An experiment (for single men)

[jagman]

I have an experiment i would like to share with the single men of Avalon.
I want you to find a lady your attracted to. It could be, you met her at
a bar you frequent or she could be a server at a restaurant or a gas station
attendant where you fill up. It doesn't matter.Walk up to her make eye contact
& Smile. At this point I want you to stare at her mouth for about a second and
half, (not to long, just long enough to make sure she catches looking,

When she catches you looking at her mouth immediately resume eye contact
Then watch her reaction! Remember smile be friendly, if she is a working gal
ask her how her day is going?while your chit chatting with her make sure
your not facing her directly, you kinda want a side posture.



The above scenario that i described bypasses a woman's logical brain and
speaks directly to her emotional brain( Her naughty side)

[Sérénité]

Yes don't stare too long, she may worry she has a currant or something stuck between her teeth ;)

[Kraut]

Beware of the forces you may unleash. ;)

[Soulboy]

This reminds me of one of my friends who reads way too many of these seduction guru books and has devised all these routines he uses... quite unsuccessfully and cringe-inducing to watch I might add.

Have you tried 3 months of complete abstinence (as in not sexually engaging with any ladies as well as being master of your domain in a sort of tantric way)?. In my experience that works wonders for your desirability with women as it changes your radiance or energy that you put out to the world. And that is just one of many positive effects it has, I found.

[CD7]

The above scenario that i described bypasses a woman's logical brain and
speaks directly to her emotional brain( Her naughty side)


Hummm heres a thought perhaps be yourself and if the chemistry is there.....there are no catches...tricks tht a man has to conjure up! Scheming, planning, not "being yourself" MAY catch a chick temporarily, but if it ends up being longer term and YOUR REAL SELF comes out because you've been pretending to be someone else....well a world of hurt will come your way...

[jiminii]

The above scenario that i described bypasses a woman's logical brain and
speaks directly to her emotional brain( Her naughty side)


Hummm heres a thought perhaps be yourself and if the chemistry is there.....there are no catches...tricks tht a man has to conjure up! Scheming, planning, not "being yourself" MAY catch a chick temporarily, but if it ends up being longer term and YOUR REAL SELF comes out because you've been pretending to be someone else....well a world of hurt will come your way...

me ... I just make friends ... just that .. give her some space ... she's probably been hit on 75 times that week and would really just like to have a friend ... and if you can do that until all the crazy body sensations settle down ... you might be able to learn something about each other ... without all this compulsive erotic manipulations to mess up the friendship ... you might find someone that will stay with you and love doing it ...

jim

[Kraut]

This reminds me of one of my friends who reads way too many of these seduction guru books and has devised all these routines he uses... quite unsuccessfully and cringe-inducing to watch I might add.

Have you tried 3 months of complete abstinence (as in not sexually engaging with any ladies as well as being master of your domain in a sort of tantric way)?. In my experience that works wonders for your desirability with women as it changes your radiance or energy that you put out to the world. And that is just one of many positive effects it has, I found.
Didn't know that seduction guru books even existed. He should try honesty and as CD7 says being himself. I think the more we become ourselves and in tune with who we really are the better things get. We are comfortable with who we are and others sense that. That beats the fakeness in today's society.

[Soulboy]

I did not until he got into that stuff and couldn't shut up about it all. The one he went for was called Mystery or something like that. Google it! It's really creepy :)

[soleil]

Have you tried 3 months of complete abstinence (as in not sexually engaging with any ladies as well as being master of your domain in a sort of tantric way)?. In my experience that works wonders for your desirability with women as it changes your radiance or energy that you put out to the world. And that is just one of many positive effects it has, I found.

a challenge to the males to do this would probably leave more women in an emotional state but with men who know what to do. rather than just a slick look at the lips :P lol

[Strat]

The above scenario that i described bypasses a woman's logical brain and
speaks directly to her emotional brain( Her naughty side)

I assure you there is no 'logical brain' in women. (joking!!)

I always am myself which works out most of the time. I am really laid back and I make jokes a lot. I think the biggest advantage I have is the fact that I'm fascinated in people. I am genuinely interested in what people have to say and how they express their words. It's almost a game I play with myself; see how fast I can sum up this persons life, how they got here and why they are the way they are. I also read a lot of books so if a gal brings up something I've read about I actually have an opinion. From this perspective you can see I'm not 'acting' a certain way I am just being me.

This is why it's important to 'know thyself.' It's good to be you, but if you're an asshole then you need to work on you. Dig deep in that heart and let it go.

I'm sometimes weirdly attracted to women who are emotional wrecks. I like that project. I think it's because it makes me feel better about myself (I'm often self-conscious) and again, I'm genuinely interested in why that person is the way they are.

Oh! One more thing: I'm friends with an attractive bar tender. She has the sharpest wit I've ever seen and she calls guys out for trying tricks or whatever to get with her. Too funny, too funny.

