Help-I have a superiority complex!!

[Sidney]

Ok, I know this is wrong, and it is a no-no when it comes to evolving into a unconditional loving being.....BUT-- OMG lately I just have such a difficult time dealing with all the "sleeping" people that inhabit the world.
I think that I someday will just short-circuit, :boom:from having to bite my lip. People are clueless, and I just have run out of patience.
Everything seems so trivial compared to us awake people. The schools, the commercialism, the medical establishments,television etc.etc.

In my day to day life, I just seem to stare in amazement at the obsurdity of life in our society.

one small example:

I was at the dr office with my kids today, and in the waiting room they had 3, yes THREE different televisions going, THREE different channels, simultaneously.
I thought I would come unglued. And this was a psychiatrist office where my kids are being tested for adhd. There was one 5 feet above my head. About 15 feet across the room was another, and around the corner about another 10 feet, was a 3rd. All, different channels, tuned WAY too loud. Seriously, WTF is up with that.

And all I could think was, these are educated people that work here, can they be THAT stupid.??:frusty:

I hate our society, and I am embarrassed to admit that I share the same DNA with all these dumba**es.

And I feel like everywhere I go, there are stupid people. Sleepwalking dumb-a**es everywhere. And I feel incredibly guilty for thinking this way. I don't want to be "that" kind of person, to judge people because they are simply ignorant.

But I am.:( :behindsofa:

Help. What do I do??

[WhiteFeather]

LoL, I know how u feel. Help is coming. Hang in there Kid.

[loveandgratitude]

Just look at life as a university. You have graduated from university and moved on into the stream of life. Many are still in kindergarten, primary, high, college.

Thank the stars where you are standing then look ahead at what you have yet to learn and give thanks for your journey that is constantly moving upwards and expanding.

What you are now, is not what you will be tomorrow.

[markoid]

Be grateful.. the contrast is giving you a golden opportunity to silently broadcast a higher frequency. As long as it is getting to you, you are remaining a victim to all that you do not want... feeling negative emotions and, as such, 'feeding the beast'.
Simple, but not always easy :)

[enfoldedblue]

Hi
I know it can be frustrating, but I try to just remember that everyone has their perfect timing for awakening. I've been feeling like this since the early 90's. For a while I just resigned myself to the fact that it's just the way life is, and did the best I could to live my truth within this mad mad world. Anyway you can imagine how happy I am now that I realize everyone is on the awkening journey....it's only a matter of time, and things are really starting to change fast!!! I find the more I focus on the signs of the beautiful place this shift is heading...the more I find myself surrounded by new world experiences. I see that old world fading fast!
And don't be hard on yourself for feeling superior...it is natural and just part of the growing process. We were programmed to believe we were small so it is natural that as we awaken to our divinity we may swing a little too far...and step into superiority...we will eventually find that point of balance where we recognise that it is impossible to compare people because we all have our own unique journeys that are perfect for us. No one really can be better than anyone else because we are each unique expressions of the same divinity. Different people learn different things in different ways at different times. We just need to find our groove.

LOVE ALLways, c

[bonnyhut]

I dont know about this adhd business - dont believe it!!! I would go somewhere else for assistance with your kids - perhaps Chinese medicine practitioner - they know so much more.

Anyway, we have absolutely no control whatsoever over that which is outside of ourselves (which is why the Illuminati will eventually fall) so we may as well let it go and allow them the freedom to swim in their stupidity whilst allowing ourselves the freedom to be disapproved of by them for not conforming.

**I see stupid people.** The world is full of them but there are also many clued up, aware, geniuses everywhere. Personally I would put more focus on what the cool people are doing. Energy flows where attention goes... why should the sheeple have your precious energy?

[Tane Mahuta]

Be grateful.. the contrast is giving you a golden opportunity to silently broadcast a higher frequency. As long as it is getting to you, you are remaining a victim to all that you do not want... feeling negative emotions and, as such, 'feeding the beast'.
Simple, but not always easy :)

I too Concur.....

Slow down....it's not far away!

TM

[Anchor]

Help. What do I do??

Try harder.

Perhaps you are coming face to face with one of the core reasons for you incarnating at this time and in these circumstances.

[Heyoka_11]

And I feel like everywhere I go, there are stupid people. Sleepwalking dumb-a**es everywhere. And I feel incredibly guilty for thinking this way. I don't want to be "that" kind of person, to judge people because they are simply ignorant.

Sorry starchild, but I see no evidence of judgement having taken place. You are simply making an observation, and it is most likely an accurate one.

Now, if you started to think of yourself as better than the sleepwalking dumb-a**es, that would be a different matter, and I hope that you don't. You are just fortunate in that you have managed to swim a distance further upstream than others have.

Go easy on yourself, you are neither looking for fault in others that I can see, nor are you suffering a superiority complex. ;)

[Ineffable Hitchhiker]

one small example:

I was at the dr office with my kids today, and in the waiting room they had 3, yes THREE different televisions going, THREE different channels, simultaneously.
I thought I would come unglued. And this was a psychiatrist office where my kids are being tested for adhd. There was one 5 feet above my head. About 15 feet across the room was another, and around the corner about another 10 feet, was a 3rd. All, different channels, tuned WAY too loud. Seriously, WTF is up with that.

