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Tony
19th September 2011, 18:43
Meditation for Beginners

This is about methods of meditation for beginners. It is all about practice – not theory!
Meditation is very simple, but unfortunately many endless words are used to describe it.
Meditation is the method of seeing through this illusory existence.
If you do not want to change, then do not meditate.
Meditation will change everything.

Meditation is merely a tool to realise one's true nature. However, once one's true nature is realised, then meditation can be seen as just a continuity of that realisation. This is known as 'conduct'. We
start from being part time meditators to full time meditators. Meditation is not just sitting on the bum, as it has to be integrated with daily life (we are known as householders).

Generally, I try to write in non-sectarian terms, but this post is from the Buddhist perspective - Tibetan Buddhism. Most methods of meditation start off in a similar way, but as we progress, there will be differences. This is meant to give you a firm foundation. The meditation that suits you will depend on your temperament and capacity. There is also the path of non-meditation for the “town yogi”, which is to do with clear recognition.

This is really an alternative media forum, so meditation is not its main theme - but it is still very important! The understanding of the unity of consciousness and beyond is what we are all about.
I am not a teacher, but just a student who wishes to share information which is not easy to access. Remember - this is just information.
Your practice will turn it into knowledge, and then we can discuss wisdom!

Although I have been meditating for many years, I still regard myself as a beginner: it keeps one's feet on the ground...in pictures of Buddha, he often has one hand touching the earth (this was also an indication to the demons that he could not be touched).

So, the point of meditation is to become familiar with one's absolute true nature, but that is not the complete story!

Why do we meditate? It is a method of seeing clearly. We are confused about our true existence.
We have created a fabricated idea about ourselves, which causes negative emotions to arise when these ideas feel threatened. These negative emotions are fear, pride, desire, jealousy, anger and ignorance.
Most of our lives, we are controlled by these emotions, believing these thoughts to be us.

Of course, there are 'good' emotions - happiness, joy, contentment. But these can quickly turn into
my happiness, my joy, and my contentment, taking us neatly back to the negative emotions!
There are these good qualities, but we cannot claim them as our own. If we do, we suffer, and so do those around us. However, happiness, joy, contentment and knowing are qualities of our true nature, but it is all too easy to twist these qualities into a demonic form, via the ego.

We believe that 'things' and an 'acquired self' are real, and must be improved upon. This is how the mind gets distracted from its original natural state.

Other distractions are the two extremes nihilism and eternalism. Nihilism means nothingness (which could lead to depression), with the idea of everything being pointless.
Eternalism means we are a fixed entity/identity (with no possibility of change).
Buddhism is in the middle – In the space between.

At every stage of our path, perception changes. Together with this, is ego's deception lying in wait...it's all about me! Unfortunately, we also have to deal with an outside deception, but this can be used to our advantage, as a clear reminder.


Bum on Cushion

As long as you are relaxed and your back is straight, you can sit on a chair or cushion.
Lying down is possible, but one tends to go to sleep. Sitting straight helps with natural breathing and flow, and keeps your mind alert.
Hands on lap or thighs, eyes slightly open, or open.
If there are many thoughts, just lower the gaze.
If you are feeling sleepy, raise the gaze.
Nothing forced, everything relaxed.

The senses are wide open.
Here we may have to make a distinction between paths. This is called Shamata meditation, and it uses the breath as a focus. Merely noticing the inhalation and exhalation, thoughts will come - just return to watching the breath. The thoughts may seem to get worse. They are not - you are just noticing more! The point here is that it is your time to relax, rest and be at peace. The body is still, and gradually the mind becomes still...but aware! You can go back to thinking later. This is called Shamata with support.

Sometimes, we find ourselves in a vacant state, a dreamy state, which can be mistaken for meditation, but it's not.
It is a state of ignorance...not knowing. When we are day dreaming, we are cut off from our senses, and from what is around us.

