Something Good ~ From Something Bad

[crosby]

This is the first post of a serious nature that i have posted since my dog cookies died. My intention is that you all share some of your own stories as well so that others may find comfort, solace, and perhaps some good information that may help them along the way to a brighter, more content nature and purpose. please 'bare' with me, i will try to keep my initial descriptive as short as possible.

i received some excellent advice and quite honestly, some motivators from a new member here. at this time i won't say who, because i do not have permission. but, here goes:

Here is my story:

As some of you may know, recently i have been battling a debilitating, lingering and difficult illness. On top of which, i have been served with an eviction notice to move from my current residence. my family and i were notified on the 3rd of february that we had to move, by the 29th.

Moving is really not an issue with me as i have done it many times in my life. however, being ill, and the circumstances revolving around the scenario are what hurts. the 'new landlord', made an agreement with our previous landlord that 'he' would renew our lease for another year, thus giving the option at the end to re-sign or to take our leave. our old landlord then transferred our security deposit to the new 'owner - landlord' based on this verbal agreement. Our 'new landlord' then decided not to renew our lease. he didn't even send us a letter to let us know that he was our 'new landlord.'

the most disturbing part of this is that i have known this man for 25 years or so. years back, when i was married to another man, who was fairly wealthy, we met this young man who was just starting out in the construction/contracting business. we felt confident in his decisions over the years and allowed many renovations and reconstructions for all of our homes. we were happy with his work and gave excellent references whenever possible.

i am no longer married to the semi-wealthy man; i no longer 'own' my own home. i am somewhat at the mercy of decent landlords. however, i am really not his tenant. there is no lease signed between us. however, he does not want to relinquish the security deposit.

my illness: a fungal infection in the lungs. not able to kick it.

our present home is infested with black mold. we have tried unsuccessfully to rid the problem ourselves, however, we have not been able to do so. we notified the previous owner several times, but he did not solve the situation. we suffered through wetness throughout our daily lives. wet basement, wet attic, wet walls.......

new owner thinks that it is our fault. even though the corresponding properties that he purchased at the same time are currently empty, and all have the same problem.

Good News: reminders!

through a couple of pms, i have been fortunate to be reminded that being put in this current situation is all good. and i am inclined to agree.

my new fiance and i have found a really nice place to move too. we have to paint, and paint some more; and change out some floors, but we are really fortunate. it was by total accident that we found the place as quickly as we did.

i was reminded through these pms that change occurs for many reasons. mostly, those which are necessary. i am struggling daily with the efforts of moving and packing and painting and reassigning furniture to different areas; on top of my illness. but i am also feeling good about being in a clean home. being thankful that this fortunate incident occurred.

i am also in line for a possible new job since this occurred. this is good!

please share your stories about something bad that has reaped something good. share with us and tell us that you live, that you have overcome problems handed to you that you didn't ask for.

with warmest regards, corson

[PurpleLama]

Laws may vary from state to state, so I am not sure how this applies to you, but in MS I am certain that a property owner who has black mold on the premises would be completely and totally responsible for any medical conditions that may arise from said environmental condition. If your landlord(s) knew you were getting medical treatment for a fungus infection in your lungs, they may be trying to pull a fast one on you by this sudden eviction. Black mold is extremely dangerous and it may be worth you looking into what the local legal precedent is for such a case.

[NeverMind]

Corson, against black mold there are few things as effective as tea-tree (Melaleuca) essential oil.

As for your dog, let me borrow the words of two men who knew the value of a dog's love:

Near this Spot
are deposited the Remains of one
who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferosity,
and all the virtues of Man without his Vices.

This praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery
if inscribed over human Ashes,
is but a just tribute to the Memory of
BOATSWAIN, a DOG,
who was born in Newfoundland May 1803
and died at Newstead Nov. 18, 1808.

When some proud Son of Man returns to Earth,
Unknown by Glory, but upheld by Birth,
The sculptor’s art exhausts the pomp of woe,
And storied urns record who rests below.
When all is done, upon the Tomb is seen,
Not what he was, but what he should have been.
But the poor Dog, in life the firmest friend,
The first to welcome, foremost to defend,
Whose honest heart is still his Master’s own,
Who labours, fights, lives, breathes for him alone,
Unhonoured falls, unnoticed all his worth,
Denied in heaven the Soul he held on earth –
While man, vain insect! hopes to be forgiven,
And claims himself a sole exclusive heaven.

