Avalon Singles

[waitinginthewings]

Originally Posted by Czymra

You're taking this completely off topic but if you ever open a new thread with that, let me know please.

[Swanny]

Originally Posted by David

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

And me

Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population

[waitinginthewings]

I have done the Myers Briggs test a few times over the years, & discovered that I had changed with each test. As we develop ourselves through healing our wounds and working on a spiritual path, this also changes some of who we become.

Actually, I and some friends who did the test one day, all agreed, that we had a piece of each of the categories within us. So we concluded, that the test could not give us an accurate "typing " of who we are.

As human beings we are constantly growing and changing, so we truly can not be typed as one or another imho. But its "fun" anyway.

[David]

Originally Posted by Swanny

And me

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by eXchanger

at least when you are single...
there are NO restrictions,
about whom, you can mingle with

being tied down the wrong person...
can be a big drag,
isn't a wedding ring, the smallest handcuff in the world ???

For many people,
they think, you get married to have sex,
and, then, they find out, after the "i do's"...

YOU DO NOT !!! :lol:

Does this explain the high number of married men that seek out encounters with gay men?

After all, if they can't get it from a woman, they'll turn to a guy. That is just desperation.

[Humble Janitor]

Originally Posted by David

Love that Meyers Briggs test. I'm an ENFP

I'm an ENFJ.

Though I think the test is a bit vague. It needs to go deeper into the questions as I am 50/50 on some of them.

I find myself becoming less introverted and more extroverted. I'd say that over the past 10 years, I've made leaps and bounds and continue to do so. I no longer yearn to be alone, though sometimes my schedule leaves no choice.

[David]

Originally Posted by Swanny

And me

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

I'm an ENFJ.

Though I think the test is a bit vague. It needs to go deeper into the questions as I am 50/50 on some of them.

I find myself becoming less introverted and more extroverted. I'd say that over the past 10 years, I've made leaps and bounds and continue to do so. I no longer yearn to be alone, though sometimes my schedule leaves no choice.

I agree. It is a little vague. I also find my self becoming more extroverted as I get older but then, there are the times when I need time to my self for a couple days to recharge. I have found the Chinese horoscopes do a better job at describing my personality than the western astrology. So maybe a mixture of ENFJ and the Chinese Tiger best fits me.

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

Does this explain the high number of married men that seek out encounters with gay men?

After all, if they can't get it from a woman, they'll turn to a guy. That is just desperation.

NO, believe it, or NOT, but, i have quite a few female friends,
who prior to getting married, they got it a lot,
but, after the marriage, well, the man, wasn't interested in that anymore...

i have also, heard my male friends, say the same thing,
i got it prior to getting married,
but, after the marriage, well, she is just too tired for that,
and/or NOT really interested

i also know a few people, that actually schedule it,
into their daytimers or dayrunners LOL

and, then, it is really a shame,
when you wakeup at 3am;
and; your fingers want to go walking
but, you are all alone

yeah--there are parts of being single, that really suck!!!

[THE eXchanger]

i can NOT imagine, two men together,
those types of thoughts, are just NOT something, i can imagine !!!

[THE eXchanger]

i have quite a few gay friends,
however, i guess, i don't think, or, spend anytime,
imaging, what they do sexually
and, then, i do have a few friends
who are bi-sexual, etc.,
however, i am straight

i kind of wonder, if the older the soul,
the more androgenous
(meaning/both female/male) we become ?
energetically, i am able to eXchange
with my own essence/or monad -
and, have some pretty wild dreams,
i suppose, that tides me over

[judykott]

I do not play bridge, but someone told me once that sex is like bridge. If you do not have a good partner, you better have a good hand!!

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Luana

The games people play, I don't get it.

OK, i tell you something funny
i hope it makes sense ...

many years ago, my main guide told me this
when i asked, a similiar question
about why it was so hard
to activate things, with a certain man

(who ironically, had been at some of the push-buttons
that destroyed atlantis)

and, if, i had allowed him to push my buttons
he would very likely, have destroyed,
the potential, that, i am
(and, that can NOT be allowed)



my guide, he says...
this is very applicable to share,
also to you, and, to others,
who might, find themselves in similar situations

i asked, ""why does he act, as, he does"" ???

and, i think, when you see these answers,

i think, something, might click
and/ or, you might hear a few bells,
and, maybe a few whistles



my writing style - might get me a few bongs

however, i oft times, write in poetry / and, put in light encoding,

and, some people, do NOT get -- reading it 3 times, can help

what, i hope you see,
is, that, what you eXperienced with these game-players
at the hands, of those,
who believed, they could play their petty, and, silly games with you,
is that, these people, did not, NOR, do they,
exchange, at the levels you do

and, oft times, when, they did something wrong,

and/or acted, what you may have considered,

out-of-the-character, of what you were expecting,

that, you believed (note, the word believed)

that, you thought (note, the word thought)

and, realise, that, your beliefs and your thoughts

of who/and, what they were,

was NOT the REAL truth,

anymore, than, they were REAL TRUTHS !!!