And all I could think was, these are educated people that work here, can they be THAT stupid.??:frusty:


Help. What do I do??

If I took my children to any doctor and saw 3 tvs in the waiting room, I would have immediately turned to the door and not set foot in there again.
TVs are the worst "stimulants" for kids with ADHD. Any "doctor" who doesn´t know that, doesn´t deserve clientele!
I cannot know what your situation is like, but my advice would be...find what you are looking for.

My daughter once sat in the chair of an orthodontist. She was 14 at the time and needed braces(brackets).
There are 3 "models" of brackets/braces. The exorbitant kind (which are almost invisible) and 2 others.
Once hubby, daughter and I had discussed which model to use, we went back to the orthodontist to have them fitted.
He condescendingly remarked, while checking my daughters teeth, how sad it was that her parents didn´t choose the expensive model that most parents choose.
After my initial shock, I stood up, grabbed my bag and told my daughter to get up and we left.
Needless to say that I received a phone call when we got home, with an apology and an attempt to make a new appointment. My only answer was :-"How dare you!" and slammed the phone down.
We searched around until we found one that we were looking for.
He was wonderful! He had a knack of building confidence and got to know each kid individually making them comfortable and at ease to be there.

When my kids were small, we were at a paediatrician who insisted on giving the children every vaccination under the sun.
I left and went looking for another one. One who would understand that I did not want my kids to be vaccinated unnecessarily.
I found him. My children are now almost adults and very healthy, without having had all the vaccinations.

Choose what´s right for you and your kids. Sometimes it is easier said than done but if you persevere, the right person will come your way.

As for the "stupid, sleep-walking" people, just remember that life is full of diversity.
Focus on that which is uplifting to the soul and walk away from that which robs you of energy.

Good luck on your journey, starchild. :)

[Carmen]

Did you think to ask to have the televisions turned off as they were driving you crazy??Just a thought.

[New Dawn]

I'm not sure you're really doing anything wrong - I see stupid people all around me, all of the time. Its just the way it is. The Tv thing, well people are like moths attracted to the light of the screen, with the added 'bonus' of also enjoying the zombie state it puts you in without even realising. I got rid of my TV's for that reason, but we've still got to put up with the stupid crap that is on other people's TV's. People look at me like 'what's wrong with you' when I tell them I don't have and don't want a TV. I choose to enjoy their confusion.

Still on topic (to me at least) - the other day somone I have known for three years just couldn't believe that I deleted my Facebook so much so, that he accused me of having a secret one. We live in a world where people think like that...and I'm the crazy one?

Just enjoy the ride, do your bit and don't worry about the rest as you'll drive yourself crazy. I became quite the recluse when I woke up, and it was during my Uni course that it got worse. I was actually thinking 'how can I be here playing into this stupid pointless game'.

[The One]

Help. What do I do??

Nothing. You are awake

The truth is the masses have not woken up yet. They go about their daily lives doing the same thing day in day out never stepping out the box it’s not their fault its how we have been programmed. I know there is more to this daily routine than meets the eye.

It’s how you go about controlling that as an individual. Remember you are the power

[pickle]

.............................And I feel like everywhere I go, there are stupid people. Sleepwalking dumb-a**es everywhere. And I feel incredibly guilty for thinking this way. I don't want to be "that" kind of person, to judge people because they are simply ignorant.

But I am.:( :behindsofa:

Help. What do I do??

I've been going through exactly the same the past few years... walking through town looking at the many different 'stages' everyone seems to be at. Then I realised I was no different, I too am a *'sheeple', we're all at different stages of a journey imo, and I've no idea when I will leave the 'unenlightened' stage to an 'enlightened' stage - and to what degree - 'novice'? 'experienced'? 'advanced'? 'God-like', floating two inches above ground?.

In the time I started feeling 'different' about life I did get a pang of superiority - or feeling like I had a secret! Then I thought about the gazillions of others that could be walking past me having been very aware for many years and looking at me as though I was a caveman, and if the Dalai Lama met me, would I feel so advanced?

Be happy in where you are and where you're going, everyone else has their own trip. Ooh, ignore all of that, the saying, "if you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there" popped into my brain cell ;-)



*words can't describe how insulting, demeaning, self-bloody-superior I think the use of that word is, but meh, I'm having a hard day, so there... :p


Peace,

Pickle

[Star1111]

starchild111 - don't feel bad about how you feel. I don't believe you do have superiority complex. You are simply being AUTHENTIC, which is one of the most important lessons.

Like a lot of our Avalonian friends have already said its becuase you are awake and so you SEE things more clearly than the non-awake.

When you start to feel this way try to centre, concentrate on your breathing - calm it and ask for peace and understanding then give out as much LOVE as you can. Not easy I know!! but if you let the dumb a**es as you call them 'win' and allow them to make you angry, negative, or demonstrate any negative hateful emotions, then 'they' have won. Also when you have any negative actions or thoughts send them LOVE too. They can't stay around to long if you send them LOVE as negativity breeds on negativity.

