Hard Feminist Woman vs Soft Feminine Woman - who has an easier road to Enlightenment?

[seigiarchon]

Which woman has an easier road to Enlightenment?

The Hard, Feminist Woman who demands everything or the Soft, Feminine Woman who surrenders to everything?

What is True Femininity? Is True Femininity the art of becoming a Hard Man-Like Woman or is True Femininity the art of becoming a Soft, Feminine Woman?

Does Hardness Truimph over Softness or does Softness Yield to Hardness so that Hardness gets tired of being Hard all the time?

[Flash]

AGAIN you spree against women. Please, seek a therapist.

[heyokah]

Hard-soft
It's so black-white
Isn't there anything
in between?

[gripreaper]

seigiarchon, have you considered going over to the "bible" thread and debating with RedeZra?

[seigiarchon]

Hard-soft
It's so black-white
Isn't there anything
in between?


Try being a hard-ass with the Gods and God and you will know what I mean.

[write4change]

All women are multifaceted. The situation or our life experiences brings forth what we need to survive. We like all forms of humans are mostly products of our environments.

Angry men like Karl Rove in my peer group are still mad as hell that no good woman would have sex with him when he wanted and the way he wanted. This is because he gives off an aura that something is seriously wrong with him. He is not sexy to highly integrated women. Dealing with men like that can make you a hard woman. Some regions and some envrionments are harder than others. For some women it seems almost impossible to leave and to some of us--it is really easy to pack up and leave and keep ourselves intact.

This is the last time I will reply to your threads on women because they essentially remain the same thing for the same reason but just in case you are in the mood to hear --- I tried.

[seigiarchon]

AGAIN you spree against women. Please, seek a therapist.

This is why people like you fail to see the wisdom behind my words.

This is also why the spiritual energies in the West are much lower than in the East which also account for the lower number of seekers who reached Enlightenment in the West.

The road of Enlightenment is an extremely difficult one and if one isn't soft enough to endure suffering, then one would never reach Enlightenment.

This applies to anyone and everyone, men and women.

So yeah, a man/woman who is hard and stubborn will find it much more difficult to reach Enlightenment than a man/woman who is soft and wise.

[heyokah]

Hard-soft
It's so black-white
Isn't there anything
in between?

Try being a hard-ass with the Gods and God and you will know what I mean.

Was that meant as an answer?

[seigiarchon]

All women are multifaceted. The situation or our life experiences brings forth what we need to survive. We like all forms of humans are mostly products of our environments.

Angry men like Karl Rove in my peer group are still mad as hell that no good woman would have sex with him when he wanted and the way he wanted. This is because he gives off an aura that something is seriously wrong with him. He is not sexy to highly integrated women. Dealing with men like that can make you a hard woman. Some regions and some envrionments are harder than others. For some women it seems almost impossible to leave and to some of us--it is really easy to pack up and leave and keep ourselves intact.

This is the last time I will reply to your threads on women because they essentially remain the same thing for the same reason but just in case you are in the mood to hear --- I tried.

A man/woman who is only interested in sex or who views sex as the top priority in life will never get Enlightened.

To be able to navigate the difficulties in life with softness instead of hardness often yield better results although it is a more difficult road at the same time which is why many people in the West have become "hard"..

Learn from Akido.

[Sidney]

Which woman has an easier road to Enlightenment?

The Hard, Feminist Woman who demands everything or the Soft, Feminine Woman who surrenders to everything?

What is True Femininity? Is True Femininity the art of becoming a Hard Man-Like Woman or is True Femininity the art of becoming a Soft, Feminine Woman?

Does Hardness Truimph over Softness or does Softness Yield to Hardness so that Hardness gets tired of being Hard all the time?


You could also ask what is true masculinity. A manly man that is soft. Or a afeminite male that is not. We are all made up of feminine and masculine energy combined. ALL of us. Ascension is not about being hard or soft. It is about being individualistically ready. Your implied cheuvanism is highly unattractive. (excuse the mis-spellings here.)

[Franny]

They are merely 2 of endless facets, just as there are with masculinity.

They are just a few of the endless themes that are there to try out on the path of life.

Itʻs like someone asking which of the 2 types of masculinity YOU are -- and why itʻs more favorable for enlightenment than the type you are not.