YOU SEE, you would never behave, as, they did
so, you would NEVER eXpect,
another person to behave that way

YOU in your essence, are good - clear/fresh, and, clean

and it filters down, from essence,
to your lower expressions, and,

it is authenically weaved throughout you,
right into your "original spark"...

and, although,
you would like to see others,
as, you know, you are in yourself / and, your other eXpressed pieces,
it is a sad realisation,
that, all people, are NOT liKe you

sad, but true

You are ""much to much"" for many people
however, you do NOT see, is that,
much to much, is good, when it is good,
but, when it is bad,
it is rotten, very rotten, to its core

you see...

they act, the way they do,
because of who/and, what you are !!!

if you were NOT, who/and, what you are,
they would NOT act that way!!!

you see, many of these ones,
have NEVER met a woman, like you,
and, quite frankly, they do NOT know,
what to do with you,
so, they do NOT know,
how to have you on equal footing,
although, you, would make allowances, for them
that would NOT be good work,
as, that, could be likened,
to giving a bad person, a reward, for poor service,
and/or acting poorly ...

there was a part of these people,
that, realised, that, they could NEVER measure up,
to who/and, what you are,
so, they exercised their free will, and, their right,
to act badly, so, that, you might excuse them
and/or they might excuse themselves

BE THANKFUL, they are GONE !!!

remember, the journey,
it can be an incredible trip,
and/or, it can be,
a trip, (pardon the pun)
a trip, that is anything but, an incredible journey

your much, it deserves more,
MUCH MORE
and, quite frankly,
these men,
were OF the category of LESS,
NOT MORE

So, energetic interference SHOWED UP
and, energetic interference, took place,
this, so, you might be able to see,
their true colours/and, or the fabric of their real makup,
which, obviously, was NOT,
what it was, that you originally processed, and, thought it was, or would be

For, what it was, that was REAL truth
For, what it was, you believed it was,
and, finally, you saw, the real truth,
of who, and, what they really were

when, you originally, meet people,
oft times, we built them up,
and/or, try to see them,
as, we would like to see them,
NOT, as, they actually, really, truly are

there are,
what is termed,
""a few of the many"",
those, who will appreciate,
that much in you
and, since, it is, a very few, of the many,
who will appreciate, this much in you,
it will be, because, they have already come,
to appreciate, and, have worked upon,
the much, in themselves

hold out, for the one,
that one, who is,
a few of the many.

[THE eXchanger]

Originally Posted by Czymra

I really have gone through the same process but sometimes it does seem like one is utterly stuck when alone. Having an opposite doesn't only give more energy but also the checks that, if no one is there to mirror you actively, you have to run (or let run) them passively. Meaning it's much harder to engage with the 'harsh truth' as one must humbly observe the world around one, while a partner usually slams it in your face.

I for once, like the slamming and can be more humble because of that.
Where was that thread for single sexual spiritual development?

(Oh oh, Kathleen, you wanted to end the rambling on why, yet your statement clicked with three more people that now ramble.)

single sexual spiritual development...
that is easy, invite that, into your dreams
anything, that is in 100% alignment
with your mission/purpose/or task --
they do come if you call them
you just have to call them right

also, often, we meet people, who we eventually will end up with,
in our dreams first, a long time, before, we will cross paths
on the earth planes,
my advise, is to always learn how to dream,
and, dream properly

now, in 3D - single sexual spiritual development,
can be done alone

(i'll leave that up to your imaginations)

it is a wild and wonderful world,
we are all in
i say, look for a real eXchanger
someone who is willing, to give it all
and, someone who is willing, to receive it all
and, feels equally good, on either side of that equation

if two are both giving,
then, lots of receiving is going on
and, i think, when, that occurs,
the eXchange you are in, will really be worthwhile

in the in between time,
when you walk alone, remember,
many hours of the day, in your dreams,
you are already there, and, for the most part,
you are already together

eventually, you will weave the thread, together

however, are NOT the most interesting patterns,
in a quilt, the ones, that, move together,
and, then, move very far apart

dreaming is a dance,
and, it is, in the dance,
that you will discover,
that you will find the dream,
along with the dreamers,
for they, are both there,
in all ways, and, always...
and, then, you can weave those threads,
each, with the other,
into The Pivot of THE NOW,
and, it will come back together,
and, magically eXpress itself,
as a dream, within a dream

[Humble Janitor]

The older the soul, the more androgynous we become? I actually believe this and I believe it pays to keep an open mind on almost anything.

