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pharoah21
24th May 2011, 02:53
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
I lost my cat on January 2nd, of this year.
He was 17 years old I had found him as a homeless kitten in the street.
I really feel for you, as I am still hurting to this day whenever I think of how he passed.
Death is a bummer, no matter what anyone says.
Grief will hit you in waves.
During the first two weeks of January I lost my cat, a cousin and two close friends.
I was numb for a long time afterwards.
Please accept my sincerest condolences, and give your girlfriend lots of hugs.
pharoah21
24th May 2011, 03:13
Thank you Ulli, it is definitely a hard thing. I wish you emotional healing during these tough times indeed, it does seem like many people are passing these days. We will roll with the punches and keep moving.
sandy
24th May 2011, 03:32
Dear Pharoah21,
My heart goes out to you in your sadness and loss. She sounds like she was a great friend and time will heal the sorrow but never the memories. May your memories of her friendship always bring you feelings of love and joy in the time to come.
Bill Ryan
24th May 2011, 03:46
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
Pets reincarnate, too - they really do.
Exactly what to do is this (this is serious advice for anyone who has lost a loved pet). It works with cats, dogs, and anything at all. :)
Get in touch telepathically with the spirit of your pet. They will be around.
Tell them that you'd love to see them again. Explain to them that they can choose a little puppy body near to where you live. Lay out the whole deal, like you're talking to a young child.
Then wait a little while and let serendipity do its thing. You'll recognize him again (and vice versa!) the moment you meet each other again. (Milo will be the puppy in the litter that goes crazy and runs straight to you). It's easier than finding a human friend!
Please read this to your girlfriend, with my regards - she will resonate immediately, and realize how true this is. Guaranteed. Let us know how it all turns out!
Karma Ninja
24th May 2011, 03:54
The little lady looks like she was in some loving arms there my friend.
I know the feeling of losing a family dog and only said goodbye to ours a few years back. It was heartbreaking. My father told us how he had a dream that "Roses" came back and was standing in a long hall looking at him. When my dad called to her she came and jumped up on his legs and stared at him and he felt like this was her way of saying "Goodbye, I am alright now and thanks for being my friend". He told our family this story over dinner about a month after she died.
I never knew my father as being spiritual or emotional like this. As a Buddhist he does believe in reincarnation and this was a special moment for him. I always thought she was my dog but when I moved out, my parents took really good care of her and she made a new best friend. It was for the best when she passed on too as she was in pain at the end. We had her put down as well. Tell your girlfriend my dad didn't have this dream until a week or two after she passed away. I am tearing up just thinking about her again.
Again, my condolences.
CorLian
24th May 2011, 04:14
My brother has two spirit dogs, both german shepards one white one black and tan. Both were his dogs that passed on, one waited untill he could say good bye the other waited untill he left the house. I can't say that your girlfriends dog will be a spirit dog for her, it is from my understanding, the dogs choice. I don't have anything else to offer you apart from my condolences.
cloud9
24th May 2011, 04:16
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
Pets reincarnate, too - they really do.
Exactly what to do is this (this is serious advice for anyone who has lost a loved pet). It works with cats, dogs, and anything at all. :)
Get in touch telepathically with the spirit of your pet. They will be around.
Tell them that you'd love to see them again. Explain to them that they can choose a little puppy body near to where you live. Lay out the whole deal, like you're talking to a young child.
Then wait a little while and let serendipity do its thing. You'll recognize him again (and vice versa!) the moment you meet each other again. (Milo will be the puppy in the litter that goes crazy and runs straight to you). It's easier than finding a human friend!
Please read this to your girlfriend, with my regards - she will resonate immediately, and realize how true this is. Guaranteed. Let us know how it all turns out!
First of all, I just want to say that I understand your pain, our pet are family and many times we love them more than.... I better don't say it... You'll find her again...
To Bill Ryan: you have no idea how much I love you right now, I have a little dog that is my best friend right now amidst many turbulence in my life and you have no idea how valuable this piece of advice is, just in case something happens to my friend or when he has to go... Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
mosquito
24th May 2011, 04:35
I cried more when our cat died in 2002 than when my ucle died in 2001.
Pets are very very special, it was an honour to be his tin-opener and his friend.
