My husband died... Love Never Disappears

[WhiteFeather]

We shed our tears for with you on your loss. A Beautiful Poem Gaia. Thanks For Sharing your feelings with us. We Love You and are here for you, both at your side and in spirit. You are so brave for sharing your personal life with us. Remember, Death is not the End, But just a new beginning.

Native American Poem:
May the stars carry your sadness away,
May the flowers fill your heart with beauty,
May hope forever wipe away your tears,
And, above all, may silence make you strong.

Chief Dan George

[Limor Wolf]

"a departed soul would never like to be remembered with watery eyes"-

Yet,this is so hard to do,My eyes tears as well. I feel you,Gaia .The connection between two souls, husband and wife, will never be broken,and I am certain you two will continue your shared journey together,later-on,on a different frame. You are one Brave and wise soul,Gaia! and I embrace you ~ We are all here for you.you can spread your feelings,your love ,your agony with us,whenever you wish to do so.~ Much Love to you ~ ,Limor.

[Sierra]

Gaia,

I am thinking of you, holding you in my heart.

Love, Sierra

[Samsara]

Dear Gaia,

My heart goes out to you. May you find peace in these sad times. Your lives have parted for a while, and you must go on. Although you know your husband is now in a better place, your pain is vivid. May the light envelop you and protect you in the coming days and may the sun shine in your heart.

I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers,

Love

Samsara

[Tony]

Dear Gaia,
At this moment we are all at one and in love with you and your husband.
This love in itself be of tremendous help on his journey.

But I still have tears...

[Tarka the Duck]

Dear Gaia

When my dad died, I remember this poem meaning a lot to my mum:

Time does not bring relief; you all have lied   
Who told me time would ease me of my pain!   
I miss him in the weeping of the rain;   
I want him at the shrinking of the tide;
The old snows melt from every mountain-side,   
And last year’s leaves are smoke in every lane;   
But last year’s bitter loving must remain
Heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide.   
There are a hundred places where I fear   
To go,—so with his memory they brim.   
And entering with relief some quiet place   
Where never fell his foot or shone his face   
I say, “There is no memory of him here!”   
And so stand stricken, so remembering him.

With much love

Kathie

[finally there!!!]

Dear Gaia

From one eternal soul to another Namaste

Love you

[Darla Ken Pearce]

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Gaia ~ my heart goes out to you. I hold your hand and send big hugs in this time of transition and sorrow. It is the end of sorrow and pain for your husband. This is a blessing for him to have that part over and a new vistas opened. He wants this pain to end for you, too.

One of the things I noticed when losing my Dad on Easter Sunday and my little companion, Topper, earlier this year ~ was that immediately their spirits were there, so close you could touch them. This "sense" made it much easier for me.

At 93 years old, my Dad had not been able to come and visit me in my home with his physical body but at that moment ~ he was there in spirit and could see everything he'd missed. I thought WOW. This is better than having his body visit. It's so much quicker!

His body was at the point where he was limited in where he could go, where it could take him and what he could do. But spirits have no such limitations. This was a great comfort to me.

This takes the sting out of death. You know, there is no real loss when our hearts remain open to having them around in another dimension, using a different part of our senses to see them. It's like changing the dial on a radio.

You can "tune" in to a different frequency if that is your desire and you are open to it. Unburdened like we are with physical bodies, their spirits are free and are at your beck and call. We can always speak heart-to-heart. Those doors never close.

And the great thing is that we are living in a time when we are getting the desires of our hearts in more ways than one.

Ask and it is given. Imagine and it is given, too. There are no limits now as there was in past days. Those barriers are gone if we will allow it ~ it is given unto us.

In fact, death is no such thing and in truth is just a part of this 3D "illusion." We are Divine and Infinite and much more than these bodies. Once we get out of duality and this denser hologram and dimension ~ we can and will "see" things differently.

The very idea of "Death" has been used as a tool to keep us locked in the 3rd dimension, as if there is only this one part of us, this body, this dimension of us ~ when we are actually multi-dimensional and our lives can never really end.

DEATH IS "THE" ILLUSION HERE.

There is no end to us, you see. As spirits, we realize we are omnipresent and we can travel anywhere without constraints of linear time. I have a saying for this ~ Woo Woo!

Just as we don't mourn the loss of dead skin cells when we shower, (even knowing each one of them is a perfect DNA replica of us), neither have we lost those we love, who are also a part of us.

