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dianna
15th September 2013, 00:03
I have been PRIVILEDGED to assist homeless people in my city, in fact THE most interesting people I have ever interacted with have been street people ... with that in mind I start this thread ...


35 Ways to Help the Homeless

The world of the homeless seems very far from yours -- but in some ways it is quite near. For any of us, the loss of a job, the death of a spouse or a child or a severe physical disability could be the route to total despair. These are the very tragedies that have happened to many homeless people. Struck by personal tragedies, the people in shelters across America, have lost their homes and been deserted by the families and friends they once had. What can you do to help them? Sometimes the smallest can go a long way.

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Understand who the homeless are - Help dispel the stereotypes about the homeless. Learn about the different reasons for homelessness, and remember, every situation is unique.

Educate yourself about the homeless - A homeless person may be someone who lost their job, a runaway child, or someone with a mental illness. One of the first steps in helping people is to see them as individuals and to find out what they need. Notice them; talk to them. Most are starved for attention.

Respect the homeless as individuals - Give the homeless people the same courtesy and respect you would accord your friends, your family, your employer. Treat them as you would wish to be treated if you needed assistance.

Respond with kindness - We can make quite a difference in the lives of the homeless when we respond to them, rather than ignore or dismiss them. Try a kind word and a smile.

Develop lists of shelters - Carry a card that lists local shelters so you can hand them out to the homeless. You can find shelters in your phone book.

Buy Street Sheet - This biweekly newspaper is sold in almost every major American city and is intended to help the homeless help themselves. For every paper sold, the homeless earn five cents deposited in a special savings account earmarked for rent.
Bring food - It's as simple as taking a few extra sandwiches when you go out. When you pass someone who asks for change, offer him or her something to eat. If you take a lunch, pack a little extra. When you eat at a restaurant, order something to take with you when you leave.

Give money - One of the most direct ways to aid the homeless is to give money. Donations to nonprofit organizations that serve the homeless go a long way.
Give recyclables - In localities where there is a "bottle law," collecting recyclable cans and bottles is often the only "job" available to the homeless. But it is an honest job that requires initiative. You can help by saving your recyclable bottles, cans, and newspapers and giving them to the homeless instead of taking them to a recycling center or leaving them out for collection. If you live in a larger city, you may wish to leave your recyclables outside for the homeless to pick up -- or give a bagful of cans to a homeless person in your neighborhood.

Donate clothing - Next time you do your spring or fall cleaning, keep an eye out for those clothes that you no longer wear. If these items are in good shape, gather them together and donate them to organizations that provide housing for the homeless.
Donate a bag of groceries - Load up a bag full of nonperishable groceries, and donate it to a food drive in your area. If your community doesn't have a food drive, organize one. Contact your local soup kitchens, shelters, and homeless societies and ask what kind of food donations they would like.

Donate toys - Children living in shelters have few possessions --if any-- including toys. Homeless parents have more urgent demands on what little money they have, such as food and clothing. So often these children have nothing to play with and little to occupy their time. You can donate toys, books, and games to family shelters to distribute to homeless children. For Christmas or Chanukah, ask your friends and co-workers to buy and wrap gifts for homeless children.

Volunteer at a shelter - Shelters thrive on the work of volunteers, from those who sign people in, to those who serve meals, to others who counsel the homeless on where to get social services. For the homeless, a shelter can be as little as a place to sleep out of the rain or as much as a step forward to self-sufficiency.

Volunteer at a soup kitchen - Soup kitchens provide one of the basics of life, nourishing meals for the homeless and other disadvantaged members of the community. Volunteers generally do much of the work, including picking up donations of food, preparing meals, serving it, and cleaning up afterward. To volunteer your services, contact you local soup kitchen, mobile food program, shelter, or religious center.

Volunteer your professional services - No matter what you do for a living, you can help the homeless with your on-the-job talents and skills. Those with clerical skills can train those with little skills. Doctors, psychiatrists, counselors, and dentists can treat the homeless in clinics. Lawyers can help with legal concerns. The homeless' needs are bountiful -- your time and talent won't be wasted.

