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Natalia
26th February 2015, 06:32
The dynamics of giving and receiving love are not the same in every relationship that one has...usually, the ones that make us feel the best, are the ones where there is mutual appreciation. Well, that fits, and that clicks :) Just naturally...

So this can be for any type of relationship...and of course they are so much more than just feel good feelings...

Well someone posted a saying about appreciation on facebook tonight and it got me feeling, and it got me thinking and remembering (a little)...

What is a gift to one is not to another...so sometimes it's not just about giving but what you give, and not just about receiving but what you receive...so we can be unappreciated and it's not that we didn't give or were selfish (not nessarily)...but we can also care about, and listen to, and want to give, what that person needs at the time...or not, it's our choice, does it have to be an "obligation"? or love? (or both?)...

And in our just being, we can be appreciated or appreciate, or not...Because we are all individuals even though we are connected to the whole...to each other...so because we have different values and desires and needs and personalities and natures and etc...

So, it's often not personal (though there can be lessons in it) and for some people, we will never be good enough, and to know that can be a relief, even if painful at first...but for others, we are and/or can be good enough as we are...

A question: What would and wouldn't we learn (and grow) on this planet if we were always good enough to everyone from the start? There must surely be something positive in being unappreciated as well as painful and negative...

We all have beauty inside and are valuable <3

And, it's so lovely when you are with someone and both find each other lovely :)

(end on a positive note, giggle, :) )

Anchor
26th February 2015, 10:31
Metaphysically our interactions resolve down to energy exchange. They are driven by "intent".

Giving and receiving of energy of any kind. It is all love in more or less distorted ways.

Whatever happens, happens for experience.

Que sera sera.

From the point of view of the all that is one, there are no mistakes !