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Limor Wolf
30th December 2012, 04:47
Dear Avalon members, My mother has passed away this weekend after several days of her being in a brain death state. My family and I are holding the funeral tomorrow. I am used to be very withdrawn in such a painful moments and not so much asking for help or comfort, but this time I would be very willing and appreciative for any good thoughts and positive energies sent our way, if possible.
~ Much love and gratitude to all of you ~
~^&*~^&*
Limor
thunder24
30th December 2012, 04:56
My condolences. Seems many of us are loseing family. Not easy times...much love sent ur way...peace
Debra
30th December 2012, 05:05
Deepest condolences Limor, sending you strength and love and also to your family. Best wishes for your mother's onward journey xox
Star Tsar
30th December 2012, 05:06
I am wishing you & your family peace of mind at this difficult time Limor...
Knowrainknowrainbows!
30th December 2012, 05:07
Limor,
You are in my thoughts now. I am sending energies of comfort and love to you and all in your family.
May your time of pain and grief yield to health and healing ...
KRKR
jagman
30th December 2012, 05:08
Im so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother Limor. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dennis Leahy
30th December 2012, 05:14
Dear Avalon members, My mother has passed away this weekend after several days of her being in a brain death state. My family and I are holding the funeral tomorrow. I am used to be very withdrawn in such a painful moments and not so much asking for help or comfort, but this time I would be very willing and appreciative for any good thoughts and positive energies sent our way, if possible.
~ Much love and gratitude to all of you ~
~^&*~^&*
Limor
Absolutely, my friend!
Limor may you and your mother and your entire family be filled with radiant love and peace. May you continue to connect with your mother throughout your journey on Earth. Sending lots of love!
Dennis
sheddie
30th December 2012, 05:15
sending love and healing for you and your family at this sad time ....
:hug:
Freed Fox
30th December 2012, 05:16
I am sorry for your loss, and I wish you all the best.
I was told once that when we weep for the deceased, we shed our tears not for them but for ourselves. We have lost something, but only temporarily. They have departed on a greater journey, freed from the trappings of this mortal coil. One day we will follow.
markpierre
30th December 2012, 05:21
Thanks for including us Limor. I value knowing that a passing is such a sweet surprise for the 'passee', but the depth and the wealth
in the introspect left to those mourning and remembering touches on priceless and touches me as well.
Your mother is well and not taking her attention from you, not at this time, until you know her joy as well. Call on her, she'll be there.
That's how we know for sure that no one ever leaves us. God bless.
RunningDeer
30th December 2012, 05:22
May Peace and Light be the bridge to assist
You and your Family
in the hours, days, weeks, and months ahead.
Blessings of highest and best, Limor,
WhiteCrowBlackDeer xo
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Daughter of Time
30th December 2012, 05:28
So sorry for your loss Limor!
May you and your family find peace and comfort during this difficult time. And may you remember only the love.
Much love and healing to your and your loved ones and may your mom's transition be smooth and blissful.
Ilie Pandia
30th December 2012, 06:01
Hi Limor,
Big hugs and love!!
seko
30th December 2012, 06:09
Much love to you Limor!
Be strong!
Hip Hipnotist
30th December 2012, 06:34
שלא נענו אך מעולם לא שכח
Beautifully Curious
30th December 2012, 06:42
Very sorry to hear of your loss Limor. May you and your family find comfort in these difficult times. Sending positive, healing and loving energy your way.
Much love.
:hug:
Gardener
30th December 2012, 06:43
((((((((((((((((((((hugs for you Limor))))))))))))))))))))))
love
g
Rocky_Shorz
30th December 2012, 07:00
Hi Limor,
I walked around a corner today and scared up a flock of doves, they circled then flew directly towards the sun, a beautiful sight of freedom...
twinkling white wings flying into the light...
it's always hard to let them go, but there is nothing to be sad about, memories are like her kiss on your cheek that warms the heart to tears...
soon they will bring smiles...
Kindling
30th December 2012, 07:08
Praying for you and your family. Also sending love and gentle hugs Limor.
Ol' Roy
30th December 2012, 07:47
Dearest Limor,
Prayers, thoughts, and love from all over the world! We are truely community!
Thanks for sharing! Hope this lessens the burden a little bit. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Remember, your mother will always be with you in your heart!
