[Shadowstalker]

I am grateful for all who are helping me today, and you have all help in some way in other threads on some many subjects.

I have had the opportunity to toss her out, but when we met she had and still has no safe place to go and this is a safe home for her, When we first met i met her at a place called Mental Health Mental Retardation, it is an E.R. type setting for mentally and emotionally distressed people. At that point she was abusing alcohols and scripts, she has slowed down immensely, since those are the rules in my house, no overdosing and no getting drunk, so far she has been in and out of the house for the past 5 months but each time she comes back i remind her of the rules. So far so good.

But since then she is so animate about what she knows and stuff (even back then).,

She claims she is spiritual and knowledgeable, But that only seems to come out when she is tipsy not drunk(as I wont allow that)She also loves it when I hold her and seems to need me a lot, but she also has a person in her life (her boyfriend) who likes to use his gifts (AS IT WHERE) to, shall we say her from knowing anything but what he has to say. he is controlling and manipulative, and since then she has been more combative with me since I told her i can not bless there union once again, (as he is very abusive) I know that she is in total conflict as she wants the past and not truly understanding her true potential with out him. she is also not use to someone with so much patients and understanding, she is use to being called names and such.. I have been showing the complete opposite.. A loving home loving family and such.

Sorry i am just trying to put in more info about her, i am just trying all angles to get more suggestions..

I do feel as tho'' I am being tested at times about my spirituality, especially i the past year. by many people.