It is this sense of SEPARATION that is the culprit and faulty idea. There is no separation between us and our creator or us and our skin cells or us and our loved ones. They are, in fact, an intrinsic part of us and we can never really lose them at all. It's an illusion. They are a part of our heart. Know this...

The hardest part is biding farewell to their body. No doubt about it. Even though our hearts know there is no loss, our senses and the fact that we do cherish their body no matter how broken or aged it had become, well, this is the hardest part. We do cherish them. But if they can get over it, we can get over it and move on quickly from there.

A transition is required and all of our senses must adapt to "feeling" them in another dimension. It happens quickly once we realize ~ there is no loss involved just the illusion of it.

Whenever sadness creeps over you.

Stop and close your eyes. Imagine your husband or loved one near you and yes, they are not burdened by anything in the universe and stand by your side on the instant of this thought of them. Much love to you Gaia and a big hug. xoxox

Besides words ~ here is my anti-dote for sorrow, The Great Bell Chant to signal the end of all sorrow. Listen and let it signal your heart, too, because this day without sorrow is upon us now, if we can allow it. Listen and let it wash away the pain. And so it is...Amen.


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[alienHunter]

very sorry, the spirit indeed lives on

[blake]

Dear Gaia,

Death is the wake up calls of all wake up calls. The emotions of facing the reality of a death of a loved one are beyond complicated. My heart goes out to you. I send good thoughts that you will be surrounded by the support you need when you need it. Please be extra kind to yourself as the weeks and months roll by as you step by step start to rebalance your life. It is never easy. The following poem is one for me that I have found meaningful, if not comforting, when faced with the reality of a death. Again, my sincere condolences.

Sincerely,

Mr. Davis

Miss Me But Let Me Go - Unknown

When I come to the end of the road
and the sun has set on me,
I want no rites in a gloom filled room,
why cry for a soul set free.
Miss me a little--but not too long,
and not with your head bowed low,
Remember the love that we once shared,
miss me--but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take,
and each must go alone.
It's all a part of the Master's plan,
a step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart,
go to the friends we know.
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds,
miss me--but let me go.

[percival tyro]

May I agree, all is well. Wishing you fond memories and a happy life.

[Czarek]

Most deepest and sincere condolences to you and your family Gaia.

[ulli]

I don't know what to tell you, Gaia. You have my deepest sympathies, of course, but I have had a year or so of being extremely angry at loss and death...
It just makes me mad that life is set up that way.
My faith used to be so strong that I would say 'Hey, death means we can now be flying', etc...
and all those NDEs people are having...but to come to terms with the feeling of abandonment is not something I have succeeded at.
When you do you may want to send some consoling words my way.
I know this is not your average condolence letter...so I apologize. May this wonderful group of loving people help you with your tears...and if anger at loss and abandonment overtakes you, perhaps my little post will come in handy, as I do understand.

[Unified Serenity]

Oh Gaia,

I know you know truth and your words are true, and yet the pain must still be there for the loss of him. I send you love, comfort, and peace now and for those moments when you sense the loss greatest. I am so sorry for your loss. May he be at peace and enjoy his rewards.

Love,

Serenity

My father passed July 1st, and this was his favorite poem as a flyer he was. I find it peaceful.

"High Flight"

Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I’ve climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth
of sun-split clouds, — and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of — wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov’ring there,
I’ve chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air....

Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I’ve topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace.
Where never lark, or ever[8] eagle flew —
And, while with silent lifting mind I have trod
The high untrespassed sanctity of space,
- Put out my hand, and touched the face of God.

[Mandala]

Gaia, I am truly sorry for your loss. There is nothing any of us can say to fill the void. Please know that we care and share your loss with you. May love and peace fill your heart, and may you know he is with you always.

In love and comfort, Mandala

[Anna]

Gaia, big hug from Anna

[Referee]

I am deeply sadened to hear about your loss. I am sending you my love and prayers.

[Borden]

I don't know you, but I think you are very brave. If what I hope is true, then you will be surrounded and attended by something or someone very wise and positive right now. I am sure your husband is very proud of you.

Best wishes, Borden

[Lisab]

For you dear Gaia as I know you love a good quote and also because my own words fail me.

Death makes angels of us all and gives us wings where we had shoulders smooth as raven's claws....JIM MORRISON..An American Prayer

All my love to you and yours Lisa x

[nearing]

((((((((((((((Gaia)))))))))))))))

He is blessed to be released from suffering. You are blessed to continue having him in your heart.

Love to you and your family.