Volunteer your hobbies - Every one of us has something we can give the homeless. Wherever our interests may lie -- cooking, repairing, gardening, and photography -- we can use them for the homeless. Through our hobbies, we can teach them useful skills, introduce them to new avocations and perhaps point them in a new direction.
Volunteer for follow-up programs - Some homeless people, particularly those who have been on the street for a while, may need help with fundamental tasks such as paying bills, balancing a household budget, or cleaning. Follow-up programs to give the formerly homeless further advice, counseling, and other services need volunteers.

Tutor homeless children - A tutor can make all the difference. Just having adult attention can spur children to do their best. Many programs exist in shelters, transitional housing programs, and schools that require interested volunteers. Or begin you own tutor volunteer corps at your local shelter. It takes nothing more than a little time.
Take homeless children on trips - Frequently, the only environment a homeless child knows is that of the street, shelters, or other transitory housing. Outside of school -- if they attend -- these children have little exposure to many of the simple pleasures that most kids have. Volunteer at your local family shelter to take children skating or to an aquarium on the weekend.

Volunteer at battered women's shelter - Most battered women are involved in relationships with abusive husbands or other family members. Lacking resources and afraid of being found by their abusers, many may have no recourse other than a shelter or life on the streets once they leave home. Volunteers handle shelter hotlines, pick up abused women and their children when they call, keep house, and offer counseling. Call your local shelter for battered women to see how you can help.

Teach about the homeless - If you do volunteer work with the homeless, you can become an enthusiast and extend your enthusiasm to others. You can infect others with your own sense of devotion by writing letters to the editor of your local paper and by pressing housing issues at election time.

Publish shelter information - Despite all of our efforts to spread the word about shelters, it is surprising how many people are unaware of their own local shelters. Contact your local newspapers, church or synagogue bulletins, or civic group's newsletters about the possibility of running a weekly or monthly listing of area services available to the homeless. This could include each organization's particular needs for volunteers, food, and other donations.

Educate your children about the homeless - Help your children to see the homeless as people. If you do volunteer work, take your sons and daughters along so they can meet with homeless people and see what can be done to help them. Volunteer as a family in a soup kitchen or shelter. Suggest that they sort through the toys, books, and clothes they no longer use and donate them to organizations that assist the poor.
Sign up your company/school - Ask your company or school to host fund-raising events, such as raffles or craft sales and donate the proceeds to nonprofit organizations that aid the homeless. You can also ask your company or school to match whatever funds you and your co-workers or friends can raise to help the homeless.

Recruit local business - One of the easiest ways to involve local businesses is to organize food and/or clothing drives. Contact local organizations to find out what is needed, approach local grocery or clothing shops about setting up containers on their premises in which people can drop off donations, ask local businesses to donate goods to the drive, and publicize the drive by placing announcements in local papers and on community bulletin boards and by posting signs and posters around your neighborhood.

Create lists of needed donations - Call all the organizations in your community that aid the homeless and ask them what supplies they need on a regular basis. Make a list for each organization, along with its address, telephone number, and the name of a contact person. Then mail these lists to community organizations that may wish to help with donations -- every place from religious centers to children's organizations such as Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts.

Play with children in a shelter - Many children in shelters are cut off from others their own age. Shuffled from place to place, sometimes these kids don't attend school on a regular basis, and have no contact with other kids. Bring a little joy to their lives by taking your children to a local shelter to play. Plan activities such as coloring, playing with dolls, or building model cars (take along whatever toys you'll need). Your own children will benefit too.

Employ the homeless - Help Wanted - General Office Work. Welfare recipient, parolee, ex-addict OK. Good salary, benefits. Will train. That's the way Wildcat Service Corporations Supported Work Program invites the "unemployable" to learn to work and the program works! More than half the people who sign on find permanent, well-paying jobs, often in maintenance, construction, clerical, or security work.