My heart goes out to you and your girlfriend Pharaoh
nomadguy
24th May 2011, 04:54
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
Before you go sleepy, try a little meditation, or whatever works for you , and try to tell her you love her no matter what happened. :) I had a occurance of begin very connected with a doggie in the past and this helped me. Perhaps their spirit is sad still, or maybe they want to be heard on what happened to them.
pharoah21
24th May 2011, 05:35
Thank you everybody, we're going to bury her in a few hours. I just showed this page to my girlfriend now and she really values the information on it, made her shed a few tears.......
Many many thanks PA, she will be putting all your advice to work tonight.
Blessings
MargueriteBee
24th May 2011, 05:40
I miss George the cat, but his spirit stays with me. One afternoon after he passed I was laying down on my side, I felt him walk on my body then curled up inside my heart.
markoid
24th May 2011, 06:07
There is nothing harder to deal with than the loss of a loved pet. I am a dog person myself and losing a 'friend' that has given one unconditional love while accompanying us through life's journey is a hard row to hoe.
Bill's reply above could give you great solace and a rather rosier future, and I wish I had known this in the past when my companions have passed.
Sincere condolences to you and good luck with reconnecting with your beloved friend... tears of empathy are running down my cheeks.
HaveBlue
24th May 2011, 06:20
My staffy was also 13 when she went. That really is a good innings for a dog so you should be happy that you gave here a good time if you did. I know that is difficult right now but I think you'll get there soon enough.
Dogs like Jack Russels, foxys and staffys are so much like people inside dogs bodys and it is a pity they just don't last that long.
My own dog put alot more than 13 years of normal living into her life, always doing everything at full speed, even going straight through the ranch slider before my father could open it one time! That was $250 for a new piece of glass but she didn't seem to feel it at all and just kept going onto sorting out the 2 cats that were screeching at each other outside! (she was chief of piece and quiet and very serious about it too). They teach us so much about life and ourselves.
She was one of a kind for sure. I have not replaced her as she was a one off. I'm just thinking how long ago it was and it is 13 years ago.
Excellent practise for raising kids as they are so similar! I have 2 cats and 2 kids now, both orphans- (not the kids). One is from the other side of the world born in Portsmouth, England. Her old owners went back to England. She was 13 when I got her 2 years ago too!
I will only get another dog if I end up with one. I'm not in the market as such but will give a home to one that needs it and it must be one of the above breeds too.
As hard as it is, remember what yoda says about not mourning and missing. They are part of the force now and we must be happy for them. Especially if we would swap places and have them treat us how we treated them. I'm happy with that. My one never knew a chain or a kennel or even a collar! She just didn't need it. And we were both fortunate that our lifestyle at the time allowed for that. Despite being hyper she was very wise and always did what I said and/or what was needed. I still have fond memories of her 13 years later.
Bill is quite right about their spirituality. They see ghosts some of them! And to this day I sometimes feel the weight of something getting on and off my bed when there is nobody there!
Seikou-Kishi
24th May 2011, 06:27
Everything is consciousness. Your dog will be waiting for you 'on the other side'. Dogs have a loyalty that can sometimes put humans to shame. There is no way he'll go off to do anything else before you've had your post-life reunion first :-)
bitworm
24th May 2011, 06:59
For as long as I can remember growing up, we always had a few dogs and a cat around. Usually for a long time, but of course they would die of old age or get in accidents with cars. We were close enough to them that they were empathic to us; at least for the dogs, their behavior would change if they sensed one of us have an emotional shift.
Whenever the 'core group' was intact, meaning no one recently departed, newcomers were generally not well-received. It was different when someone died because (besides us) the other animals would go through a grieving process, then shortly thereafter someone new would just show up on the porch one day and immediately be accepted by the others.
New Dawn
24th May 2011, 07:25
First off, sorry to hear about the pet. Its amazing how close we can get to animals. I remember losing my first cat when I was about 9, I think I cried a lot that week! Oh and it was called Gizmo (I bet there were about a million Gizmo's back then!)
Bill, As for the quote below, are you basing this on information you've been given, or is that your gut feeling or beliefs without anyone telling you this? I'd really like to know because it seems like quite a leap that just because a different animal can get excited to see you on what might be first meeting between you two, it could just be that this new animal is a whole other spirit/soul that just felt a connection to you, which is equally as cool as what your suggesting :)
Thanks!!!
ND
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
Pets reincarnate, too - they really do.
Exactly what to do is this (this is serious advice for anyone who has lost a loved pet). It works with cats, dogs, and anything at all. :)
Get in touch telepathically with the spirit of your pet. They will be around.
