Avalon Singles
 

I felt inspired to create this thread to bring together people who may be looking for a little star-inspired romance! If you are a single and want to meet people of like mind, here is a place to do it. Please state your stats honestly and enjoy...

Now, I am happily married. So this will be my last post here. :lol3:

But, I am one of the lucky ones who has a husband who is also Ground Crew. This is rare. I know a lot of you out there who have been finding it difficult to find like minded partners. Why not try here?
Peace of Mind,
Worm

Best of Luck and remember, "To be loved, be lovable!" - Ovid:wub2:

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Ok, i am divorced. But i doubt any romance when we are thousands miles away from one another makes sense...

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burgundia: you never know who else is reading this site from Poland? Maybe you could state if your male or female, age etc.

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Anybody from Poland will know that I am a female because of my nick:original: however I do not want to disclose too much personal information about me on the open forum....

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Ok then.......not sure how this will work then. I do agree not too much personal info, but we will need to say something in order to get a certain someones attention:mfr_lol:

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There is always pm

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Bingo......that solves it:mfr_lol:

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Ok....I'll throw my hat in the ring also.........female, divorced, late 50's.....where are all the great guys in my age group:wink2:

Changed my mind, I withdraw my hat. This thread has turned into a state of confusion. Too many mixed messages from some posters. My apologies to wormhole, I thought this actually might be a serious opportunity to connect with a potential partner of like mind, but I feel the thread has been hijacked.

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Single here and when asked by friends if I needed a woman or even a man, I declined. I need no one. I'm simply not interested in pursuing romance or anything with anyone. I attribute it to years of letdowns and broken hearts.

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a let-down implies an eXpectation

perhaps, it is wise, to let them, find you

if you are eXactly what they are looking for

perhaps, there will be NO let-down

and, if it is your heart, that has been broken -

at least, you know, you have a heart - that can feel ;)

that is a great thing of value to have, and, to hold

the best thing is, that it is only good when it is active

and, it only getting better, when it is shared

it starts, i think, with sharing your lower self with your higher self

and, when you have forged that connection

PURRhaps then, you are ready for someone else
to enter the equation

i would rather be happy and alone

than be with another, that does NOT make me happier

i think another,
can simply make us, happier NOT happy

remember anything that is good that is shared,
is NEVER halved, but doubled

love / susan
the eXchanger

(i have been single for 50 years)

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i think, those that lie / and, cheat
look for those, they think,
they can pull wool over their eyes,

since you are single
it's a good sign,
as, it is quite apparent,
you do NOT keep others around that do such things

you may attract them...
however, it appears, you repeal them,
equally well

that is what is called doing "good work" ;)

love / susan
the eXchanger

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I'm looking for my galaxy girl/space princess/love goddess

http://Luminari.fileave.com/goddess.jpg

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I think they should add a box some where that you tick so all of us can tell if you are male or female. Thats not revealing too much, is it?
http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/...room-signs.jpg
Henry

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I think a box in the middle also-hermaphrodite/eunuch!lol.

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: :mfr_lol: WTF U R http://freshimagehosting.com/images/...esvv7vld5w.jpg :lmao: Hermaphrodite. I love Avalon

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You can tell by my avatar that I'm male :original:
If I was female I'd have hair

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this meeting people online
is actually, pretty strange, and,
can also be pretty weird

people using webcams ... half naked / or completely naked
and, think cause they are doing that,
you too should also join them, in doing it too :mfr_lol:

(that isn't going to happen)

(the old statement-- fair is fair,
you see me, and, now, i should see you)

(like monkey see, monkey will do)

and, chat lines, that show others that
have an eyeball on your computer,
however, do you really want to give someone
a birds eye view of you & your home,
that you do NOT know ???

i also wonder if anyone else, can see you, without it turned on ???

also, i have had people send odd things

i once had a guy from wales,
a professional photographer,
who was quite an interesting guy,
however, i suppose, when his brain ran out of things to talk about,
he started sending me
photos of other women, he was photographing,
in a sideline business of his,
and, i am sure, they would NOT have appreciated him,
sending these shots, to others ...
and, then, shortly after, him starting to do that
he actually send 3 shots of his member aka his privates
and, although they were good shots
i actually NEVER responded back to him
as, i felt, he likely sent this to a lot of different women,
and, it had the exact opposite reaction,
i am sure, that he thought it would have,
as, it actually totally shut me down ...

