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dianna
31st August 2014, 21:08
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Understanding the "Boregasm"
http://news.nationalpost.com/2012/11/03/understanding-the-boregasm-boredom-is-actually-a-state-of-stress-researchers-say/?__federated=1


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xo2YWTm00-w


If you are reading this, odds are you are not bored. At this moment, your attention is actively engaged. I can’t say for how long but I know that once you lose interest, you will blame me: this article is dull, this writer is boring.

But in trying to understand this universal feeling, researchers are increasingly asking: What does your boredom say about you?

“Kids have a term for it, ‘Boregasm,’ where you’re hit with a 1,000 pounds of boredom at once,’’ says Albert Nerenberg, a Montreal-based filmmaker who just released a documentary about boredom.

“For many years, [I and a film crew] did these satires of politics where we’d go into real situations with fake actors. We wouldn’t be able to do our stuff until the end. We’d sit for 45 minutes of political speeches and I experienced the [symptoms] of boredom: one is wanting to poke your eyes out or chew your arm off. Boredom produces self-destructive feelings.”

“We all experience it, but we just dismiss it as something that is relatively trivial,” says Mark Fenske, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Guelph.

“Boredom is associated with very serious problems: depression, problems with work productivity.”

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You can also be bored to death. In 2010, researchers at University College London analyzed questionnaires completed by 7,524 civil servants between the ages of 35 to 55 in the late ‘80s. Those who reported a great deal of boredom were more likely to have died upon a follow-up than those who had not reported feeling bored.

While researching his film, Mr. Nerenberg sat down for a boring experiment by researchers at the University of Waterloo, where he was made to watch a video of two men hanging laundry while his heart rate and cortisol levels were monitored.



“One of the common views of boredom is boredom is a matter of taste. Truth is, we’re quite consistent,” he says. The study found that cortisol levels rose after boredom was induced. “That to me is an explosive discovery,” Mr. Nerenberg says. “It’s actually a state of stress.”

To broaden the field of research, Mr. Fenske and a few other Canadians have given new meaning to being bored; they’ve devised a new definition of boredom that recently appeared in Perspectives on Psychological Science, published by the Association for Psychological Science.

“All of the definitions focused on what it feels like to be bored, rather than the underlying mental processes,” Mr. Fenske says. “Boredom is about wanting to engage in some sort of satisfying activity, but being unable to … Something prevents you from being able to fully engage your attention.”

Those caught in the fog of boredom complain that the external world fails to engage them. “I had a friend whose mother would say, ‘You’re not bored, only stupid people get bored.’ The bad message is this common perception that if you’re bored, it’s kind of this moral failing.”

Boredom tells us that our potentials are not being acted upon or our ability to connect with the world is being thwarted.

One model says “boredom is caused by an inability to identify or label emotions and to use those emotions to inform choice and behaviour,” says John Eastwood, associate professor of psychology at York University and the lead researcher on the article, published in Perspectives on Psychological Science.


“People talk about chronically being bored after experiencing trauma. When a person experiences intense, overwhelming emotions, one way of coping is to numb or to blot out emotion. When they shut down emotionally, they lose the ability to have desires and needs to guide behaviour.”

Another theory is existential. “When people don’t have articulated life goals or have a life goal that they can’t follow through on, that results in a more aimless, state of boredom.”

Mr. Eastwood’s own experiments measured one’s sense of life meaning against boredom levels and other studies have revealed that people who had given up on life goals seemed to be more chronically bored.

“Boredom tells us that our potentials are not being acted upon or our ability to connect with the world is being thwarted in some way.”

It’s like quicksand. If you’re bored, don’t thrash around. Use it as a signal to tell you what needs to change.

Most people don’t ask: “Why am I bored?” The pressing question is more likely: “How do I not be bored?” If you’re listening to a speech or in a meeting, try fidgeting or doodling.

“I’m a teacher, a professor, and when I’m teaching something like research methods — it’s admittedly dry material — everyone is tapping their pencils, shaking their knees. They can’t sit still. Initially I’d be offended by this,” Mr. Fenske says. “But movement like fidgeting and doodling are ways to increase our arousal, help you be able to pay attention and be able to engage with the material.”

Studies have shown that in classroom situations, groups who are given toys to fidget with learn better than those who are forced to sit still. Also slight distractions, such as subtle background noise, can help alleviate boredom when tasks are not challenging, research suggests.

It seems harder these days to be bored with such wonderful distractions as technology and what Mr. Eastwood calls “aggressive entertainment.” Waiting in line at the bank is now a moment to play Angry Birds on your tablet, or time to check email on your phone.

But trying to constantly curb boredom with “things” could also curb creativity, Mr. Fenske worries. “We don’t allow ourselves periods of uninterrupted, freely associative thoughts. That kind of freely associative thought is linked to creativity and insight,” he says. “If you’re always occupying yourself, you’re never going to have those periods of thought and presumably those great ideas.”

Instead, face the boredom. Be still. Let your mind wander.

“Overstimulation perpetuates boredom,” says Mr. Eastwood, who claims he is seldom bored. “It’s like quicksand. If you’re bored, don’t thrash around. Use it as a signal to tell you what needs to change: Am I preoccupied by something that is bothering me? Am I feeling discouraged that I can’t follow through on a particular goal? Use the boredom as an opportunity to make change.”

That’s great if you’re able to daydream, Mr. Nerenberg says, but what if you’re trapped in a board meeting or a classroom and you must pay attention?

“I used to be a bottle sorter. There’s no way you can make that interesting. If you really have to pay attention, you cannot daydream. That is why doing your taxes is boring.”

