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rgray222
17th December 2014, 17:45
The Awakening

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There comes a time in your life when you finally get it…when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out…ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying, blaming and struggling to hold on. Then, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes.

This is 'your' awakening...

You realize it’s time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to magically appear over the next horizon.

You realize that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings, and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you…and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.

You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are…and that’s OK. They are entitled to their own views and opinions.

You learn the importance of loving and championing yourself…and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of self-approval.

Your stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you – or didn’t do for you – and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected.

You learn that people don’t always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and everything isn’t always about you.

So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself…and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance.


You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties…and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.

You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for.

You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with.

You learn that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a “consumer” looking for you next fix.

You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.

You learn that you don’t know everything, it’s not your job to save the world and that you can’t teach a pig to sing. You learn the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry.

Then you learn about love. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You learn that alone does not mean lonely.

You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO.

You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs.

You learn that your body really is your temple. You begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin to eat a balanced diet, drinking more water, and take more time to exercise.

You learn that being tired fuels doubt, fear, and uncertainty and so you take more time to rest. And, just food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play.

You learn that, for the most part, you get in life what you deserve, and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different than working toward making it happen.

More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You learn that no one can do it all alone, and that it’s OK to risk asking for help.

You learn the only thing you must truly fear is fear itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your own terms.

You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom.

You learn that life isn’t always fair, you don’t always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people…and you learn not to always take it personally.

You learn that nobody’s punishing you and everything isn’t always somebody’s fault. It’s just life happening. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.

You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you.

You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower.

Then, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never, ever settle for less than you heart’s desire.

You make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.

You hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind.

Finally, with courage in you heart, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.

About Sonny Carroll

Note for those trying to contact Sonny Carroll:
Her website, Wake To Life (www.waketolife.com) is now no longer in existence, her facebook page is dormant and she is not contactable.

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wnlight
17th December 2014, 22:57
Very nice concept, rgray, but this was not my story. My awakening was more like a groggy, getting out of bed at 7 in the morning because the dog needs to go for a walk. I could easily walk into a wall when in that state. My spiritual awakening was very gradual over maybe a dozen years, and with a few missteps. My slow and bumpy path certainly included many beautiful vistas which encouraged me to continue on. Some years were more encouraging than others. But there was no grand awakening point in my life that I, now looking back, could put my finger on saying this was my turning point; this was my year of sea-change; this was the time of my spiritual re-birth. My awakening was more like slowly walking out of the fog along a mountain road. Every now and then there would be a beautiful view. Then it would be hidden in the fog again. Then there would be an even better view. And so on. And so it is for me.

andrewgreen
18th December 2014, 00:54
I'm always confused when people talk about awakenings and whether they mean they have had an enlightenment experience or are just more aware that things are not as they seem. For me I am aware that things are not as they initially seem and increasingly at peace with it. However I wouldn't say I'm awake as I think that would imply spiritual enlightenment. I don't believe many can claim this despite having glimpses behind the vale. Of course you then have the question for those who have reached enlightenment; is it just the first stage of a possibly infinite process which is my view, or have they reached the pinnacle?

ZooLife
18th December 2014, 01:59
I used to think that when I read about Awakening in the spiritual sense that it was a 'certain' defined state. What I have come to realize is that, in the existential plane, it's more of a change in an ever evolving awaking process..

Perhaps even like moving in stages in a gestalt type of circular fashion that does not have a defining permanent destination. Perhaps The Awaking is the awareness of this awareness.

wnlight
18th December 2014, 02:51
Andrew, In my opinion, there are many stages of awakening. Each stage provides new landscapes, concepts, and capabilities. And I am lost somewhere in the middle. "Lost" because I have little idea how many stages there are or if I could put a number on mine. And I don't really care. My spirit guide tells me that I am mostly in 4-D, but I am still learning what that means.

rgray222
18th December 2014, 02:51
I think that the process of becoming awake is different for each person. Some people think it means being awake to deception by governments and the powers that be. Others think it means being awake in a spiritual sense. Many would likely say knowledge of extraterrestrial life, hierarchical families and knowledge that you can only get by understanding the universe.

What I like about the original post is that it points out that you must take responsibility for yourself, you can't believe your a victim and you must release your fear. There is no waking up if you can't get the basics right. The waking process can happen in a moment for some and others it is a long process that can take a lifetime.

ZooLife
18th December 2014, 21:06
I think that the process of becoming awake is different for each person. Some people think it means being awake to deception by governments and the powers that be. Others think it means being awake in a spiritual sense. Many would likely say knowledge of extraterrestrial life, hierarchical families and knowledge that you can only get by understanding the universe.

What I like about the original post is that it points out that you must take responsibility for yourself, you can't believe your a victim and you must release your fear. There is no waking up if you can't get the basics right. The waking process can happen in a moment for some and others it is a long process that can take a lifetime.

I hear you! :)

It should be noted that one would be wise to perk up their ears for false awakenings such as has been demonstrated by the dream within a dream.

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