Now the distinction has to be made, and this may cause confusion.
You have a choice between the path of the sutras, or the path of the tantras.
The sutras start with Shamata and then go on to Vipassana (insight meditation), which is like sharpening a knife on a wet stone - gradually you wear the stone and the knife away until nothing is left.
Others may describe it differently, but that is as far as I can go on that subject. What I will be describing is more towards the tantric path.

Whether the tantric path is suitable or not, will depend on your temperament, on how you relate to life.
It utilises intense intelligence, intense compassion and intense emotions.
It is not at all scary! I am sure you have heard lots of rumours and fuddled ideas about it, but it deals directly with the nature of mind and compassion.

Actually, I spent twenty years solely practising in order to be able follow the vajrayana path...only to find out that it is a 'back-up plan', for directly seeing the nature of mind. I say 'back-up' a little too lightly, as compassion and devotion - or deep appreciation for and understanding of the teaching - is of utmost importance. I'll leave it there for the moment, and will come back to that, but please be wary of making assumptions about a practice, unless you are a practitioner. One has to know precisely what one is talking about, or one is talking from ignorance...

Even in tantra, there are two ways to view meditation.
One is to find the view (empty essence) through the meditation - that is starting at the beginning of the book and going through to the end.
The other is for the view (empty essence) to be pointed out, and then the meditation is merely the continuity of that view.

Wouldn't it be nice if life were simple! It is, when you become more familiar with the process.
The essence is so simple that it goes unnoticed, so we need a few more words.

So, back to Shamata meditation.
Once we are more or less comfortable with watching the breath, we come to Shamata without support. This is simply noticing that at the end and beginning of each breath, there is a gap - or we notice a gap between thoughts.
In that gap, we rest naturally.
There is a still 'nowness' present, and the senses remain wide open.
With the senses wide open and the sense of nowness, one can take the meditation into daily life. One experiences moments of spaciousness.

Shamata with and without support are both still at a conceptual level, but it's a start.
It is building a firm foundation.
It's good to notice the difference between the two, as sometimes we have to return to Shamata with support when thoughts are rampant!


Moving out of Concepts

Dwelling in the now, or in stillness, is still conceptual.
It is dealing with 'me' dwelling in 'nowness'.
This is still duality, but there is an awareness or consciousness, so that is good.
There is a perceiver, and that which is perceived.
At this moment, panic may be setting in...“Er, so where am I?”
You are here, in full glory, but concepts cannot see that.
You are consciousness in unity with emptiness which manifests as compassion.

Here we must talk about consciousness.
All sentient beings are aware or conscious. This is natural.
Even a slug is aware, though it may have a short memory! But it is not aware or conscious of its true nature.
Humans are unique in this, although all sentient beings have a potential awakened nature (Buddha nature). Humans can realise their full potential. This precious human life is a rare as a blind turtle coming to the surface of a ocean once every hundred years and putting its head through a ring...

There are two truths - one is relative truth and the other, absolute truth.
Consciousness is relative truth, and Emptiness is absolute truth.
The trick is to work with then in union, so as not to move to one of the extremes as mentioned before (nihilism and eternalism).
Emptiness means pure and untainted, so pure perception!

This is where we come to another tricky issue.
People are going around thinking that they have pure perception right now.
If you truly had pure perception, you would be a Buddha, and would have transversed the ten Bhumis levels of a Bodhisattva.
We get glimpses of it, as it is our true nature. But the enlightened state is prolonged day and night, and it is said that one can manifest 100.000 emanations for the benefit of sentient beings.
Sorry to say this, but anything to do with 'me' and 'I' is still standing at the bottom of the ladder in a puddle of concepts! Still, it not all bad news - you can only go up!!! And you are not alone...

Consciousness

There are eight consciousnesses.
Five are the consciousness of the senses.
There are three of mind: the sixth is perception, the seventh is judgement, the eighth is the storehouse of thoughts.
In normal life, the interaction between the 6th 7th and 8th happens very quickly.

An example: we see something = 6th consciousness. It immediately goes to the 7th consciousness, which looks into the 8th consciousness to identify what it sees, so that the 7th consciousness can then judge whether it's good or bad. And so we go round in circles, maintaining the concepts held in the storehouse of the 8th (and therefore, karma).

