There are many kinds of sadness, and many forms of suffering. Sometimes we can exorcise these demons through their candid discussion. That is the intent of this thread.
I try not to inundate the boards with new threads when the topic being addressed can better be accomplished in an already existing thread. I also try to provide something for everyone, and not be too self-indulgent. The intention here stuck me as sufficiently broad. A place to air grievances.
I've seen much discussion of the emotional body, and an acknowledgement that emotions are typically one of two types; those with an identifiable or tangible cause, and those that seem to arise out of nowhere. Further it's been implied that these 'causeless' emotions arise from lack of control over ones E-body.
I believe there is a third type; that which is essentially systemic to the individual. Typically born of multiple causes or issues which are fundamental to one's reality, even if these causes are individually identifiable.
I don't enjoy dwelling upon the negative, and when it is necessary I typically do so in private. As I stated before, though, I do think that the communicative process can be very helpful at times, as I want it to be for any members here who might be encountering difficulty. I don't want this thread to become a source of additional negativity, however, or a pissing match about who's got it worse. We should all be aware that everyone has problems in life and encounter unique challenges of our own along the way. And out of respect for the forum rules, no one here is ultimately liable for anyone else. I acknowledge that no one is responsible for my thoughts or actions but me.
On my end of things, I've been trying to process a sense of powerlessness, if not even defeat. The proverbial winds have been taken from under my sails. I admit, this is a familiar place, but with the progress that I thought I'd made since then, I did not expect it to be so strong.
I don't know if it's ironic or not, but I feel that one of the root causes stems from my quest for higher truths. This forum has been a veritable gold mine, and has lead me to other places which have contributed greatly to my continuing knowledge and broadening awareness. The phrase, "the more you know, the more you realize you don't know," has certainly come to mind. Even still there are pages of reading that I intend to do, and although I may not hit "thanks" in every case I feel I owe you all, even those who I may disagree with.
I recently listened to an interview with George Kavassilas in which he described many of the new age movements as an intentional misguidance of the human spirit, en masse. For those who are curious, here is the link: https://youtube.com/watch?v=TZL5Yc3G7H8
Although I am not taking his account to be absolute fact, it did seem to correspond with other paradigms I have read of which I can't entirely refute.
I thought of all the people there are, and have been, and particularly the people here; if so many wise and insightful people can be deceived by ordinary means, what chance can I possibly stand? To avoid being tricked, avoid being trapped... One of the worst remaining fears I have is one I fundamentally can't conquer. I believe in reincarnation but I am terrified that I'm bound to keep coming back here. Even once more feels like more than I can bare. So it becomes absolutely imperative that I get it done this time, no mistakes.
There's simply no way I can assure myself that I will.
Self doubt is my greatest enemy, I think. It always has been. I am all too aware, unfortunately, that the only person who can fix that fault is me.