Whatever you do try not to HATE, so harmful to you and the Earth. I have taken the words SHOULD and HATE out of my vocabulary and I try not to JUDGE - but again, I'm human so I have to be aware at all times.

Don't forget you are a soul incarnating as a human and thus you will have all the experiences of living as a human, this is part of the journey and one that you agreed upon beforehand. Its all a learning exercise.

Peace and LOVE to you and remember you are not alone in your journey - enjoy the journey!

[Lisab]

Sometimes a little anger can be constuctive I think, how else are we gonna change things? As always it's all about balance. Can you change doctors? Love Lisa x

[MorningSong]

Greeting Starchild111!

I definately understand your problem when we who are "awake and aware" must converge with the boxed-up sleepers. In particulare situations, such as when we must (but must we?) enter the control system checkpoints like doctor's offices, hospitals, schools, administrative offices of any kind... it can be very frustrating. "We the people" have been sold on the idea that someone "else" will/must take care of so many areas of our lives. The sheeple let them do it, see it as a service to them, even as a "right" to get the "service". Little do they realize that their power to choose, their own liberty, has been stolen.

I had a similar experience when my first son was 3. He refused to speak in any kind of comprehensive language; he had created his own vocabulary. I did not condone his "homemade" language as I was very much against "baby language", but simply ignored his babble and continued using my mothertongue, my husband used his and my inlaws used theirs (dialect). The child was being raised multi-lingual, you see. After being sent (ordered by the pre-school social services) to every imaginable physician for evaluations, finally, after about 6 months of real trauma to my son and myself, we were sent to a language specialist who dismissed the whole thing, (thank goodness, as I was the only one advocating from the very beginning what he diagnosed)... the child was tri-lingual! What was happening was the most common "mishap" that occurs in multi-lingual families... the child would eventually start speaking at his own good time (which he did, but he refused to speak my language for years after this experience)...

What I learned from this experience? Just because "they" say something is wrong, that I "must " do this or that DOES NOT mean that "they" know what they're talking about...and in my case, was definately a power thing to have control over me and my son's life. Things went very differently with my second son, let me tell you!

Ask yourself why you were in that position, in that office, in that situation. Maybe your higher self was telling you to get out before it was too late.... just an idea.

I send loving energy thoughts to you and your children that you may find your way through these obstacles.

[Fred Steeves]

Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

Things are unfolding exactly as they should, and when they should, it simply can't be any other way. I'm pretty sure that when the time was right, it was the collective raised vibrations of those who were already awakened that finally cracked me wide open. The energies are MUCH more powerful now than they were three years ago, so just imagine how many lost souls are out there now who are unwittingly right on the cusp of having this profound awakening, just at the right time for them. Maybe all that's missing at this very minute for a certain person out there is for your positive, encouraging energy to join the chorus.

No one knows who the 100th monkey may be, maybe it's that person.

Cheers,
Fred

[Niobe]

Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

:shocked: Haha that is too funny Fred! And soo encouraging to hear. What a great post!

I agree with many of the other people here that have commented. Just to expand a little- I used to belong to a group, well a coven, and we met once or twice per month for various celebrations. I didn't think too highly of some of the people in that group upon first impressions, but after spending time with them and learning more about them, realized that I was wrong in being so quick to judge. My point is that maybe a lot of those people you see that you think are "dumb***es" are not quite so bad. Heck, maybe some of them are even awake too, and just trying to get through the societal stream like the rest of us. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel though. Some days are worse than others. Overall, I do my best to ignore the negativity/stupidity/etc and focus on where I am at and being the best example that I can be. I'm lucky too that I work at home and my son schools at home, so we really don't have to interact a lot unless we choose to. Some people would argue that avoidance isn't the answer, but in my case, it does help my mental health. :P

Blessings, Niobe

[spiritguide]

The office you were at systematically sucks positive energies and replaces it with labels....you being enlightened and knowing should not expose your family or yourself to these negative environments. Your reaction and thoughts were right on and you need to listen to yourself more and take appropriate action. As you proceed on your journey, keep love and kindness in your heart and all will be good.

Peace! :o

[Eric J (Viking)]

We all go through this stage when we wake up...trust me it will pass ... you will be more in acceptance with certain reactions/situations...when they are ready they will see for themselves what is what...until that time just feed them with tid bits for them to ponder on...

The light will eventually take over and filter through...they can then decide what to do with it!!...

I know its maddening but frustration will take you no-where...bide your time>>>>>>>>

viking

[MorningSong]

Hmm.....just stumbled onto this video....could be appropriate...or maybe a little off topic...I'll let you all decide:

orxEawi9qro

[ulli]

After the initial awakening the personality has to find a new way of relating,
as all the old self -image particles were shattered.

Actually, this goes for nearly all phases in life, not only spiritual awakening.
I was a fashion designer once, and each year's fashion is based on heavy dogma,
and therefore rejects anyone who is still going around in last years garb.
This is all part of consolidating fresh dogma.

