Here and Now...What's Happening?

[Guest]

Good evening villagers. I have a special request from everyone to call on their higher help. I'm doing the same.

The relative that I have so many problems with is gearing up and I need some help. I haven't had
any contact with her for 2 mos now then all of sudden she is coming forward again. Her initial is b.

I wouldn't ask, but there are many children lives involved and my elderly father.

Please say a good prayer
Thank you so much villagers


Love

Nora

[RunningDeer]

Delivered healing energies and a harmonic environment to B
and anyone who is part of the journey.

This is:

For B


For the Children


For your Dad


And for You, Nora

Love,
Paula

Posted by Nora (here)
Good evening villagers. I have a special request from everyone to call on their higher help. I'm doing the same.

The relative that I have so many problems with is gearing up and I need some help. I haven't had
any contact with her for 2 mos now then all of sudden she is coming forward again. Her initial is b.

I wouldn't ask, but there are many children lives involved and my elderly father.

Please say a good prayer
Thank you so much villagers


Love

Nora

[meeradas]

adding mine

[astrid]

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=ypniVWlwlYc

"Can virtual reality control pain?
Interface designer Dr. Diane Gromala has experienced chronic pain for the last 25 years. Working with concepts of mindfulness meditation--where a patient focuses on their pain to control it--Dr. Gromala and her team have built an immersive virtual reality environment that essentially allows patients to interface with the self by using biofeedback and sensory cues to modulate pain levels."

...........................................

Nora, B is on my list for this evening,
i will PM you if i see anything that
needs discussing

Love

[Marianne]

Adding a good prayer for B and your family, Nora.
Beautiful images from Paula and Meeradas. My mom had Paula's one of the angel and two children, when we were growing up.

Today is Dan Eaglespirit's birthday. We're all hoping he will find his way to a computer soon and give us a shout.
Happy birthday, Dan. Hope you find much joy and beauty today.

Love to the village.

[Lunesoleil]

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=t5Ao--mbIho

Notice of a Full Moon that announcement, please check your irrational emotions ...
http://lunesoleil23.wordpress.com/20...rrationnelles/

[Lunesoleil]

[Lunesoleil]

This morning it was doing months 1 degree, amounted to 2 degree but must be hot as and why for warm us there is no better than a good fire fireplace

[ulli]

Happy Birthday, Eaglespirit. And may your time in Peru be full of blessings.

[RunningDeer]

Happy birthday...to you
Happy birthday..to you...
Happy birth...day...Dear....Da-an.....
Happy birthday to You!

Love,
Paula

[ulli]

Posted by Lunesoleil (here)

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=t5Ao--mbIho

Notice of a Full Moon that announcement, please check your irrational emotions ...
http://lunesoleil23.wordpress.com/20...rrationnelles/

Good stuff...elements of Gurdjieff (the Stop Exercise) and Bio-Energetics.

[Malerogro]

Posted by Paula (here)

Posted by Malerogro (here)
"...I did sent him a letter once, expressing my unconditional love despite of whatever had happened. It took him months to respond and all he could say in the end was that he was caught of guard and blown away. Any ideas on how I can reach him? Or how I can sent positive energy towards him without forcing it upon him or threathening him by it because he cannot except it at this point?

Hi, Malerogro,

I'd say what you and your Dad did is not only honorable but brave. Maybe from time to time you can drop an email or call that says something like "I was thinking of you, thought I'd let you know." Hallmark cards are a big help in that department, too.

It's his journey to accept or reject. As long as your purpose is with highest intentions, he'll receive it on some level. A word of advise from a father/son relationship I was intimately a part of, do not feel rejected if it doesn't come back your way. If alls you want is to send him a loving message, know it's accomplished.

Should you wait for confirmation of his love, then I'd pass along this: if your Dad is from the old school, it may be hard for him to express his feelings. No doubt, he loves you very much and says braggy things when you aren't around.

Hearts,
Paula

Thanks Paula!

Yeah I recognize the 'immediately feeling rejected part' and I am glad I finally have been able to let go of that after great difficulty I might add. Yes he is from the old school and told me once that outside of the home he only told people good things about me. That was pretty much the closest to saying 'I love you' he ever came. Yet I do not know till this day what good things and I don't need to anymore. However, this caused my older halfbrothers to think that my dad and I were much closer then they ever were with him and that made them jealous.

Why does love have to be so complicated in this world? There is so much fear that gets in the way!

The Bully project pretty much proves the point:

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=eUy2ZWoStr0

watching right here and now..