People in general are so difficult that sometimes, being single is much easier, stress-free and you have more freedom.

[Swanny]

Just did my daily angel card and got the wedding

[burgundia]

Originally Posted by eXchanger

ahh- you are, what you are, and, why hide it LOL

i turn 29, every year, and,
i just had my 22nd -29th birthday
at the end of 2008

i think, that is a secret, to staying young,
is, thinking young

i still feel, 29, but, probably look 35ish

another trick, is this...

i get up, and, i eXpect to have a good day
& generally, that is eXactly what happens

NO one believes, i am 50 -- which is good

and, everyone thinks,
that there are 101 other men hiding out, in my closets
which is sadly, NOT the truth

however, sometimes, i think, you have to reach this age
before, you really know, what it is, that you want

as, an i.n.f.p.,
you are one,
who feels things deep, and, are a perceptive one
your type of gal/or guy,
you run very deep,
however, you need an assortment
of picks and shovels, in order to get at your deepest thoughts,
and, get them out of you !!!

they are also, the silent, and, very strong type
and, are NOT likely once committed to something,
highly unlikely to ever stray

also, since, they are so perceptive,
it is NOT only very hard to pull any wool over their eyes,
it is virtually almost impossible, to do that
(that's a double LOL)

they know, they just seem to know things,
infp's are interesting people,
i know, as, an intj - we can appear, to be slightly aloof,
and, cool, but, that isn't the truth, we run quite deep too

anyway...it appears, discussing M/B's might spice up the chat a little

We all know that time has been accelerating for some time so we do not age that fast.

[burgundia]

Originally Posted by Humble Janitor

People in general are so difficult that sometimes, being single is much easier, stress-free and you have more freedom.

this is sooooo true.

[burgundia]

Originally Posted by Swanny

Just did my daily angel card and got the wedding

So now you have to do a solitaire to confirm it.

[Czymra]

also, often, we meet people, who we eventually will end up with,
in our dreams first, a long time, before, we will cross paths
on the earth planes,
my advise, is to always learn how to dream,
and, dream properly

I'm doing that but there is rather little material to hold on to. My dreams are really more feelings and ambiances then 'who, what, where'.
This morning a dream slid through my awareness just because of a single thought.

it is a wild and wonderful world,
we are all in
i say, look for a real eXchanger
someone who is willing, to give it all
and, someone who is willing, to receive it all
and, feels equally good, on either side of that equation

if two are both giving,
then, lots of receiving is going on
and, i think, when, that occurs,
the eXchange you are in, will really be worthwhile

Well, here we go. As people on the thread remark it ain't easy... and now don't give me the old 'but you're young' remark. Most girls are fine until they open their mouth...

in the in between time,
when you walk alone, remember,
many hours of the day, in your dreams,
you are already there, and, for the most part,
you are already together

eventually, you will weave the thread, together

however, are NOT the most interesting patterns,
in a quilt, the ones, that, move together,
and, then, move very far apart

I think I can see what you mean and that's one of the things that keeps me going... one can't spend life in bed however.

dreaming is a dance,
and, it is, in the dance,
that you will discover,
that you will find the dream,
along with the dreamers,
for they, are both there,
in all ways, and, always...
and, then, you can weave those threads,
each, with the other,
into The Pivot of THE NOW,
and, it will come back together,
and, magically eXpress itself,
as a dream, within a dream

Hmmmm.......
...that was pretty.

[David]

Originally Posted by Czymra

Well, here we go. As people on the thread remark it ain't easy... and now don't give me the old 'but you're young' remark. Most girls are fine until they open their mouth...

Sorry ladies. I just couldn't resist.

[Lunaris]

Originally Posted by eXchanger

OK, i tell you something funny
i hope it makes sense ...

many years ago, my main guide told me this
when i asked, a similiar question
about why it was so hard
to activate things, with a certain man

(who ironically, had been at some of the push-buttons
that destroyed atlantis)

and, if, i had allowed him to push my buttons
he would very likely, have destroyed,
the potential, that, i am

my guides, he says...
this is very applicable to share,
also to you, and, to others,
who might, find themselves in similar situations

i asked, why does he act, as, he does ???