Yet if the new teachings include principles of tolerance and love then all the events that appear on the screen of your life
act as a training event for you to develop your tolerance muscle.

It can't happen in a day, just know it for what it is.

[Orion.V]

concider it as another obstacle that you need to remove and overcome as your mind evolves further... yes i feel similar and sad about the sleeping people but then again i believe they are on the same journey too. be patient.

[Sidney]

Thank you for all your great replies!!!I have been actually pretty patient the last few years, (about how long I've been in the clue), and I don't know why all of the sudden, it's like I reached my BS thresh hold. And actually its my neices that are definitely add. Their mom was a cancer victim, and she adopted them. I've had them 2 yrs now.. They have always had issues, and we have tried alot of things (natural, diet etc) and I can't just let them keep getting F's in every subject. And I am in a smallish town with not many medical resources, and coincidentally, my money trees didn't flourish this year, so I have to go where the insurance co. tells me to go, because we all have to eat too.

Its the "system". The school "system". The medical "system". The financial "system". and the LEGAL "system". Maybe I am just suffering from system overload.

But the point is, that my biggest pet peeve, is living under a microscope, and so many people are quick to judge, or gossip, stick their noses where they don't belong.
And I am finding that I am really doing just that, looking down on those that aren't there yet. That life outside my home is just a major yawn. And I really have become somewhat of a recluse, because I feel that I don't have a thing in common with our society. Thank god, my other half is awake and aware too..

[Sidney]

Hmm.....just stumbled onto this video....could be appropriate...or maybe a little off topic...I'll let you all decide:

orxEawi9qro


Thank You morning song, that was very fitting. Made me realize that I should focus on empathizing with those who have not received the gift of information, instead of criticizing, because they are still lost. I found that video short and sweet, and pretty powerful. Good find!!!!

[Sidney]

After the initial awakening the personality has to find a new way of relating,
as all the old self -image particles were shattered.

Actually, this goes for nearly all phases in life, not only spiritual awakening.
I was a fashion designer once, and each year's fashion is based on heavy dogma,
and therefore rejects anyone who is still going around in last years garb.
This is all part of consolidating fresh dogma.

Yet if the new teachings include principles of tolerance and love then all the events that appear on the screen of your life
act as a training event for you to develop your tolerance muscle.

It can't happen in a day, just know it for what it is.


That is brilliant!!

[aranuk]

Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

Things are unfolding exactly as they should, and when they should, it simply can't be any other way. I'm pretty sure that when the time was right, it was the collective raised vibrations of those who were already awakened that finally cracked me wide open. The energies are MUCH more powerful now than they were three years ago, so just imagine how many lost souls are out there now who are unwittingly right on the cusp of having this profound awakening, just at the right time for them. Maybe all that's missing at this very minute for a certain person out there is for your positive, encouraging energy to join the chorus.

No one knows who the 100th monkey may be, maybe it's that person.

Cheers,
Fred

Hi Fred, what on earth happened to you on the 2nd Sep 2008 that made a change?

Stan

[Sidney]

Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

Things are unfolding exactly as they should, and when they should, it simply can't be any other way. I'm pretty sure that when the time was right, it was the collective raised vibrations of those who were already awakened that finally cracked me wide open. The energies are MUCH more powerful now than they were three years ago, so just imagine how many lost souls are out there now who are unwittingly right on the cusp of having this profound awakening, just at the right time for them. Maybe all that's missing at this very minute for a certain person out there is for your positive, encouraging energy to join the chorus.

No one knows who the 100th monkey may be, maybe it's that person.

Cheers,
Fred


I could not agree more Fred. That is a very good point, as I realize I perhaps passed up an opportunity to enlighten someone by seething in my own anger.. That really makes all the sense in the world!!!!! This is certainly a learning process. I am so grateful for everyone here. :grouphug::grouphug:

[Fred Steeves]

Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

Things are unfolding exactly as they should, and when they should, it simply can't be any other way. I'm pretty sure that when the time was right, it was the collective raised vibrations of those who were already awakened that finally cracked me wide open. The energies are MUCH more powerful now than they were three years ago, so just imagine how many lost souls are out there now who are unwittingly right on the cusp of having this profound awakening, just at the right time for them. Maybe all that's missing at this very minute for a certain person out there is for your positive, encouraging energy to join the chorus.

No one knows who the 100th monkey may be, maybe it's that person.

Cheers,
Fred

Hi Fred, what on earth happened to you on the 2nd Sep 2008 that made a change?

Stan

Hi Stan, I just used Sept.1 because of today's date. It was during the market crash and bailout period, starting some time in September, when I watched my man Bush, with Hank Paulson by his side, say on live t.v. that we had to suspend the free market to save the free market. I'll never forget that moment, it was like ringing the bell. I sat forward on the couch and said to myself "what the f**k is that?". Once it hit home that my hero Bush was lying through his teeth, and suddenly nothing else in the world was making sense, it was time to seek answers elsewhere...