Tell them that you'd love to see them again. Explain to them that they can choose a little puppy body near to where you live. Lay out the whole deal, like you're talking to a young child.
Then wait a little while and let serendipity do its thing. You'll recognize him again (and vice versa!) the moment you meet each other again. (Milo will be the puppy in the litter that goes crazy and runs straight to you). It's easier than finding a human friend!
Please read this to your girlfriend, with my regards - she will resonate immediately, and realize how true this is. Guaranteed. Let us know how it all turns out!
TimelessDimensions
24th May 2011, 07:28
Listen to the animal
pharoah21
24th May 2011, 07:38
Thank you for all the replies. My girlfriend and I have been discussing the idea of Milo reincarnating, and wether or not she might actually be reincarnated as one of our children in the future. The problem I have with her being incarnated as a dog again is that she seemed to be close to perfection behaviour wise, apart from being a bit glutinous (like all dogs). What will happen will happen, I will see Milo again, wether as another dog, cat, human or tree. That's the circle of life I guess....
sirac
24th May 2011, 07:52
whether incarnation as we understand it crosses the human animal barrier is another thing
-i have images in my mind of how Tolkien would describe the spiritual classes, and i think a transision if there is, would be not as straight set as we think, but then we need a few experts on reincarnation & what their traditions say independently from how they'd like to sound for this audience-
Realeyes
24th May 2011, 08:13
For twelve years I was blessed with my dog called Poppy who was a black Labrador/retriever cross. She was amazingly alert and behaved more like a human than a dog. She taught me many things, kept a keen eye on my kids when they were young and intuitively knew when they were about to do something dangerous and warned me. She was so like 'Nanny' from Peter Pan.
The most amazing talent she had was being able to telepathically send picture images into my mind, one of which being a passed life that we had shared together. This was back in medieval times somewhere in Europe where I was a peaceful herbalist living quietly in a woodland in a humble hovel. One day the door was knocked down by soldiers to arrest me under the witchcraft act. Back then Poppy was a black cat and sprung onto the soldiers trying to save me – sadly she ended up being hurled into the fire and I was taken away to a painful death.
Back to the present, a year after she passed over, I attended a wonderful ‘out of body’ workshop. During a particular o.b.e. I found myself in a realm covered in snow and within seconds there she was charging through the snow to greet me. Snow was something she adored during her life. It was such a joy to see her again and I know that one day in time our lives will entwine again. ;)
I have owned a number of dogs, yet Poppy was consciously and psychically very different. She taught me some amazing spiritual truths via telepathy such as pets can and do reincarnate to be with their owners (in other lifetimes etc) if they so choose. Some animals/pets do dream and choose to spiritually evolve and become humans in their growth; living close to humans is a stage towards this evolution. And finally, some pets can be our spiritual guides, protectors and teachers. The unconditional love they freely give is breathtaking.
Other animals when they pass over return to the collective consciousness of Mother Nature. All life has a Soul - life is eternally continuous! It is all rather beautiful and very humbling. :grouphug:
This is the first thread to bring me tears!! Reminds me of My Golden... Barney (Barnegat).
Make a website, or latch on to one already made for you to post pics, memories. Write down all the pet names you had for your little friend. Keep that list and look at it every now and then. Unfortunately, from my experience, the first true love pet you are fortunate to have, will never be replaced. I've tried 3 times, and it's not the same... My heart goes out to you. When I really knew Barney quit fighting, he wanted outside.. it was raining really hard, and he just layed outside in the rain, he hated rain. But he didn't want us to suffer his defeat. Time will help, but never heal...I still miss my "Bubby" every day...
It is good that she is gone in one sense. Animals hide their pain, as it can be seen as weakness. So now she is not in pain and is experiencing pure joy and bliss. She did not bring any sad memories of you and yours, only fond memories. You, unfortunately, are the one with the sadness. Release that and focus on all the laughs the doggie brought to you all. She is happy and you can be too.
The pain is akin to losing a child. The innocence and purity of a balanced animal is sacred. To lose that energy is quite hard. Bill's advice sounds spot on and I will use it. You should too. I would love to be there when your friend sees her new puppy and recognizes it!
Richard S.
