This is it for me also- always 'moving the ball forward' is what I'm interested in and the experience of evolving my Self and of others evolving their Selves in whatever way works for them, as you say: do no harm and do not infringe upon the free will of another.Posted by StarDust (here)
Personally, I don't have any interest in proving or disproving what this or that person is doing with regard to their own spiritual advancement. It accomplishes nothing from my perspective. It doesn't move the ball forward or have an effect on my mission. In this regard, I'm happy to respect others expression of self provided that it does not infringe on the free will or cause harm to another.
That's what I call 'sui generis' and I love it: if this truly was the way that Being was embraced, all conflict and dissonance would cease, imo.