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[gita]

Originally Posted by Spregovori

At the present moment i am not angry...i am bored.
Once again....i see the same story in different context.

I am young yes...but still i see (and know) people discussing *that thing* behind closed doors...most women like to talk about it...among themselves...and women are also nicely surprised if they can talk with a man/boy about it....but as long as you do not talk about it doing it with her....than becomes "inappropriate"

man do not discuss it, no room for emotion there...it is only sport, cars, bear and all the imaginable girlfriends they had....the do use the F and such terms...mostly describing their glorious achievements...with age...than just rant and rant more...about how women are so strange and how they could never understand them...."poor" man huh?

mixed company (man and women) is a fun thing to observe...the topic comes up regularly like a bus...it is just that at that point we have 1st-silence...than everyone becomes the master of the metaphors...the whole subject is derailed to some cliche joke...after which...it is like nothing ever happened....

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It is there...all around you....at your every step, in your every sight, while you sleep, when you are awake, you can not escape it, you can not ignore it, you do it....but still you deny it....

No disrepect to you in anyway but I barely understand what you are talking about but maybe cos I'm not most women and I do not have these 'most women' in my company. If it bothers you then stay away from their conversations and go and do your own thing. And if you're bored then find something else to do. I promise you as you get older, you will never again know the meaning of 'being bored' and on that day you will rejoice and know you have gained wisdom. Wish you all the best.

Peace as always. x

Originally Posted by gita

No disrepect to you in anyway but I barely understand what you are talking about but maybe cos I'm not most women and I do not have these 'most women' in my company. If it bothers you then stay away from their conversations and go and do your own thing. And if you're bored then find something else to do. I promise you as you get older, you will never again know the meaning of 'being bored' and on that day you will rejoice and know you have gained wisdom. Wish you all the best.

Peace as always. x

I am more or less familiar with woman of my age that is 18-26...older women are also fun to talk to but it takes time for them to open up. it does not bother me when i talk with the girl about sex...not at all...my age or older... it is just that older women have (my experiences) a lot of luggage...older man like to rant (i could never understand women blah blah)....older women like to "complain" about man never been able to understand them/her.....about no man ever could see what she wants....

[gita]

Spregovor, just noticed that you've edited your last post and not in good taste either. Don't always believe what you read. Married couples do talk about sex and do educate their childeren about sex. Obviously you've never been married or have been a parent. I'm also wondering if you recently have had romantic problems but please don't answer that as it was just a fleeting wondering.

And of course older people have baggage - it's called life experience. It will happen to you one day too so stop with negetive judgement and learn more about human behaviour based on their experiences and learn to accept and move on. Don't make life more difficult than it can be cos that's how balance and sense of humour is lost.

Originally Posted by gita

Spregovor, just noticed that you've edited your last post and not in good taste either. Don't always believe what you read. Married couples do talk about sex and do educate their childeren about sex. Obviously you've never been married or have been a parent. I'm also wondering if you recently have had romantic problems but please don't answer that as it was just a fleeting wondering.

as i said...it is average (statistics) and not all...it is all there....

and no, no recent problems....just stating the every day obviousness

have fun

[gita]

Originally Posted by Spregovori

...have fun

Back at you.