Help the homeless apply for aid - Governmental aid is available for homeless people, but many may not know where to find it or how to apply. Since they don't have a mailing address, governmental agencies may not be able to reach them. You can help by directing the homeless to intermediaries, such as homeless organizations, that let them know what aid is available and help them to apply for it. If you want to be an advocate or intermediary for the homeless yourself, you can contact these organizations as well.
Stand up for the civil rights of the homeless - In recent elections, for example, volunteers at shelters and elsewhere helped homeless people register to vote . . . even though they had "no fixed address" at the moment. Some officials would not permit citizens without a permanent address to vote.

Join Habitat for Humanity - This Christian housing ministry builds houses for families in danger of becoming homeless. Volunteers from the community and Habitat homeowners erect the houses. Funding is through donations from churches, corporations, foundations, and individuals.


Write to corporations - Some of the largest corporations in America have joined the battle for low-income housing. Through the use of the tax credit or by outright grants, they are participating with federal and state government, not-for-profit and community-based groups to build desperately needed housing in Chicago, Cleveland, Los Angeles, Philadelphia, and dozens of other cities. Contact various organizations and ask them what they are doing.

Contact your government representatives - Our legislators rarely receive more than three visits or ten letters about any subject. When the numbers exceed that amount, they sit up and take note. Personal visits are the most potent. Letters are next; telephone calls are third best. Housing issues don't come up that often, so your public officials will listen.

Push for state homelessness prevention programs - While states routinely supply aid for the poor and homeless, many do not have programs provide funds and other services to those who will lose their homes in the immediate future unless something is done. Homelessness comes at great financial and human cost to the families who are evicted or foreclosed.

With love BIG GUY ...

giovonni
15th September 2013, 00:10
# 36
Offer a homeless person a home ... :)

Bob
15th September 2013, 00:18
Very very good, thank you for your insight compassion and vision

maybe add one more thing - understand what it feels like to be in that position - feel being in those shoes (or lack of them)..

this is what I found in Nigeria (Lagos) with homeless people. Living under bridges, on the sidewalks in the open, under a trash can if one can find a trash can, and not just an amazingly high pile of trash.

I walked up to one of the homeless who was selling some phone cards points to recharge one's cellphone account. And I accidentally paid double for the card. The person looked at what I handed him, counted it twice, said mr, you overpaid me please take this back. I handed it back to him saying thank you for your honesty.. we must never stereotype

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dianna
15th September 2013, 00:26
I cook ... I equate food with love, and I am good at it ... its not what I do for a living (unfortunately lol), its what I do to love people and its how i spent a couple of years of my life ... cooking for street people, street beautiful people ... it was a wonderful time of my life, an education in love and compassion ... I LEARNED --- and am grateful for the love I RECEIVED ---

jagman
15th September 2013, 01:50
dianna thank you for this thread. I so often read threads on PA of young people feeling lost
and without purpose and the answers are always with in. Our society has unfortunately became
the ME ME ME generation and the Want Want Want. All of this leads to being spiritual empty.
When a person gives of themselves and with a free heart the world becomes beautiful again

Bubu
15th September 2013, 02:23
Nice thread, that's a lot of things to do. But in the fundamental sense there is only one thing that needs to be done, "Care" If we do we can think of virtually unlimited ways to do good. But we do not have to think that much anyway just DOING any 1 of the above mentioned will be GREAT.

Dianna Thanks for the reminders.

Etherios
15th September 2013, 02:25
You all do understand that homeless people is a USA problem even if USA is supposed to be the biggest economy in the west ...

I am not 100% sure but even in Greece we have almost 0 homeless people and we are supposed to be a 3rd world EU country atm. USA has few million homeless people right?

So the homeless issue is a society problem and has nothing to do with our action at the moment.

I absolutely love your 35 points but i prefer to fix the problem at its creation and not to cure the results ...