By your definitions of hard and soft you seem imply that soft is better than hard.
Suggestion: try each on your next 2 incarnations and see which one is most proper for the female.

Go on, give it a try.

[seko]

Hi s.g.archon, you need to ask the right questions to get the right answers.

Keep on trying.

[Maia Gabrial]

Give it a rest seigiarchon. Aren't there other topics you can bring up instead of this one AGAIN?! Geez! We get the picture. You're a woman hater....blah, blah, blah....
Why don't you explain the art of manliness or masculinity now. What does it actually take to be a man by YOUR standards, seigiarchon? I'd love to hear that! Bet you can't do it...

[Maia Gabrial]

A man/woman who is only interested in sex or who views sex as the top priority in life will never get Enlightened.


Says who? There's more involved with sex than just the act. Through it is how people emulate the Creator. BTW, I don't like YOUR god....

[9eagle9]

I've never met a man or woman only interested in sex.

How weird.

What's their phone number?

[CdnSirian]

"So yeah, a man/woman who is hard and stubborn will find it much more difficult to reach Enlightenment than a man/woman who is soft and wise. "

But you did not title this thread "man/woman". You titled it ..."Hard-Feminist-Woman" vs... why is there a vs? Waste of time, sorry.

Gak. I took your bait!

[seigiarchon]

Give it a rest seigiarchon. Aren't there other topics you can bring up instead of this one AGAIN?! Geez! We get the picture. You're a woman hater....blah, blah, blah....
Why don't you explain the art of manliness or masculinity now. What does it actually take to be a man by YOUR standards, seigiarchon? I'd love to hear that! Bet you can't do it...

I don't define myself as being just a man or a woman.

I don't look at myself as just a mere petty human.

I know and look at myself as a Child of God who Will Return to His Godhood come the end of 2012.

[CdnSirian]

Give it a rest seigiarchon. Aren't there other topics you can bring up instead of this one AGAIN?! Geez! We get the picture. You're a woman hater....blah, blah, blah....
Why don't you explain the art of manliness or masculinity now. What does it actually take to be a man by YOUR standards, seigiarchon? I'd love to hear that! Bet you can't do it...

I don't define myself as being just a man or a woman.

I don't look at myself as just a mere petty human.

I know and look at myself as a Child of God who Will Return to His Godhood come the end of 2012.

Oh please...

[Whiskey_Mystic]

I don't define myself as being just a man or a woman.

For someone who doesn't define himself as either a man or woman, you certainly are hung up on some severely unresolved internal gender issues. You might try a few sessions of talk therapy with a good counselor on your way to your enlightenment.

[Kindred]

I don't define myself as being just a man or a woman.

I don't look at myself as just a mere petty human.

I know and look at myself as a Child of God who Will Return to His Godhood come the end of 2012.

Then why bother with a diversion such as posting on this forum? If you know what you are doing, and where you are going, then blathering on about all this other stuff (males being dominated by women) just wastes your time (and ours).

Get on with your 'doing' (whatever it is), and don't sweat the small stuff... for, indeed, if you are, what you seem to imply, then all this 'physicality stuff' is Far below your attention/intention.

Also, by your statement, are you saying that you are asexual (without sex), or are you a hermaphrodite (both sexes)? Either of these two possibilities are known to exist, so what are you? If you are truly Divine, then 'sex' has no meaning to one so gifted.

But, by what I've read in virtually All your postings, is that you seem UNABLE OR UNWILLING to see ANY GOOD OR PURPOSE, in most Anything (except 'men'), particularly so in this level of physicality.

As Whiskey Mystic suggested, you seem to have some problems with your sense of being.

I can assure you... 'God'/Goddess/Source (whatever you deem as the Creator) is Omnipotent, and thus has NO NEED for Gender, as IT Realizes ALL HAS PURPOSE - even the Genderless...

(edit) In this post I was a bit hard on you seigiarchon, and I apologize for this. I DO hope you can find Your Purpose. There is much good in this World - but you must seek it out and then reflect it back. This action can only make things better. Expressing negativity only draws more negativity, and makes one miserable.

Find the Love in your heart that God/Source gave you... for Your sake.

Be the change you wish to see in the world (Gandhi)

In Unity, Peace and LOVE

[Maia Gabrial]

I don't look at myself as just a mere petty human.


