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jackovesk
20th March 2011, 00:25
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Casey Heynes, the bullied Year 10 student at Chifley College.

THE schoolboy who's become an internet sensation after turning the tables on a bully has told how he snapped after years of cruel taunts about his weight.

Sixteen-year-old Casey Heynes says he has been bullied nearly every day at his school, Chifley College, at St Marys, but could take no more when Year 7 student Ritchard Gale tormented and attacked him last Monday.

"All I was doing was defending myself". "I've never had so much support," he said during an interview with A Current Affair.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VyiO30o4gkM

Casey reveals he'd been targeted by a new group of Year 7 boys who had started picking on him and teasing him about two weeks prior to the fight.

The Year 10 student said he found himself surrounded by the students when he went to get a school timetable before class.

As Ritchard backed him against the wall and started throwing punches, Casey said he felt scared and worried that others in the group would also start hitting him.

Eventually, he snapped, picking Ritchard up over his shoulder and throwing him to the ground.

The brawl was recorded on the mobile phone of another student who later posted the video online where he has earned "hero" status.

Asked if he was a superhero, he laughed and said: "No I wish I was."

The video, which was taken off YouTube on Tuesday, has gone viral worldwide spawning dozens of websites and facebook pages congratulating Casey for fighting back.

It also sparked a media storm with St Marys residents claiming television stations were offering up to $1000 for information about the fight.

Channel Nine won the race to sign up Casey after rival Today Tonight on Seven interviewed Ritchard's mother who said her son should apologise.

Yesterday, Ritchard was unrepentant. Asked whether he was sorry for attacking Casey, he bluntly replied: "No."

The issue has divided the western Sydney community.

"Good on him. I was so happy to see a bully finally getting what he deserved," one St Marys resident said.

"I don't condone violence but when kids stage an attack like that and record it to humiliate the victim it's wrong."

http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/bully-victim-a-world-hit/story-e6frea6u-1226024845388

...Update...

Casey Heynes exclusive ACA Interview - Bully Victim Who fought Back


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBu1j7LUUac

A boy who shot to fame after turning the tables on a bully at his high school, body slamming the tormentor onto concrete, has told how years of bullying had pushed him to the edge.

Casey Heynes, a 15-year-old from Chifley College Dunheved Campus in Sydney's west, shot to fame after a video was released on the internet showing him body slamming a smaller boy who repeatedly hit him.

The video quickly became an internet hit, with hundreds of thousands of people watching it, many of whom were sympathetic to Casey's situation.

But speaking on A Current Affair last night, Casey said while he was glad of the recent support, last year he considered suicide.

"I just started to put myself down to that level and then all the crap kept on piling on," he said.

He said he had been tormented by bullies since he was in second grade and despite making friends early in high school, they had abandoned him and he was picked on nearly every day.

"I have been duct-taped to a pole ... They put the duct tape over my eyes first, and then dropped me down and duct taped me to a pole," he said.

Casey, who was taunted because of his weight, said he was an easy target because he had not in the past retaliated.

But that all changed after a smaller boy repeatedly hit him recently.

"He just came up out of nowhere and grabbed me by the shirt and then he punched me in the face. Then he went for a second hit, and I blocked it," Casey recounted.

"The third hit, I don't know if he connected, and then the fourth and fifth hit me, and then I actually snapped and grabbed him," he said.

Casey can be seen in the video advancing towards the smaller boy, picking him up and throwing him aggressively onto concrete ground.

The action has seen Casey dubbed "Casey the Punisher", or "Zangief" - the name of a fictional wrestler in a video game.

The bully sustained only a grazed knee in the altercation.

Casey's father Colin said he was proud his son has finally stood up to the bullying, and the support Casey had received had already changed his son's demeanour and self-esteem.

http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/8226423/casey-the-punisher-tells-of-bullying

manny
20th March 2011, 01:05
you often find that bullys roam in packs.
they will taunt you for as long as you let them.
when you snap.
they often cry wolf.

when i was in school this boy taunted me for about a year.
in the end i went ape ****,and leathered him ,in front of the whole school.
when i was walking home he was waiting for me,with his older brother and his dad.

i don,t know what he told them.but they let me be.

he was a lot larger than me.

12 month of taunting in exchange for a broken nose ...imo not bad.

those 12 month where not nice.

SKAWF
20th March 2011, 01:12
nice one. i've had similar experiences myself.
they only bully soft targets. those who wont fight back.

think about the mentality....

i'm going to walk up to a person, that i know wont fight back, and i'm going to punch him in the face. for fun.
i dont care how he feels. or whether he cries at night, or dreads going to school every day.
hurting him is fun. and i laugh at the pain in his eyes.

there are only two things that make me rage instantaniously.

bullying, and cruelty to animals.