24th May 2011, 13:58
We had Indiana for 19years. She started our life as a couple, she was always there. We moved many times, she would get used to it after a while, and she was basically our little child. She was a wonderful cat, so used to us, she could just tell when she was needed for a good petting. We buried her shortly after we arrived here in this home. One morning my wife got up and she was just twitching on the floor, not really coherent. I came home, leaving in the middle of work, to take care of our child. I brought her to the vet, and he told me it was time. (Sadness and memories fill my heart, as I write, tears of her memory) I told him it was okay, and asked if I could hold her whle she left us. I couldn't keep her in my arms, but I kept both my hands on her and petting her while she was administered the dose. She felt comfortable and re-assured that I was there, I felt it. The slowly, she slipped away. I cried for days. Her memory is still with me, and I think of her often. Thank you for this thread, I needed a good cry....
Love all, Richard
I went to a spiritualist in London when I was nineteen.
I was accompanying a friend who had made the appointment.
Then the lady started talking to me, she said she saw an old man and described my grandfather who has passed away three years earlier.
He had lived with us on the farm, and wasn't an animal lover, he was an animal user.
Anyway, when this lady then said that he had a dog with him, and described my father's dog, an Irish Setter who had died just after I left home, I was vey surprised to hear that "my dog" Uncas had teamed up in spirit with my grandfather who had never shown him any compassion.
So later I told my dad about what the woman had said.
My father explained that Granddad would walk up into our forest every afternoon, and the dog would accompany him.
And once, when Granddad had a fall the dog sat by his side nudging him until he was up again.
So they had a secret relationship which I had not been aware of, and which they continued on the other side.
And I am glad this was brought to my attention so early on in my life.
cloud9
24th May 2011, 14:13
Phaorah21,
I couldn't help it, this video brought tears to my eyes...
Dog's love
http://www.bing.com/videos/watch/video/dog-welcomes-mom-back-from-afghanistan/20wzk112?rel=msn&cpkey=fd8c13f1-1f9b-4e8b-95a2-d647eb6d85d7%7Ckid%20viral%7Cmsn%7C
firstlook
24th May 2011, 14:17
You can go out and spread awareness about buying animals from pet stores. Just get involved in making better situations for other animals now. It will quickly fill the loss and emptiness of your loved friend.
Peace :)
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This video always lifts the spirit. I realize its not a cat you lost, but its all in the family if you know what I mean.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rynvewVe21Y
Fred Steeves
24th May 2011, 15:06
I've had dogs my whole life, and yes of course they are family. Our new 4-legged members always come from the pound, having seen nothing of life up until meeting us but abuse and loneliness. The oldest of the three we currently have, Monkey, who is 13, was a pup just a couple days from being euthanized. The day I found her had begun well before dawn on a drizzly cold morning burying her predecessor Murphy, who was 15. Monkey doesn't have much longer to go now, the cancer's really eating her up. After I cry myself out burying her when the time comes, it'll be time to go out and meet the one who has decided to be next.
I know the pain runs deep pharoah, but don't keep your new kid waiting too long. They're impatient don't ya know.
Cheers,
Fred S.
Maia Gabrial
24th May 2011, 15:13
Hey Pharoah,
I had a male Bassenji mix who was the most intelligent dog I've ever seen. We were such pals. He was always by my side; even following me to the bathroom! He and I would even sing together. Never mind that I had to sound like a cat in heat!
I had to make a hard decision because the apartment I moved into wouldn't allow dogs, even on the premises. He never forgave me for giving him up, even though my mother took care of him for me. I still visited him most weekends.
One time, my mother had taken him to a vet because he wasn't doing so well. That vet said that he would be alright. At that time, she wasn't told that he had a tumor that could have been treated at the time. So, that tumor on his belly grew huge so fast, putting him in much pain and he was going blind. By that time, it was too late for surgery. My mother and I reluctantly decided to put him to sleep. I deeply felt that I needed to be there and to watch the consequences of this life-ending decision. My heart pounded so hard, watching the vet inject him, knowing what was coming. Believe it or not, because of the way he layed, it took 4 injections. When it finally happened, I felt it and cried so hard, because I had just ended the life of my best friend.
Anyway, I had a dream where he was so vicious and wanted to attack me. For a few weeks after, all I did was think about how much he hated me in that dream. I asked for his forgiveness over and over; and that I loved him.
Not long after I had another dream where he walked out of this house toward me, and he jumped up and excitedly licked my face. I just couldn't believe how excited he was to see me after the other dream. I could feel his love and forgiveness. It meant alot to me.
Some people think dogs are just dumb animals....What do they know?