and, i think, when you see these answers,
i think, something, might click and/ or, you might hear a few bells,
and, maybe a few whistles

my writing style - might get me a few bongs

however, i oft times, write in poetry / and, put in light encoding, some people, do NOT get

what, i hope you see,
is, that, what you eXperienced with these game-players
at the hands, of those,
who believed,
they could play their games with you,
is that, these people, did not, NOR, do they,
exchange, at the levels you do
and, oft times, when, they did something wrong,
and/or acted, what you may have considered,
out-of-the-character, of what you were expecting,
that, you believed (note, the word believed)
that, you thought (note, the word thought)
and, realise, that, your beliefs and your thoughts
of who/and, what they were,
where NOT the truth,
anymore, than, they were REAL TRUTHS !!!
YOU SEE, you would never behave, as, they did
so, you would NEVER eXpect,
another person to behave that way
YOU in your essence, are good - clear/fresh, and, clean
and it filters down, from essence,
to your lower expressions, and,
it is authenically weaved through you,
right into your "original spark"...
and, allow, you would like to see others,
as, you know, you are in yourself / and, your other eXpressed pieces,
it is a sad realisation, that, all people, are NOT liKe you

You are much to much for many people
however, you do NOT see that,
much to much, is good, when it is good,
but, when it is bad,
it is rotten, very rotten, to its core

you see...

they act, the way they do,
because of who/and, what you are !!!

if you were NOT, who/and, what you are,
they would NOT act that way!!!

you see, many of these ones,
have NEVER meet a woman, like you,
and, quite frankly, they do NOT know,
what to do with you,
they do NOT know,
how to have you on equal footing,
although, you, would make allowances, for them
that would NOT be good work,
as, that, could be likened,
to giving a bad person, a reward, for poor service,
and/or acting poorly ...
there was a part of these people,
that, realised, that, they could NEVER measure up,
to who/and, what you are,
so, they exercised their free will, and, their right,
to act badly, so, that, you might excuse them
and/or they might excuse themselves

remember, the journey,
it can be an incrediable trip,
and/or, it can be,
a trip, (pardon the pun)
a trip, that is anything but, an incrediable journey

your much, it deserves more
and, quite frankly, these men,
were less, NOT more

so, energetic interference took place,
this, so, you might be able to see,
their true colours/and, or the fabric of their real makup,
which, obviously, was NOT,
what you thought it was,
or, what you believed it was,
and, finally, you saw, the real truth,
of who, and, what they really were

when, you originally, meet people,
oft times, we built them up,
and/or, try to see them, as, we would like to see them,
NOT, as, they actually, really, truly are

there are, what are termed,
a few of the many,
those, who will appreciate, the much in you
and, since, it is, a very few, of the many,
who will appreciate, this much in you,
it will be, because, they have already come,
to appreciate, and, have worked upon,
the much, in themselves

hold out, for the one,
that one, who is,
a few of the many.

wow...

this is so true!

this has been so much of my own experience!

it makes me want to cry that finally someone else gets it!

thanx for your shares!

hugs

[Relayer]

Aussie dude looking for romance with potential like minded lady for long term relationship.

My Stats....

Name: John (Relayer)
Location: Deer Park, Melbourne. Australia
Age: 49
Height: 178cm (5' 10")
Weight: 98kg (215 pounds)
Marital status: Separated
Body type: A bit overweight
Eye color: Brown
Hair color: Brown
Smoking habits: Trying to quit
Have children: Yes
Number of children: 2
Live with me: No
Ages: 25 and 28
Religion: Agnostic
Occupation: Electronics technician (retired)
Star sign: Scorpio

Any interested ladies please PM me. Distance is no object if your the right woman. No one night stands please.
Love and peace to all.
Best regards always,
John
Relayer

[Ammit]

What the ****, thought this was Project Avalon, not sex in the city or**************, jesus get a life dudes. There are more porn or dating sites out there then tv channels on cable so use them eh.

[Relayer]

Originally Posted by Ammit

What the****, thought this was Project Avalon, not sex in the city or some********* jesus get a life dudes. There are more porn or dating sites out there then tv channels on cable so use them eh.

What's your problem griddley?
What's wrong with a bit of fun to break all this doom and gloom monotony?
Do you have a ramrod up your clacker or what?
I noticed in your profile you have only two friends. Just shows me the type of person you are.
If you haven't got anything positive to say my friend, then just shut the f.u.*.k up. No one wants to see a sourpuss sprouting his negative opinions.
No regards to you lame-o.
John
Relayer

[Czymra]

Originally Posted by Ammit

What the f..k, thought this was Project Avalon, not sex in the city or**************, jesus get a life dudes. There are more porn or dating sites out there then tv channels on cable so use them eh.

I'm sure those porn and dating sites are just filled with spiritual beings.