View Full Version : Who decides how you shall live your life?
jorr lundstrom
24th March 2011, 10:37
Im just curious to know while I sit here and pat
a black cat.:luv::couch2::luv:
Tuza
24th March 2011, 11:00
Im just curious to know while I sit here and pat
a black cat.:luv::couch2::luv:
Here he is, Jorr you character you, sitting and patting your cat. Love the little hatchling there. As far as my life is concerned I gave over my free will to the big boss upstairs a few years ago and since that time big changes were brought in. Sometimes you forget about giving over control and then you remember and let go and its better that way. Give your kitty a pat for me.
InCiDeR
24th March 2011, 12:03
Sometimes I believe it's me, but everytime I go down that path my cat prove me dead wrong... :biggrin:
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Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 12:16
Jorr
Who decide how you shall live your life?
I decide how I shall live MY life :flirt:
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InCider
Sometimes I believe it's me, but everytime I go down that path my cat prove me dead wrong...
Yea they use mind controll LOL Dont Ya think ??
ViralSpiral
24th March 2011, 12:25
Who am I?
That's who! ;)
http://www.lunkos.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/lolcat7.gif
jorr lundstrom
24th March 2011, 12:37
I tell you how it is for me. We live in a house ruled by three cats. We are very
happy that we are allowed inside. Authority= no freedom. But exept that I and the
cats dont always agree on who are in charge I make the decissions in my life.
No one to blame for anything. :horn:
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 12:50
Who am I?
That's who! ;)
http://www.lunkos.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/lolcat7.gif
Ha ha A very good question Im still asking that !
A child did say to me and Jorr that she was looking for her self LOL
She hadnt found her self yet she told us when I asked. LOL
Maybe the question is wrong maybe we should ask where am I ?
Icecold
24th March 2011, 13:01
I try to control my life, at least in small ways.
The state controls my life and other forces.
Complete strangers attempt to control my life.
I just deal with it and try very hard to break the ties that bind.
In the end I do decide how I live my life...and other forces. ;)
9eagle9
24th March 2011, 13:09
You need to take control and start deciding when YOU are going to buy cat food and kitty litter.
I tell you how it is for me. We live in a house ruled by three cats. We are very
happy that we are allowed inside. Authority= no freedom. But exept that I and the
cats dont always agree on who are in charge I make the decissions in my life.
No one to blame for anything. :horn:
heretogrow
24th March 2011, 13:22
Up until eight months ago I lived in harmony and made decisions mostly from my higher self's perspective. I still made mistakes, but I was able to learn from these. My life was mostly peaceful. Now I live with my parent's...
jjl
24th March 2011, 13:27
It's funny you should post this, just today I was imagining a post that started..."my cat is ruling my life"
ViralSpiral
24th March 2011, 13:36
Jorr, cats rule. End of... there is no authority above them. You shoulda bought a dog :D
Wow Maria, wise child. Her "veil" will soon drop. The time will come when we will all remember who we are and what this game is.....
Just this morning I was thinking. Why would I choose the here/now?
I do lead quite a charmed life however, the continuous "look-out" for the boogeyman, playing dodge cars with egos (including my own of course) and the gymnastics of learning/growth... is totally EXHAUSTING. Anyway, I did say I was waxing my surfboard to ride out these waves, so best I stop nattering....
I try to control my life, at least in small ways. Icecold
ulli
24th March 2011, 13:37
I wonder what the travel industry would look like if people didn't have pets.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 13:38
I try to control my life, at least in small ways.
The state controls my life and other forces.
Complete strangers attempt to control my life.
I just deal with it and try very hard to break the ties that bind.
In the end I do decide how I live my life...and other forces. ;)
Do or do not !
Try has no energy.
In the end you decide what you let others control and not in your life.
So that is fine we need to be aware of what we support and maybe give our support and energy to what we do want.;)
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 13:42
Do or do not !
The force do not support try !!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x51EIXjhiEU&feature=related
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 14:00
Up until eight months ago I lived in harmony and made decisions mostly from my higher self's perspective. I still made mistakes, but I was able to learn from these. My life was mostly peaceful. Now I live with my parent's...
You will find Your way !
You are the bravest of the brave !
You have gone where most dont dear to go.
Rest and heal, time will show you the way that is right.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLB6_YkRvvA
Namaste beautyful ONE :grouphug:
Love and blessings
Maria
Icecold
24th March 2011, 14:05
Maria:
Do or do not !
Try has no energy.
In the end you decide what you let others control and not in your life.
So that is fine we need to be aware of what we support and maybe give our support and energy to what we do want.
Easier said than done. Its a matter of opportunity.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 14:14
ViralSpiral
The time will come when we will all remember who we are and what this game is.....
Yes I do remember but this journey has just more and more to remember or to re discover.
Love and blessings !
Ps Control is a Illusion
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 14:19
Icecold
Easier said than done. Its a matter of opportunity.
No its a matter of what you choose.
Icecold
24th March 2011, 14:20
I'm not arguing with a woman. Well not today anyhow.