(i had to take a few moments to settle myself)

if i'm violent towards someone (and ive had to be at some times in my life)
i suffer tremendous guilt for a few days after.
but some people ive known just dont have a problem inflicting pain on others.
in fact, to a greater of lesser extent, similar patterns exist all over the place.
ranging from enjoying winding someone up, to robbing people with violence.
the only way to stop them, is to act like them in response, but not live like them.
if you believe different,
maybe you could suggest what to do if there are 4 people bullying you,
and theres no one around to help you.
because to be truthful, getting the s**t kicked out of me isnt an option,
what do you do, when you cant reason with an oppresor?

fight back.

steve

sorry, i'm still a bit erm...... fired up.

manny
20th March 2011, 01:15
nice one. i've had similar experiences myself.
they only bully soft targets. those who wont fight back.

think about the mentality....

i'm going to walk up to a person, that i know wont fight back, and i'm going to punch him in the face. for fun.
i dont care how he feels. or whether he cries at night, or dreads going to school every day.
hurting him is fun. and i laugh at the pain in his eyes.

there are only two things that make me rage instantaniously.

bullying, and cruelty to animals.

(i had to take a few moments to settle myself)

if i'm violent towards someone (and ive had to be at some times in my life)
i suffer tremendous guilt for a few days after.
but some people ive known just dont have a problem inflicting pain on others.
in fact, to a greater of lesser extent, similar patterns exist all over the place.
ranging from enjoying winding someone up, to robbing people with violence.
the only way to stop them, is to act like them in response, but not live like them.
if you believe different,
maybe you could suggest what to do if there are 4 people bullying you,
and theres no one around to help you.
because to be truthful, getting the s**t kicked out of me isnt an option,
what do you do, when you cant reason with an oppresor?

fight back.

steve

sorry, i'm still a bit erm...... fired up.
you wait..
revenge is not good ..
but it may teach them a lesson
and they may become better people.
everyone learns a lesson

jackovesk
20th March 2011, 01:25
nice one. i've had similar experiences myself.
they only bully soft targets. those who wont fight back.

think about the mentality....

i'm going to walk up to a person, that i know wont fight back, and i'm going to punch him in the face. for fun.
i dont care how he feels. or whether he cries at night, or dreads going to school every day.
hurting him is fun. and i laugh at the pain in his eyes.

there are only two things that make me rage instantaniously.

bullying, and cruelty to animals.

(i had to take a few moments to settle myself)

if i'm violent towards someone (and ive had to be at some times in my life)
i suffer tremendous guilt for a few days after.
but some people ive known just dont have a problem inflicting pain on others.
in fact, to a greater of lesser extent, similar patterns exist all over the place.
ranging from enjoying winding someone up, to robbing people with violence.
the only way to stop them, is to act like them in response, but not live like them.
if you believe different,
maybe you could suggest what to do if there are 4 people bullying you,
and theres no one around to help you.
because to be truthful, getting the s**t kicked out of me isnt an option,
what do you do, when you cant reason with an oppresor?

fight back.

steve

sorry, i'm still a bit erm...... fired up.

Thanks for that SKAWF...

Nothing Wrong at all for speaking the "TRUTH"!

SKAWF
20th March 2011, 01:29
you wait..
revenge is not good ..
but it may teach them a lesson
and they may become better people.
everyone learns a lesson[/QUOTE]

i'd like to draw a distinction between revenge, retaliation and response.

revenge IMO makes me no better than them.

fight fire with fire?. no you fight fire with water.

there comes a point where one realises, that even if i have nothing,
there is still something there that i will defend till my death.
i'm not on this earth to have the crap kicked out of me.
and no one else will look after me. its up to me to take a stand.

i need to take a break. my objectivity is shot at the moment.

nice one for responding though manny.
i reckon we are on the same side on this. its just a volatile subject is all.

steve

manny
20th March 2011, 01:43
if you become passive in a bully enviroment.
then they see it as a weakness.

i have wrote those two lines.but i am sad as a memory of two young girls on seperate occasions.
commited suicide because of bullying.

bilko
20th March 2011, 02:01
I can honestly say that this brings tears to my eyes.
It brings back a past of abuse, adoption and constant bullying through both schools.

I now adopt the moto:
Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6.

I would like to add that i don't know if it is me and my past but there is something about this video that i find deeply disturbing, sinister and disgusting, gut wrenchingly so. I shan't be watching it again.

king anthony
20th March 2011, 03:31
...revenge is not good ...

'The best revenge is living well'.

Flash
20th March 2011, 04:41
I have been teaching once a week in a school for drop out, now turned adults, going back to finish high school. I had five students coming from extremely wealthy homes (I had rarely seen such gold watches), the rest from poor environments. They are all over 19 years old.

The bullies (2 of them) were amongst those very rich. 19 and 20, and still bullying. Believe me, it is much more difficult to stop them when they are 20 than when they are 10. They targeted a guy because he liked his part time job in a hardware store and wanted to finish high school to be promoted there. They had targetted an autistic girl prior and she quit. After going to the director, they slowed down and then started on the other girls. Manipulation is their moto as well. They do not respect anybody (they told me about their parties, it makes me truly worry for my own daughter when she will meet these type of guys - looking good, but god, the pit in terms of morality). IMHO

They had been thrown out of their hyper class hyper expensive high school and colleges. The parents always backing them up against the teachers and other students. I foresee a very nice future for them, with lots of money, the Maldof way.

