know is that I had a bowl of good stuff.

[Lunaris]

What good stuff? All I know is that I had a bowl of good stuff.

you guys totally SUCK!

whatever.

[Humble Janitor]

Nah, I'm just totally clueless. :wink2:

[Lunaris]

Me too!

Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

[Lunaris]

Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

YOU have a "winky eye"

you are "way more clued in then me"

OBVIOUSLY

[Humble Janitor]

If you say so, sure.

I am having a bit of fun here.

[Lunaris]

humble janitor..


...me thinks you know "more"


and you are in cahoots with exchanger...


and...

NO ONE IS TELLING ME ANYTHING!

[THE eXchanger]

it appears, you captured "humble one"
& have him in a sand_witch, on this board

check-mate

[Lunaris]

it appears, you captured "humble one"
& have him in a sand_witch, on this board

check-mate

AHAHAHHAAHAHAAHAHHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAA!


oooooooooooooooh...

"sand witch"....


yummy

[Lunaris]

oh "humble janitor" i saw somewhere you ARE native american??

I LOOK like i am!


i Look like i am NOT RELATED to anyone i know...

but i do look like a little indian free in the woods...


hmmmmmmmmmmmmm...


its my eyes they say...

and skin colour...


ahahhahahaahahahah!

i am the TRIBE OF TRUTH!

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!


TOO SOON..

yeah i know.

[Humble Janitor]

oh "humble janitor" i saw somewhere you ARE native american??

I LOOK like i am!


i Look like i am NOT RELATED to anyone i know...

but i do look like a little indian free in the woods...


hmmmmmmmmmmmmm...


its my eyes they say...

and skin colour...


ahahhahahaahahahah!

i am the TRIBE OF TRUTH!

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!


TOO SOON..

yeah i know.

Why yes I am. I am actually on the state commission of Native American Affairs.

Unfortunately, it is dominated by negative-orientated types that need to be sent on their way. We will find a way to do that, whether it's by a vote of no confidence or asking the Governor to interfere.

You can't begin to help people when you have a lot of negative energy.

[Lunaris]

oh yes...

i know...

the ONLY peeps i will miss here are my "native' friends...who were by my side through all the bull blah blah...


hmmmmmmmmmm...

yeah...

i do not belong here..my parents came here first..but i KNOW the land..i KNOW the "spirit" of the land..

only thanx to my "native friends"

they are in pain now here..

and i can't help .

it is very sad for us now.

but something will change soon we know...

actually i know..they stay in pain..

lets..

GIVE THEM SOME LOVE NOW!



my brothers and sisters..

from another time..as we got entwined..this time...

I LOVE THEM

AND THEY WERE THE ONLY ONES THAT STAYED LOVING ME

THRU ALL MY HARDSHIPS!

truley my "real" bros...

we have cried many a time in each others arms

[Humble Janitor]

We're all connected in that sense.

I just have learned the hard way that tribal politics are dirty, filthy and rotten.

It's time to cleanse the plate and start anew. I will be sure to do my part there.

[Lunaris]

you are much needed!

i have been a part of "that scene" since i was a teenager in this city..

it is a huge task.

many have come "unglued" to the ways of the elders...


please...

i am happy you can change it!

it is TRULEY aweful now!

i have "been there" at the "lowest" times of my brothers and sisters...

i want us to "be free again"

they taught me...

what i forgot..when i got born.

to me..

they are everything.

i love them

profoundly.

[Humble Janitor]

It rises far above petty politics and has more to do with connecting with who you truly are.

Until we rise above the petty bickering, we will never feel as one with the creator.

Progress cannot be made when the past is constantly on the agenda. I have witnessed this since I joined. I have the inspiration and encouragement of my mother to make things right. I have her encouragement to do what I put my mind to.

It's unfortunate that we are still bound by the typical human shortfalls, which include greed, self-centered behavior and an inflated sense of self-worth that has no spiritual basis.

[Lunaris]

Yes!!!

Absolutely agreed!!!!

[piers2210]

Well i was in bar last night in asia and this guy walked in with a VERY beautiful girl...unfortunately he didn't realise that the "girl" was what they call here "a lady boy"...so i think he will have had a shock later. Asia don't mind the "cross over" stuff at all ... much more is tolerated than in europe. But maybe the guy knew what he was getting into and thats what he wanted. Who knows? He seemed to be having a good time.

