I'm new here...I'm in R.I. Gregor, my parents are in Lovell, Maine, so I'd just scoot myself and family up to their big old farmhouse when TSHTF. It's a fairly high elevation, lots of water nearby, and just feels "safe" for lack of a better thought-out reason.
One of these days, I should get a camera for this old machine; I think video-conferencing would be a good idea.
What saddens me with thinking about this stuff: I have a brother in prison sentenced to 15 years, 10 to serve. My little state isn't much higher than sea level...and he cannot escape any major catastrophic weather event.