Here and Now...What's Happening?

[Ol' Roy]

The Achrcon's are bad right! Can't even post! Dawg gone it! Keep me in your best wishes!

[RunningDeer]

Posted by Ol' Roy (here)
Keep me in your best wishes!

Done... <3

[Ol' Roy]

Nevermind ut raking leaves! My boy, who mow.s my grass, decides to quit mid OCT. When the leaves start falling down. More money in tobacco! Helping hia dad.

I may do it myself next year! Too much hassle,except on those hot days!

Anyway here and now! Raking leaves in Copper's yard! Stepped in dog Sh8t as
usual! At least , I have the presence to look at my shoes. Before, I go inside!

It's a shiity job any way you look at it! You know! A little humor never hurts!
Leave you happy, healthy,and WISE!
ON THE DECK CLEANING OUT DOG POO! 45 DEGREES !.Got to love it!

[Catsquotl]

Posted by PurpleLama (here)

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=u-Ah65YqFkU

Just because I enjoy the bh surfers...
here it is again..

WIth Love
Eelco

[Ol' Roy]

Paula and Ulli, you know I didn't do that! As far as my Avatar and my posting! She doesn't want me in the room. Mild case of Aspergers Syndrome.Smarter than dirt! " Where did you learn that?""I don't Know!" My reasoning is the internet. Nope! Bottom part of her class in high sscool. Straight A's in college! Just as my oldest! Bragging! Hell yes!!

[Ol' Roy]

Well I am not hugging a tree. But I am hugging the best species closest to us! 1997! Hawaii.

[ulli]

Posted by Ol' Roy (here)
Well I am not hugging a tree. But I am hugging the best species closest to us! 1997! Hawaii.

What a happy smile on your Dolphin friend there, Ol' Roy.
I had nothing to do with the avatar...that must have been Paula.

[eaglespirit]

OK, Higher Spirit Villagers...
What are WE going to do with the rest of my life in 3d doings?

[RunningDeer]

Posted by Ol' Roy (here)
Well I am not hugging a tree. But I am hugging the best species closest to us! 1997! Hawaii.

I'm guessing Daughter Carlye helped with the avatar. Nice pic, Roy.

[Natalia]

Hi guys

Do you ever have it when you are amazed about a personal lesson? Where something unexpected (and not nice) has happened,..and after feeling upset about it...you go deeper inside yourself and others and look at how that something in you...has (partly) manifested that thing that was not nice, that upset you...then it feels like a mistake...your mistake...then you realize that you was naive...It can feel good and right at the time (feels brave) and then later feel like a mistake (feels stupid)...and that it has been seen by others...which makes it feel bigger...and somewhere in all of that, you know that it makes you stronger and wiser, but you still feel like a bit of a fool because you have repeated the same mistake quite a few times...



When we are ready...we don't just learn it all in one go...and we don't make the first jump (like in the Matrix)

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=3vlzKaH4mpw

But it doesn't have to be groundhog day...if it doesn't have to be...but the only way out, is to learn the lesson for real...

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=M628DuIEZ_o

[dan33]

Cena de Navidad del Grupo de Sueños. Christmas Dinner Dreams Group. Yesterday.

[dan33]

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=oYBT-HAYRDY

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=oQ9AFisWCdg

[Carmody]

Posted by PurpleLama (here)
Whether it was said in jest, or not, at six years old, to be told that by someone who has beaten the sh!t out of you more than once, it isn't anything but psychological trauma.

Sorry, this here and now, for me atm, is not all love and light and fluffy stuff. You know how I will often reveal truth in a statement that couldn't really be taken seriously, the statement I made to her on the previous page was just skirting the line of serious and no joke at all. The greater part of the tragedy is that her daughter K allows this to go on right under her nose. I would say, someone will have to really get hurt befor she wises up and gets rid of the guy, but we are beyond that and now have a cycle of bad behavior on the part of whatshisname and his manipulation of K being pretty deep at this point. Someone has already gotten hurt over and over again, and It's the most frustrating thing in the world when the One person who could, and should, do something about it just effin won't. For example, the reason she moved out of her apartment was to get away from him, after he tried to strangle her. What is little one supposed to think, seeing that, and having been beaten by him before, when the same person (I use the term loosely) threatens to set him on fire in his sleep?