It doesnt matter how much we care ... the number of the homeless will keep raising more and more ...

Tesla_WTC_Solution
15th September 2013, 20:04
I've been homeless 3 times, but each time less than two months.
During those times I met many interesting people, as you say, "the most interesting people I've ever met".

Remember the Sikh people in CA who got in trouble for feeding USA homeless? It made me so sad to read that the local businesses there had a problem with religious people from other countries feeding our needy. The same people who had been victimized earlier that year in Wisconsin.

Thank you for what you do for those people!

Squash is in season :D

Corncrake
15th September 2013, 20:41
What an important thread. If only we could all feel compassion for the homeless. It really doesn't take a lot to make a difference especially if we all do a little. A while ago my daughter was hurrying to catch the last tube home and rushed by a homeless person sitting on the pavement. She was feeling so cold she could imagine what it must be like for him and so tipped the contents of her purse into his lap and then went on. The next day catching the bus to work she swiped her oyster card only to find there was no credit on it and of course she had no money in her purse having given it away the night before. An American tourist was in the queue behind her and stepped forward asking her if he could pay her fare. She was very moved by this but I call it karma!

dianna
15th September 2013, 21:53
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r246GKo9QFI

NOT invisible to me

http://invisiblepeople.tv/blog/

karamba
15th September 2013, 22:10
Lovely thread, thank you great reminder, big hug to you Dianna :kiss::angel:

778 neighbour of some guy
16th September 2013, 10:29
This is where I worked for some time, but I can assure you this place De Herberg has been cleaned up for this video.

De Herberg is a shelter, for the homeless, homeless is a somewhat broad definition btw, asylum seekers, psychiatric patients, junkies, alcoholics, and then some, most problems stem from a combination of all of the above, autism, adhd, borderliners, exentrics, misfits and lowlifes, they are all there and this is not an easy job for that matter, so many disillusioned people walk this planet, don't even get me started, the video paints a nice and peaceful picture but don't make the mistake for a single moment this is the case, at least 3 serious incidents happen a week and you have a crap day you get them in one hour and you will be handling overdosing, a fight over dope or money and a two new intakes ( clients), calling an ambulance, wonder who the F2ck stole (tore the tv) of the wall this time, have drunk idiots walk through the metal detectors 3 times, search them and find tools, knives, dope, alcohol and what have we, endless discussions about money and or who pulled what on an who and why, a constant blame game, funny thing is, most clients don't have a clue, some of us ( me and my collegues) have been in their exact situation in our lives or very close to it and they act like we are pieces of sh!t who only want to make money of them ( which is true in some degree of course, we need dinner too, and a roof and some shoes), in the viedeo you see some colleagues of me, I will not name them, but its a mixed bunch, adoptees, former addicts, broken homes, you get the picture I assume, we are all human, everyone get a piece sooner or later, when you gets yours you better get your head somewhat straight on your shoulders, there is only so much others can do for you, even in a shelter with professional help, you are the difference you can make.

The amazing thing is all of the above crap happens routinely and people in general seem to just want to get along ( all in the same crappy boat), but don't let your guard down or have romantic thoughts about his, you do this job because you come to the conclusion all everybody suffers is hurt and a BROKEN HEART for whatever reason, sexual abuse, neglect, being misunderstood, diagnosed or being misdiagnosed, alcoholism, substance abuse have a cause, the cause is the problem and the cause is what got people f@cked up, and this f@cking up is what WE as a species did to each other, don't think for a second you are not involved because you are, everyone is, and in the blink of an eye you could be in that exact situation, dazed, confused, drunk, doped and medicated, no sh!t.

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dianna
8th February 2014, 13:53
Thanks for this Giovanni … Interesting how the artist describes his subjects as being "biblical"


Big City Life: Homeless in New York City

"There are around 1,750,000 homeless people in the USA today. According to the 2013 Annual Homeless Assessment Report, nearly 64,000 people, including 22,000 children, are homeless in New York City. Through an artist who paints New York vagrants, RT relays the life stories of people who live on the edge, learns how they came to the streets and how to survive there. We also meet some of the dedicated volunteers who do what they can to help."