By January I was reading "Tales from the Time Loop" by "crazy man" David Icke, had seen Alex Jones' "The Obama Deception", watched Zeitgeist, discovered Jordan Maxwell, Bill and Kerry, on and on. It was a VERY traumatic period. Everything I knew from 42 years of life was now bulls**t, and it was time to start over from scratch.Verrrrry sloooowly, and not before a dark night of the soul time was to also be endured.

A most humbling experience.

Cheers,
Fred

[christian]

Inferiority / Superiority is a matter of perspective. The sheeple are on average much superior in enjoying profanity on TV screens. So you might as well feel inferior because the TVs in that room bothered you so much. You are just different, which we all are, although we are all one, this is Zen somehow, I feel.

Why don't you just try to stay calm and speak to the people in that room and ask them, if they don't know how being exposed to TV increases a child's probability to show attention deficite hyperactivity symptoms? Seek balance, my friend, if your environment pulls your strings, change your tune :)

[transitionalman]

We all have been there and know how you feel. I think everyone goes through the phase where they try to wake as many people up as possible. I can sense your frustration too. The advice I could give you is to ask your higher self "Should I be bringing my children here?". If that place doesn't resonate well with you, you should find a place that does.
We love you!

Best wishes

[Camilo]

Well dear, don't feel bad about it, and I wouldn't say this is superiority complex, you're just awake and aware and for the most part "people" in general are not. I feel the same way and I'm sure many here do as well. I sugest this may help you to develope patience, tolerance and unconditional love for all.

[HORIZONS]

As for the "stupid, sleep-walking" people, just remember that life is full of diversity.
Focus on that which is uplifting to the soul and walk away from that which robs you of energy.


Very wise advise here - thank you for the reminder. :) :thumb:

[transitionalman]

I love this answer! TY

[Dawn]

With aging has come wisdom. I used to feel just as you do. Relax and allow yourself to be just as reactive as you need to be, and learn to listen to yourself with love. Your reactivity is telling you something, which you are not listening to. When ever you have this type of reaction it is time to leave your situation and go somewhere else. There are awakened people in all walks of life. Decide that you are worthy of finding them and interacting with them. You can find a loving space to be in nearly every where, provided you allow yourself to have it.

In other words... when you are upset like this, consider that you may be WISE..... Perhaps you know you SHOULD NOT BE THERE... do not beat yourself up for recognizing when you need to leave.

Learning to love yourself, and listen to yourself, without judgement is the key.

You are beautiful.... I am so glad you are seeing the reality as it is.... now, just walk away from it and find a new one.

[Wub]

I think we need to show a bit of compassion for all the peeps who don't see what is happening - and I know - it makes me despair sometimes too. Yet we can't justify feelings of superiority if we aim to become wise. Feeling that we're better than someone else is not what its about.

Its about tolerance, understanding, education.....and a bit of compassion too.

[Anno]

There's one really valuable peice of info I'd like to share with anyone that feels they have a superiority complex. You'll never be as good as me =P

I don't like all this talk of stupid, ignorant, asleep. They aren't, they're just not interested in the same things as us. The only real difference is that they haven't learnt to see things from the perspective we see them from, or they have and just aren't interested. So what if they'd rather watch X-Factor and eat processed food. It doesn't make them less special than us.

Let's not let our sub-culture become a religion because it certainly feels like one on certain other forums and with certain gurus using the word Sheeple all the time. For me, sheeple means the same as Goyim, Kufar or ******. It's a word used to reduce someone to a level below you so you can justify abusing them. No genuine guru would use such a word. Unless they were a genetics guru cloning people with sheep. Then it's ok.

[edit] The auto censored word is "The N Bomb". I wonder what other words are on the list. I may start an expletive thread to see if I can find them all.

[DeDukshyn]

I also have a massive superiority complex, (just check through my posts), but I realized that I had to move past it through love and forgiveness of all others regardless of their vibrational state or level of awareness or lack of sound reasoning or anything. This is the very next step after the superiority complex hits you - instant forgiveness and unconditional love - the universe is now calling you to integrate these - it is the only solution to the complex and it is the solution. Your superiority complex may still end up somewhat intact but it will be shifted into merely a state of higher awareness, where your unconditional love and instant forgiveness can reside along with it. This has been my experience anyway, I believe this is a clear and cut sign for you as to the next steps to take. Just my 2 cents ;) - you can't change people, but you can be an example ...

[gooty64]

Great Topic Starchild. Let me answer succinctly.
A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth ANew Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth.
The ENTIRE Earth civilization must go through purification PERIOD

[Sidney]

Great Topic Starchild. Let me answer succinctly.
A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth ANew Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth. A New Earth.
The ENTIRE Earth civilization must go through purification PERIOD
thank you I couldnt agree more!!!!

[Kristo]

Great thread Starchild~ Be gentle with yourself. As an enlightened soul, you chose to inhabit a 3D body with all of its frailties (mental and physical). I agree it can get difficult dealing with those who are at a different stage, as I'm sure we get on other's nerves :p I have been 'awakened' my entire life. I'm currently dealing with a newly awakened sister who is in the judgemental 'evangelical' stage and knows EVERYTHING (just ask her.... Ha Ha)... On her Soap Box. I believe in being that silent transmitter of loving positivity... Opposite end of the spectrum, but just as annoying. Anyone else dealing with that???
Blessings,
Kristo

[Ruby L.]

starchild,

The title of your thread made me chuckle. Especially after I read your OP, then I chuckled even more. But, I understand what you mean. And, going by the responses here, so does everyone.