Love, Ol'Roy
Mark
30th December 2012, 07:54
Love, peace and the highest intentionality for the course of your mother's life and the impact that she had upon you and others. For the blessing she gave the world in sending you into it, for the teaching she left you with and that you now manifest in the world with your good heart and spirit. Condolences and blessings to you and the rest of your family in this time of trial.
spiritguide
30th December 2012, 09:21
The Hymns have been sung and the Angels have gathered in support of all the heartfelt love. The Ancesters welcome her with open arms and bestow love upon you and your family's humble gratitude for her having been amongst you.
:peace:
ulli
30th December 2012, 09:35
Your mother can still see you, even though you can't see her any longer.
Just saying, even though I know that you know. But I still wish to affirm it is true.
So she will be aware of your needs and assist you from the other realm.
This was the most comforting thing I discovered since my mother's passing.
She always sent little signals, when I needed them most. We made a pact before she left,
and she never failed.
But the rest of it is not easy...what I really miss is being able to pick up the phone and chat with her.
Avalon has been a fantastic substitute in that regard. Here's a big hug for you.
skippy
30th December 2012, 09:44
Love and strentgh to you and your family Limor.
Flash
30th December 2012, 09:59
I am truly sorry for you Limor. It is a difficult time. My heart reaches you right now.
Fred Steeves
30th December 2012, 11:00
Hi Limor.
I'm very sorry for your loss, and very happy your mother is free from her suffering. It's hard to imagine what it must be like to just drift off from an old broken down body and leave it behind once and for all, but I'm sure it's quite the quite the experience. The transition must be smooth when loved ones have been close by and supportive. I think ulli's right that we still hang around for a while afterwards, until we're sure everything's o.k.
Sending much love to you and your family in this deeply sad, yet sacred time Limor. You'll be feeling our circle around you.
Fred
ViralSpiral
30th December 2012, 11:10
So sorry for your loss Limor.
Thinking of you and wishing you strength through this difficult time
((hugs))
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Jean-Luc
30th December 2012, 11:22
The big silence after all these days, and months, and years. I am truly touched by you sharing this with us, dear Limor. Despite all the roaring and agitation of the outside world which carries on unaffected, these rare instants, however harsh, are full of love & compassion. I am sending you my prayers. Big hug, xxx -- Jean-Luc
sleepy
30th December 2012, 12:40
xxxxx xxxxxx
grizzzly
30th December 2012, 13:41
Hi Limor.So sorry for your loss.I would like to share something with you if that is OK.Some years back I lost both my parents with in the space of a year.Soon after I experienced something that for me was quite profound.Whilst cooking I caught myself doing something that I know my mother would have done if it was her at the stove.It made me feel physically connected to her.From that point I started noticing lots of things in my thoughts and actions that were connected to my Mother and Father,it made me realise that although their energy is once again one with all, they do still have a physical presence within me.Their teachings and experiences are with me on a daily basis,their love is present.This led me on to thinking that these teachings in the same way have partly come from their parents Like a flash of light I suddenly felt connected to all my ancestors which gave me a strength anchored in the universe.I would like to send you the love of all those ancestors in the hope it is strong enough to reach the children of your future.Love grizzzly
"Separated but not apart joined by the space between us"
Libico
30th December 2012, 14:13
So sorry for your loss Limor - I hope you and your family are finding the comfort they need to come to terms with this.
Sending you and your family thoughts of peace and love.
Keltikmuse
30th December 2012, 14:56
I am sorry for your loss, and I send love and a warm embrace through this difficult time.
WhiteFeather
30th December 2012, 15:19
All my Sympathy Limor. Ulli's post above sums it up pretty well. Although when someone passes on this physical realm another realm exists. The deceased which isnt deceased at all has its ways of keeping its consciousness in both realms. Some say consciousness at death is easier than the consciousness of life as spoken by Seth through Jane Roberts. For Energy cannot be created or destroyed but can change its form. My sister had passed away from cancer 9 months ago. Her two children visited a medium and were shocked to know that her mother was able to tell them secrets that only they knew. Your mother is here with you Limor. Call out her name 3 times if you wish for her to be in your presence. This was advised by the medium to my nephews. She will leave clues for you as did my sister. Shiny coins are one of them. Collect them and place them in a jar and make a wish. Be it known that death is just another part of lifes journey. Its not the end but just a new beginning. All my comfort and Love to you and your family.
kaon
30th December 2012, 15:25
Good thoughts and prayers granted. Sorry to hear about your loss, and may she be in a better place.