This is hard and harsh, un_sugar coated reality. I realize it isn't fitting for the tone of the thread, and might well be the first time my own posts were removed from these environs. I won't hold it against anyone if I get reported. I do wish to close, there is no anger in me, but there is a sense of justice that has not been met, and I am personally involved with many of the characters in the epic of 1inmany. Forgive me for being so pointed.

In my family group, such thing have happened before. (about 15 aunts and uncles and all their kids)

One of us takes the 'hit' so to speak, by calling the cops and going as far as testifying in court, whatever is required. It costs in terms of ostracization, but the people involved...are alive to have the chance to reflect. And maybe, just maybe, 20-30-40 years later, the person who did the ostracizing, will finally go clear and understand what went on. Ie, living angry relatives, instead of dead ones, because no one did anything.

[gripreaper]

Posted by RunningDeer (here)

Posted by Violet (here)
Sometimes I think I should spend a bit more time rethinking the past, but for me it equals regression.

Some don’t want to dig up the past because it’s too painful. Others say what’s done is done, leave the past in the past.

All pain, i.e., physical, mental, emotional and/or sexual abuse gets locked in the psyche and the cellular and muscle memory. These memories hidden or otherwise are overlays that prevent one from experiencing who they are in Truth.

Fear of the unknown, fear of being out of control, and denial reinforces this cycle of dis-ease. It takes courage to unearth the trauma and worth the risk. Each cathartic release brings clarity and freedom. And perhaps, one discovers knowledge of innate strength and wisdom of how their spirit could never be broken.

I concur. Trauma at an early age is too painful to fully experience, so the energy of the event gets sequestered and is removed from the wholeness of who we are and held until such a time as we can go back and "relive" the experience in it's full capacity, release the discordant energies of fear/terror, anger/rage, grief/sadness held in our lower chakras, and return this energy to our essence through the catharsis.

We can see where we are not whole because there will be consistent patterns which repeat, with the anxiety and irritation which goes with these feelings, which we then project outside of ourselves and discharge the energy to maintain homeostasis without connecting to it's source.

It is the denial and agitation which is painful, not the homeopathic catharsis of the original trauma. The experiencing and releasing through the full charge of the catharsis actually feels pretty good, and it opens up many new pathways and insights. Those who have done the work report better eyesight, softer skin, loss of stress, better hormone balance, clearer thinking, more acute senses, and synchronicities.

Be prepared for almost everything to shift and change in your life after the reality you are manifesting is no longer necessary to maintain the current beliefs holding your hologram in place, as new energy is emanated from your field, new events, experiences, and people are attracted to the new you.

[Playdo of Ataraxas]

Posted by Carmody (here)

Posted by PurpleLama (here)
Whether it was said in jest, or not, at six years old, to be told that by someone who has beaten the sh!t out of you more than once, it isn't anything but psychological trauma.

Sorry, this here and now, for me atm, is not all love and light and fluffy stuff. You know how I will often reveal truth in a statement that couldn't really be taken seriously, the statement I made to her on the previous page was just skirting the line of serious and no joke at all. The greater part of the tragedy is that her daughter K allows this to go on right under her nose. I would say, someone will have to really get hurt befor she wises up and gets rid of the guy, but we are beyond that and now have a cycle of bad behavior on the part of whatshisname and his manipulation of K being pretty deep at this point. Someone has already gotten hurt over and over again, and It's the most frustrating thing in the world when the One person who could, and should, do something about it just effin won't. For example, the reason she moved out of her apartment was to get away from him, after he tried to strangle her. What is little one supposed to think, seeing that, and having been beaten by him before, when the same person (I use the term loosely) threatens to set him on fire in his sleep?

