My divorce came though, I am a happy panda

[shadowstalker]

A lot I still have to do, like change my name back to my family name.
Take down my books and poems and put my family name on it instead of my married name.
Get my ID's changed
And break away from some of his friends hahahaha.. :cool:

[Mark]

:clap2::tea::clap2:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYi7uEvEEmk


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jsw_r0hILQ

[lookbeyond]

Blessings and happiness to you!-lb

[Daughter of Time]

Congratulations Shadowstalker!

It wasn't very long ago that you were very unhappy because you thought this might take another year. But it happened sooner!

I'm very happy for you and I wish you a splendid new beginning. Enjoy your freedom!

With love,

Daughter of Time

[Marianne]

All the best to you, Shadowstalker. Many blessings.

[shadowstalker]

Thank you all for the support you all gave me :cheer2::rockon::cantina::grouphug:
I know I would not have made it through with out my AVALON FAMILY.
Thank you all so much.
Blessing and love and hugs And thank you for the vids lol..

[shadowstalker]

My song for at least tonight Mwahahaha

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUtHjOvPKT0

[Chip]

Congrats shadowwalker!
I know the relief it brings after having been "wrong" in my own life. Funny, I was going to say "after having made mistakes". But it was the best learning experience I've ever had.
I want to wish you the best and at the same time thank you, as I enjoy reading your posts.
Best to you
With Love

[Sidney]

I am so happy for you. Congrats. I look forward to the day when I can make a similar announcement. Soaring free!!!! Hugs

20765

[shadowstalker]

I am crying HAPPY TEARS
You guys are awesome

[WhiteFeather]

Congrats my sister from the stars your a Free Bird now. Enjoy the Peace and Bliss. Although im not a fan of Walt Disney however this song came to mind.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LcxYwwIL5zQ

[shadowstalker]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3zqWQUfnGA

[Snookie]

I had a bittersweet feeling when I got my papers. I was very relieved, but I still felt like a failure.

[WhiteFeather]

This came to mind too Sis.

Some Pumpkins - Today


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xmUZ6nCFNoU

[merkabagirll]

Happy trails on your new journey ShadowStalker! Change is essential ... and the only real constant! Wishing you a smooth and joyous transition ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OtfHkqdSEDc

[shadowstalker]

@Snookie
Your not a failure..
It took me a few years but i found out he was trying to make me fail, and I would not allow that.
You are not a failure if you keep in your true heart who you truly are and fight for it.
You can not change the other person you can only find out who you are in the end and change for yourself..

[shadowstalker]

I have to put another piece of baggage out, sorry folks this is the only way I can celebrate with out my folks going nuts on me hahahah.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jdjtqu3XK4U

[Snookie]

@Snookie
Your not a failure..
It took me a few years but i found out he was trying to make me fail, and I would not allow that.
You are not a failure if you keep in your true heart who you truly are and fight for it.
You can not change the other person you can only find out who you are in the end and change for yourself..

I know what you mean, but I still felt like a failure in not keeping my marriage vows.

[shadowstalker]

@Snookie
Your not a failure..
It took me a few years but i found out he was trying to make me fail, and I would not allow that.
You are not a failure if you keep in your true heart who you truly are and fight for it.
You can not change the other person you can only find out who you are in the end and change for yourself..

I know what you mean, but I still felt like a failure in not keeping my marriage vows.

Hmmm I am afraid to ask

[EsmaEverheart]

Congrats! You have a whole new door opening for you now.

Much love,

Esma

[Referee]

It makes me happy that you are happy! It is nice to hear some good news! Thinking of you often.

[sandy]

Congrats' Shadowstalker>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>UP, UP and AWAY :-)

[Carmody]

It comes back.....it comes 'round again...

4aeETEoNfOg

[RunningDeer]

Yeah, Yeah, to you, Shadowstalker!

Verklempt - Talk Amongst Yourselves
PDXEgBh0TF0

Ending of One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest
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[astrid]

Freedom !

When i finally got off "that" merry go round,
it amazed me how much time and space i had
in my head for me now.. and the peace.
I just wished i had done it years earlier.

Congrats.

[sleepy]

xxxxx xxxxx

[mojo]

The replies tell there's alot of support which I'm happy to be a part of. Your authenticity comes through in your writings and videos. Your's ex's loss is certainly our gain as being one of your friends. best wishes and a big hug...:)

[Kindling]

Hooray :-). So happy you are able to start putting that negativity behind you!! You are beautiful inside and out and deserve only the very best. Love yas girlfriend :-)

[Anchor]

Go shadowstalker! Do the happy panda dance like no-one is watching :)


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I know what you mean, but I still felt like a failure in not keeping my marriage vows.

I do hope you still don't feel this way.

For what its worth, in my opinion, those vows represent a system that is manipulative and broken. There is no shame in its passing.

[shadowstalker]

I do hope you still don't feel this way.

For what its worth, in my opinion, those vows represent a system that is manipulative and broken. There is no shame in its passing.
I totally AGREE