Elly
30th December 2012, 15:50
Dear Limor, my deepest condolences. My heart is with you. May you and your family be surrounded by love and positive energies. May the strength and the beauty of the spirit express itself through everyone around you. Much peace and serenity.
mojo
30th December 2012, 15:59
Hi Limor,
My thoughts are with you and wish you strength and love during this time of sorrow.
Carolin
30th December 2012, 16:01
Sending love to you and your family during this difficult time!
EsmaEverheart
30th December 2012, 16:16
I am so sorry, Limor. Much, much love!
Kristin
30th December 2012, 16:42
Limor,
The GREAT love out to you, the GREAT love. I know you understand what I mean!!! May the passage be beautiful.
From the Heart,
Kristin
MorningSong
30th December 2012, 17:51
Extending my most sincere condolences to you, Limor.
May her spirit be the wind beneath your wings.
Deega
30th December 2012, 18:00
Condolences Limor – sending you love, hug, to meet this great challenge, all the best to you and your family.
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GloriousPoetry
30th December 2012, 18:34
Limor,
I feel your pain. I don't know if you had the opportunity to say good-bye to your mother before she moved on. When my brother died in a car accident years ago I wished I had had the chance to say good-bye. Six months after his death he came to me in a dream showing me that he had not died to the world he was now in, he had just finished his physical journey in this world.
Sending you light and love,
GLORIA
Limor Wolf
30th December 2012, 20:09
I am overwhelmed with gratitude to all of you. so much energy is flowing towards my family and myself, and today was a GOOD day, there is no doubt that this was a great and supportive wind, a 'tool' to change the atmosphere, the vibrations that were pretty heavy for me..turned to be lighter and more comprising.
I Thank you from my heart!
About four years ago I recieved a sudden knowledge that my mother will be on a health crisis at her age of 71, she will be at a certain crossroad where she will have to decide if she wants to make a change in her life and in her state of mind. If she will not do that, she will not live much longer. for some reason, I repeatedly got the (in)famous date of 21 december 2012 as the final time she will be on earth. This year, a day before her 71st birthday she felt unwell and a day after she was hospitlized for the first time. months passed and although she tried, she didn't seem to be able to make the needed changes. I tried to do what I can to help her change the way, we had many talks and managed to spent quality time together, very different vibrations, but I gave her a glimpse to my world. we got closer. About two weeks ago, after a difficult day, but not so much an immediate risk of life, I had the strong urge to take a break and completely be with her, help her with her transition, which had no outward signs. no one has imagined that such a thing is coming, but me. I had a very intensive inner knowing . she was about to have quite a simple procedure to allow her heart to return to a normal pace, nothing which is life-threatening, and return back home. I had a great feelings of sadness and shame the day after I posted about it in Avalon, since I saw my mother laughing and being positive. However, she has died a sudden death On the 26th of december, five days after the date in question.
I probably shouldn't share this here, but It feels wierd.I know Avalon is quite a safe place to share our 'wierdnesses'...
There is no doubt in my mind that she is now more free than she ever was in this body, and that I will be able to connect with her maybe even in a greater depth than we ever used to. There seem to be many here who are releasing loved ones at this time, I appreciate and humbly give thanks to all your words, your thoughts and your good energies which gives me so much strength.
DEEPLY THANK YOU
Limor
CdnSirian
30th December 2012, 20:24
Dear Limor, your level of knowing ran deep in regards to your mother. I'm sure you will remain a great value to her, as she will to you.
You bring to us here that same heart and knowing, which will always be valued. Thank you.
jp11
30th December 2012, 20:40
Dear Limor, so many heart felt messages speak to the connectedness we all share. May I add my love and condolences to you and your family and blessings to your mother as her journey continues.
GCS1103
30th December 2012, 23:30
May you and your family be blessed with peace and healing from your mother's sudden departure. Her spirit is free now and experiencing joy beyond our understanding. Love and strength to you, Limor.
Bill Ryan
31st December 2012, 00:29
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I wrote this to Limor eleven days ago, and re-post it here.
Dear Limor,
I very much feel for you. I was very close to my mother, who died in 2007.
At that time she and I were the only remaining members of our family: no brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles... just herself and me. So when she passed, I was alone in the world (an interesting feeling!). Not many people get to experience what it is like to have no family at all.