Bullying has to be stop early, with some force if needed, for some it is the only way to learn. Bullied children/people when not protected by adults have to learn to protect themselves as well.

(as a side comment one of the rich one was giving an example on how to sell a cheap 150,000$ condo to the poors, to which one of the poor students told him to get down on earth because the poors could not even afford a 500$ a month rent)

Jendayi
20th March 2011, 13:42
we can be an effect to any cause... nothing wrong with that..
namaste

Shezbeth
20th March 2011, 18:31
Anyone been bullied?
Anyone read Ender's Game?

Yes to both for me.

The kid who was bullied retaliated and walked away. 5 stars.

TigaHawk
20th March 2011, 21:04
you wait..
revenge is not good ..
but it may teach them a lesson
and they may become better people.
everyone learns a lesson




I have found that if you wait, Karma will get even for you.


I was also bullied all throughout my schooling. I would eventualy get to a point where i would snap, and go to get revenge on my bully's. It allways ended with me getting a kick in the face. (it would backfire)


Finaly learn more self restraint and do nothing - and it's been funny how Karma gets even with them for me.


A boss that would abuse people and bend the rules for themselves became ill and had to leave work.

A flatmate that was stealing my stuff - and was about 1mth behind in rent before he exited - looses their job - goes back to america then gets in a car crash (noone was hurt) but as a result looses their lisence for a few years.

Another flatmate i believed to be a Crackhead, so evicted them. They did their best to make the remainder of their time a living hell for us. Ends up he couldent read and messed up his exit date. Begged like anything to stay for a few days extra - i said no. Him and all his belongings moved into his place of work. I have little doubt that it wont be long before he is drug tested or caught when he goes shopping for it.



It is realy weird - but if i get hell from people - they get it back - without any help from me.

jackovesk
20th March 2011, 23:21
...Update...

Casey Heynes exclusive ACA Interview - Bully Victim Who fought Back


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBu1j7LUUac

A boy who shot to fame after turning the tables on a bully at his high school, body slamming the tormentor onto concrete, has told how years of bullying had pushed him to the edge.

Casey Heynes, a 15-year-old from Chifley College Dunheved Campus in Sydney's west, shot to fame after a video was released on the internet showing him body slamming a smaller boy who repeatedly hit him.

The video quickly became an internet hit, with hundreds of thousands of people watching it, many of whom were sympathetic to Casey's situation.

But speaking on A Current Affair last night, Casey said while he was glad of the recent support, last year he considered suicide.

"I just started to put myself down to that level and then all the crap kept on piling on," he said.

He said he had been tormented by bullies since he was in second grade and despite making friends early in high school, they had abandoned him and he was picked on nearly every day.

"I have been duct-taped to a pole ... They put the duct tape over my eyes first, and then dropped me down and duct taped me to a pole," he said.

Casey, who was taunted because of his weight, said he was an easy target because he had not in the past retaliated.

But that all changed after a smaller boy repeatedly hit him recently.

"He just came up out of nowhere and grabbed me by the shirt and then he punched me in the face. Then he went for a second hit, and I blocked it," Casey recounted.

"The third hit, I don't know if he connected, and then the fourth and fifth hit me, and then I actually snapped and grabbed him," he said.

Casey can be seen in the video advancing towards the smaller boy, picking him up and throwing him aggressively onto concrete ground.

The action has seen Casey dubbed "Casey the Punisher", or "Zangief" - the name of a fictional wrestler in a video game.

The bully sustained only a grazed knee in the altercation.

Casey's father Colin said he was proud his son has finally stood up to the bullying, and the support Casey had received had already changed his son's demeanour and self-esteem.

http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/8226423/casey-the-punisher-tells-of-bullying

HURRITT ENYETO
20th March 2011, 23:31
A wise man once said: "An angry Man will hurt you but a frightened man will kill you"

bodixa
20th March 2011, 23:49
A wise woman once said: 'He that messes with people's heads will get bitten on the ass by spiders.'

Can't remember who it was that said that...

HURRITT ENYETO
20th March 2011, 23:56
A wise woman once said: 'He that messes with people's heads will get bitten on the ass by spiders.'

Can't remember who it was that said that...

Is that comment directed at me?
If so how am i messing with somebody's head???

bodixa
20th March 2011, 23:57
A wise woman once said: 'He that messes with people's heads will get bitten on the ass by spiders.'

Can't remember who it was that said that...

Is that comment directed at me?
If so how am i messing with somebody's head???

No, Not at all!! :)

I would have quoted you if it was, and it really isn't. I promise.

HURRITT ENYETO
21st March 2011, 00:01
A wise woman once said: 'He that messes with people's heads will get bitten on the ass by spiders.'

Can't remember who it was that said that...

Is that comment directed at me?
If so how am i messing with somebody's head???

No, Not at all!! :)

I would have quoted you if it was, and it really isn't. I promise.

Sorry Bodixa i apologize :)

bodixa
21st March 2011, 00:02
Sorry Bodixa i apologize :)

No need whatsoever. It was a little left field...my fault.