[Star1111]

We must have the same sister Kristo LOL.

[Sidney]

I have to say, I am feeling much better today, and that is the direct result of all of you!!!! I am so grateful to know that I am not alone and that I have a mind that thinks not just out of the box, but in,out and all around it too. I am going to try really really hard to work on my tolerance level, and thank my lovely creator that I am truly blessed to have the knowledge, and knowings, and gifts like all of you people of this forum, and to habitually send loving healing, giving thoughts to the people that annoy me and try my patience.

I do feel that we (Avalonians) are a sub-species, that happens to be a bit higher evolved, but I also realize that we are individuals, growing each day at a different rate than someone else. I am where I am suppose to be, as are you, and also every person on earth. Somehow, we are all connected, and I am no better than anyone else. Just different.

I will however, always hate the television!!:lol:

[Ethereal Blue Being]

Star child. I was wondering if the Dr did this intentionally having 3 tvs on as an ADHD child would have become disoriented and would have kept glancing at all of the screens and not selecting one for any length of time. I would have asked the receptionist to turn all tvs to one channel or turn off two tvs, please . if she refused than I would have said "Then I need to reschedule my three children for another day when the tvs will be off in the waiting room as I believe the pre stimulation to the testing will greatly skew the results and may result in an inaccurate diagnosis and unnecessary medications.and I would like to speak to the head nurse or the Dr. now" I would have said this very calmly. Also whenever I have those "cant take anymore of the sleeping people moments . I ask myself what am I supposed to learn from this and if others are near how can the way I handle a situation help them..

[kathymarie]

Ha ha, Fred...I agree completely although I still enjoy listening to Rush...and as for Fox News..It's still more trustworthy than some others.
Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

Things are unfolding exactly as they should, and when they should, it simply can't be any other way. I'm pretty sure that when the time was right, it was the collective raised vibrations of those who were already awakened that finally cracked me wide open. The energies are MUCH more powerful now than they were three years ago, so just imagine how many lost souls are out there now who are unwittingly right on the cusp of having this profound awakening, just at the right time for them. Maybe all that's missing at this very minute for a certain person out there is for your positive, encouraging energy to join the chorus.

No one knows who the 100th monkey may be, maybe it's that person.

Cheers,
Fred

[kathymarie]

I guess I have a wee bit of a problem with the idea of seeing those who aren't awake yet as dumbas**es....what I feel is more pity than anything. It's as silly and wrong and small-minded for me to say people who use incorrect grammar or misspell "absurdity" are dumba****......and I would never do that....:)

[HORIZONS]

Ha ha, Fred...I agree completely although I still enjoy listening to Rush...and as for Fox News..It's still more trustworthy than some others.
Well starchild, how bout this: As of September 1, 2008, I was still one of the "dumbasses" you refer to. I had John McCain for president signs in me front yard, followed Rush Limbaugh religiously, and thought FOX News was the only news organization that told it straight up...Oh, and of course I would have laughed and called YOU the crazy one...LOL.

Things are unfolding exactly as they should, and when they should, it simply can't be any other way. I'm pretty sure that when the time was right, it was the collective raised vibrations of those who were already awakened that finally cracked me wide open. The energies are MUCH more powerful now than they were three years ago, so just imagine how many lost souls are out there now who are unwittingly right on the cusp of having this profound awakening, just at the right time for them. Maybe all that's missing at this very minute for a certain person out there is for your positive, encouraging energy to join the chorus.

No one knows who the 100th monkey may be, maybe it's that person.

Cheers,
Fred

:thumb:



And the men who hold high places
Must be the ones who start
To mould a new reality
Closer to the Heart
Closer to the Heart

The Blacksmith and the Artist
Reflect it in their art
Forge their creativity
Closer to the Heart
Yeah, it's closer to the Heart

Philosophers and Ploughmen
Each must know his part
To sow a new mentality
Closer to the Heart
Yeah, it's closer to the Heart

You can be the Captain and
I will draw the Chart
Sailing into destiny
Closer to the Heart

-RUSH


They're not exactly the PTB you know ;) lol

[Sidney]

Star child. I was wondering if the Dr did this intentionally having 3 tvs on as an ADHD child would have become disoriented and would have kept glancing at all of the screens and not selecting one for any length of time. I would have asked the receptionist to turn all tvs to one channel or turn off two tvs, please . if she refused than I would have said "Then I need to reschedule my three children for another day when the tvs will be off in the waiting room as I believe the pre stimulation to the testing will greatly skew the results and may result in an inaccurate diagnosis and unnecessary medications.and I would like to speak to the head nurse or the Dr. now" I would have said this very calmly. Also whenever I have those "cant take anymore of the sleeping people moments . I ask myself what am I supposed to learn from this and if others are near how can the way I handle a situation help them..

