I was reading this thread today, and wanted to comment to the recent poster who could not relate to Carol's reading at all.
I'm sticking my neck out a bit here, since what I'm about to say will sound off-the-wall-crazy to some readers. However, nothing ventured, so here goes:
I had a reading last year, and it was eerily on target. I found it very helpful. My daughter wanted one, as well, and when hers arrived, she was most disappointed, because it was contradictory and confusing (according to her). She asked me to listen, and after five minutes I was laughing.
You see, a soul is not necessarily of the same personality type as its current host body (in my understanding and experience). In my daughter Julie's case, her soul is a cautious, inward-looking being, not given to expressing emotion, and finding it difficult to demonstrate love, and accept it. Milsalia chose for its host this time around an outgoing, people-oriented, affectionate person. The point for the soul was to learn to loosen up, and experience love more fully -- both giving, and getting.
I have spoken directly to this soul on many occasions (part of my role here, another story). It has lamented its choice of host, and has ended up openly at odds with its host more than once ("No, Mom, you can't talk to Milsalia because she puts me to sleep and won't let me remember what was said and I resent it!")
They have eventually made peace, and learned to respect each other. This took 43 years. It is ironic (to me), since the soul incarnates (again, my own understanding) to experience life(s) as many different kinds of people, to learn the lessons they need as they develop.
Back to Carol. She was describing Milsalia much of the time, and Julie some of the time. She was spot on, and could have no idea of their disparate natures. Since Milsalia is currently experiencing life as Julie, she heard it, too. Consulted, she grudgingly admitted that the psychic had sound advice, and she would do well to follow it.
I ended up getting both of them to laugh about it, and it actually aided their cooperation with each other.
So, I cannot know that this is what happened to you. It is possible, though, and it might make sense for you to explore that issue a bit.
Our lives are a rich and complex tapestry, far beyond my powers to understand it all.
Darned interesting, though.