My husband died... Love Never Disappears

[Gaia]

Saint-Augustin ''Love Never Disappears''delves on the fact that death does not change too much and therefore, the ones left behind should not be sad. Death is just like moving on from one phase of life to the other. The poem, written from the point of view of the dead and deceased, reveals that a departed soul would never like to be remembered with watery eyes. Instead, people alive should behave as nothing ever happened and continue leading a normal life. He, who is gone, may be out of sight, but is not out of mind. Saint-Augustin suggests that each day of our lives should be greeted with a smiling and cheering face, even after the departure of loved ones.


Love never disappears, death is nothing.
I only spent in the next room.
I am me, you're you.
... ... ... What we were for each other,
we still are.

Give me the name you've always given.
Tell me as you have always done.
Does not use a different tone,
do not take a solemn or sad.
Continue to laugh at what made ​​us laugh.
Please, think of me. Pray for me,
have my name spoken at home
as it has always been,
without emphasis of any kind,
without a trace of shadow.

Life means all that it has always meant.
It is what it always has been,
The wire is not cut.
Why should I be out of your mind
just because I'm out of your life ...
I wait, I'm not far away,
just on the other side of the road.
You see, all is well.

Saint-Augustin

I thought everybody would like to know that last night my husband died of lymphoma cancer.


Gaia

[Phoenix]

Gaia, much love to you.

[Lily de Cuir]

Gaia, your post really hit me in the solar plexus. Much Love and Kindness to you. Be gentle with yourself. I can find no other words...
Love Lily
xxx

I am sitting here holding your hands, tears are falling....

[Heyoka_11]

Dear Gaia,

Despite your sound philosophy, I am deeply saddened to learn of your loss.

Much Love to both you and your husband,

Tony.

[mosquito]

I feel for you Gaia and asmire your courage for posting this message so soon.

Much love to you sister.

[Lord Sidious]

Posted by Gaia (here)
Saint-Augustin ''Love Never Disappears''delves on the fact that death does not change too much and therefore, the ones left behind should not be sad. Death is just like moving on from one phase of life to the other. The poem, written from the point of view of the dead and deceased, reveals that a departed soul would never like to be remembered with watery eyes. Instead, people alive should behave as nothing ever happened and continue leading a normal life. He, who is gone, may be out of sight, but is not out of mind. Saint-Augustin suggests that each day of our lives should be greeted with a smiling and cheering face, even after the departure of loved ones.


Love never disappears, death is nothing.
I only spent in the next room.
I am me, you're you.
... ... ... What we were for each other,
we still are.

Give me the name you've always given.
Tell me as you have always done.
Does not use a different tone,
do not take a solemn or sad.
Continue to laugh at what made ​​us laugh.
Please, think of me. Pray for me,
have my name spoken at home
as it has always been,
without emphasis of any kind,
without a trace of shadow.

Life means all that it has always meant.
It is what it always has been,
The wire is not cut.
Why should I be out of your mind
just because I'm out of your life ...
I wait, I'm not far away,
just on the other side of the road.
You see, all is well.

Saint-Augustin

I thought everybody would like to know that last night my husband died of lymphoma cancer.


Gaia

I agree in totality that we should celebrate the changing of status of our loved ones.
Easy for me to say, this is true, but it has always been the Irish way.
Your husband has no pain now and is no longer sick. Being free of the earthly constraints, he is probably feeling disoriented for a bit, then sorry for his family, being left behind.
You will see him again Gaia, have no fear of that.
My best wishes and love to you and your family.

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This one is appropriate for you and your husband. Chai means ''alive'' in Hebrew and have no doubt, your husband is alive, just in a different form. But you know that.

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And of course, You've Got A Friend, when in fact, you have more than you may realise.
I hope that the voice of Ofra helps, I know she always makes me feel better, regardless of how good I feel.

[Sync]

I'm sorry for your loss... there are no words.

Death may not be the end... but you have every right to be sad... every right to be pissed off; blood cancer is a son of a bitch... and you BOTH went through it- are going through it.

As you know, you will see him again.

My love goes out to you.

Are you with family?

[shadowstalker]

Much love and healing and balance to you Gaia..
Mana Moonchild sends her love as well.

[Mike Gorman]

Yes, love goes on and the dead are not forgotten-even for us advanced souls, the sadness of parting is felt
keenly-and so it should be, for we are indeed parted for a time. Blessings and great comfort to you
Gaia, only words I know, but offered just to same...take courage and be gentle with your self.