[ulli]

Posted by Malerogro (here)

Posted by Paula (here)

Posted by Malerogro (here)
"...I did sent him a letter once, expressing my unconditional love despite of whatever had happened. It took him months to respond and all he could say in the end was that he was caught of guard and blown away. Any ideas on how I can reach him? Or how I can sent positive energy towards him without forcing it upon him or threathening him by it because he cannot except it at this point?

Hi, Malerogro,

I'd say what you and your Dad did is not only honorable but brave. Maybe from time to time you can drop an email or call that says something like "I was thinking of you, thought I'd let you know." Hallmark cards are a big help in that department, too.

It's his journey to accept or reject. As long as your purpose is with highest intentions, he'll receive it on some level. A word of advise from a father/son relationship I was intimately a part of, do not feel rejected if it doesn't come back your way. If alls you want is to send him a loving message, know it's accomplished.

Should you wait for confirmation of his love, then I'd pass along this: if your Dad is from the old school, it may be hard for him to express his feelings. No doubt, he loves you very much and says braggy things when you aren't around.

Hearts,
Paula

Thanks Paula!

Yeah I recognize the 'immediately feeling rejected part' and I am glad I finally have been able to let go of that after great difficulty I might add. Yes he is from the old school and told me once that outside of the home he only told people good things about me. That was pretty much the closest to saying 'I love you' he ever came. Yet I do not know till this day what good things and I don't need to anymore. However, this caused my older halfbrothers to think that my dad and I were much closer then they ever were with him and that made them jealous.

Why does love have to be so complicated in this world? There is so much fear that gets in the way!

This problem would be less prevalent in a society where grandparents play an active role in family matters, in that they can throw light on the continuity of life.

Your father's parents would be able to open your eyes to how he transited from childhood to adolescence to adulthood...
and perhaps even show you something about the moments where he got stuck.
It's the unresolved issues that cause us to be mentally rigid and even paralyzed.

Maybe if you tried to investigate your father's history...the part of his life before you were born...
This might give you some better understanding.

Most guys were just not prepared for what it means to raise children,
which in my view is also the cause of so many divorces nowadays.

[RunningDeer]

Posted by Malerogro (here)

Posted by Paula (here)

Posted by Malerogro (here)
"...I did sent him a letter once, expressing my unconditional love despite of whatever had happened. It took him months to respond and all he could say in the end was that he was caught of guard and blown away. Any ideas on how I can reach him? Or how I can sent positive energy towards him without forcing it upon him or threathening him by it because he cannot except it at this point?

Hi Malerogro,

I'd say what you and your Dad did is not only honorable but brave. Maybe from time to time you can drop an email or call that says something like "I was thinking of you, thought I'd let you know." Hallmark cards are a big help in that department, too.

It's his journey to accept or reject. As long as your purpose is with highest intentions, he'll receive it on some level. A word of advise from a father/son relationship I was intimately a part of, do not feel rejected if it doesn't come back your way. If alls you want is to send him a loving message, know it's accomplished.

Should you wait for confirmation of his love, then I'd pass along this: if your Dad is from the old school, it may be hard for him to express his feelings. No doubt, he loves you very much and says braggy things when you aren't around.

Hearts,
Paula

Thanks Paula!

Yeah I recognize the 'immediately feeling rejected part' and I am glad I finally have been able to let go of that after great difficulty I might add. Yes he is from the old school and told me once that outside of the home he only told people good things about me. That was pretty much the closest to saying 'I love you' he ever came. Yet I do not know till this day what good things and I don't need to anymore. However, this caused my older halfbrothers to think that my dad and I were much closer then they ever were with him and that made them jealous.

Why does love have to be so complicated in this world? There is so much fear that gets in the way!

The Bully project pretty much proves the point:

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=eUy2ZWoStr0

watching right here and now..

Hi Malerogro,

Watching the video feels like cut glass in my stomach. I couldn’t get passed the 1:11 mark.

I look forward to the day when we no longer need to compared one with another. And words like division and competition will be erased from the dictionary.

I look forward to the day when uniqueness is fostered by us All.

Hearts,
Paula

[Malerogro]

Posted by ulli (here)

This problem would be less prevalent in a society where grandparents play an active role in family matters, in that they can throw light on the continuity of life.

Your father's parents would be able to open your eyes to how he transited from childhood to adolescence to adulthood...
and perhaps even show you something about the moments where he got stuck.
It's the unresolved issues that cause us to be mentally rigid and even paralyzed.

Maybe if you tried to investigate your father's history...the part of his life before you were born...
This might give you some better understanding.

Most guys were just not prepared for what it means to raise children,
which in my view is also the cause of so many divorces nowadays.