i am sure, he thought, sending those 3 photos
of himself, would have had the exact opposite reaction
and, had me running towards him,
instead, i figured, if that is all he thinks of himself
to send pictures of himself totally nude to others,
esp. me, who he didn't really know,
who else does he send these types of picture too ???

it is a strange world, as, it is,
online, perhaps, it is even stranger

women do like nice guys

i often hear nice guys say,
women are NOT interested in nice guys

however, maybe it is only the nice guys,
who finish in the end

on the topic of online dating sites...
i think a lot of busy people utilise them,
so, they do NOT feel lonely,
or, can have their hands in 101 cookie jars,
at the same time

perfect a form letter--and, you are set :mfr_lol:

yesterday, i went out,
to check out some local places to have a meeting...
and, it was quite obvious
who the people where, who were meeting people for the 1st time
from online dating sites

my friend elaine, and, i, had some very good laughs !!!

love
susan
the eXchanger

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I agree henners!

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Online dating? never! I just need to find someone with money so I can stay home. Not because I'm lazy, but I love to cook and grocery shop and all that good stuff.Hmmm I guess I would make someone a good husband, oops I mean boyfriend. LOL! I'll never say the M word, as in marriage.

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Neither will I. One experience is enough.

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I always wondered where they stored their nuts!lol.

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Interesting point that Henners raises, i'm always thinking that posts are from men when i finally discover they're from a woman, and posts i think are from women are from men.....hehehehe - but this is the first internet forum i've ever particpated in so i guess i'm just not clued up enough!

I "deconstructed" my life a short while ago, let everything go, including shaving my hair hahaha but its a natural process when your consciousness or vibration changes, you simply can't stay where you were. I'm not sure where things will go from here, except i know that the world we create is a mirror of our thoughts, so you will attract into your life the same vibration. Something exciting is always just around the corner......

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I must correct my original post by adding that even though I am not interested, I still long to find someone that I can connect with. For some reason, it's not easy to find time to do so with the kind of schedule I put myself through.

Certainly not bitter but at a point where I want people more than I need them.

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Hey HJ, how did you come up with the name "humble janitor"? I really like it, its one of the best "pen" names i've come across, near perfect! Its such an ego-free concept....you see egos everywhere, even on the avalon forum! I used to do seminars with top business guys and i always started with a section on egos and how ego-based decisions can wreck viable companies...well, i'm out of all that now...phew! best, Piers

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I am a single woman and I would like to hear from a single Avalon man about my age (64), in a private message...

Thanks, Wormhole, for this.

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Hey c'mon folks this post isn't that cynical.,read between the lines..
Have a listen-quality music;even for the youngsters.
I'm not in love,10cc.:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rgepWg4rzw

dreadlock hols. for helv and brinto an' crew!!lol.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVArC_klWEI

Lyrics:

I was walkin' down the street
Concentratin' on truckin' right
I heard a dark voice beside of me
And I looked round in a state of fright
I saw four faces one mad
A brother from the gutter
They looked me up and down a bit
And turned to each other

I say
I don't like cricket oh no
I love it
I don't like cricket no no
I love it
Don't you walk thru my words
You got to show some respect
Don't you walk thru my words
'Cause you ain't heard me out yet

Well he looked down at my silver chain
He said I'll give you one dollar
I said You've got to be jokin' man
It was a present from me Mother
He said I like it I want it
I'll take it off your hands
And you'll be sorry you crossed me
You'd better understand that you're alone
A long way from home

And I say
I don't like reggae no no
I love it
I don't like reggae oh no
I love it
Don't you cramp me style
Don't you queer on me pitch
Don't you walk thru my words
'Cause you ain't heard me out yet

I hurried back to the swimming pool
Sinkin' pina coladas
I heard a dark voice beside me say
Would you like something harder
She said I've got it you want it
My harvest is the best
And if you try it you'll like it
And wallow in a Dreadlock Holiday

And I say
Don't like Jamaica oh no
I love her
Don't like Jamaica oh no
I love her oh yea
Don't you walk thru her words
You got to show some respect
Don't you walk thru her words
'Cause you ain't heard her out yet

I don't like cricket
I love it (Dreadlock Holiday)
I don't like reggae
I love it (Dreadlock Holiday)
Don't like Jamaica
I love her (Dreadlock Holiday)