[Lily de Cuir]

Here's a bit of synchroncity for you. Out on my back porch I can hear a band playing at the tavern, 'You've got a friend', I thought it would be appropriate to send it you. Then Bingo - his Lordship has just posted it. Ya gotta wonder eh?

Love Lily
x

[Wind]

I send you my love, dear friend.

[NeverMind]

There is nothing I could say that you haven't said already, Gaia, and much better than I could.

My thoughts are with you.

[Lily de Cuir]

Pass the tissues someone, I'm balling my eyes out here (again). Sniff. Feel the vibe Gaia - you have full throttle love beams comin' at ya. Bathe in it.
Lily

[cloud9]

Even though we know life goes on it's very sad for the rest of us who stay. I hope your sadness is not too great and you are able to live with love and gratitude.

From the bottom of my heart I'm sending you peace and love.

[1derer]

Posted by Gaia (here)
Saint-Augustin ''Love Never Disappears''delves on the fact that death does not change too much and therefore, the ones left behind should not be sad. Death is just like moving on from one phase of life to the other. The poem, written from the point of view of the dead and deceased, reveals that a departed soul would never like to be remembered with watery eyes. Instead, people alive should behave as nothing ever happened and continue leading a normal life. He, who is gone, may be out of sight, but is not out of mind. Saint-Augustin suggests that each day of our lives should be greeted with a smiling and cheering face, even after the departure of loved ones.


Love never disappears, death is nothing.
I only spent in the next room.
I am me, you're you.
... ... ... What we were for each other,
we still are.

Give me the name you've always given.
Tell me as you have always done.
Does not use a different tone,
do not take a solemn or sad.
Continue to laugh at what made ​​us laugh.
Please, think of me. Pray for me,
have my name spoken at home
as it has always been,
without emphasis of any kind,
without a trace of shadow.

Life means all that it has always meant.
It is what it always has been,
The wire is not cut.
Why should I be out of your mind
just because I'm out of your life ...
I wait, I'm not far away,
just on the other side of the road.
You see, all is well.

Saint-Augustin

I thought everybody would like to know that last night my husband died of lymphoma cancer.


Gaia

Hello Gaia,

I am touched by your thinking and the fact that your Husband has now departed.

I would like to share something with you...

First, at the loss of a loved one, I would like you to know that there soul stays with you for 7 days, and during this time feel free to release you tears, love and emotions so that your Husband understands how much you really care about him.

Second you are right, your Husband will never be too far away, as you are now inseperably linked to him in body, mind and soul.

You must also know that the pain and suffering your Husband felt is now over, and he will pass to a much more beautiful and vivid dimension, for he has ascended.

I know it will be tough for you, and that you know that life must go on, until you meet again, which you will!

This passing is only temporary and whenever you need him, he will be there for you, in your dreams, this I promise!

My Dad left Earth too, after two months of no doubt agonising pain in a hospital, and I wasn't even there to be with him. He was so drugged and with around 7 tubes in his mouth, my Mum gave him her hand, pretending it was me, and he was happy........

He stopped breathing at one point, and was on life support as he had already given up.

I kidded myself and my Mum by telling her that he is strong and will pull through, but when he asked for everyone's presence, he knew the truth.

I haven't seen him in my dreams since April, and I am aching to tell him how much I really loved him (I stopped talking to him properly since around 1990 due to some differences), and never got to express how I felt or the afterlife or to give assurances that we will always be.

However, around a week ago I met him, and gave him a little kiss on the cheek, though still will the silly reservations I had in this existence!)

I think he knows how I feel, and my point is your husband is there too, at all times watching over you as a guardian angel.

I trust this helps you (and me) and want you to know that although you may not know any of us, we are here for you to share and discuss what you may not be able to express with those around you.

Much love and hugs,

1derer.

B Strong.

[seko]

Lots of love to you my friend Gaia.

sENDING You a hug!!

[onawah]

Our hearts go out to you Gaia.
It takes a lot of courage and intelligence to see the positive side of death, but you are doing it, and I admire you for it.
Here's a really positive song for just such an occasion, in memory of your husband, who is flying free now.

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[ViralSpiral]

Dearest Gaia

I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot fill the space. Know that I am thinking of you and thank you for sharing the poem

[D-Day]

Gaia, my condolences.
Sending all the energy I can muster to you and your family right now.
Stay strong!

[Dennis Leahy]

Sending my love your way, Gaia.

Dennis