We get into a pattern of behaviour. We program ourselves.
Meditation is about de-programming ourselves.
The closer we look, the more fascinating it is!

The 8th consciousness has two aspect: it is the hard drive, and also the information stored on the hard drive.
Through our practice of letting be, we gradually exhaust this store of information...karma!
The hard drive itself (called 'alaya' or all-ground) is a thought-free state. Unfortunately, it is similar to the 'empty essence', but it is not the same, although it can be mistaken for such. It is still dualistic. But the good news is that it is near enough!

Shamata without support, and the 8th consciousness, are both very close...but they are both still conceptual.
At that stage, all that is needed is awareness of awareness of the emptiness of emptiness.
Merely drop all 'doing' and 'maintaining', and rest in non-modified natural empty awareness. Just note. There is no longer perceiver and perceived...just pure perception.

It is nothing whatsoever, but anything can arise within it.

But...we are still dealing with a mere 'I', as karma has not been exhausted.
When karma has been exhausted, there is “enlightenment”!!!

If you seriously wish to start to meditate, it may be helpful to find a meditation group. When Gampopa asked for a final teaching, Milarepa turned lifted his robes and showed Gampopa his callused buttocks!

There are other types of meditation, such as devotional, compassion and analytical.
In Tibetan Buddhism they can be worked together, but again this will depend on your temperament.

All we have to do is decide to practice - but first we need to be convinced.
We have to recognise and admit that we are suffering. We are not totally happy, not totally satisfied. This is why the Kaliyuga is ideal time to practice - if everything was hunkydory, you wouldn't bother...

Recognise your nature, decide on that, and practise.

It is believed that one must hear the teachings from a lineage holder in order to be of real benefit: this is known as the oral transmission.
It is possible to follow an easy path, but there may be little benefit.
It is also possible to follow a tough path with great benefit.

All the best on your journey!

Tony

toothpick
19th September 2011, 20:10
Hi pie'n'eal.
I really appreciate all the valuable info on beginners meditation.
Tried following a few internet sights, but they just seem confusing.
Your instuctions are easy to follow and can not wait to give it a try.
I am accepting these instructionons as Oral Transmissions, I hope that is alright with you.
Pie"n"eal, I am very glad you have the gift of teachng people so that they can understand it easily, thanks man.

toothpick

Tony
20th September 2011, 07:20
There is quite a bit to digest. The mind sometimes needs some convincing and it needs to be aware of when it is getting stuck.
This is like being a spiritual engineer, you know how to keep the juice flowing!

raymond
20th September 2011, 08:03
There is quite a bit to digest. The mind sometimes needs some convincing and it needs to be aware of when it is getting stuck.
This is like being a spiritual engineer, you know how to keep the juice flowing!

spiritual engineer indeed

love your manner of describing highly mystical concepts

Tony
20th September 2011, 08:30
Hi pie'n'eal.
I really appreciate all the valuable info on beginners meditation.
Tried following a few internet sights, but they just seem confusing.
Your instuctions are easy to follow and can not wait to give it a try.
I am accepting these instructionons as Oral Transmissions, I hope that is alright with you.
Pie"n"eal, I am very glad you have the gift of teachng people so that they can understand it easily, thanks man.

toothpick

I suppose you could call it a Reading transmission!

Tony
20th September 2011, 18:19
Remembering.

A constant reminder is absolutely necessary as we tend to drift off, because the mind, body and senses desire something pleasant. The human realm is the desire realm chosen by our karma. This is a good place to work and it is just one of many realms. We are constantly being fed bad cookies, so we must counter this with some good cookies! Remember you have free will to join up the dots: however the bigger the picture the more choice of dots there are.

Just being aware of consciousness is not enough. We have to be barely aware, a light touch. If the awareness becomes too mindful, it becomes conceptual and full of effort. Just mere awareness. Consciousness is the relative side of our being, and emptiness is the absolute side of our being. We need to be aware of both. The unity of these two is compassion.