[Czymra]

Well i was in bar last night in asia and this guy walked in with a VERY beautiful girl...unfortunately he didn't realise that the "girl" was what they call here "a lady boy"...so i think he will have had a shock later. Asia don't mind the "cross over" stuff at all ... much more is tolerated than in europe. But maybe the guy knew what he was getting into and thats what he wanted. Who knows? He seemed to be having a good time.

Ah Piers, there the turtledoves kept going and now you tell that kind of story. How English of you!
Must admit though, saw one of them ladyboys on the tube just now and it does take a little time before I figure it's a man!
Ah well, attraction to the same sex is a sign of abundant love, right?

[orthodoxymoron]

I call them Girlie-Men! I got that from the Terminator! Surprise! Surprise!:mfr_omg::lol3:

[Czymra]

I call them Girlie-Men! I got that from the Terminator! Suprise! Suprise!:mfr_omg::lol3:

Non non! C'est Yaoi!
Thank the Japanese for the present of utmost androgyny!

http://images.google.com/images?um=1&hl=en&client=safari&rls=en-gb&q=yaoi&btnG=Search+Images

[THE eXchanger]

Deep Purple -- Perfect Strangers

PURRfect !!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYc4uRo9maQ

[orthodoxymoron]

Deep Purple -- Perfect Strangers

PURRfect !!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYc4uRo9maQ


Not bad! But how about Deep Purple -- Strange Kind of Woman?!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCI8sy4eI4Y&feature=related Burn is one of my favorites! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfzv3bf9-OY&feature=related. I can almost smell the pot! I owe a lot to Iowa Pot! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmTHCDws1LQ. Just kidding! Or am I? Seriously...I have heard that pot makes people less receptive to tyranny. Is that why it's illegal? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7KnP3Lnq2M. John Lear tells the story of flying some rockstars in a Lear Jet...with some really good pot. The jet was at 40,000 ft...while they were at 60,000 ft!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hngGD9XXCSs&feature=related
CIA + JET + COKE = http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQNSoOX-dcw. How's that for a tangential digression into oblivion?

[piers2210]

Hahahaha...you guys are NUTS!! I love it!

I used to hang out with a beautiful 50 year old lesbian in Bangkok once, which is how i can "spot" the lady boys better than most.

Susan, your link didn't work tonight, i'm in Manila today, heading for Dubai this week, but loved your japanese images, C.

Ortho, I have always been into smokey, wild little electric jazz clubs I'm afraid.

Lady boys on the tube...not sure about that. It works in Asia though.

P.

[Czymra]

Lady boys on the tube...not sure about that. It works in Asia though.

P.

Nah, he wasn't pretending to be a woman but he was as female as it gets. Believe me I've seen people lose their trousers without wearing underwear on the tube and then kneeling down to heir their crown jewels below the window height.... funniest moment in my life.
But I've never seen such an androgynous Jappo as on the Tube today.

[piers2210]

The most beautiful women are often men......

Eh?

[Czymra]

The most beautiful women are often men......

Eh?

Girl's howe about a comment on THAT!

[Humble Janitor]

The most beautiful women are often men......

Eh?

Not always the case.

Plus, women don't have an adam's apple. :naughty:

[Swanny]

I think I would like a wife before I die :huglove:

[Carmen]

You will Swanny. You put your intent out there to find the right woman, she will be magnetized to you. Someone who is equal to you in mind and spirit, not just physical desire.

Cheers

Carmen

[Humble Janitor]

How do you put your intent out there? Do you place ads on dating sites?

Just wondering. I too, would like a wife before I leave this planet.

[Dantheman62]

:original:

[Luminari]

Guys if all else fails.. :naughty:


http://Luminari.fileave.com/bridefromrussia.jpg

http://Luminari.fileave.com/russian-brides.jpg

[nagual]

Japan is cheaper...