Whitehaze
24th March 2011, 14:21
I do.........and they do and perhaps we all do. I make my own decisions on how to live my life. Decisions based on the confines placed on me by myself, us and them. So am I in control or are they in control or are we all in control? If I make choices that go against the rules and limitations then perhaps I am gaining ground on being free. However I have to be careful with my choices as they effect everything and everyone around me. So by taking care in choosing am I placing myself in my own confines? Does this mean that I am allowing others to help form my decisions subconsciously? Perhaps we all are in making the choices how we live our lives collectively. And if we are not........then maybe we should. Trillions of cells that comprise our bodies chose to bind together so that we may exist as individuals in this form. A choice to survive collectively. If we consciously make decisions as a whole, then we form a singularity that makes desicions how we live our lives collectively.
and then again.......perhaps I need more coffee
ulli
24th March 2011, 14:22
ViralSpiral
The time will come when we will all remember who we are and what this game is.....
Yes I do remember but this journey has just more and more to remember or to re discover.
Love and blessings !
Ps Control is a Illusion
You are right if you have learnt how to go with the flow.
Basically 3 D life is about managing interruptions as well as your own expectations.
Even if the interruption comes from outside yourself,
at an inner level it might well have had a hidden link
to certain expectations that were repressed.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 14:25
I'm not arguing with a woman. Well not today anyhow.
OK You choose. :hug:
ViralSpiral
24th March 2011, 14:27
I'm not arguing with a woman. Well not today anyhow.
OK You choose. :hug:
looooooooooool!
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Lord Sidious
24th March 2011, 14:27
Do or do not !
The force do not support try !!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x51EIXjhiEU&feature=related
You have been talking to that little green communist again, haven't you?
I thought I told you he lies?
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 14:41
ViralSpiral
The time will come when we will all remember who we are and what this game is.....
Yes I do remember but this journey has just more and more to remember or to re discover.
Love and blessings !
Ps Control is a Illusion
You are right if you have learnt how to go with the flow.
Basically 3 D life is about managing interruptions as well as your own expectations.
Even if the interruption comes from outside yourself,
at an inner level it might well have had a hidden link
to certain expectations that were repressed.
To me there is no expectation its just flow.
The flow is changing all the time.
And yes I go with the flow (mostly)
slvrfx
24th March 2011, 14:51
Interesting thread...Cats and Control. I've always been a cat person, only Siamese. But last year my kids gave me a ****zu puppy, who was completely trained by the time she was 3 months old. Very bright and so silly.
But I gotta tell you, having a pootchie is like having a child. My world revolves around her and her bathroom breaks, and when she decides to 'play fetch'. And she follows me everywhere, and gazes into my eyes, hypnotizing me into giving her, yet another treat.
Aside from that, in my early 20's, I decided to let the Universe decide what was best for me, and I never regretted my decision.
I knew by then, that if I pursued the direction I thought I wanted, it inevitably ended in varying stages of frustration and outright failure.
Now, some might say I'm just a spineless puppet, to which I must say, "HELL'S BELLS!! NO WAY!!!
You see, when you give up your need to control everything and throw yourself into the river flowing amongst the stars, it's not like your decisions are taken away....there's no forceful voice of thunder commanding that you do this, or that.....just a gentle nudging, a whisper in the ear...you still have choices.
I have found if I listen to that quiet voice and follow its counsel, life is actually easy. (And by ordinary standards, I sure have NOT lived an an easy life.)
The 'voice' also teaches you what the lessons are, behind every difficult circumstance, giving you understanding and wisdom.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 14:51
Do or do not !
The force do not support try !!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x51EIXjhiEU&feature=related
You have been talking to that little green communist again, haven't you?
I thought I told you he lies?
Ha ha ha No you didnt But now you have.
Oh.... Lord should know that the force dose not work if there is no focus !
The little green one knows what he is talking about !
:hug:
siggy
24th March 2011, 16:40
I have pretty much gone with the flow so far in life. I tell myself that the universe will provide.
But I do find myself getting frustrated at times when the flow isn't flowing fast enough or flowing in the right direction!?!? :(
:)
Lord Sidious
24th March 2011, 16:41
These two graciously allow me to provide them with all they need.
And they let me use my own bed too!
The first one is Sela, she was 16 on the 19th and the other one is Fleaman, he is 11 on the 23 of May.
He is looking through the tiny gap in the fence at the dogs on the other side.
They are both seal point siamese.
The bestest breed out.
Bestest is one better than best, just so that you avalonuggets know.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 22:19
I have pretty much gone with the flow so far in life. I tell myself that the universe will provide.
But I do find myself getting frustrated at times when the flow isn't flowing fast enough or flowing in the right direction!?!? :(
:)
Sounds like a fine path, go with faith :biggrin:
Teakai
24th March 2011, 22:31
I just trust in the plan higher Self made.
Like viewing an interactive 3D movie from the other side of the screen.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 22:31
Lord Sidious
These two graciously allow me to provide them with all they need.
And they let me use my own bed too!
Ha ha Lucky Youuuu!
Beautiful cats !!
Great teachers if one have the ability to see what they teach.
Thank You :thumb:
Chicodoodoo
24th March 2011, 22:34
The first priority goes to you -- you decide.
The second priority goes to those that have to live with you -- they decide.
The third priority goes to those that are affected by your actions -- they decide.
If you make the right decisions for yourself while properly considering those that live with you and those that are affected by your actions, I dare say you will have very smooth sailing through life.
Maria Stade
24th March 2011, 22:52
I just trust in the plan higher Self made.
Like viewing an interactive 3D movie from the other side of the screen.
Yes I found out that I had planed this, hmm yes it had to be so rough to take me all the way.
The thing is .... if you are very strong then it will take a lot to break down, and I did design my life her and I blame no one for my ride.
I also trust I will know when to do what, when its time !
The higher self knows !
Intuition Is so important !
:hug:
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