Natalia
11th July 2014, 18:05
This is one of the things that I feel strongly about...one of my continuous messages (and lesson for myself).
I want to start by saying, that I believe that we all have a message or messages that are right for someone/s and/or it's needed for them to hear that can help in whatever way (not always the way that is intended by the messenger!).
I was told by a psychic once, that one of my messages is one of "not pretending anymore"...so, authenticity...(that could be a whole other thread and I won't go into it right now).
A saying that comes to mind with what I am feeling right now is "don't wait until you are perfect to do something"...yeah...because I see that this can hold some people back, when they could be moving forward with something...
This has come up in me a lot and I realized that it was one of my lessons and/or tests, and it was one of, self acceptance and self trust..sometimes we can lose some of this from when we were children because whoever around us didn't trust and accept a part of us...and we didn't get the correct support that we needed in those ways (or not enough), even though that can be part of what leads us to have to accept and trust those parts of ourselves that were not by some or most people...you know, like doubting your own intuition and following the advice of another's fear based belief or mistaken or over concern...only for that to cause more difficulty for yourself and/or them...
There are certain personalty types or traits or parts of natures, that, when seen, some others tend to then underestimate the person in whatever ways...the "highly sensitive person", being one of them (though of course there can be huge variations there, too, between individuals...)...
Sooo, those highly sensitive people learn to doubt themselves in whatever ways...but, it's their responsibility to learn to trust themselves in those ways again...(with a little help along the way, of others trusting them, which is nice :) ).
I am not saying that everything about us and our experiences are trustworthy! What I am saying is to trust what can be trusted in one's self and in our lives...experience can teach us this...
Now, some people say "you do not need a psychic to tell you the things that you know deep inside, search within, not without"...
but, (and I am not saying that that is not true ever), I know, that a reason why some people actually do need to have a true psychic reading, is because they need someone to believe in them, the real them, to believe in their purpose, and to believe in their future...and it can also feel like companionship...
I do not believe that having needs, or different needs, is wrong...there are some needs that seem "uncool" to some people, or some people do not respect them, or they may not even see them as true needs, when they are...and sometimes people mean well but are not understanding what we really need...that's when we have to know what is right for us...and trust ourselves...even when that means to seek help from another and/or "outside" :)
I want to start by saying, that I believe that we all have a message or messages that are right for someone/s and/or it's needed for them to hear that can help in whatever way (not always the way that is intended by the messenger!).
I was told by a psychic once, that one of my messages is one of "not pretending anymore"...so, authenticity...(that could be a whole other thread and I won't go into it right now).
A saying that comes to mind with what I am feeling right now is "don't wait until you are perfect to do something"...yeah...because I see that this can hold some people back, when they could be moving forward with something...
This has come up in me a lot and I realized that it was one of my lessons and/or tests, and it was one of, self acceptance and self trust..sometimes we can lose some of this from when we were children because whoever around us didn't trust and accept a part of us...and we didn't get the correct support that we needed in those ways (or not enough), even though that can be part of what leads us to have to accept and trust those parts of ourselves that were not by some or most people...you know, like doubting your own intuition and following the advice of another's fear based belief or mistaken or over concern...only for that to cause more difficulty for yourself and/or them...
There are certain personalty types or traits or parts of natures, that, when seen, some others tend to then underestimate the person in whatever ways...the "highly sensitive person", being one of them (though of course there can be huge variations there, too, between individuals...)...
Sooo, those highly sensitive people learn to doubt themselves in whatever ways...but, it's their responsibility to learn to trust themselves in those ways again...(with a little help along the way, of others trusting them, which is nice :) ).
I am not saying that everything about us and our experiences are trustworthy! What I am saying is to trust what can be trusted in one's self and in our lives...experience can teach us this...
Now, some people say "you do not need a psychic to tell you the things that you know deep inside, search within, not without"...
but, (and I am not saying that that is not true ever), I know, that a reason why some people actually do need to have a true psychic reading, is because they need someone to believe in them, the real them, to believe in their purpose, and to believe in their future...and it can also feel like companionship...
I do not believe that having needs, or different needs, is wrong...there are some needs that seem "uncool" to some people, or some people do not respect them, or they may not even see them as true needs, when they are...and sometimes people mean well but are not understanding what we really need...that's when we have to know what is right for us...and trust ourselves...even when that means to seek help from another and/or "outside" :)