Our three qualities:
1. Emptiness 2. Awareness 3.Compassion.
It is that simple.

However at every moment, we have a choice of pure perception or mistaken perception.
But if it is not pointed out, then we have no choice, and that is how reality gets twisted.
We mistake what is real and the world around us reinforces the unreality.

This is how it works:
If our empty essence does not recognise itself, this is ignorance, because it wants...interesting!
If our awareness gets attracted, this is desire, because it wants...more!
If our compassion does not like what it sees, this is aversion, because it... rejects!

Instead of just noticing, there is now a 'me' judging 'other'.
Thus, our pure essence becomes these three poisons.
And from there, all the other negative emotions arise.

Knowing our true nature is wisdom. It solves everything!
However, our true wisdom has turned into a negative emotion and we have lost our inner space.
It is now full of....stuff!
So judgement obscures our pure perception, and stops us from being who we are.
Ego has just been created, and from then on, we spend most of our time maintaining it.

We live in a busy world, so we need to discriminate in order to function. What we are talking about is over-reacting in our habitual manner. This habit becomes a personality. And we have now imprisoned ourself, surrounding ourself with concepts and negative emotions. In the heat of the moment we forget to see everything as impermanent, as an illusion. Especially when emotions arise!

At an advanced level the poisons can work in reverse and be seen as wisdoms.
Every time one of these emotions arises, (and it will!), it can remind us of our innate essence.

When aversion arises (this normally happens when meeting another person) a memory of their and our true nature arises = compassion!
When desire arises, there is a memory of being distracted = awareness!
When ignorance or indifference arises, there is a memory of inner space = empty essence.
The negative emotions have just become wisdoms! Friends! Nothing to fear!

In the light of this, demons just don't stand a chance - they are actually helping! Because one's true nature is known, when this occurs, no karma is created. If you just accept whatever arises, karma is being exhausted. However, desire and aversion are hope and fear, so are necessary to function in life, but they are now tools not controllers. There is no point in standing in empty essence when a truck is hurtling towards you....desire to move!!!

This is why this path needs intense emotions, intense intelligence and intense compassion. If this is watered down it does not work so well, as it just slows the process down.

You can no longer be controlled!

truthseekerdan
22nd September 2011, 02:25
“Any form of conscious meditation is not the real thing: it can never be.
Deliberate attempt to meditate is not meditation.
It must happen; it cannot be invited.
Meditation is not the play of the mind nor of desire and pleasure.
All attempt to meditate is the very denial of it
Only be aware of what you are thinking and doing and nothing else.
The seeing, the hearing, is the doing,
without reward and punishment.”

- J Krishnamurti

Tony
22nd September 2011, 15:01
The Subtle Body ( I repeated this here to keep it under the heading of meditation).

About three fingers' width below the navel is a chakra which controls the downward wind and subtle body. Our feelings are not held in the mind, but in the subtle body. When we are apprehensive, worried, or even just having a conversation with someone, we might feel a tension in the gut, heart, throat or head. This downward wind is called lung in Tibetan (pronounced loong), and when it rises, it reveals tension in the body.

In the west. we get very 'lungy' ...hot under the collar! We are speedy people.

The lung has to be brought down to where it should be, below the navel. As a result of our emotions, a residue is left in our subtle body, and it is quite exhausting. It also has other effects such as dry eyes.

Sometimes in meditation, though we practise, we still do not feel at ease: this is a lung/wind problem. I had all the above problems until I practised with the subtle body. The effect was quite noticeable - ask my teacher! (and the wife...)

It is a very simple practice of mentally scanning the body from the top down, and taking the attention to below the navel. This is done with the help of the 'gentle breath': as you scan, breath in naturally, taking the breath down to below the navel and holding it there for the count of 6-9 seconds (your tummy will fill out a bit, but do not strain).

Release the breath, but let a small amount remain there.

