The law of "Allowance"

[Jonah]

Originally Posted by sammytray

And all of this in the name of the "New Paradigm"

Anyone else going through this?
Anyone else have any good breakthroughs?

Much love and light to all

Good question!

What ever causes you to become irritated and emotionally affected, use it.

Find out why it causes you to become so.

Then, using the observer mode

find out why others are becoming affected as well. This works for me. Put

yourself in the worst possible situation. And learn from it.

[tone3jaguar]

Meditation to learn to stay in the moment and let go of expectations is how I have learned to use the Law of Allowing.

[Steven]

Originally Posted by tone3jaguar

Meditation to learn to stay in the moment and let go of expectations is how I have learned to use the Law of Allowing.

[sammytray]

Originally Posted by Steven

Thanks guys, It usually does go back to being quiet!

[Captain Obvious]

Hey Sammytray.

Allowance is a tough one, but I've found it very rewarding as I've gotten better at it. I think a big part of allowance is about releasing control.

Threatening somebody to do something is easy to label. Dark. But I think many don't get the flip side - guilt, "saving" somebody, aloofness, getting on the high horse wringing the finger for not following the one and only path, and so forth. Though the intentions may come from the heart, it's still controlling. I will speak my mind though with gusto and power if I feel like it. - Allowance is definitely a work in progress for me.

[Harper]

Yes you are so right, it trully is the hardest one without question and strangely if you think about it it should be the easiest but we have stopped understanding that it is up to everyone to walk their own path. And you remember you do not have to have one ounce of this information to 'get the whole thing', you can be sitting on your porch whistling and have it all sorted out : -) Without one thought of aliens or conspiracies etc..... :-)

Well done to all who have managed to chill and let people be. Its tough

[sammytray]

Originally Posted by Captain Obvious

Hey Sammytray.

Allowance is a tough one, but I've found it very rewarding as I've gotten better at it. I think a big part of allowance is about releasing control.

Threatening somebody to do something is easy to label. Dark. But I think many don't get the flip side - guilt, "saving" somebody, aloofness, getting on the high horse wringing the finger for not following the one and only path, and so forth. Though the intentions may come from the heart, it's still controlling. I will speak my mind though with gusto and power if I feel like it. - Allowance is definitely a work in progress for me.

Excellent insight... I will definetily contemplate what you said!

[Steven]

Originally Posted by Captain Obvious

...Threatening somebody to do something is easy to label. Dark. But I think many don't get the flip side - guilt, "saving" somebody, aloofness, getting on the high horse wringing the finger for not following the one and only path, and so forth. Though the intentions may come from the heart, it's still controlling. I will speak my mind though with gusto and power if I feel like it. - Allowance is definitely a work in progress for me.

Great insight. Oppressor-Victim-Savior are tightly linked into the same consciousness. This is the reason it is a risk for one to "Save" another when the victim call for salvation with a victim consciousness. If the savior act, he will attract more experience of the kind, and after a while if not careful, he/she will be caught into the victim consciousness as well.

To get out of it, one has to be aware of his own responsibility toward him/herself and do all he/she can do at his/her reach to get out of the unwanted situation. If he/she call for assistance with such an awareness in play, the person who will assist will not be a savior, but an assistant, which is a consciousness higher then the victim consciousness.

I like this thread, Steven