I may be in danger of sounding condescending, but I think under both sexes sexual postering and bravado, is a deep desire to connect, and be, with the one, the love of their life. And where are the role models in this world, for loving committed relationships? There arent any, not on any of our media. Is been planned that way!!!
I like that Avalon doesn't get overly stroppy with rules. Its better, to me, if behaviour is moderated by members themselves, by others putting forward better alternatives to base attitudes and behaviour. Women need to step up to the base, so to speak, and teach men how they wish to be related to. As Thelma says to Louis, "You Get What Ya Settle For'.
Cheers
Carmen