Excellent post, Anchor.
I'm also in process of working through some of my own and haven't been as active on forums lately as a result. I'm an "advice giver" and have been slowly realizing that every bit of advice I give, from my heart, is meant for me as well just as much as it is meant for another. It was quite a personal revelation and knocked my ego down a few notches. It was much easier spouting off oh so great advice for others but not asking those same tough questions of myself or applying what I was telling others to my own journey.
Thank you, Anchor. May we all keep growing and having fun doing it!