[orthodoxymoron]

The Russian girls are beautiful...and usually very smart...but I prefer bad Czechs...:sneaky2:

[Swanny]

You will Swanny. You put your intent out there to find the right woman, she will be magnetized to you. Someone who is equal to you in mind and spirit, not just physical desire.

Cheers

Carmen

Thx but she's taking her bloody time getting here :naughty:

[Carmen]

Are you sure she is not right under your nose Swanny, someone you know already, and not realized that she is the one. One that you already know as a friend. Its sad to see some of the attitudes on here. Sort of like woman are a commodity, all about tits and ****!! Women have allowed this down-grading of themselves to a certain degree, unfortunely. Its time women of the world said "NO' to the sexual depravity of this world, and established a new standard. A standard of sacred relationship, of sacred sexual connection.

I hesitate to post this because I realize it will draw flak!

This mad world of 3D has emphasized sex through TV programs, Ads. Little girls are encouraged to be sexual from a young age. It is soo sad. Desperate women from poor countries, are selling themselves to the highest bidder, just to survive.

When the Goddess truly arises in woman and men, she will stand tall and proud, and refuse to have anything to do with any man, who only sees her body parts and not her sacredness, her divine feminine.

There!!!

Love

Carmen

[Swanny]

No idea Carmen
If she is I wish she would let me know :original:

[waitinginthewings]

Are you sure she is not right under your nose Swanny, someone you know already, and not realized that she is the one. One that you already know as a friend. Its sad to see some of the attitudes on here. Sort of like woman are a commodity, all about tits and ****!! Women have allowed this down-grading of themselves to a certain degree, unfortunely. Its time women of the world said "NO' to the sexual depravity of this world, and established a new standard. A standard of sacred relationship, of sacred sexual connection.

I hesitate to post this because I realize it will draw flak!

This mad world of 3D has emphasized sex through TV programs, Ads. Little girls are encouraged to be sexual from a young age. It is soo sad. Desperate women from poor countries, are selling themselves to the highest bidder, just to survive.

When the Goddess truly arises in woman and men, she will stand tall and proud, and refuse to have anything to do with any man, who only sees her body parts and not her sacredness, her divine feminine.

There!!!

Love

Carmen

Carmen...thank you for saying this, it needed to be said. I completely agree. It is time men & women moved out of the old paradigm of thinking when it comes to how men view women. Men need to respect their own bodies and their sexuality. Same for women. It is disturbing to see (despite the women's movement) how women are portrayed, & now also men are portrayed as sex objects.:mad3: Dont get me started on the sexualizing of the little children:mad3:

[Swanny]

In my palm there is a very big deep line in the marriage area, so I guess there is someone out there.
I do have a friend who is on holiday at the mo and things were great until we met then we really p*ssed each other off, but we are still friends and are planning on meeting up again.

[Carmen]

Ah, yes Swanny, i sort of thought there was someone there. You a too nicer guy to not have attracted a special someone. Look within, contemplate on the area of"****** off". Its a mirror of some sort. Its the key. Look beyond that and you may find the gift.

Cheers

Carmen

[Carmen]

I may be in danger of sounding condescending, but I think under both sexes sexual postering and bravado, is a deep desire to connect, and be, with the one, the love of their life. And where are the role models in this world, for loving committed relationships? There arent any, not on any of our media. Is been planned that way!!!

I like that Avalon doesn't get overly stroppy with rules. Its better, to me, if behaviour is moderated by members themselves, by others putting forward better alternatives to base attitudes and behaviour. Women need to step up to the base, so to speak, and teach men how they wish to be related to. As Thelma says to Louis, "You Get What Ya Settle For'.:original::original:

Cheers

Carmen

[Czymra]

I may be in danger of sounding condescending, but I think under both sexes sexual postering and bravado, is a deep desire to connect, and be, with the one, the love of their life. And where are the role models in this world, for loving committed relationships? There arent any, not on any of our media. Is been planned that way!!!

