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Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

And what happens if it doesn't work and it screws up my job?

It's bad enough that I just can't push myself to take the risk. It's times like this that I wish I knew how to use telepathy.

Also, tell me something: If a woman is super friendly to you, smiles at you and generally acts like this EVERY TIME you see her, what is that? Is that interest or is she just a really nice person? Am I reading too much into this? I can't tell anymore.

hj ... then perhaps you have made up your mind to not persue this any further ...

i remember awhile back you wrote of how much you like your job ... then this is to be respected and there no longer is a dilemma ...

life is full of risks ... let us call them opportunities rather ...
when opportunity knocks ... it is for a reason ... you can answer ... or not ...
i feel ... if we answer ... we grow ...
and we learn ...
and we experience ...

growth facilitates joy and happiness ...
and as well ... we can be met with challenges ... at times with sadness ...

no experience ... is ever for not ...
free will ... is to answer the knock ... or not ...

i do understand where you are at ... i like ross h's suggestion of asking her out for coffee ...
yet if the stars align in doing so ... you are still left with your question ... that if it doesn't work for some reason ... it will mess up your job ...

only you can know your answer ...

with love ...