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GreenGuy
4th December 2013, 05:53
I've spent my first week or so at Avalon browsing and getting the feel of the place. Lots of interesting stuff, many good people! But I couldn't find a single thread dedicated to good news or signs of hope....so I thought I'd start one. I'll begin with something that happened to me lately.

I live in a smallish city with high unemployment and lots of crime. It isn't the worst place in the world by a long shot, but there are enough tweakers and thieves that you don't leave stuff sitting out. I don't own a car, and was really upset when my bicycle was stolen on July 4. But I found one in a thrift store for $30. I put another $100 into it, and it really suits me more than the last one (it's also ugly, so it's less likely to get stolen).

I work with a charity that takes donated furniture and household items and delivers them to needy folks around the area. I spend every Tuesday delivering stuff to parts of town that most people never see.

(Recently we got 200 high-quality beds from a hotel chain that's doing some upgrading. Before I retired I was a furniture repairman and restorer of antiques and architectural woodwork, so when we get furniture that needs a bit of work I take it home and patch it up before we deliver it. I'm also a lifelong bicycle enthusiast, so I am always looking for bikes to refurbish for needy families and homeless people).

I had an ad on Craigslist for a solid year, explaining our organization and what we do, asking for donations of bicycles and usable parts. In the last year I got mostly a pile of junk, but I managed to put together a few usable bikes. Then I got lucky and over several weeks managed to put together a collection of usable frames. I got busy and soon had half a dozen usable bikes.

Last week, someone came into my carport at night and stole them all. I was so angry, I posted a rant on Craigslist under "bikes," hoping that the thief might see it. I called him names, I said everything I could think of to make him feel guilty (fat chance). "You stole from kids, you a**hole. You stole from homeless people who are trying to get their lives together and who, unlike you, deserve the help." You get the picture...

The result is that in the last week people have emailed me from all over the area, offering me bikes. Right now I have 8 frames, nearly 20 wheels, and can put together at least 5 decent bikes. People have contacted me from as far away as San Francisco. And when I couldn't get a ride to pick them up, several people have delivered them to me! I will have kids' bikes for needy families, transportation for people transitioning from homelessness, and a birthday present for a teen whose mom survived a murder attempt by his dad.

It is so easy to forget that there are really great people out there! Folks who really care about others but who may not know how to reach out and help those who need the care. I've been down and out, and people helped me along the way. Now I try to pay it forward, and it feels so good not just to be useful but to be able to inspire others to do the same. I got a bicycle shop to donate used parts that would otherwise be thrown away. Suddenly I have boxes of chains and seats and handlebars, and even figured out a simple way to build a repair stand. It's a small effort in a small town, but it has ripple effects. Little things do make a difference.

What's inspired you lately?

Bubu
4th December 2013, 06:32
What's inspired you lately?

you

too short

Becky
4th December 2013, 07:38
Thanks Greenguy for sharing this story. I think there are more good-hearted people than bad out there :-)

Lifebringer
4th December 2013, 13:33
Just did a friend and neighbor's gutters and drains for 75% off, but would have helped for free. He's a good guy with two souls still trying to balance who he is while in transition. Family doesn't stay in touch and barely when they lived in the same home. Now that his parents have passed, he's the heir and came out of the basement and has been doing e-bay sales to stay afloat, so I know he doesn't have much other than an excursion when the number crunching gets to be too much. Matched his paint for the whole house, and trimmed in white instead of fecal brown(yucky) that I looked at when I lived next door to him when he got the house. He was so detached and living in the basement in depression because of the way his family was shunning him because he was undecided about whom or what gender he was/is. Still it's lonely when you are religious. He feels very emotional like a woman, but is tall as a basketball player. Anyway, we care not for the biases, just friendship. Sometimes something as simple as being an ear when those who feel down need it, is good comfort, and to be able to save them some money will put a smile on any depressed face.

Robin
4th December 2013, 16:16
I'm currently living in western Texas, U.S.A. I came here this past February to do research and the first week of me being here I got three flat tires on two different occurrences!

A maintenance guy who works on the wildlife refuge I am at went out of his way to come and help me when my car was in a ditch. He was off work, and offered to come and help on a Friday evening to pull my car out of the ditch.

Then, to fix the wheels of my car, which were a bit damaged, I took my car to the nearest town which is 20 miles from where I'm living (I'm literally living out in the wilderness of Texas, so it's not easy to get access to much). When I got there, the service crew were all very nice.

Realizing that my car was going to take a while to get fixed and that I live 20 miles away, the owner of the auto repair shop lent me his truck to get back to the refuge so I could continue my work while they fix my car! He literally gave me his keys and placed his complete trust in me. He did not ask me where I was going or anything. He even left his rifle in the back of the truck!

It was unbelievably kind of him to do this for me, as they are by no means required to do this. He found within his heart that I needed to get back to work.

I am originally from Chicago, Illinois. People don't do this in cities. People who live in big cities do not care as much for their neighbors as they do out in the country...

GreenGuy
19th December 2013, 03:53
I work with a charity every week, bringing donated furniture and household items to needy families. It's a great inspiration to me, and a privilege and the high point of my week. Tonight I participated in our weekly podcast. If anyone is interested, you can listen to it here (http://vibrantcommunities.org/stories-from-the-streets). Just an example of ordinary folks in an ordinary town, trying to carry the paradigm of goodness into ordinary life. It's pretty ironic how I, who am not in the least a churchy guy, have gotten absorbed into this great program. And this isn't to toot my own horn in the least - it just proves that there are regular folks out there who really care, and that's the real secret of life IMO.