I like that Avalon doesn't get overly stroppy with rules. Its better, to me, if behaviour is moderated by members themselves, by others putting forward better alternatives to base attitudes and behaviour. Women need to step up to the base, so to speak, and teach men how they wish to be related to. As Thelma says to Louis, "You Get What Ya Settle For'.:original::original:

Cheers

Carmen

Ya, show me the women of my generation that can even distinguish between feminist ego flatulence and and respecting the divine female (don't even start me on respecting the male.)
It's just all effed up and seems an upward battle the younger you are. The divorce rates from all the hippies doesn't really speak of role models either.
Sorry to be so pessimistic but we really need something 'new', feminism was infiltrated and corrupted, the hippies didn't hold on to responsibilities and beyond generation X the models are so freaked I doubt it's even discussable.

[rhythm]

M E LIKING WHAT
CARMEN HAS TO SAY :thumb_yello::thumb_yello::thumb_yello:

BIG TIME !!!!:trumpet:.....
IM ONLY INTERESTED IN MR RIGHT
NOW , o! SO MANY COMPROMISES:thumbdown:

love you all eny way :tongue2::tongue2::tongue2:

[Swanny]

"You Get What Ya Settle For'.:original::original:



I'm very fussy, I want someone who is perfect for me :original:

[Carmen]

Yes, but it works both ways. If you desire the same level of perfection , for her also, you will have a match. Actually, the word perfect to me denotes something static, finished, no more growth. Its is in the difference that the spark is created.

Cheers

Carmen

[iainl140285]

I'm very fussy, I want someone who is perfect for me :original:

:mfr_lol: Thats funny.
You know Swanny, the 'one' might end up being someone you never would have thought of in a million years.

Take me for example, there was a girl I knew when we were at school. I hated her ... with a passion!! Thats embarassing to say. :sweatdrop: She however, knew I was her one.

Now, a number of years down the line, we have been together for 5 years and are now engaged. She is completely, 100% the other half of me. No question!

How do I know - she accepts me fully and I her. Absolutely everything - the good the bad and the ugly as they say :lol3:

Anyways .. my point is - dont rule someone out that may already be in your life or that may come into your life in the near future just because they dont meet your initial expectation of perfection. :thumb_yello:


Peace
Iain

[TheChosen]

The important thing in finding YOUR ideal mate (note that it is ideal only for you, not in some absolutist terms) goes through several steps:

1) First you must realize what are your deeper needs regarding this issue, on how many levels you need to connect
2) Generally the connection can be made on the 7 main levels (according to the chakras) and it depends how much of those levels you have opened in yourself
3) After you realize which of the levels you feel should be connected to your mate and you realize the depth you desire for those levels be connected you can have a pretty good idea of how that mate would make you feel
4) All this should give you a good basis on which to judge if a certain person feels really right and its not just some emotional infatuation or karmic attraction

As you move along the world you see most relationships are based on 1st and 2nd chakra energy (meaning money and survival .. and sex). As you go upwards to 3rd and emotions you can still find some people. Rarely we have connection going up to 4th (love) and even rarer we have combined it with true and open communication 5th chakra.
It goes exponentially rare to meet people who are connected on a 'psychic' level 6th chakra... and then even more rare on the deepest creational level 7th chakra.. that can be only felt and is beyond words and explanations.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ILO6fR9uxyk/SJRQ3vb_PhI/AAAAAAAAABs/ZEO2AM72HQo/s400/soulmates.jpg

So simply make sure your energy centers are functioning well and you have made up your mind which centers you wish to connect to this other person... then just wait for the manifestation. I for one am seeking for a full fusion on all 7 levels (they explain in the materials of RA well what this full fusion means).. anything else bellow is a waste of time on my current path and a waste of energy.


Questioner: Can you expand a little bit on what you mean by “complete fusion nature?”

Ra: I am Ra. The entire creation is of the One Creator. Thus the division of sexual activity into simply that of the bodily complex is an artificial division, all things thusly being seen as sexual equally, the mind, the body, and the spirit; all of which are part of the polarity of the entity. Thus sexual fusion may be seen with or without what you may call sexual intercourse to be the complete melding of the mind, the body, and the spirit in what feels to be a constant orgasm, shall we say, of joy and delight each


In my view a true fusion connection is not only love and happiness. It is someone who resonates with your energy and propels you upward, changes your very matrix of being and with the unity produced you become jointly more than the sum of yourselves as individuals. It feels as if you can achieve anything (and you can really achieve and manifest a whole lot more than individually) with this person because you now have both the polarities connected through all 7 energy centers and can fully operate from a level above (where things unite). It is no longer even based only love (as that is only the 4th center), it is based on the very core of your being.. it is simply based on raw creative energy which fuses into one being.

