3 star general alien confirmation

This is probably an out of place reply but, my dad died 8 years ago, he used to sit in his chair and just go off somewhere, then i would get frantic phone calls from sisters 300 miles away saying "they had just seen him", he has never come to me in dreams except 2 nights ago. He stood at my side and pointed to a corner of my conservatory, then the wife woke me for snoring!!

The place he pointed at has no real significance besides being 116 degrees southish.

I do however dream very real dreams, sometimes like living 2 lives, i wake exhausted, but some come true and others, well they are so sci fi,i suppose i will have to wait.