Photo attached: I took her on safari to Kenya in 2004. She was always an adventurer. Here's another photo of her in Nigeria in the late 1940s, before I had arrived, holding a black baby. She was an extraordinarily beautiful, positive person. Everyone loved her, and loved to be with her.
She was first diagnosed with cancer in 1979, and when she was in the hospital ward she looked around her and thought: "My God, all these people think they're going to die." The thought that she might die never occurred to her, and she made a full recovery after surgery.
The cancer returned in 2005 (soon after this photo was taken) -- just when she was planning another trip, this time to Alaska. Her immediate thought was: "Damn! I'll have to postpone my vacation." She again went into the hospital for surgery, and again recovered fully. She went on her Alaskan trip the next year.
The cancer finally got her in 2007, third time unlucky. She was 89.
She was always very young: her voice was that of a much younger woman, and her friends were all half her age. She loved to tell the story of a salesman who had chatted her up on the phone, thinking that she was in her 30s or 40s. He was visibly shocked when he came to the door!
One day, a few years before she passed, she had her handbag stolen in the street. The local newspaper gave it a few lines, reporting that "an old lady had had her handbag snatched." She was indignant. "They called me an old lady!" she complained. I had to gently point out to her that she was 82.
Her final year was difficult. She was starting to lose her memory, and was no longer very nimble. The cancer had struck again, and she no longer had the strength to fight it or deny it. Kerry and I traveled to Northern England -- Skipton, where she lived -- to be with her. (This was when we met and spent so much time with Henry Deacon, who was living just 45 minutes away.) We rented a small apartment nearby, and I spent time with her every day, although I had organized the local social services to help with all the household logistics.
One day, I was delayed and arrived at the house 15 minutes later than when I'd told her I would be there. I found her on the floor of her bedroom, in great pain. She had fallen and broken her pelvis, trying to get the bathroom on her own -- because I was late and she could no longer wait for my assistance. I called the ambulance and we took her to the hospital. She was extremely frail.
That was when she gave up, knowing that she could not recover. She let go and died two days later. The night before she passed, I visited her at the hospital. She held my hand and simply said: "Thank you." That was the measure of the person she was, and I still miss her.
Christine
31st December 2012, 00:37
Dearest Limor --
My heart is with yours in love never ending and beauty everlasting. May you and your family find comfort and peace.
Love,
Christine
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pugwash84
31st December 2012, 00:43
peace and love to you xx
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Guest
31st December 2012, 02:08
I'm truly sorry for your loss Limor. Wishing you Peace and Love.
What a wonderful gift the time you got to spend together with your Mother.
19872
Hugs and Love
Nora
M6*
31st December 2012, 04:06
Stay strong Limor!
You are the Troubadour Now!
Much Love, Melanie
lelmaleh
31st December 2012, 08:44
Love is eternal, thinking of you and your family. May you find peace and transformation.
Tane Mahuta
31st December 2012, 09:36
Sorry to hear of your loss Limor.
As difficult as it seems...life must go on!!!
TM
Sith73
31st December 2012, 14:23
Sending love your way!
karamba
31st December 2012, 14:35
Dear Limor<
I am sorry to hear that...
sending you my Love and Peace to you and your family.
sineck
5th January 2013, 07:08
hello limor, how is one to give love? think,,,,,,,,, through life. basic, your mother loved you, i feel the sentiment, mama is life, she gave it to you. and you to her, i give you a big hug, because you need it, i know, my mommy i do miss, may you feel light and love in all that surrounds you.
conk
5th January 2013, 15:17
Love and blessings, Conk.
Phoenix1304
5th February 2013, 01:23
Hello Limor
I linked to this thread from Fred's Sacred Circle thread, I'm sorry I didn't see it before, I would have added my love and blessings to the wave directed at you and your family. Though I'm sure it's all still quite raw and you are still adjusting to life without her physical presence and perhaps finding that you're more 'with her' now than you ever were. That has been my experience following the death of my mother in 1998.
I was interested in your experience of 'knowing' and of being there for her, even though you were unable to change her perspective, that time together talking was healing for both of you.