Maia
cloud9
24th May 2011, 16:35
I've had dogs my whole life, and yes of course they are family. Our new 4-legged members always come from the pound, having seen nothing of life up until meeting us but abuse and loneliness. The oldest of the three we currently have, Monkey, who is 13, was a pup just a couple days from being euthanized. The day I found her had begun well before dawn on a drizzly cold morning burying her predecessor Murphy, who was 15. Monkey doesn't have much longer to go now, the cancer's really eating her up. After I cry myself out burying her when the time comes, it'll be time to go out and meet the one who has decided to be next.
I know the pain runs deep pharoah, but don't keep your new kid waiting too long. They're impatient don't ya know.
Cheers,
Fred S.
Fred, have you tried baking soda or sparragus on your dog? They could have in the food or water, you can make a savory pure with canned or fresh sparragus and give it to her every day, those are great for curing cancer among other things, even hemp oil, just a little bit on the tongue and you're done.
I would try some things not because I want to avoid my dog's death which I think can be avoided but also to help them with the pain. Also, you can test the dog's body acidity wih ph testing strips and see how is she progressing.
FraterJames
24th May 2011, 16:52
Tell them that you'd love to see them again. Explain to them that they can choose a little puppy body near to where you live. Lay out the whole deal, like you're talking to a young child.
If I may add the following, imho...
We should be mindful to wish those who have passed the freedom to choose their next life and adventure. We should avoid pulling them back to this world because we are fearful of the loss.
The following is a slightly glib analogy, but perhaps useful: Imagine if you and your loved one went to a fairground. You agree before you go in that if you get separated in the queues and crowds that you will meet up at 5pm by the gate. Agree that if you both get separated you won't spend your time worrying and searching for each other but will enjoy the time given to you in the fairground. It may not be as good as if you were with your loved one but you will see them again at 5pm.
Try not to fear the loss of a loved one, nothing is lost. Separation is an illusion that we will overcome with time. We will be consciously with our loved ones again and in the mean time, we remain with our loved ones in Spirt and in Love.
HURRITT ENYETO
24th May 2011, 20:45
Sorry for your loss mate.
I once had a much loved Brown Doberman called Oscar.
He got throat Cancer and because me and my little Sister were young and he was our best friend we kept him Alive longer than we probably should have.
One day we had a psychic round and she said "there is a big Brown Dog in the house, and he refuses to leave while the family remains in the house, he is protecting you even now" then she laughed and said "while he was alive he never realized that he was a Dog, he thought he was Human like you."
And that was so true, he even used to sit on chairs like he was Human and bark at his reflection in the mirror :)
Anyway, as already stated, the best thing for your Girlfriend (and you) is loads of hugs ATM.
You have my sympathies.
Hurritt
nearing
24th May 2011, 21:01
My love and thoughts are with you and your girlfriend, Pharaoh. I know all too well how hard this is and it's still VERY raw.
I lost my girl, Emma, on March 26 of this year and am still grieving her. I cry nearly every night for missing her. She was at my side for 11.5 years. A Golden Retriever who wouldn't retrieve a thing but loved to play tug -o war! Loved the water like a fish but hated baths. (Smells good? What?)
In the week after she was euthanized she visited a few times. Twice she barked to go outside at 3 am, in her usual way. It wasn't a dream as my cat laying in bed with me looked up too, he heard her bark! And once I heard her panting on the floor next to my bed, in her usual way as well. She came back to tell e that she is still with me and will always be.
I think I have a thread here about her.
I thought about doing what Bill suggested but I think she will come back in another body if that her what her mission is to do. If not, another soul will find me. She cannot be replaced. She KNOWS that I would welcome her back in my life if that is how it should be. But I am not ready for another dog yet. I can't even type this without balling...
manny
24th May 2011, 21:41
when i was a young boy,we had female dog of mixed breed.
over the years she had a couple of litters of pups.
now anyone knows that the puppy smell of newborns is unique.
when i was about ten,one day she went out and never came back,she was a old girl.
i believe she knew she was on her way,and she just left.
now over the years since then,i would get that puppy smell,just for a minute or two.
it was very strong.it could happen anytime during the day or when i,m drifting off to sleep.
but to me i knew she was coming to say hello.
every time i smelled that smell.i knew it was her.
not happened for a few years now.but this thread reminded me.
look out for the signs,and do not let them pass as imagination.
say hello back.;)
Mandala
25th May 2011, 01:58
I am so sorry for your loss.
I believe pets reincarnate also. I have my Himalayan kitty back who died 6 years ago. He's back as Ramses, the Bengal.
We look at each others eyes and know. Same ole habits, and familiar likes.