Published on Feb 2, 2014



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIKVULiB5qk

GreenGuy
8th February 2014, 22:58
BUMP!! Great thread from a great heart. Thanks, Dianna!

dianna
8th February 2014, 23:57
BUMP!! Great thread from a great heart. Thanks, Dianna!

Thanks green guy, I really don't consider myself as having a great heart, I just really, really see the beauty in so much of what this society considers trash … wow, so many missed opportunities … wisdom, insight, intellect … so many cool and beautiful people who have so much anguish to deal with … I could spend my life hanging with these people I think sometimes …

Agape
9th February 2014, 01:01
There were times in my life that I really wanted to be homeless ..because I realised that I am, we all are in fact .. refugees of the Universe , free roaming spirits, bodies that gave home to the spirits ,
home is where heart is . It'd be very difficult for me to experience this here in Europe but in India, for example, half world is 'homeless' . It's warmer country with people travelling coast to coast with very little expenses or need for them ( it used to be .. not any more , they're also evolving rapidly .. to ID cards, registrations at every hot spot, do want a phone SIM submit your passport photocopies and tell us who are your house owners .. ) ,
yogis, saints, fakirs , swamis , spiritual folks in general .. proudly claimed homelessness as their credo .

There was freedom in it .. freedom from the system , freedom from money, freedom of movement and having much to care about .

I am not saying this is possibly a way to live in our version of modern society ..or at least, it seems to be too difficult to do. Shivering with cold at street corners, spitted on by pass walkers , dirt and smell, when ill health hits it's straight a disaster .

Seen that picture here in the city too many times and it gets stuck in my mind forever ..
rainy day when I rushed to library because I was so late , it rained dogs and cats . Right at the side of main square , close to tube station squats a man without legs, hiding his head in hood , that time his head reached the pavement ..

it poured . Legs of business men in grey suits rushing round him in swift pace to hide from the rain, each to reach his goal as fast as possible.

There, the torso of man with head on the cold pavement . I did not have the strength in me to go and pick him up .

Many of our 'homeless' people drink a lot , that's a problem . They turn the money they get to cheap alcohol. I bet sure some never shower because their smell more than a factory .

Social workers say they could have clean cheap home and do some work if they agreed to it but the disaster is that those who got out of the workings of society for long time find it difficult to come back. They also seem to treasure their freedom .



In Dharamsala ( like elsewhere in India ) we used to have regular group of people with leprosy , most of them went there with hope for easy earnings on the street . Through out the years, Tibetan town committee organised doctor and nurse to go around them regularly and fresh cover their wounds .

They were not infectious .. most went for 6 week compulsory treatment each year to their state and were said to be in remission.

In India, beggar folks always smile - if you don't smile you get less . But it's also about being part of the normal society - sharing smiles and happiness, giving something in reward . Indeed , some of their fates and faces remain faithful inspiration for me forever .
The curious thing about it is that if I come back after year or ten years, many of them are still where they were .

Homelessness seems to be the very nature of human existence ..I doubt it will ever , disappear . Looking at the war situation in Syria and people in refugee camps , they all have to go somewhere .


Feeling like a.dot at the moment :alien:

GreenGuy
9th February 2014, 02:43
I just really, really see the beauty in so much of what this society considers trash … wow, so many missed opportunities … wisdom, insight, intellect … so many cool and beautiful people who have so much anguish to deal with … I could spend my life hanging with these people I think sometimes …

I once had a dream where I was homeless - I've been close, but never actually lacked a roof and bed, at least not for more than a few days. But in the dream, I helped organize homeless folks. In my dream, homeless people came together and formed real communities because they didn't want to be part of the society that sees no value in them, that can't look beyond the surface. They took over abandoned buildings, grew gardens, set watch at night and took care of each other. It was a good dream.