[orthodoxymoron]

I have a new fantasy girlfriend: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VrVlBrooxcM I love this video! Here's some behind the scenes video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGIa5UZeEB8. I've decided that the male/female discontinuities and inherent conflicts make relationships very difficult...especially when conflicting speculative philosophies and spiritualities are involved. Females are more advanced in so many respects. My theory is that men have been brutalized by thousands or even millions of years of war, hard labor...and outright enslavement. Guys who are trying to break out of this mould don't seem to be very desirable specimens. I don't see a light at the end of the tunnel at this time. I continue to admire the ladies in so many ways...but I don't intend to seek a relationship. It's just me and YouTube.

[Antaletriangle]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Me_tXyq_t4&feature=related

[water42]

well i'm single and it sounds like a good idea. i can't find anyone who believes what i believe or has had experiences i've had. so if anyone wants to chat let me know. 36, healthy male, amazing cook.

[THE eXchanger]

should women find men, 5, or 10 years younger than they are ???

[THE eXchanger]

i think its when you give up looking,
they come to find you !!!

[Humble Janitor]

Why is it that every time I meet a nice girl with whom I seem to "click" with, she is NEVER single?

It's a big disappointment. I wanted to ask out someone yesterday but she isn't single and we appear to have some things in common.

It just doesn't make sense. At least I asked but I am sure we will see each other again soon.

[THE eXchanger]

i also think, it is easier, to just dance with the memories,
of what once was, and, leave it, at that,
eventually; things do, come full circle,
so, what purpose, is there, to dating a lot of people,
i am NOT the type, who can lead anyone on
(although, teasing can be fun)

i know from 13 til about 39 - i didn't have any time, in between relationships
and, from 39-48, i went through a
hopelessly loving/hopelessly loved monad
(that's where you love them, but, they don't know what to do with you,
NOR, how to have you on equal footing)
for the past 2 years, i've kind of enjoyed being single

besides, its a lot cheaper, and, a lot less aggreviating
to date in your dreams !!!

and, you can leave that behind you,
when you get up in the morning !!!

and, pick up the threads, where you left them,
before you got out of bed

i don't know, but, myself -- i am really picky

i have no problem with giving love --
however, i know, i have a very high level of discernment,
in what, i do/or do NOT want

ahh !!! it is frustrating, at times to be single

however, i'd rather be single & happy,
than, hooked and snared-and, unhappy

sooner, or later, i am sure, life will deal me up a King of Hearts !!!

[water42]

i'm 36 and in great health. i can't find anyone who believes in this lke i do. i up for meeting someone.

[water42]

it is when you are not looking when someone great usually comes marching in. so i won't look for anyone. i'll just peek.

[Swanny]

I've tried the not looking thing, that definitely doesn't work :sneaky2:

[Czymra]

it is when you are not looking when someone great usually comes marching in. so i won't look for anyone. i'll just peek.

Yeah man, that's a children's tale. Sorry to say it, but there's probably things rumbling subconsciously that make this pan out as it does.

[Jnana]

Originally Posted by water42 http://www.projectavalon.net/forum/electric/buttons/viewpost.gif (http://www.projectavalon.net/forum/showthread.php?p=120453#post120453)
it is when you are not looking when someone great usually comes marching in. so i won't look for anyone. i'll just peek.


I think there's something to this. I met the woman who is now my wife after I had decided I wasn't looking and absolutely would not get into a long distance relationship. I think that because I wasn't "looking" I was able to interact more like a normal human being and less like a desperate lonely guy trying to pick someone up. When we parted after first meeting I had no thought of contacting her. She contacted me. We dated long distance (1000 miles - lots of plane tickets) for over two years and then got married.

[Swanny]

Nice one Jnana :original:


I think I'll get myself a :dog:

[Lorien]

30 yo single guy here. Soon moving to Portland, Oregon. Enjoys, art, music, cooking, the outdoors, computers, anime, and cuddling on the couch watching movies. :original: