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Originally Posted by Deoxyan
I donīt trust in kids who think of themselves as awesome This is out of order. Stop insulting people here. |
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Since when is there something wrong with being awesome?
Every day when i wake up the first thing i think to myself is "i am so ******* awesome" .. then i go about my day real good and happy basking in the knowledge of my awesomeness. Because every single one of us is truly awesome, beyond what mere words can explain. Its nothing bad to recognise your own divinity. We only dislike others when they make us think about ourselves. (so let this be a lesson, tut tut etc) But aside from that, deoxyan is entitled to his opinion. In fairness, noone should be bashed for that neither. Last edited by Anchor; 11-05-2008 at 01:14 AM. Reason: Please dont try to defeat the word censor. Thanks |
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you could stop harassing me because i deleted the posts i put.
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@All: Any more posts not on the topic (see the title) of this thread in this thread will get "moderated"
My thanks and respect for those that self edited. Thanks. A.. -- Judge the message not the messenger. -- |
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Ah young people and teenagers, reminds me of Nirvana=Smells Like Teen Spirit, or Skid Row=18 and Life,or Youth Gone Wild
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http://deoxy.org/infantile.htm "by John Zerzan Among the young there are quite a few examples of a tendency to regress or turn back. Whether or not these phenomena are characteristic of something called "Generation X" we must leave for media to determine; after all, it's their job to define and make intelligible social reality. That aside, I think there are aspects of regression that are noteworthy/possibly significant, and which need to be put in context. Childhood was once a place of refuge, a secure zone of protection and innocence. For some time, however, as with every other part of life, the commodity and its attendant forms of violence have invaded this sphere. And yet it continues to represent a sort of haven, if some youth fashions are any indication. The waif look and Dr. Seuss-style clothes reflect this yearning to go back to a relatively better time and place. Seeing teens in oversized shirts and sweaters, for example, the sleeves hiding their hands, gives one a pronounced impression that they fear where they're headed and would like to be small children again. As in the case of putting a question mark on every utterance, "like" bespeaks an indirectness that borders on fear of connecting with reality. Popular forms of speech are another site of regression, it is possible to argue. Making statements into questions by the use of rising intonation is a type of stepping back from reality. The declarative sentence becomes an entreaty, "am I right in making even the most inoccuous assertion?" The speaker unconsciously questions his or her ability to say anything straightforwardly. The infinitely overused "like", as ubiquitous qualifier, also seems to signify a reversion, or evasion of adulthood. As in the case of putting a question mark on every utterance, "like" bespeaks an indirectness that borders on fear of connecting with reality. "We like went to the beach." Did you go or not? Reigning pop culture screenwriter Quentin Tarentino cannot seem to refrain from "like" in his own speech, an instance of postmodern semi-literacy. In the high-tech age of virtual reality perhaps reality is becoming virtual in a less noticed sense than VR. Non-literacy is in a very important sense a reaction to the tremendous accumulation of lies that comprises modern culture and everyday life. Which brings to mind the tendency toward illiteracy itself. While certainly not confined to the young generation, this development is less one of others' losing their literacy than it is of youth having less interest in adopting it than in previous times. The young Sartre once proclaimed that "No-one has written a word of truth about us." Non-literacy is in a very important sense a reaction to the tremendous accumulation of lies that comprises modern culture and everyday life. Television, a passive and in that respect childish form of mass media, has never been so widely consumed. Today's youth are not the first TV generation, but are more and more subject to what is often even stupider than before. Sociologist Vicki Abt revealed in fall 1994 her estimation, based on the study of 1,000 hours of Oprah, Donahue, and Sally Jessy Raphael, that 90 percent of the guests are illiterate. She draws the unmistakable conclusions as to the effects on viewers' literacy levels. To be obsessed with entertainment is reportediy a characteristic of "twentysomethings". And why not? Who could feel more betrayed in the desert of late capitalist nothingness than those most immersed in its recent worsening, and more desperately in need of diversion from its horrors? Today's music exhibits the themes of regression with a vengeance, or, I suppose one should say, without a vengeance. Doe-eyed gamin Kate Bush ("Mother Stands for Comfort," "The Warm Room") tends toward a retreat to childhood, while album cover art displays takes on kiddies, dolls, and the like (from groups like Dinosaur Jr., Stone Temple Pilots, Mutha's Day Out, Babes in Toyland, Sonic Youth). Nowhere was this more graphic than with Nirvana, whose third and final album was called In Utero. Returning to the womb was a recurring theme of Kurt Cobain, the anguished wail of one whose childhood could certainly not be taken for an idyll, in life or art. His regression was driven to its furthest point, in life and art. If punk in the late '70s drew on a vital rage, rock today, to generalize grandly, is more about powerlessness, fear, violation, confusion. Not that any of this is exactly new. The notebooks of Theodor Adorno fifty years ago were the basis for his Minimalia Moralia, a collection of short pieces that was subtitled Reflections on Damaged Life. He referred to his own damage; life in divided society is no abstraction, it damages each of us increasingly. In The New Yorker (March 7, 1994), reviewer Terrence Rafferty complained that the movie Reality Bites failed to give a clear picture of the new generation; it left one feeling "puzzled and vaguely crummy." Soon after, a letter to the editor by Josh Cohen provided this reply: "I hate to be the one to tell him this, but feeling puzzled and vaguely crummy pretty much is the experience of the new generation." Under "regression" one might add the seemingly more common occurrence of young adults returning to live with their parents. In a context of so few jobs that pay relatively decent wages, many cannot afford to do otherwise. Beyond that fact of life, there is a widespread rejection of white-collar careerism. But this refusal, in the absence of grounds for idealism, does not translate into freely chosen poverty or marginality. Thus, unlike the young in the '60s or even '70s, more choose to live with parents or accept, where possible, major support from them. Depression has been widely touted as endemic to the twentysomething generation, which explains the resonance of books like Elizabeth Wurtzel's confessional Prozac Nation: Young and Depressed in America (1994). As psychologist Martin Seligman's best-selling 1990 Learned Optimism put it, "Severe depression is 10 times more prevalent today than it was 50 years ago, and it strikes a full decade earlier in life on average than it did a generation ago." Among the news of rising drug use and its incidence among younger and younger age groups, there were two national studies in 1994 concerning the "startling" increase of binge drinking by college students, especially women. 'They reported rampant alcohol abuse leading to violence, vandalism, and other types of aggression. Such feelings and behaviors testify to frustration and despair that have nowhere to go when the social landscape is so frozen. Such feelings and behaviors testify to frustration and despair that have nowhere to go when the social landscape is so frozen. Disaffection or even opposition are quickly marketed into salable style images; alienation as fashion. Meanwhile suicide, perhaps the ultimate regression, has been on a steady rise for several decades. And not just in the U.S., by the way. In Japan, Wataru Tsurumi's Complete Manual of Suicide (1993) sold over 200,000 copies in its first few months, chiefly to those under thirty. Eating disorders are trademark afflictions of today's young people and mirror the powerlessness of one's very early years. To not eat harks back to the stage at which this choice is almost the only option for protest. Retreating from the world of school, occupations, etc., it constitutes, according to Kim Chernin's The Hungry Self (1985), "an extremely effective way to stop the movement into the world." For the past couple of decades or so, the psychological model of the individual has been that of Narcissus, named for the self-absorbed mythological figure. The popular Culture of Narcissism by Christopher Lasch (1979) was part of the shift from the earlier long-standing Oedipus personality paradigm. Today's dominant type is now one of longing for the absence of unsatisfied yearnings, a harkening back to an original unity/wholeness/perfection. The young, as might be surmised, are pre-eminently bearers of this recently arrived ethos, one which is primarily defined as a regression. Narcissistic disappointment, often termed "unrealistic," cannot accept the essentially "mediocre" nature of ordinary life (Kernberg 1988). Thus it is easy to see that narcissism is part of a general movement away from sacrifice and repression and thus has subversive potential. Of course, it is also true that there are common weaknesses in this personality orientation, such as self-absorption which takes no notice of the nature of society and hence neglects to question it. New Age solipsism is a perfect example of this tendency. All narcissistic types, according to Bursten (1986) are capable of flying into rages. This is related to the commonly-seen trait of narcissistic humiliation; the intolerable sense of injury and impotence contains the implicit threat of its forceful reversal. In this context, it doesn't seem out of place to mention that there has been, since the 1960s, a large literature linking narcissism and "terrorism." Taking account of regressive features among some of the young, one has to recognize in these features at least a somewhat justified strategy, on whatever level it could be said to be such. The world that youth are expected to enter and reproduce is bankrupt, fearsome, and without prospects. In fact, it is far more infantile in its workings and categories than in the defenses against it that youth erect for their own integrity. Not only, as a foundation of modern life, does the encroaching high-tech principle render us all daily more dependent; the institutions of societyand media is only the most glaring exampleare themselves infantile and infantilizing. Who would legitimately feel anything but the need to "regress" in the opposite direction of such a non-future? " |
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O.K. I read the article, but I think the young people on this forum are very articulate and intelligent regardless. I'm actually surprised alittle, because when I was their age I was just looking for the next party to go to, and the next girl to see, and the next drug to take. These people seem to have their s...t together!
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Maybe so but you guys are much better than me or any of my friends were at your age!, herb,HaHa herb, how's the herb, herb?!
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Welcome to all you youngsters!
![]() It's so nice to hear that there is a younger generation awakening their souls and becoming the adults of our future. As an oldie myself i smiled when i saw such opened minds and you have all given me hope that time to come will be left in your hands to take over. Lets face it we haven't exactly left it in a good condition have we, you have the benefit of seeing change, you have the benefit to make change. Love to you all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I just wanna remind everyone...we arent only talking about teenagers. Were also refering to the huge population of 20somethings and a few 30someodds that just helped Obama into presidency. The ones who will LITERALLY be ushering in the new age. It only takes a second to open your eyes, look around and see, that a shift in consciousness is ALREADY in the works. Old ways are ALREADY obsolete. The next generation has ALREADY stepped up to the plate. Soon no one will be able to deny us the respect we deserve.
As for that long article Deo... That seems a little dated. The youth of today are dealing with a different sort of cancer. From all that image bullsh!t that came out of the 90s we have born and living a new sort of media monster. One that has perfected the art of exploiting teen rebelian for profit. One that has taken the dark view we adopted from the grunge and goth phases of the 90s and made it into a more effective business. There is no art or expression in the mainstream media. Theres is no more originality in the lime light. Bands are hired and formed not forged, products for kids are sold DAILY episode by episode by half hour long Commercials disguised as TV shows, stars are made on live TV with minimal talent, just popular vote after being measured up against other minimally talented people. Profit before pride thats the world motto...or at least for America. If even 10 youthful individuals can stand up amongst the seas of sheep that exist in our society today, that is a gigantic gain. The thing is theres a lot more than 10 standing up, I think for the most part were all tired of eating what we are fed. Even those I talk to who have no consciousness of Camelot or Avalon or any sort of underground news source that outlines alternative thoughts of society and government and spirtuality, even they share our view of how our reality should be, even they are sick of eating ***** for the current standards. I have to believe that this shift of consciousness, this new way of life and thinking, this future that we are all trying to predict.... is as simple as, were growing up... and were taking the reigns. Thanks for listening, Ro |
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yeah i don't restrict 'young people' to teenagers, i'd say 12-30 would be what i call young.
and although i don't approve of obama, nor did i vote for him, i believe the future he will bring will have a necessary place in our world and IMO - be a tool for many on the path to enlightenment. the herb's good. ![]() |
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Im not sure that Obama is the answer either, Im not convinced that He nor McCain were a good choice. But I feel that we are definetly heading in a different direction now... and whether its stormy seas or smooth ones, we asked for a change in climate and were going to get it.
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