I got it now!
to get what you want - you just have to their game with their game pieces - documents!
( so its kind of like - an adult wanting to play a game with their kids so they have to rethink like a kid for the kids' rules to make sense)
kind of switches the perspective from what we were led to believe DUH-YA THINK?? hahaha -- oh i am loving this...
Hint- go back and rewatch the movie HOOK- in particular the scene where peter out-does rufio at the dinner table
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8il4...eature=related