Posted by Skyhaven (here)
People come and go, that's life, but it is important to me that universal 'laws' are reflected back in every control structure. That's what makes great nations, and communities. Unconditional love is one of them. If one gets to be born into/accepted into a community as a full member it is very important that one is supported through good and bad.
So in this analogy if we can make Bill God for a second, it would be an improvement when people didn't just drop dead if they said something out of line, but let internal resistance make everything balance out again, in the meantime God can then focus on the hackers from within and without that really want to disrupt the system/world, and who gets to be allowed into the system/world.
As above so belowPosted by Bill Ryan (here)
Yes, I understand! But you may be missing out on a LOT that it seems you may not know is here, available to everyone.Posted by Skyhaven (here)
So, until I feel more comfortable perceiving Avalon as a full community, I am not going to be a full community member in the sense you are describing it. I am sticking with the perception of Avalon being a source of great content and nice people.
Many threads are nothing at all about information. The examples below make up the HEART of a true community.
In fact, the quality is far higher than many actual real-world communities out there. In many real-world 'communities', people still feel lonely, misunderstood and isolated. True community is far better understood by traditional societies, and villages that existed hundreds of years ago (and, in some places, still do).
- Here's Joe Sustaire's beautiful and moving account of the death of his beloved wife, Patty:
Hold Hands, Make Faces, and Laugh!
- AngelEyes' desperate plea for help and support, here (which was answered by MANY members sharing experiences and advice of their own):
Cutting/ Self-harm
- Two profound experiences of my own that I'd invite all members to read:
An experience that changed my life
A day in the mountains: a tale of forgiveness
- Ulli's Here and Now...What's Happening? (one of the longest and most remarkable threads on the internet)
And MANY, MANY, MANY others. Here are just a few from the last 24 hours alone:
- Lionhawk's inspiring and powerful Put Another Log On The Fire
I could extend the list literally for pages! But you may understand my point. Of course, it's all a massive buffet of all kinds of wonderful things (shared and contributed by wonderful people).... and one can pick and choose each day. or each visit, according to one's mood, personality or needs. The only point I'm making here is that to regard Avalon as a source of hard information only may be really quite limiting.
Posted by ulli (here)
I don't see unconditional love as being "universal law", but rather as an ideal beyond all laws.Posted by Skyhaven (here)
People come and go, that's life, but it is important to me that universal 'laws' are reflected back in every control structure. That's what makes great nations, and communities. Unconditional love is one of them. If one gets to be born into/accepted into a community as a full member it is very important that one is supported through good and bad.
So in this analogy if we can make Bill God for a second, it would be an improvement when people didn't just drop dead if they said something out of line, but let internal resistance make everything balance out again, in the meantime God can then focus on the hackers from within and without that really want to disrupt the system/world, and who gets to be allowed into the world.
To get there takes a bit of work. For both the receiver, as well as the one who dishes it out.
Universal laws operate more in a duality system which keeps all of life in motion, going through motions.
Like centrifugal force versus gravity.
Unconditional love...ahhh!!!!
Now I can relax, and anything goes, put my feet up.
But when I do mess up, you can bet that my otherwise non-communicative son will suddenly pop out and slap me on the wrist, in public, on FB.
Like when I posted something on crisis actors.
The great debunker is always lurking in the dark...lol.Yes...I hear you.Posted by Sierra (here)
Hmmm... I think some of us want a true community, but imposition of "trueness" from an outside source tends to distort individual "trueness".Posted by breal (here)
well...here is another idea...
Maybe we could draw up a blueprint for what a "true" community could potentially look like for us on PA, now and in the future?
If we all would really want that of course
And the arguments about what would be defined as truth.
I tend to think our own energy, our frequency, is what attracts us to individuals to which we can form community with comfort and happiness.
Just my .02
It was once asked of me what I thought a true community was and I really had to think about it for some time.
An answer was given to me by the asker...They said that it is when you know everyone's name that true community exists.
I thought that whilst it was really simple that it was also a really profound statement.
I don't know if that was the whole answer to what a true community consisted of but I was prepared to do whatever it took to be in a true community here - if that is what everyone else wanted for themselves and each other.
Oh well...never mind