Oh man! thou feeble tenant of an hour,
Debased by slavery, or corrupt by power –
Who knows thee well must quit thee with disgust,
Degraded mass of animated dust!
Thy love is lust, thy friendship all a cheat,
Thy tongue hypocrisy, thy heart deceit!
By nature vile, ennobled but by name,
Each kindred brute might bid thee blush for shame.
Ye, who perchance behold this simple urn,
Pass on – it honors none you wish to mourn.
To mark a friend’s remains these stones arise;
I never knew but one – and here he lies.

Epitaph to a Dog, 1808
The opening lines are by John Hobhouse, the closing lines by George, lord Byron.

[Peace of Mind]

Sounds like a change for the better,

I'm sorry that I can't contribute such a story because I haven't had any unfortunate happenings in my life since I was a teenage misfit. Around that time a few wise elders show me how to think and create my reality. Everytime I see them I thank them endlessly for saving my life and giving me the opportunity to live life properly.

Peace

[crosby]

Laws may vary from state to state, so I am not sure how this applies to you, but in MS I am certain that a property owner who has black mold on the premises would be completely and totally responsible for any medical conditions that may arise from said environmental condition. If your landlord(s) knew you were getting medical treatment for a fungus infection in your lungs, they may be trying to pull a fast one on you by this sudden eviction. Black mold is extremely dangerous and it may be worth you looking into what the local legal precedent is for such a case.


Thank you PurpleLama for your response. So sorry that it took me so long to respond. that moving thing...... at first, i thought there was a definite problem with someone responding to my medical issues. that is no longer an issue. thank goodness. the previous landlord is doing the right thing. we had a problem initially because of the timing of everything. but now he understands what has happened. the 'sudden' eviction has been delivered as " we have changed our minds and priorities", type of thing. in the end, i am in a better home, and i have attained a new job. things are changing for me, and for the better. my gods must be watching.....
warmest regards, corson

[crosby]

Corson, against black mold there are few things as effective as tea-tree (Melaleuca) essential oil.

As for your dog, let me borrow the words of two men who knew the value of a dog's love:

Near this Spot
are deposited the Remains of one
who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferosity,
and all the virtues of Man without his Vices.

This praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery
if inscribed over human Ashes,
is but a just tribute to the Memory of
BOATSWAIN, a DOG,
who was born in Newfoundland May 1803
and died at Newstead Nov. 18, 1808.

When some proud Son of Man returns to Earth,
Unknown by Glory, but upheld by Birth,
The sculptor’s art exhausts the pomp of woe,
And storied urns record who rests below.
When all is done, upon the Tomb is seen,
Not what he was, but what he should have been.
But the poor Dog, in life the firmest friend,
The first to welcome, foremost to defend,
Whose honest heart is still his Master’s own,
Who labours, fights, lives, breathes for him alone,
Unhonoured falls, unnoticed all his worth,
Denied in heaven the Soul he held on earth –
While man, vain insect! hopes to be forgiven,
And claims himself a sole exclusive heaven.

Oh man! thou feeble tenant of an hour,
Debased by slavery, or corrupt by power –
Who knows thee well must quit thee with disgust,
Degraded mass of animated dust!
Thy love is lust, thy friendship all a cheat,
Thy tongue hypocrisy, thy heart deceit!
By nature vile, ennobled but by name,
Each kindred brute might bid thee blush for shame.
Ye, who perchance behold this simple urn,
Pass on – it honors none you wish to mourn.
To mark a friend’s remains these stones arise;
I never knew but one – and here he lies.

Epitaph to a Dog, 1808
The opening lines are by John Hobhouse, the closing lines by George, lord Byron.

