Posted by Lifebringer
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I would have had 19, I had to make choices for family planning. I'm what plantation owners referred to as: "A breeder." When the birth control started causing tumors because of multiple egg passages per month, I took it into my own hands, and demanded sterilization. The birth control was not accessible because of price, and domestic violence would occur if refusal in the marriage of sex took place. Those days are long gone now, but no one would have known had I not told them "a woman's business" in a man's world. I believe there are even herbs that can do a few things to bring on a menses that the old women used to give to space children. I just looked at PBS in the upper African region in the rural areas. A guy about 30 w/15 children, and no way to care for them. He says he has a hard time providing for his 4 wives and 15 children. Well that was just stupid to have pleasure, and then not take care of the results. Did he bed more women as wives because he didn't like that menses or 9 month pregnancy wait? All I can say is it seems mighty strange that when it comes to population, that the women and children die as a result of some manly rutting of dominance. Then they start the wars, and kill what we are blessed to bring into the world, take care of, and educate, then what? An apology? Yeah right.
And just to give detail on this irresponsible parent of 15, 4 wives and no job or way to take care of them. He was Islamic/Muslim Arab, and not African. I do believe over the last 4o years the number of children/black African children has declined, but ME will have NO one telling them how many children to have, and that is why they have so many conflicts where everyone wants to rule over others weaker, meeker or poorer than them.