I honestly think that it is so common to have televisions in public places, especially drs offices, and apparently most people either want that or just so used to it that its a non issue. I happen to have hypersensative senses, all of them, so things like that bother me more so than other people(especially noise).

One of tvs was in the "childrens area", obnoxious kids channel, one was blaring FOX news, and the third had on a soap opera, but with all 3 going none of them were at all understandable. I was going to say something, but the receptionist was busy checking in patients, and I was so annoyed, that I knew I would come across as angry, which I didn't want to cause that sort of confrontation in public, and I didn't want to embarrass the kids either.

I actually did call the office today, and let them know that the TV situation was unhealthy, unpleasant, and IMO inappropriate, and that I hoped that they would consider having only one television, if they had to have any. I did not give my name, and the receptionist said she would pass the message to the office manager when she came in.

I was obviously overly stressed out that day, and I also really believe that the solar flare that occurred on the 28th magnified my agitation, as that is how the solar flares tend to affect me. And, I'm gettting old and grumpy. lol

What I have learned from this though is that I don't want to be a hypocrite by judging and thinking bad of people because of something they at this point have no control over.
The sheeple thing isn't just the dr s office for me, it is life in general, our way of life, society, and the systems that conduct our daily lives. It is difficult living in the "Rabbit hole"simultaneously coping with regular 3D society.



I will meditate more, spend more time being creative, and asking my higher power to help me be kind and patient and loving. It reminds me of this song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmNTAvnSais

[HORIZONS]

Starchild - I know what you mean as TV drives me crazy when it's on. I think it is an addiction for most people and they do not realize this at all. If you go over to someone's house the TV is on even if no one is watching it, and this makes it difficult to even have a conversation. It seems like people will just turn it on and leave it on just for the noise of it, or for the energy it brings into the home. I know people that have a TV on in every room of the house - all the time - I can't even go in those homes for very long.
And then in public places like you say with blaring TV's, it just gets under my skin and agitates my nerves really bad. I am very uncomfortable around TV - something about the energy of it all. There have been times when I would turn off, or turn down, the TV and then other people would give me the "evil eye" for doing so - How dare you turn off the TV - sacrilege! Getting off TV is like getting off drugs - it is not always easy, but it is worth it in every other way -- and of corse this attitude makes people think that I have a "I am better than you" attitude - but this is not what it is at all. That is just a false perception of my true attitude. I am not "better" than anyone else - just very different in how I perceive, and experience, our 3D reality. If people only knew the day and hour in which we live - they too would be very different in their expression.

[Unified Serenity]

The really sad thing is people often (now anyways) do not know how to sit in stillness, read a book, or just politely talk to the person next to them. We live in a world of constant noise and stimulation. I can imagine people had a much healthier mental state back when there were no tv's and radios going constantly. How many people get in their car and the first thing they do is turn on the radio, dvd for the kids, or get on their cell phone?

We for the majority are an out of touch and over stimulated people.

[HORIZONS]

The really sad thing is people often (now anyways) do not know how to sit in stillness, read a book, or just politely talk to the person next to them. We live in a world of constant noise and stimulation. I can imagine people had a much healthier mental state back when there were no tv's and radios going constantly. How many people get in their car and the first thing they do is turn on the radio, dvd for the kids, or get on their cell phone?

We for the majority are an out of touch and over stimulated people.

I totally agree with you - and with the advancement in personal listening devices (iPod) you never have to hear silence again. :(

[skamandar]

Seems like almost everybody in the thread are so loving, supporting and understanding of the zombies (or dum. .sses). Too much love and diplomacy here. As If there is something wrong in being completely ANGRY :confused:

So I will give a different perspective - this is what I do:

1.In case I need a hand for something that I cannot do myself - at the moment I smell a zombie I am out of there and I keep on searching, until I find some awakened being with more knowledge in the area I need help. (I always find appropriate people, many times here - thank you)

2.In case a zombie comes for help in my area (I am a customer service in a bank)
a)If the zombie is acting nice - I will turn a mountain upside down to help. We can sit there and calculate together until I am sure that the person knows what I am actually talking about and completely understand each and every aspect of what I've say.
b)at the moment the zombie tries to climb on my head and dance - I give a very well articulated (at least I think so) and calm explanation, on how nobody is allowed to stand on my head, as if I am the bottom of a pyramid, and my only purpose is to provide better view from up above. I give them a chance to voluntary step doun, and I give them warning, that they risk breaking a head in the process of me pulling them down from my head. This usually has no effect and we go to the next step - ME GET ANGRY!!! And there is the example:

Angry customer shouting (after a long pre conversation in which I mentioned all the above points)
Customer: I have a credit in CHF, and the CHF is going up!!!! You bankers are thieves, I have always known that!!! I am following conspiracy forums!!! I know YOU!! I want you to tell me IMMEDIATELY in which currency should I convert my credit??? How comes you DON"T WANT to tell me?
Me (trying to joke): I am not Edgar Cayce actually...
Customer: I don't care - I am a CUSTOMER - do you understand? I feed you, I pay your salary..
Me (standing up, completely angry): Do you actually UNDERSTAND how STUPID your question is? Do you think that if I knew how the currencies will fluctuate in the future, I will be here talking to an .ss like YOU? I will be away from all this BS, with the money I made from that knowledge.
Customer (dumbfound): Are you calling me STUPID and an .ss?
Me: You are levels beyond that. Go home and work on yourself ..
Customer: I will make official complain
Me: Be my guest

Do you know that every 3-rd customer is like this. And that no one complains..