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5 Types Of Boredom
http://www.fastcoexist.com/3022134/there-are-5-types-of-boredom-which-are-you-feeling

If you’ve read this far without getting too bored, here are the five types of boredom:

1. INDIFFERENT

A person who is calm and withdrawn from his or her external world. Words reflecting this kind of boredom include “relaxation” and “cheerful fatigue.”

2. CALIBRATING

A slightly unpleasant emotional state associated with receptiveness to "boredom-reducing options," but not necessarily an active search them. Characterized by wandering thoughts, not knowing what to do, and a "general openness" to activities unrelated to the present situation.


3 SEARCHING

A more negative feeling reflecting a sense of unpleasant restlessness and an active search for ways out of the boredom mindset. A person might think about alternative activities, hobbies, leisure, or work.

4. REACTANT

The highest levels of arousal and negative emotions. A person in a reactant boredom state has a strong motivation to escape his or her boring situation and avoid those responsible for it (such as teachers or a boss). Reflects significant restlessness and aggression. There are persistent thoughts about specific, "more highly valued alternative situations."


5 APATHETIC

This kind of boredom is different from the others. Like reactant boredom, it’s also unpleasant, but a person experiencing it has low arousal and a lack of positive or negative feelings--in other words, a feeling of helplessness or depression. Of the high school students sampled in the study, 36% of boredom experiences were of the apathetic kind, which is worrisome given that other studies have shown that boredom, depression, and destructive behaviors are often linked.
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joeecho
31st August 2014, 21:30
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Damn! If this isn't a great start to a thread of this nature or what?

You can like it or................................................don't. LOL

Thank you! May I have another dash of darkness, please?

dianna
31st August 2014, 21:42
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Damn! If this isn't a great start to a thread of this nature or what?

You can like it or................................................ don't. LOL

Thank you! May I have another dash of darkness, please?

"Autumn is my Spring"
August Strindberg


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0k8Ey30GLU


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dt3vYWZFxK0


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lw8ctJTF1ZY

DeDukshyn
31st August 2014, 22:54
Meh .. I was thinking boregasm was a boredom induced orgasm. Got me excited for moment there! ;)

Pris
1st September 2014, 01:08
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Here's a little video relating to the subject:


https://vimeo.com/77947348

Pris
1st September 2014, 01:41
Meh .. I was thinking boregasm was a boredom induced orgasm. Got me excited for moment there! ;)

LOL!! :biggrin1:

I was thinking a borg induced orgasm...

http://basementrejects.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/star-trek-first-contact-data-borg-queen-kiss-brent-spiner.jpg

Selene
1st September 2014, 02:13
Boregasm. I wish I'd thought of that.....!

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Cheers,

Selene

joeecho
1st September 2014, 02:33
LOL!! :biggrin1:
I was thinking a borg induced orgasm...


You know I would tell you to get your mind out of the gutter but then I would be lying.

778 neighbour of some guy
1st September 2014, 11:16
So whats a wet dream then, a snoregasm?

joeecho
2nd September 2014, 00:23
So whats a wet dream then, a snoregasm?

A pool party. :P

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Pris
2nd September 2014, 07:13
Ouroborogasm.

http://www.sailblogs.com/member/auryn/images/auryn2.jpg


Auroraboregasm.

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joeecho
2nd September 2014, 10:21
Ouroborogasm.
http://www.sailblogs.com/member/auryn/images/auryn2.jpg


Just when one universe is mesmerizing enough you get two that are parallel and overlapping. Each with a portal to the next.

Infinity is so vast that if you travelled faster then the speed of light for a trillion continuous years in a straight line...in the scheme of things in would appear like you had not even left your front porch.

It's a infinogasm.......when not just any -ogasm will do!

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Pris
3rd September 2014, 04:13
I don't think it's possible for me to get bored. There is always something I can distract myself with.

Ooooh, look at all the little smileys... :flame::nod::horn::juggle::roll::ufo::bounce:

joeecho
3rd September 2014, 04:26
Ooooh, look at all the little smileys... :flame::nod::horn::juggle::roll::ufo::bounce:

Look again at those 'smileys' once more...

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11010100010111001010110001010100100011000101000010 011100010100011
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TO-LFVHpA4s

Enjoy the steak! :)

Pris
3rd September 2014, 04:48
Look again at those 'smileys' once more...

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11010100010111001010110001010100100011000101000010 011100010100011
10000010100011000000011010001000001100001111000010 001000100010000


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TO-LFVHpA4s

Enjoy the steak! :)

LOLOL!! I see your point. This does not bode well for me, does it? :no:

joeecho
3rd September 2014, 11:28
Look again at those 'smileys' once more...

00100111000101000111000011010110000110000001000100 010111010100001
10000110111100001100000111001011101001000011100101 010010001010010
00100010001010010100101100100100001000010010010000 010100100100101
01000100010001010001000100010000100011100100010001 110000111110010
11010100010111001010110001010100100011000101000010 011100010100011
10000010100011000000011010001000001100001111000010 001000100010000


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TO-LFVHpA4s

Enjoy the steak! :)

LOLOL!! I see your point. This does not bode well for me, does it? :no:

LOL

Too funny! And I am just waking up!

Waking up laughing rules, just saying....

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Pris
5th September 2014, 16:10
Here's a classic! :biggrin1:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QfVgF63mTU

donk
5th September 2014, 16:22
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Made me think of this:

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I wish i could be bored sometimes...

Pris
5th September 2014, 17:29
Made me think of this:

EwM2n-kkjHI

I wish i could be bored sometimes...

That's certainly not a boring video! :lol:

joeecho
8th September 2014, 02:55
Try not to yawn while watching....


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-t1fimanDS0

:)