Hi Ulli,

Thanks to you too, I love the vibe of the village! Amazing that all this can happen on a internetforum
Investigating my father's history, my goodness! I have been there, done that It got to a point where I seem to knew more about his past than he does about mine. I learned a lot from doing this but it also got me into a destructive pattern because I did it too soon, too young, and too much. There were years I felt like I needed to be more mature then my parents (which is known in psychology as parentification) and it got in the way of my own development. Both my grandmothers died when I was three years old and my father's father got dementia when I was young so I haven't been able to talk to him either. There is one sister who I was thinking of contacting just last week. So hereby I am motivated to persist! This time I hope I can investigate without looking for specific answers

Peace!

[1inMany]

Missing you, for sure...

When I saw the subject matter of that video, my heart sank. You are braver than I, Pauler, I can't even bring myself to watch any of it.

I don't know why this keeps popping up in my thoughts, but back when I was taking a look at how we all could improve the educational systems, I addressed bullying. That was spurred by some things M brought home from school. She is not a victim of bullying, though she once was. She turned into the protector from hell, haha. Anyone who was perceived as different, and would catch the attention of some cruelty, would essentially recoil when M stood up and looked it in the eye. I wouldn't want to face off with her over something like that, I'll tell you that for sure. Haha.

Anyway, there are the root underlying problems of lack of self esteem or lack of recognizing one's own value. Actually that applies to both sides of the bullying coin imo. There is also the lack of empathy, and the lack of responsibility. One way we could help these issues both take hold is restitution, and another is to force (if we had to go that far) people into a position to have compassion.

When I taught, I was asked to design and implement a mentoring and leadership program. I called the participants LifeGuards. Life was an acronym that stood for something or other, funny I can't remember what now. Anyway, the older students mentored the younger students, and the older students took that opportunity and ran with it. I was watching higher up members of this one particular prevalent street gang nurture younger students to keep them off the streets, out of trouble, and give them an "older brother" type of relationship. And one driving force for them, or one common theme that kept recurring, was that the older gang members wanted to keep the younger kids from joining gangs in the first place. It was a moving experience for me.

Instead of detention or in school suspension, we set up Community Service. It was a program in which restitution was made in every situation, no matter the level of severity. If a student somehow damaged school property, the student did community service to restore the property. Caught smoking? Guess who got to pick up cigarette butts, and while they were at it any other trash around the grounds. If a student somehow damaged the non-physical environment, the student did the same for that environment. Caught bullying? Guess who got to make posters for the school hallways that promoted respect and acceptance. And that was the first offense. One particular student was caught stealing from his sister's purse. We had worked and worked with this student, terribly tragic situation at home. But nothing was working. His community service was to write a 10 page essay about why it was wrong to steal. You would have thought we had given him a 10 year prison sentence in the roughest state penitentiary. It was actually funny how well that worked. He had to do a ton of research on the subject to fill up those pages, as he couldn't do it on his own.

Anyway, there are so many things that we could do. But I always ran into that brick wall, head first, of bureaucracy and the ptb. I don't work there any more, now do I? And that wasn't by choice. I was...removed.

I will gladly stand up against the bureaucracy, and blow that brick wall to smithereens, when that is possible. Some things will have to change first, and I wouldn't know how to describe that in a politically correct way. I will put it this way. When the ptb crumble, I bet there will be lots and lots of people like me (people with new ideas and the willingness to share them) who are more than happy to speak up.

Until then, I will stay in my little hole, wrestling with the learning opportunities I have in the Here and Now.

Much Love,

[WhiteFeather]

Happy Birthday to EagleSpirit and All of my love and thoughts to you Nora and B. Incoming

Source: https://youtube.com/watch?v=vAH4Ix0kgiA

Nitĥúŋpi aŋpétu iyúškiŋ yo wanbli tanka
Happy Birthday Eagle Spirit - Lakota

[1inMany]

I don't know, Nora. Mention children, and that always feels like a call to action. I wanted to offer you a message of comfort, or peace...something "nice." You know what struck me? This one:



So, um, I will take that as a message that protection is at the ready.

Much Love,

[1inMany]

That's odd. The image poofed. Let's try the second best...



Doesn't really pop my eyes out like the other one, but does convey the message...

[RunningDeer]

Posted by 1inMany (here)
I don't know, Nora. Mention children, and that always feels like a call to action. I wanted to offer you a message of comfort, or peace...something "nice." You know what struck me? This one:

So, um, I will take that as a message that protection is at the ready.

Much Love,

This'll work. The other one was too large to show.

UPDATE: Oh, man! It came up while I was working on a smaller version. So ya know what means? It's lovins' of another kind...