How to build intense love

[Angels1981]

How do you create deep love and No fear.
Just wondering

[rgray222]

People think they give away things all the time but they fail to understand that giving anything away with conditions is not giving at all. For instance, if I give you a car and you turn around and sell the car and bank the cash that is your choice. If I get upset and think that I could have just as easily sold the car and put the cash in my account then I really never gave the car away in the first place. So it is with love.

You must freely give your love away without condition. Even if it is not always reciprocated or returned. From time to time it may even be rejected out of hand. Over time unconditional love becomes easier to give and will be recognized as something unique and extraordinary. This is one of the first steps in developing a deep love without fear of rejection or dismissal.

You must understand unconditional giving and you must give love to get love.

[indigopete]

What about Prince...

...oops. Wrong thread.

Apologies.

[DeDukshyn]

People think they give away things all the time but they fail to understand that giving anything away with conditions is not giving at all. For instance, if I give you a car and you turn around and sell the car and bank the cash that is your choice. If I get upset and think that I could have just as easily sold the car and put the cash in my account then I really never gave the car away in the first place. So it is with love.

You must freely give your love away without condition. Even if it is not always reciprocated or returned. From time to time it may even be rejected out of hand. Over time unconditional love becomes easier to give and will be recognized as something unique and extraordinary. This is one of the first steps in developing a deep love without fear of rejection or dismissal.

You must understand unconditional giving and you must give love to get love.


Well said.

If I were to add or paraphrase ...

In order to build love you have to be able to receive it, and you cannot receive until you give it freely. Think of it like flowing water and you are a vessel. If its not moving, it is stagnant. Love is available to us at all time, from everywhere - the earth itself, the plants and animals, the cosmos, the Universe, The Angels, - everywhere.

But learning to receive it is a bit of an art, but you first need to practice giving it so that you are ripe for receiving it, then it comes more easily. Love that is not flowing is like electricity that has no current. In fact it may be accurate to view it as a current like electricity - without its flow - as soon as you apply any "condition", it ceases to exist altogether.

Keep in mind that the emotion we feel that we call "love" isn't actually love itself - its just an emotion. Real Love can trigger a blissful emotion, but it is not that emotion itself. In fact I was just pondering writing a thread on this very topic ...

Anyway, Real love can be tuned into, by keeping oneself in a state of gratitude, appreciation, or praise - these states help to facilitate the flow of Love within yourself ... but the trick is to give it freely when you get it, to keep that flow going.

[Trisher]

Unconditional love is a state of Being. It is something that we are rather than what we do. The doing will flow naturally from that state of Being. It cannot be faked (but it can be practised) because people will feel that it is not genuine. If you live from the heart then fear will not be an issue.

Trisher

[Delight]

How do you create deep love and No fear.
Just wondering

there are so many wayshowers of this subject. One of my favorites is always Bruce Lipton. I listen to him whenever I find a new iteration of his knowledge. So, in case you'd like to hear him, here is a recent interview.

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[pueblo]

OP, this helps me build.

Peace, Love and Harmony to all on this thread and Project Avalon Forum!

"I Love My Heart and Soul"
"I Love All Humanity"
"Join Hearts and Souls Together"
"Love, Peace and Harmony"

Peace, Love and Harmony (full version) - Dr. Zhao

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I love My Heart and Soul - Dr. Zhao

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[rgray222]

In order to build love you have to be able to receive it

That is actually an excellent point. Many people don't feel that they are worthy of a healthy loving relationship. We all know people like this, they sabotage their relationships even their own marriages. So the starting point is to put yourself into a position to truly understand that you are deserving of someone else's love.

[Star Tsar]

I have been single for a very long time now (As long as my Avalon membership) & cannot wait until a new lover comes into my life...

[Angels1981]

Thank you for an All ypur responses. Im messing up. I can give Till im blue in the face but to recieve after my attack. Im struggling. One because covid restricting ppl touching.
Two bitterness im finding that im isolated and im gearing because No one wants to be around me.
Three. Ive frozen n pushing ove out sometjing not right.
Four. They knew my family were not gonna go loving me and so ive had to learn to love and stop hurting me.
So im struggling figuring out If i was warned to stop loving as intense as I AM. How is it that now they saying im in fear and isolation.
My soul or ego struggled to recieve Any energy because im scared to be attacked or kidnapped again.
Im sat for two years and my soul not accept ING the heart but looks like other energies fancy manipulation n making me swear at ppl i love. There now trying to make me flip out.
So i thought i need help in figuring how to love agai. Before i get too hopeless

[TargeT]

How do you create deep love and No fear.
Just wondering

with the 4 agreements (https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319) ;)

The Four Agreements are:

Be impeccable with your word.