3.In case of asleep, zombified boss
I went to my last working place by chance and I immediately loved it. The only problem was that the HEAD of the department was a dum. .ss.
I spend about 2 months in a verbal fight with him. In short, I told him, being very calm at the same time, that I like the place, I feel that this is where I belong currently, he is the one that needs to go. Needless to say - he was foaming out of his mouth, threatening to fire me, and so on.. Guess what - he resigned long time ago. Now my boss is someone I believe totally deserves to be my boss. So my work environment is near to perfect.

In conclusion I think this is the key to feel good in a zombified world:
ALWAYS GET ANGRY WHEN SOMEBODY CROSSES YOUR BOUNDARIES. AND ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR ANGER WITH WORDS ONLY!! AND YES, THE WORDS CAN BE A BIT INSULTING, BUT BEFORE THE INSULT GIVE AN EXACT EXPLANATION OF WHY THIS INSULT CAME TO BE.

[dreamer]

Personally ive found that it helps me to remember one thing.. no matter how much someone pis**s me off, and cant seem to get the big picture, i have to realise that everyone has big problems in there life, and we have no idea what the "tottally asleep" person ahead of us in line somewhere, has to face when they go home, or wherever. Even though we may think that alot of things are trivial, they dont, and are dealing with there own demons along side us. It is a lesson being learned, weather we are awake or asleep. I dunno... im rambling, basically i just try to remember that everyone has demons to deal with, and consider that before casting judgement.

[Sidney]

Seems like almost everybody in the thread are so loving, supporting and understanding of the zombies (or dum. .sses). Too much love and diplomacy here. As If there is something wrong in being completely ANGRY :confused:

So I will give a different perspective - this is what I do:

1.In case I need a hand for something that I cannot do myself - at the moment I smell a zombie I am out of there and I keep on searching, until I find some awakened being with more knowledge in the area I need help. (I always find appropriate people, many times here - thank you)

2.In case a zombie comes for help in my area (I am a customer service in a bank)
a)If the zombie is acting nice - I will turn a mountain upside down to help. We can sit there and calculate together until I am sure that the person knows what I am actually talking about and completely understand each and every aspect of what I've say.
b)at the moment the zombie tries to climb on my head and dance - I give a very well articulated (at least I think so) and calm explanation, on how nobody is allowed to stand on my head, as if I am the bottom of a pyramid, and my only purpose is to provide better view from up above. I give them a chance to voluntary step doun, and I give them warning, that they risk breaking a head in the process of me pulling them down from my head. This usually has no effect and we go to the next step - ME GET ANGRY!!! And there is the example:

Angry customer shouting (after a long pre conversation in which I mentioned all the above points)
Customer: I have a credit in CHF, and the CHF is going up!!!! You bankers are thieves, I have always known that!!! I am following conspiracy forums!!! I know YOU!! I want you to tell me IMMEDIATELY in which currency should I convert my credit??? How comes you DON"T WANT to tell me?
Me (trying to joke): I am not Edgar Cayce actually...
Customer: I don't care - I am a CUSTOMER - do you understand? I feed you, I pay your salary..
Me (standing up, completely angry): Do you actually UNDERSTAND how STUPID your question is? Do you think that if I knew how the currencies will fluctuate in the future, I will be here talking to an .ss like YOU? I will be away from all this BS, with the money I made from that knowledge.
Customer (dumbfound): Are you calling me STUPID and an .ss?
Me: You are levels beyond that. Go home and work on yourself ..
Customer: I will make official complain
Me: Be my guest

Do you know that every 3-rd customer is like this. And that no one complains..

3.In case of asleep, zombified boss
I went to my last working place by chance and I immediately loved it. The only problem was that the HEAD of the department was a dum. .ss.
I spend about 2 months in a verbal fight with him. In short, I told him, being very calm at the same time, that I like the place, I feel that this is where I belong currently, he is the one that needs to go. Needless to say - he was foaming out of his mouth, threatening to fire me, and so on.. Guess what - he resigned long time ago. Now my boss is someone I believe totally deserves to be my boss. So my work environment is near to perfect.

In conclusion I think this is the key to feel good in a zombified world:
ALWAYS GET ANGRY WHEN SOMEBODY CROSSES YOUR BOUNDARIES. AND ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR ANGER WITH WORDS ONLY!! AND YES, THE WORDS CAN BE A BIT INSULTING, BUT BEFORE THE INSULT GIVE AN EXACT EXPLANATION OF WHY THIS INSULT CAME TO BE.


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