[Another1]

If glancing at their mouth causes naughty instinct to kick in, be careful in the south, you could meet this lady in the check out line at grocery store any day of the week.
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[jiminii]

If glancing at their mouth causes naughty instinct to kick in, be careful in the south, you could meet this lady in the check out line at grocery store any day of the week.
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remember too that before you kiss the lips are clean ... after you kiss you can easily see all the bugs and virtual viruses grow ...

jim

[norman]

IF you can't skin an animal, don't eat meat :)

[jagman]

By all means be yourself gentlemen.This is not a trick... It's
based in science. Strat that Attractive bartender you said
you know would be a perfect candidate for this experiment lol
She is used to being hit on and she's probably heard every
pickup line there is! Albert Einstein said the definition of insanity
was "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different
results.:p

[Mulder]

It's great advice for guys who want to date, or make female friends, etc. If I decide to ever date again, I'll try it. However, I've decided to be on my own so I don't talk to girls now - the same way most girls don't talk to guys now. Although, I'm not rude or "bitchy" to the opposite gender like some people are because I'm spiritual and I don't want to cause hurt to any living thing.

[The Truth Is In There]

i wouldn't want a woman whose brain goes on standby when some guy does that trick. for guys who are more interested in sex with many different women than a relationship or just intelligent conversation with only one this is probably great advice. just what today's society is all about.

[Chester]

No one wants me to comment on any of this so.............................

Yes, even for justoneman there is hope -

so I won't comment

haha

[CD7]

IF you can't skin an animal, don't eat meat :)

LOL so I should learn how to skin a man first? sorry I have never heard this saying....:)

[jagman]

i wouldn't want a woman whose brain goes on standby when some guy does that trick. for guys who are more interested in sex with many different women than a relationship or just intelligent conversation with only one this is probably great advice. just what today's society is all about.

Hello The Truth Is In There, Most human being's want solid true relationships.
Whether it be friendship,or on a more intimate nature. Some of the tools not
tricks I mentioned in my original post all men should do. Smile, It wont hurt
and it don't cost a thing. Be friendly, Make eye contact( Shows confidence)
Body language. Did you know that 75% of communication is nonverbal.
I'm not even dating right now but i still employ these tools.

[RunningDeer]

What’s important for me is that our energy signatures mesh. How and what we do may be different. The one common theme is each continues to strip away what no longer serves. Continued self-knowledge and self-empowerment deepens the relationship.

Heart and high mind in balanced measure is a nuts-and-bolts compass.

[thunder24]

:horn: thats right there is justonehope after all... lol... coudn't resist
No one wants me to comment on any of this so.............................

Yes, even for justoneman there is hope -

so I won't comment

haha

[meeradas]

Have you tried 3 months of complete abstinence...

Did seven years; didn't "help".
Didn't care.

[jagman]

Have you tried 3 months of complete abstinence...

Did seven years; didn't "help".
Didn't care.

There is nothing wrong with abstinence if that's what you want.
7 years, Damn... What was her name?

[meeradas]

7 years, Damn... What was her name?

D r a m a.

[jagman]

If any of you single guys try this experiment remember to watch her reaction and if you see her pupils dilate then
that's a good sign.;)

[christian]

Walk up to her make eye contact & Smile. At this point I want you to stare at her mouth for about a second and half, (not to long, just long enough to make sure she catches looking, When she catches you looking at her mouth immediately resume eye contact Then watch her reaction!

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The above scenario that i described bypasses a woman's logical brain and
speaks directly to her emotional brain( Her naughty side)


By all means be yourself gentlemen.This is not a trick... It's
based in science.

I guess in the scientific realm it's only known that it works, not how it works.

However, from my experience, the how can be explained quite easily. Just as you can arouse your partner physically by touching erogenous zones on the body, you can touch these zones energetically. The lips are of course one of these zones. The paps would be as well, but there's a lot of cultural programming there regarding shame, decency, and so on, so staring there might easily backfire. Your eyes and your stare are a very efficient conductor for subtle energy, technically the partner doesn't even have to see how you look at her lips or something. You can also simply use your intention to direct energy. It works, and the more you do it, the more you will get a feel for it.

Then it's your choice whether you wanna use it to manipulate people or to genuinely caress people who you have a mature relationship with... And of course not everybody likes to be touched by you right away, whether physically, energetically, or by your stares, pretty much regardless of how tender you might be.

[jagman]

So has anyone tried the experiment yet? I'm just interested in data. No need for the dirty details. lol I do plan on publishing the data.
No names would be used!.only statistics....Just shoot me a PM. Only use this on a girl your really interested in dating. This is not about
manipulation. This is about getting a woman to see you in a different light.So if any of you guy's use this for evil purposes, you will get
burned because women have a built in lie detector! Put bluntly, they can smell BS from a mile away. It has to be Authentic or it won't
work.

I want to apologize to any of the Avalon women that may have been offended by this thread. Men have their own psychological triggers.
I highly respect women and if i didn't, my momma would smack me on the back of head!