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This one is for all of you valentino lovers of cricket-chill test music,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGnYu...eature=related



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGLsAkeRd84

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Dreadlock Holiday :thumb_yello:

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Hello All
I've recently joined Avalon Forum. My Birth Certificate classifies me as 50 but age doesn't mean anything to me now and it doesn't come into my mind much :original:
I haven't had a partner since 1998 after my second divorce. I've learnt that my partner relationships were doomed to failure because they were built on illusions of romantic love and expectation. I don't have expectations and
I'm not looking for a partner just trying to build friendships but you know the saying...never say never.....who knows i might be with a co pilot one day?
I agree with you eXchanger that it's better to be without a partner than being in a relationship that isn't right. It's great to be absorbed and fulfilled pursuing interests and activities that you enjoy or interest you.....like reading all the thought provoking and interesting material on Avalon for one. :thumb_yello:
One day at a time
Kind Regards
Helen

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Hi everyone, well i'm not looking for anyone because i've been married 38 years this year phewwwww!! does that warrant a trophy or something!
Anyway what a good idea for you singles to get together.

Many would say i guess that they are concentrating on their higher self and this would only complicate the matter but hey you can still do that and find a like minded person to share your life with.
Especially here i would say this is probably the best place to find someone.

My other half is convinced i'm chatting to guys all night lol!!
Well he's right isn't he ha ha!

But seriously, i think if he could use the pc he would be on here as much as me!
He listens and watches all the camelot interviews with me.

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I think this is a funny thread!

I am female 33, divorced...

Many of my ex's were narcissists..one MAJOR sociopath..a "junkie/musician/actor"....lots of "creative" guys that ended up getting envious and then "competing" with me...

I have my moon sign in Aquarius so i am not "typical" of a "female"...i love people but i don't "need" anyeone...I am very independent and need some decompressing "breathing room" because i work very hard everyday multi-tasking many different things. I am not clingy nor do i like it. I stayed too long in all of my relationships because i can't deal with making anyone cry so i am the suffer in silence withdraw from reality type...

I have cleared my life the past few years to just the basics...

Work,family,doggy,....only nice people as "friends" ...research, reading, creating, living, helping peeps...etc..

I feel quite exhausted on the relationship front...

feel like i want to make up some "lost time" from giving my energy to the wrong peeps...

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i was married for 12 years. I am not in a relationship right now but I am not sure I want to be. I am happy living my life the way it is. I am alone but i do not feel lonely. I guess I do not necessarily need another person by my side to be happy.
The relationships of most of my friends are falling apart now so there is nothing I could envy them.

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This has to be the most "uplifting" pop video I've ever watched...my favourite all-time pop vid....so perfect for anyone feeling down and alone...there's a great world out there..its the Avalanches "since i left you"...if it doesn't bring a tear to any singles eyes I'll eat my socks!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMg9kX_K21k

Anyway, it felt right for me seven years ago.....

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i think, that, you got to find someone
who you just can NOT live without...

and, that you have to be
very specific, in what you want,
and, what it is, that you are willing,
to give, in order to receive, what you want

it is a two = way street

however, most people i have encountered
seem to see, the street, as having one way, their way
what is in it for me ? and, they forget there is an US

and, myself, when i see that,
i take the next exit, off the ramp,
why bother --
if you can NOT improve anothers life,
and, another can NOT improve your life
then, why bother to waste time,
being in it !!!

personally, i think the key words are
being caring, kind, and, thoughtful
and, giving more, than you take
and, remembering a life that is properly shared,
is never halved, but doubled

after 50 years of being successfully single...
i think, i learn,
how to wear the pants/and, wear the skirt
in my family - and, as a result of that
i think, i would have the potential to be a good partner,
for the right person

being with the wrong type of person, is draining

and, who needs that !!!

another is there to make us happier, NOT happy

and, who has time, for sad sacks with sad tales

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There is a proverb:better alone than in a bad company...

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HaHa great video piers!

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you futureyes have that talent to say so beautifully what I think:original: and feel. There is poetry in your heart....

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Sorry to throw this in here but whoever enjoyed that video can't dare to miss frontier psychiatrist.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8BWBn26bX0

Regards the two way street, I also found that couples that try too hard to be a single unit don't make it either.