I did this 108 times in one session once a day, for six months. It had the effect of my being at perfect peace. You do not have to do it 108 times - see how it feels. During the day when you feel the lung/wind rising, merely remember to scan and take the breath down a few times

Now you are really contemplating your navel!!!

Tony
22nd September 2011, 15:09
The four types of teacher.

Within our thoughts and concepts is our inner teacher, but we need a little help to find it.
Then, when we have found it, what to do with it?
The problem is that if you think you have found it, that cannot be it!
You find it in the non finding.
Now that has got to sound a little Zen-ish, but it's true.
The true self can only be realised through the experience that there is 'no thing' there to be found.
The non-finding is Pure Consciousness.
The eye cannot see itself, but the seeing is known.

There are four types of teacher. Here we talking of spiritual matters, but it applies to everything.

1. The first teacher is the person who directly points out the essence of your mind.
2. The second teacher is a lineage scriptorial teacher (person or text or manual to study).
3. The third teacher is the inner teacher (the first two reveal the inner teacher: you realise your inner knowledge and wisdom through the experience of meditation/the direct pointing out)
4. The fourth teacher is the symbolic teacher: every situation - the whole of this illusory temporary creation - reflects our true essence.

The first type of teacher becomes your root teacher: it is they who genuinely point out the nature of your mind.
When this happens, there is no doubt, and we develop a deep appreciation and devotion. (This is a difficult topic for westerners, as we are led to believe we are individuals with minds of our own, who can be ourselves by just 'being' - “I am a self-made person”.
We don't want anyone telling us what to do or how to think.
Have you looked into your mind and seen how much of what is there has been put in there?
Who put it there? This stuff makes us conform to a stereotype, which is how we can be controlled. This also produces a huge ego, and is exploited by the 'so called' elite (even though we are on this forum, we have to be aware of subliminal mind control possibly going on).

The second is your lineage teacher, which can be backup, technical information.
There is also another purpose to this, and this is part of Tibetan Vajrayana practice.
One can make supplications to the unbroken lineage, and receive blessings (this, to my amazement, does work).
It is to do with deity practice. If one chants the mantra of Chenrezi, the lord of compassion,
this does have the effect of enhancing one's own compassion.
It is based on Emptiness in Compassion (of course, other paths have something similar).
I'm sure, unfortunately, so does the occult...

The third is your inner teacher, pure perception.
The first two types of teachers enhance and give confidence in realising the inner teacher, which is then realised in meditation.

The fourth is the symbolic teacher, or the outer teacher.
Everyday situations are telling us something – to be more precise, so is every moment.
Karma is constantly being created, reinforced or exhausted.
Once the inner teacher is realised, the outer teacher can be utilised.
We learn how to dance with the relative and absolute worlds.
Everything is seen as the pure world.
This is because everything arises within emptiness.
So everything is a constant reminder - even negative emotions.
The relative reflects the absolute, and the absolute is reflected in the relative.
The emotions are seen as wisdoms, so this life is seen as a pure mandala.
There is much more to be realised about this.

Tony
23rd September 2011, 09:04
Bodhichitta is loving- kindness and compassion. it is the essential part of the Buddha's teaching.

As long as every aspect of your dharma is mingled with Bodhichitta, then your practice is going in the right direction. All the teachings of the Buddha are based on Bodhichitta, in fact the eighty- four thousand different teachings are all branches of this one root.

If you have Bodhichitta, then undoubtedly you will reach enlightenment. if you do not have Bodhichitta, no matter what sophisticated techniques you may use, your realisation will be delayed, and the techniques will simply hide your enlightened nature.


Always remember loving-kindness....always. It is your path to a high vibration.

Ineffable Hitchhiker
23rd September 2011, 09:21
Always remember loving-kindness....always. It is your path to a high vibration.



I am so glad that you are here, Tony, to remind us. To remind me.
Thank you.

Blueskywalking
23rd September 2011, 10:41
Beautiful share Tony, a real jewel, thankyou... :)

Tony
25th September 2011, 06:47
The search for the truth is not for the faint hearted. It is not realised through guess work of the ego.


Study, reflect and meditate.