I could say that my mother and I did not see eye to eye, although there was always respect and even though she poo-pooed much of my spritituality, she gladly drew a card from my Medicine cards when she visited and got Butterfly, I remember thinking 'I wonder how much time you have left for this world?'. Butterfly being transformation from one state to another, of course. It didn't seem to worry her, (as it did me), she liked butterflies and had three large decorative ones on the outside of her home. It made me extra gentle and patient with her that week she stayed. She died suddenly on the last day of that visit. Unlike, the death of my father that was also sudden and unspeakably traumatic for me at age 23, I felt I had closure with my mum, peace, harmony and love prevailed in those last days.
At her wake, a butterfly fluttered in amongst the assembled mourners and around the room. "It's Nana!" said one of her young granddaughters. I do believe it was. I also believe that, for some time, at least, the personality survives death.
Sometimes I still shed tears for my mother but they are usually of joy mixed with sadness at some deeper understanding of our karmic relationship. I guess we're never really parted from our soul group and the love and learning goes on and on.
I am always comforted by a Native American proverb, "They are not gone that live in the hearts they leave behind".
Blessings, love and my deepest condolences to you.
Helen
zebowho
8th February 2013, 16:00
HI Limor, I too am sorry I missed this and for your loss. I had a felling when you mentioned you were taking time off for a bit, on Wade's thread. I sincerely hope the space you've been in has more peace and the light that surrounds your mother now than the sadness we all feel at times like this. We too lost someone this past Dec to a 6yr long fight with cancer and every time I hear or know someone that leaves this collective party we call life I have to remind myself of something I had a very small glimpse of when my grandfather passed many many years ago. The angels in Heaven are celebrating each one's return, much like we do a new born life here but on such a purer and grander scale. We will see them again.
Any peace, calm and serenity I have that can find its way to you, I freely give.
-z
Limor Wolf
8th February 2013, 17:59
zebowho, Thank you very much, I appreciate your words of support and am sorry to hear about your own loss, battling cancer can be long and full of ups and downs, I hope that you as well are at a place of peace and acceptance, I know I am. we have a something unique that is to our aid here, and that is the knowing that we are actually immortal beings and that death is an illusion. It makes the seperation easier.
Hello Helen, Just read your post, how amazing! I find common grounds with your own mother's departure as was with mine. my mother's death and everything surrounding it was a so unreal to me, I am not talking about the normal usual sense that is a struggle to everyone, but from the sense of having so many 'unnatural' things happening. I was given knowledge, slightly too much knowledge for my taste.. to assist her and to assist myself along her last couple of years. I practically knew what was about to happen. every step of the way, even when she was healthy and smiling. I had a battle inside of me because of this, and feelings of shame. four years is a long time to preper and to be prepered.
It seems that your mother pulling the butterfly card was your own sign and your own "knowing" of her transition to come, it must have felt pretty strange when it happened.
There were no outer signs for us, so no one of my family suspected that my mother will not recover. ten days before she passed, I phoned my brother, my sister and an aunt and gently asked them to be prepered for this option, not to pressure her anymore to do 'this' or do 'that', but simply be with her in love.
Nine days before, I wrote in my notebook: " I am getting information..mom is not in a good shape.." that same night when I went to bed, I reached my hand to the clock, and found it was turned off, stopped working for some reason, when I turned it on again it kept flashing 01:00, which is a number I am often prompted with, a kind of an energy signature.
Three days before she passed, I was woken up at night at exactly 3:33, I looked at the clock and went back to sleep, after an hour I suddenly woke up again, hearing my mom screaming inside my head, I could not understand why.. went back to sleep, woke up again at exactly 05:00 and as the morning came I forgot all about this. when I arrived to the hospital my mom told me she fell at night out of bed, the nurses came to pick her up from the floor at around 04:00, and she was screaming.
zebowho
8th February 2013, 20:20
You're absolutely welcome and thank you again. Once I remember that glimpse then the peace comes pretty quick. I can't help but to be happy for them, knowing where they are, they made it! Yes, cancer is extremely ugly and the up's and down's are extreme and I've watched a few fight it but none like this and the amount of courage this person had, I'm still in awe. I definitely agree about the illusion and that we are immortal beings, kind of puts a fine point on the temporary nature of that separation too.
4evrneo
8th February 2013, 21:30
I too am not sure how I missed this thread but I think you already know how special you are to me and your mother is so blessed to have such an amazing daughter. You are ALWAYS in my thoughts each day my friend.
We are connected, We are one. You, your mother & family are in my heart <3 always
Blessings
Annette
Referee
8th February 2013, 22:25
Limor, As always you and yours are in my prayers.
Kevin
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