05-21-2009, 04:21 PM
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Avalon Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2008
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Posts: 798
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Re: Victim Mentality
victim mentality ... two very significant words in this time place ...
many of us find our selves here ... in victim mode ... we're human ... of course we will visit here from time to time ... it is so we remember a particular lesson ... retrieve it ... but then move on ...
NOT ... remain playing this role ...
how is it then that we find our selves stuck here ... like a hamster on a wheel ... going round and round and feeling the fear of jumping off at some point ... what holds us here ...
i believe it is our ingraining ... thinking we are powerless ... can't pull our selves from playing this role ... our power we give away to others so we are left feeling helpless ... helpless is good when we wish not to take responsibility for what we have created ... remaining victims ... meek ... the ... "i can't do it ... i'm afraid to .. oh looky poor me ... look where this life has placed me ... i am so helpless ... i am so weak ... i really am so powerless ..."
this really does allow us the satisfaction of feeling some kind of "good" emotion ... we like that ... we like it when others feel fool compassion for us ... bask in it for a bit ... feel wanted ... special even ...
ok ok ... be it that ... but there comes a point in time that this no longer works ... and it shouldn't ... it isn't meant to ...
time to get off the wheel ... take ownership for our actions ... stop feeling so sorry for our selves ... start knowing we DO have power ... stop giving it away ... start living responsibly in all ways ...
why do we keep falling into this victim mentality trap ... why does this continue to happen to us ...
it is because we allow it ... and it's not happening TO us ... life ... all of it ... happens FOR us ... only the victim thinks they have no power and all happens to them ...
go back ... back into this life experience ... is there something still remaining there that hasn't been cleaned up?
is there an emotion or are there several emotional experiences that we have simply placed on the back burner hoping they will just disappear?
they don't ever just disappear ...
most often we fall back into victim mentality because we have NOT ... healed from our past fear experiences ...
time to do this ... locate our courage ... go back ... dig deep ... locate the fear emotion ... the one that had pained us back when ... bring it to the surface ... dark to light ... understand its teaching ... file that lesson ... release the emotion finally ... clean it up ... know you may not have had the power to do that prior but that was then ... now we DO have the strength to do so ... the energy supports us exponentially now to do this ...
face the fear ... what's not allowing us to move forward ... go back and find that what we believe holds us in its grip ... continuously trapping us as victims for we are not that ...
we are not fear ... we are not victims of this life experience ...
we are love ... creators of this beautiful life we have chosen to experience ...
why do we choose to drive our vehicles forward but continue looking in our rearview mirrors for the past ... our past ... what sense of security does this give us ...
always looking backwards ... how do we focus all our energy with what is ahead of us ... it isn't possible ... let's just forget the rearview mirrors even exist ... there is only what is in front of us ... this way there's no way we'll be trapped into victim mentality ...
once we've driven like this for awhile ... not looking back ... it becomes natural to us ... let us be flexible and not so rigid ... let us say we CAN ... rather than we cannot ...
when we play the victim role ... we are conveying to the universe who allowed us the opportunity of this life experience ... "hey ... thanks for this life ... rather than expanding in all ways ... i choose to simply take a back seat ... allow others to drive my vehicle ... i wish not to take responsibility for what happens ... i'll just coast ... after all ... i'm quite powerless ... i am fearful ... i am weak ... poor little me ..."
what a slap in the face this is ... to the universe ... to our purpose ... to this earth ... to others ... but mostly ... to our selves ...
this is conveying we have forgotten who we are ... true gods of creation ... power ... love and light ...
can we see how we got to where we are as a whole in this regard?
so many of us deciding to simply coast ...
we cannot move forward whilst in victim mentality ... it isn't possible ... the new world has a sign posted just outside of it ... NO VICTIMS ALLOWED BEYOND THIS POINT ...
and ... by not moving onwards to freedom ... to expand to our true potentiality ... how we were meant to live ... in love ...
we remain as victims ... victims of this life experience ... forgetting what really is ...
and this is very sad ...
we must do what we can to move onwards ... if this relates for us to face our fears and clean that up ... find our truth ...
to finally move from the victims we sometimes think we are ... to freedom of such ...
then let's do it ... the more this worlds fear that gets cleaned up ... the better for all ...
and we are all ... a part of this individually ... we all need to heal ... raises vibration upon this earth when we do ...
one person ... then another ... how about one more ...
how about many ...
how about we raise this planet's vibration through the sky ...
how about we all finally pull our selves out of the victim mentality we believe we are held to ... we are not that ... not at all ...
true ... it will feel like **** to do this but it will only be TEMPORARY ... short lived ... we heal and we move onwards ...
how long has it been now that we have felt we have very little or no power?
this life experience?
past lives?
well ... that's about enough now ... this is why we're here at this juncture ... we have so much assisting us in this moment to move from what was to what is ... and create what will be ...
victim mentality must be released ... we need to take responsibility for our actions ... we can do this ...
clean it up ... heal from it ...
it is enough ...
release the fear ... release the victim ...
know love ... feel love ... be love ...
with love

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