Through study, we arrive at some interest in our subject.
Then we need to analyse and reflect on this, over a nice hot cup of tea, to get some conviction.
But now, this needs to be assimilated through personal experience of meditation to verify without doubt what we have ascertained through study and reflection.
The tea is optional!

It is the meditation that produces the transformation – only meditation can break through habitual patterns both learned and karmic, as we have now taken time to look, see and drop. Gradually, we become healthy human beings, following a path that will clear karma and karmic patterns. What needs to be dropped naturally falls away, revealing more and more clarity, which has been there all the time. We start to see for ourselves! Then we have the impetus to study and reflect some more.

To achieve liberation when one has distorted, learned, habitual patterns is difficult... this always depends on the individual. Some may be able to follow the path without dealing with the separate issue of becoming a healthy human. However, many of us have intense distortions and if we hear teachings, in this frame of mind, this may distort our patterns even further, as we have got used to clinging to all sorts of ideas coming our way.
This is always a dilemma on an open forum – and this why we are urged to study and reflect, and not just jump in.

For such person, if you tell them there is no identity etc, it could make it all worse..and to hear that everything is suffering could create even more problems. Or, on the other hand, they may be able to accept and realise something. But then again, people looking at this forum...are looking!

For harmony to be achieved at the conventional level of truth - every day life - we have to have realised absolute truth and then the conventional truth naturally comes into harmony. Then we become healthy human beings.

Conventional truth, in the absence of realisation of absolute truth, cannot function properly.
It becomes reified/fixed, and doesn't function according to its own nature, and thus it gets exaggerated.
When absolute truth and conventional truth work together we have a fluid state, because we haven't reified everything (made it solid).

Then every day becomes different, because we are not working in so much of a set pattern, so life becomes creative and spontaneous. We may then be in a place where the wool cannot be pulled over our eyes!

You have to trust something, so trust your knowing...not the fixated thoughts!

However, through meditation, space and light are expanded in the mind. A little clarity just seems to happen, and this can reveal insight.
Now, here we have to be very careful not to fall into the trap of imagination and guess work. That is the reified “I” showing up again, because our habitual patterns are taking over.
As the mind clears, answers can be found, and the dots join up!
Here we are still working with the mere “I”.

If you want to know the truth, you have to go beyond concepts, beyond the conceptual world.
The conceptual world is still in relative truth of impermanent phenomena.

I would have to say that filling your mind with conspiracy theories only serves to make the mind coarse. That is not a mind to realise the subtle truth. We will be pulled in two opposite directions at the same time. Instead of looking inward, we are distracted by the outside.

This does not mean that someone who is interested in the inner work, will not know what is going on outside. It is just that they do not make such a big deal about it.

Here is an example of missing the point.

If one only takes a superficial glance at meditation, one might mistake a vacant state for meditation.
The vacant blank state is, in fact, called ignorance.
There is no virtue in it...no emotion, no thinking, no insight and no knowing.
It is indescribable as nothing whatsoever is going on.

Now the good news!
By merely being aware of that blank vacant state with no thought or mental activity, look naturally into the one who perceives this state and who remains without thinking.
When you do so, there is an awareness free from experiencer and experienced – it is non dual.

Once you have resolved that this is your own nature, and that there is nothing besides this, you arrive at conviction.
This nature is also indescribable, but has a different quality to it.

Cognisance of the outer relative world is important, but if it is exaggerated, it can cause more distorted problems.

To repeat; the relative and absolute world must be realised as inseparable, otherwise we will live in the extremes.

toothpick
25th September 2011, 15:52
pie'n'eal, thanks for all the meditation informaton.
For whatever reason your lessons seem just brilliant, but, still very understandable to a beginner like myself, thank-you brother.
I will do my best and practice everyday.

toothpick

Tony
21st December 2011, 12:05
There has been some questions on meditation, so I thought to bring this back. It was written after a long meditation retreat.
The main point is to go beyond 'me' meditating.

We need a firm foundation, before we start polishing the golden roof.