This is hard and harsh, un_sugar coated reality. I realize it isn't fitting for the tone of the thread, and might well be the first time my own posts were removed from these environs. I won't hold it against anyone if I get reported. I do wish to close, there is no anger in me, but there is a sense of justice that has not been met, and I am personally involved with many of the characters in the epic of 1inmany. Forgive me for being so pointed.

In my family group, such thing have happened before. (about 15 aunts and uncles and all their kids)

One of us takes the 'hit' so to speak, by calling the cops and going as far as testifying in court, whatever is required. It costs in terms of ostracization, but the people involved...are alive to have the chance to reflect. And maybe, just maybe, 20-30-40 yeas later, the person who did the ostracizing, will finally go clear and understand what went on. Ie, living angry relatives, instead of dead ones, because no one did anything.

I know you like Tom Waits, and this is one of my favorites of his, seasonal and it seems appropriate to post at the moment. The Holiday season, cue the family drama, we all have it to some, relative degree. I know my family's been there.....

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=KsQl74yejYQ

[Nat_Lee]

Just finishing to wrap the biggest gift ever !!!!
It is a 6,99$ shopping cart toy for my little 35 months old boy....
hahahahaaaa.... He likes to do like mommy and daddy and always want to push the grocery cart ....
Now he will have is own !!! hahahah....
ok feel tired !
in my office now

[1inMany]

It is a new day. Filled with nothing but potentials and possibilities. The sun will rise and bring its warmth and light up the horizon. I sit with that knowledge this morning. If nothing else, the sun will most certainly rise. I have been meditating, so weird things are happening again. I am Okay with that. For now. Trusting Universe to show me what I need to know and working with that the best I can. This is a positive move.

Yes, ulli, Mike was told about the threat. I chose to keep the information in confidence, as it was offered to me. But M chose to tell him, tired of keeping her Truth to herself. He responded in typical fashion, getting angry that anyone questioned a decision he made.

Yes, any and all of us would like an opportunity to testify, to tell the story and have justice served. Unfortunately, whatshisname keeps his behavior just this side of legal. As ulli pointed out, children are told some horrible things and this alone does not always ruin a child's life. In this situation, there is a long standing pattern. This is why my heart aches. Not bad enough, but it is crushing Little One. And because we are not geographically close, the only way we will know something has happened is if we get a phone call.

K and some co-workers apparently decided that they would no longer tell their mothers anything negative about their relationships because the mothers would then hold this information against their significant others. She speaks of her on again off again relationship as if it resides in the "healthy" realm. And she talks about her mother as if she doesn't know me. Which, I suppose, she doesn't. She could. But she doesn't. My teens know me better than that.

What will become of Little One? The funny thing about this is that I can't go there. I cannot. What I must do is stay in this moment. That pulls at my natural inclination to worry. And I do fully realize that if I am worrying, I am not taking care of the now. I am trying to know my power, and it does not reside in any other moment. My location, the one under my avatar, has been "Inside, Finding Trust" for a reason.

In this moment, I find enough distance to keep my worry in check, keep my emotions in check, yet maintain an energetic connection. In this moment, I find the Trust in Universe to show me the opportunities to maintain a positive influence on K and Little One. In this moment, I find the trust in mySelf to see those and take them without hesitation...and also to do what is best for them when that opportunity presents.



Much Love,

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Busy packing, leaving for the Eastcoast, helping a young man who has bought cellphones under threat, the stores accepting his passport and "personal number" don't know the english term....and listening to this wonderful tune written by an aquaintance of mine, don't have the time to translate just now but use your intuition...

[RunningDeer]

Today is a
Villager 'fill in the blank day'
Allow it to wash over You

I received Serenity






From

<3

[Violet]

Here now, finished a lil painting for Fay. Hope I can get it sent this week still.



She sent me an early Christmas letter. That girl has a beautiful and neat handwriting and she's only seven! She even takes time to put circles on the i's.

And here & now, enjoying my latest discovery:



Evening.