Pets enhance our lives so much.
Corncrake
25th May 2011, 09:45
Dear Pharaoh - I am so sorry for your loss but at least you have the memories of the wonderful times you had together. I house board dogs for people (so they don't have to go into kennels) and two of my favourites are a chihuahua/jack russell cross - fantastic energetic affectionate little characters. Many touching messages have been posted here and I won't add to them but would like to mentioned that I saw the Scottish medium Gordon Smith a while ago - he is one of the UK's best mediums also known as the Psychic Barber - and on several occasions while discussing family members who had passed on with various people in the audience he would move to one side as a spirit dog brushed past. You or your partner may like to read his book 'The Amazing Power of Animals'. He is very sensitive - no bullsxxx at all!
juliagulia55
29th May 2011, 22:02
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
So sorry for your loss, I was in a bad way when my Jack Russell passed over. I rescued him when he was a puppy and he'd already had a tough life, it seems we had a similar childhood and I always thought that might be why we had a special bond. The great news is they definitely can connect with you from the otherside...
A few months after my dog (Poacher) died I had a strange but very vivid dream about him and we could talk telepathically. He said to me "don't worry about me I am very happy and soon I'm going to be a little boy called Benjamin" I hugged him and then he dissapeared. Every now again he turns up in a dream and It's always significant in some way - I once dreamt he was trying to drag me away from my boyfriend, then about a week later I discovered he'd been cheating on me!
I truly believe animals are more in tune than us when it comes to crossing dimensions, psychic awareness etc - maybe because they naturally love unconditionally and therefore have a higher vibration. Anyway, I'm certain you and Milo will meet again especially if you will it to happen. Love and hugs to you and your girlfriend.
pharoah21
29th May 2011, 22:47
Last night, she finally gave in. My girlfriend has owned a Jack Russell Chihuahua mix for 13 years. For a few years now she has been battling Pancreatic problems, living on mainly boiled chicken. It's so hard to see an animal pass so painfully. We watched her in an oxygen chamber struggling to breathe for a few hours at the hospital, she got to a point where she just stood up and turned her back to us. The whole family understood that as her not wanting us to see her in pain, because we were all crying for the little lady. We decided to put her down.
The house feels so empty without her now......my girlfriend is desperate to see little Milo in her dreams now, to connect with her. Not sure if anybody else here has any experience with that.
We appreciate your support Avalon.
So sorry for your loss, I was in a bad way when my Jack Russell passed over. I rescued him when he was a puppy and he'd already had a tough life, it seems we had a similar childhood and I always thought that might be why we had a special bond. The great news is they definitely can connect with you from the otherside...
A few months after my dog (Poacher) died I had a strange but very vivid dream about him and we could talk telepathically. He said to me "don't worry about me I am very happy and soon I'm going to be a little boy called Benjamin" I hugged him and then he dissapeared. Every now again he turns up in a dream and It's always significant in some way - I once dreamt he was trying to drag me away from my boyfriend, then about a week later I discovered he'd been cheating on me!
I truly believe animals are more in tune than us when it comes to crossing dimensions, psychic awareness etc - maybe because they naturally love unconditionally and therefore have a higher vibration. Anyway, I'm certain you and Milo will meet again especially if you will it to happen. Love and hugs to you and your girlfriend.
That's incredible.....you're so right.
Animals are very in tune, beautiful creatures.
Blessings
Strat
30th May 2011, 01:23
I've always been an animal person, sorry to hear your loss. God bless you and your girlfriend. Keep rollin with the punches buddy, yall are both gonna be fine.
GCS1103
30th May 2011, 02:08
Dear Pharoah21-
My heart goes out to you and your girlfriend. It is an empty feeling after a beloved pet passes away. I have no children and my 3 doggies are like family to me. I have experienced the loss of pets too and I am crying just writing this to you. I have always believed in my heart that we will meet our pets again at "The Rainbow Bridge" where they wait for us to join them. One of the most beautiful eulogies to a pet was a summation in a lawsuit in the 1800's by an attorney named George Graham Vest. It is pretty long, but I will quote one small section for you:
"The one absolutley unselfish friend that a man can have in this selfish world, the one that never deserts him and the one that never proves ungrateful or treacherous is his dog."
I hope that you handle your loss as peacefully as possible.
Love,
Goldie
red_rose
30th May 2011, 15:40
That's one thing in this Earthly life that always crushes me, saying goodbye.
red_rose
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