Don't take anything personally.

Don't make assumptions.

Always do your best.


basically, focus on your self first, love your self intensely and everything else will follow.

[Tyy1907]

In order to build love you have to be able to receive it

That is actually an excellent point. Many people don't feel that they are worthy of a healthy loving relationship. We all know people like this, they sabotage their relationships even their own marriages. So the starting point is to put yourself into a position to truly understand that you are deserving of someone else's love.
That sounds like the true definition of self love. The healthy beneficial kind.

[Angels1981]

Bless you all. I broke down with depression esion after cia attack. Then they repeated you are fear 24hr a day for 2 years i to my head. That was true so i need to vuild self loce n mentally i needed ue help. Thank you so much

[Strat]

In order to build love you have to be able to receive it

This is definitely an issue for me, something I am working on. It's a shame, I'm getting older and I'm pretty numb so to speak. I wish I could articulate it better, I've come far in life I've overcome horrendous depression and a nasty temper so compared to me of 10 years ago I'm doing great. I'm not sad or upset or whatever I'm just kinda numb. It's just that I went from like -10 to 0 if that makes sense.

This will sound lame but I'm kind of afraid of love. I don't want folks to get too close to me so I keep them at arms distance. I need to get over my fear and live life to the fullest.

On a different note, I'm sorta the same way with compliments, they don't do much for me. When complimented I basically put on a mask and act how I feel I should by saying "oh thanks" and pretending to be cheery but honestly it doesn't do much. It's like trying to put out a forest fire with a glass of water. I think this has a bit to do with my upbringing, who knows. Hell, it could be worse. I'm confident life will improve.

[DeDukshyn]

In order to build love you have to be able to receive it

This is definitely an issue for me, something I am working on. It's a shame, I'm getting older and I'm pretty numb so to speak. I wish I could articulate it better, I've come far in life I've overcome horrendous depression and a nasty temper so compared to me of 10 years ago I'm doing great. I'm not sad or upset or whatever I'm just kinda numb. It's just that I went from like -10 to 0 if that makes sense.

This will sound lame but I'm kind of afraid of love. I don't want folks to get too close to me so I keep them at arms distance. I need to get over my fear and live life to the fullest.

On a different note, I'm sorta the same way with compliments, they don't do much for me. When complimented I basically put on a mask and act how I feel I should by saying "oh thanks" and pretending to be cheery but honestly it doesn't do much. It's like trying to put out a forest fire with a glass of water. I think this has a bit to do with my upbringing, who knows. Hell, it could be worse. I'm confident life will improve.

I hear ya. I'm the same in a lot of ways. Compliments make me cringe sometimes, but I know I know I should accept them with grace (past childhood thing). I'm working on trying to be a better conduit for Love - not just in the relationship with other humans sense, but more broadly into everyday life, and everything I perceive and every task that I do.

I think it was the book "A Course in Miracles" that indicated that the purpose of a human is to receive and give love. That's all we really need to work on; from there, everything else will start to fall into place. It is not easy to achieve a steady state of this, sure small pockets here and there can be done, but a steady state? That is something that must be practiced with attention to even remotely achieve.

At the end of the day though, process is goal. One just needs to keep moving in that direction, and love oneself for that.

[TargeT]

In order to build love you have to be able to receive it

This is definitely an issue for me,

Welcome to the (current form of) masculine!




On a different note, I'm sorta the same way with compliments, they don't do much for me. When complimented I basically put on a mask and act how I feel I should by saying "oh thanks" and pretending to be cheery but honestly it doesn't do much. It's like trying to put out a forest fire with a glass of water. I think this has a bit to do with my upbringing, who knows. Hell, it could be worse. I'm confident life will improve.


The two are most likely very tied together.


I have the same issues but I attribute them to different sources.





I hear ya. I'm the same in a lot of ways. Compliments make me cringe sometimes, ....

I just change the subject and usually annoy/anger the complimenter by doing so... haha