Nevermind, thank you so much.... i miss my cookies. she was the sweetest pit ever. and i had a hard time when she died. but i have had the the help of so many members here at avalon to help me with that. and i must say that the prose you posted was quite beautiful. thank you again.
warmest regards, corson

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Sounds like a change for the better,

I'm sorry that I can't contribute such a story because I haven't had any unfortunate happenings in my life since I was a teenage misfit. Around that time a few wise elders show me how to think and create my reality. Everytime I see them I thank them endlessly for saving my life and giving me the opportunity to live life properly.

Peace


Thank you Peace of Mind. your words have made me think of times when i thought i would never recover, like now, and i have. i so appreciate all of the people that have come in to my life, like you, and have made a grand difference. thank you so much.
warmest regards, corson

[crosby]

Just an update for all that are interested: We are moved into our new place. it is very pretty. but, i'm a girl. one thing i've noticed in life about moving, in one home, a particular piece of furniture looks great in your living room, etc., but in a new home, it works much better in your dinning room...... lots of transition going on. i quit my job in retail. and i have never been happier about leaving a job.......

i am moving in new directions. life is changing, and i am changing with it. i am not afraid. i am not to proud....:p i am moving forward. thank you all for your love and support...... i love you all. i have felt your strength. and i have accepted it. thank you......THANK YOU ALL. MUCH LOVE TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU.....


WARMEST REGARDS, corson

[jagman]

corson, It's Good to hear your in a new place. A few years back I was caught in the path of the proverbial tornado.. My life was your
typical country western song lol I was going through a really bad divorce. I lost a high paying job which I planned on retiring from.
My Ex decided when she left she needed some money, So she withdrew 30,000 from my bank and then black mailed me.
She said she wouldn't let me see my kids unless I kept quiet about the money. While all this was occurring my best friend since childhood
passed away. My home went into foreclosure. I call this "My Atlantis Moment." Although it took a little longer than a single day and night.

I felt a little like job from the Bible, Minus the boils. lol Something happened to me one night while I was praying. I'm not saying it was the
hand of God or even an angel but something entered my apartment ( I believe it was supernatural.) It felt like a hand being put on my
shoulder Then a voice came into my mind telling me everything was going to be alright. At that moment a feeling came over me that I still can't
fully describe. A feeling of complete and total love. From that day on my life started improving.

[crosby]

corson, It's Good to hear your in a new place. A few years back I was caught in the path of the proverbial tornado.. My life was your
typical country western song lol I was going through a really bad divorce. I lost a high paying job which I planned on retiring from.
My Ex decided when she left she needed some money, So she withdrew 30,000 from my bank and then black mailed me.
She said she wouldn't let me see my kids unless I kept quiet about the money. While all this was occurring my best friend since childhood
passed away. My home went into foreclosure. I call this "My Atlantis Moment." Although it took a little longer than a single day and night.

I felt a little like job from the Bible, Minus the boils. lol Something happened to me one night while I was praying. I'm not saying it was the
hand of God or even an angel but something entered my apartment ( I believe it was supernatural.) It felt like a hand being put on my
shoulder Then a voice came into my mind telling me everything was going to be alright. At that moment a feeling came over me that I still can't
fully describe. A feeling of complete and total love. From that day on my life started improving.



i have just recently felt that feeling of complete and total love. i know where you are coming from. i give you many kisses and hugs to help you through the pain and suffering. sometimes, the ethereal hugs and kisses works magic.... No boils ever for you; you have followed your heart and i think you have done well.

you know it sucks when someone takes advantage of us. and i have been there many times myself. but i've found that if you are strong enough to get through the grief, you are strong enough to find the fork in the road that leads to some type of happiness. and i have found that the road to happiness isn't what you expect it to be...... take the road that nobody expects you to take. think about you.

thank you for sharing. i so love that.
warmest regards, corson

thank you so much for sharing. it makes my thread more important. love and hugs to you.

[giovonni]

From ms corson

"i have just recently felt that feeling of complete and total love" ...

Note ~ as my signature says ...The greatest thing you ever learn ~ is just to love ~ and to be loved in return" ...

i thinketh perhaps now you understand what i meant when i said ~
'you are young to me' ~ as in being (again) young at heart ~ young Lady :yes4:

Blessings ❤ Gio