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[9eagle9]

I read it in auto respond form in my private email box and it was pretty darn good comment M-G.

Everyone in life has been wounded by a female and every female has been wounded by a man. Some get over it, even see how they participated in created their own mess, or EVEN see how their own lack of self value put them in a bad, rejectionable place, and some create a religion around their grudge.

Women tend to beg for rejection in tacit ways until a man rejects her and then screeches what a pig he is when she's not realizing she rejected herself first .

And I see men doing the same thing in a different way by creating a mold of the perfect woman and attempting to squeeze an imperfect women into it, and then are sorely dissapointed when 1) she doesn't fit well 2) worse, she won't go into the mold at all.

So many people have this expectation in general that something or someone else is responsible for their emotional welfare (rather than accepting it as a complement to their emotional well being) , and when those somethings and someones fail to fulfill what was never their obligation in the first place, we get these sort of hard core grudges.

This all occurring inside of us.

Like the people who get cats to 'keep them company' and the cat of course spends as much time possible demonstrating how independent it is of the one's seeking companionship. People who have an understanding and acceptance of cats love cats. Those who don't, won't.

I've seen just as many women engage in "I'm going to kick myself in the arse repeatedly about relationships' as I have men. And vice versa.

If the only thing men wanted was sex it would be ever so much more simpler. Refreshing even. In reality they may claim they just want sex but they want something else that simply just can't be provided to them. Or anyone. We have to find it within ourselves. And when we do this whole sexual Kramer Vs Kramer piss match will go away.








I don't look at myself as just a mere petty human.


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[Sidney]

Seigiarchon- For a lesson in humanity- What is truly important here is the human spirit. Please watch the following video. beginning at 6:05thru 6:30 or so , you will see just what the human spirit is capable of. When faced with dire circumstances this is the epitome of courage,spirit, and true hope for mankind. This story gave me a lesson in personhood. My troubles are so incredibly minute compared to some. I wish I could give this little girl a hug, and hold her in my arms. She is my hero.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNojPnonglk&feature=relmfu

[ThresholdRising]

Neither is harder or easier. Whichever percieves their path to be easier in a sense has the easier path but it doesn'nt necessarily means its easier. Great question though, thank you.

[pugwash84]

Strong enough to open a pickle jar but soft enough to hug.
Strong enough to go through labour but soft enough to forget the pain and love their baby.
Strong enough to set rules but soft enough to care and nurture.
Strong enough to see the children fly the nest but soft enough to phone and check in.
Strong enough to arrange ones own funeral and leave a will but soft enough to leave a letter saying "I love you".
Humans are beautiful complex works of art, why simplify something so wonderful xxxxxxx

[Maia Gabrial]

Too bad seigiarchon, you won't be moving up to the next level of evolution with that attitude of yours against women..... THAT'S what will hold you back...! Gotta stop knocking the women, dude!

[write4change]

All women are multifaceted. The situation or our life experiences brings forth what we need to survive. We like all forms of humans are mostly products of our environments.

Angry men like Karl Rove in my peer group are still mad as hell that no good woman would have sex with him when he wanted and the way he wanted. This is because he gives off an aura that something is seriously wrong with him. He is not sexy to highly integrated women. Dealing with men like that can make you a hard woman. Some regions and some envrionments are harder than others. For some women it seems almost impossible to leave and to some of us--it is really easy to pack up and leave and keep ourselves intact.

This is the last time I will reply to your threads on women because they essentially remain the same thing for the same reason but just in case you are in the mood to hear --- I tried.

A man/woman who is only interested in sex or who views sex as the top priority in life will never get Enlightened.

To be able to navigate the difficulties in life with softness instead of hardness often yield better results although it is a more difficult road at the same time which is why many people in the West have become "hard"..

Learn from Akido.

I learned and practiced Akido in San Francisco in 1968. I actually was attacked by a man with a knife getting our of my VW Beetle in 1972. I cleaned his clock. Does that make me a hard women or a soft woman or a woman or just a threatened human who stood their ground.

Your stuff is so full of frustration and contradictions. I apologize for coming back and starting this up again but then I cannot resist seeing what 9eagle9 has to say and then purusing the lastest posts to see if any one has made an impression on you yet.

[percival tyro]

Hi Seigi, both choices are their prerogatiive..Vive la difference....