Posted by Hey it's me
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It all comes from Loving Women. No description fits here, because these are still just words....
I don't know if you want to hear this or how far I should go concerning gender inequalities around the world. Let's just say that when we see women acting as dumb as society allows and encourages men to act, it stands out, until the entertainment and political correctness glorifies the same actions in women and gentrifies stupidity. It has nothing to do with my actions or inaction. All I know is that there are many missed opportunities for women and me because of it.
I would suggest looking into women's eyes. Look at the way they carry themselves. Why should anyone, especially women, allow themselves to be judged by their basic appearance?
Look at the unreported abuses women go thru, especially in such a fake ass 'proud' military that allows such abuse and systemically hides it. The numbers and the silent co-workers, silent fellow soldiers, the silent politicians are many. And on the other hand abused men, because women are more likely to be abused, report abuse even less. I understand the lame mindset but does that make any sense at all?
I am not the only male who didn't join his country's military because I'd have ended up killing abusers. I stopped an older brother twice my age from abusing my sisters, when i was 8, and there wasn't a fraction of hesitation to confront him. Him hitting me hard enough to knock me down only escalated my intent and stopped the abuse, but my mother was a protector of her abusive sons and instilled in them, and some other family males, the same darkness that she experienced with her sisters as a child. This goes to the core of why there is so much inequality. When you have no voice most lives turn to either stopping the abuse or becoming the abuser. If it is not spoken about and dealt with, it always gets worse.
I have listened to men who have moved away from this predominantly catholic, hispanic area simply because of the way so many women treat men as a result of the hidden, yet culturally accepted, familial abuse they survived.
I hesitate to think what my job would be if more women knew me, so I just offer support whenever I can. Luckily, I have 2 great, self-empowered sisters who embody just what women can do in the face of being oppressed. It is not a coincidence that they are more beautiful than the abusive sisters are, because the inner strength shows on the outside. However, that misses the point of this note.
When i say to men, in the presence of women, that i support the self-empowerment of women I can tell how healthy a woman is by her reaction. Those who recoil from the words are usually adapted to self-abuse in some deep way, labeling me as a feminist, which is silly. How can you have a relationship with anyone who doesn't have a healthy relationship with themselves. I appreciate those reactions because it means that no time is wasted connecting with another illness.
Look at what some women have become after they have been abused and no one has done anything to stop it or make things so they don't happen again. My mother was that type in the worst way. She left some failed humans in her wake. In fact when I told her in great detail about what I had seen, heard and felt before I was born she had a shocked reaction, not from knowing i kept my pre-birth memories, but from what those memories could reveal to others about her past, a past that was never healed beyond my h'o pono opno words and intentions.
A good framework is to see how manipulated the feminist movement has been from the beginning. If there really was a movement to insure equality for women their would be guaranteed equal pay. There would be no pay gap. Superficial b.s..
When a serial politician like mrs. clinton, who has gone to deadly lengths to support a serial rapist husband, is offered up as a representative for the rights of women, you know there is a great disconnect from reality in the women who support her. In a country where pink means the support of women in great stress along with a profound and extensive dishonesty about real cancer cures, I can't help but speak up about the disconnect, the greed, and the systemic, institutional abuse of women's bodies.
The only tangible reality of the modern feminist movement is getting other men up to any level of insuring their partner's sexual satisfaction. Men who love women have always been there. Maybe we should offer a few classes, as I have been asked to do, as out of touch that that seems.
The pressures to appear within societal frameworks, dress this way, makeup like this, clothes like that..."Act like a lady". Until you get into the pressures implied by a male dominated society you wouldn't understand, as they are everywhere. For men like me our lives are noted as much for the things we don't do to and with women as for those things we do. That is pathetic, even if i have nothing to do with the abuses.
Also, beyond any spiritual concerns or moral outrage, what does it say about a society where women have been taught that abortion is contraception? Is it a woman's right to be uninformed about the depth and beauty, the detailed nature, of her own cycles, her natural options? (By the way, stevia-the plant based sweetener was used by native women for years as a contraceptive, a hormone disrupter). I wouldn't give anyone outside of a woman's body the so-called moral ground to make her decisions, even if they did have ovaries. Count on religion and manipulated emotions to make both sides of an issue equally ignorant and devoid of the true rights of women.
I can describe "alone" as living in a society without the nurture of women, the nature that is the very essence of the ability and quality of women. Disrupt that and I am only partially present, despite my adaptations to co-exist otherwise.
You ask why, as a father, I know of the condition of many women. It is Love.
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