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Daughter of Time
24th February 2015, 19:53
Dear Avalonians,

I have often found PA to be a place of refuge and sanctuary.

I seek sanctuary here today, amongst beings I know possess empathy, understanding, and the power to infuse healing with a blend of love and spiritual alchemy.

I find myself in an extremely difficult and tormenting situation of a highly personal and sensitive nature. I will not disclose details but I will offer an analogy.

Let's say that you are a citizen of two countries and those two countries go to war and you have to choose a side. Whichever side you choose, you will be a traitor to the other side. The repercussions could be dire. You will lose your citizenship to that country. You could be placed on a black list. You could be spied on. Your life could be in peril.

One of these countries has a great deal of power and can greatly damage your life, if they choose. But you side with the other country, the less powerful one, because you feel much more connected to it and because they have asked for your moral support. The powerful country declares you a traitor!

In an effort to equalize the matter and minimize the damage, you try to become a mediator, but that works against you, so you withdraw your public support from your country of preference in an effort to become neutral. You now have no passport and find yourself with two enemies.

While my situation is not as dire as the above, since the above is merely an analogy, and I don't think my physical life is under threat, my professional life could very much suffer, and my very clean, personal reputation could be blackened. My emotions and mind have been beyond troubled. I feel I am being psychically attacked, resented, hated... and completely misunderstood!

What makes the matter worse, is that I did not wish to withdraw my support for the side I feel strongly connected to. I did it in order to repair the damage that was being done by the opposing side. But this party does not understand my reasons and does not wish to have further discussions as they simply feel betrayed by me.

I would so like to communicate with these beings, especially the one I've withdrawn my support from, soul to soul, to make them understand there was no malice in my decision. I was simply trying to minimize whatever damage was being done by the other side.

The party (person) I withdrew from, is extremely important to me on many levels. I wish a reconnection with this person so that I may have a chance to explain my motives were meant to minimize the battles. I merely wished to instill some peace in the situation.

I also feel an extremely strong need to expose this person to a more spiritual way of life and understanding. I feel it is my duty to do this. If I fail, I will have failed in a very important life mission, which is one of offering healing and understanding to this very wounded soul. I need to reconnect with this person. There is much good I could do to help, if only I were given the chance.

Being that these two parties are at war, blindly battling, unaware of the true issues and how to resolve them, my voice is now but a silent scream.

My wish is for both very troubled parties to end the war and go their separate ways in peace. And of course, to see the situation for what it is and not declare me the traitor. I had nothing to do with this war. One side asked for my support and I offered it. Perhaps I was wrong in doing so, but when someone wishes for my support, I give it.

I humbly ask for your thoughts of peace and resolution in this matter, for myself, for my peaceful reconnection to the one I feel so connected to, and for the other party as well.

Mostly, I ask that any further damage, on any level, that may be underway, be stopped in its tracks.

With love and gratitude,

Daughter of Time

Quinn
24th February 2015, 20:19
Our thoughts are with you dear friend!

Flash
24th February 2015, 21:28
It would help if you were a bit clearer. Are you talking about your parents being at war, some relatives, some friends? And how did you become a mediator?

Someone ask your support and you gave it. Done, so let it go. But by not knowing more, it is difficult to give any advice.

My heart is with you however and with both of them

AriG
24th February 2015, 21:57
My wish is for both very troubled parties to end the war and go their separate ways in peace. And of course, to see the situation for what it is and not declare me the traitor. I had nothing to do with this war. One side asked for my support and I offered it. Perhaps I was wrong in doing so, but when someone wishes for my support, I give it.

I humbly ask for your thoughts of peace and resolution in this matter, for myself, for my peaceful reconnection to the one I feel so connected to, and for the other party as well.

Mostly, I ask that any further damage, on any level, that may be underway, be stopped in its tracks.

With love and gratitude,

Daughter of Time


Healing intentions to all of you. "This too shall pass".......

Daughter of Time
24th February 2015, 21:57
It would help if you were a bit clearer. Are you talking about your parents being at war, some relatives, some friends? And how did you become a mediator?

Someone ask your support and you gave it. Done, so let it go. But by not knowing more, it is difficult to give any advice.

My heart is with you however and with both of them

Thank you, Flash!

I'm talking about authorities in my professional world, who are also part of my social world.

The one I gave my support to, still needs my support, but I withdrew it in order to prevent further damage caused by the other side who became very resentful of me.

I became a mediator by trying to get them to resolve their differences, but siding with the one I felt connected to.

I am not asking for concrete advice as the situation is very complicated. I ask for loving thoughts for a peaceful resolution.

I thank you for yours, and everyone else's.

With love and gratitude,

DoT

shadowstalker
24th February 2015, 22:11
LOVE/HARMONY/BALANCE TO YOU :wizard:

RunningDeer
24th February 2015, 22:11
Sometimes the only solution is ‘time’ if parties cannot stretch. Through their personal growth there’s an opportunity to see that You are love, integrity, consistency, fairness and support.

Sometimes the situation must be acceptance for how things stand until all parties’ resonance come together.

Love and blessings to You, Daughter of Time.

RunningDeer


http://avalonlibrary.net/paula/Love/three-things-not-hidden_zpsqzw2ngp4.GIF

Realeyes
24th February 2015, 22:24
I am unclear of the situation, the dynamics etc.

So stabbing in the dark here.........

I wonder with this hindsight.............. IF, you had the opportunity to do this all again..... would you do the same moves, or approach it differently? Perhaps you will find your answer somewhere in this.

If you meditate, shift frequencies beyond the personality and individual reputation....... and view from a greater observer perspective connected to your Soul, to see 'what is really at play here', it's true meaning.

Imo, it sounds like Soul business initiations to me. Such are great opportunities for spiritual growth; however sometimes such unravellings might not necessarily be what we first 'expect' - yet offer the greatest of realisations and wisdoms. ;)

I wish you all the best and may clarity be forthcoming. :hug:

poetbil
24th February 2015, 22:56
Pretend that you have a serious problem and run ,you have your life to live
If you choose now one side,probably when their war will end ,they shall both turn against you

Daughter of Time
24th February 2015, 23:35
I am unclear of the situation, the dynamics etc.

So stabbing in the dark here.........

I wonder with this hindsight.............. IF, you had the opportunity to do this all again..... would you do the same moves, or approach it differently? Perhaps you will find your answer somewhere in this.

If you meditate, shift frequencies beyond the personality and individual reputation....... and view from a greater observer perspective connected to your Soul, to see 'what is really at play here', it's true meaning.

Imo, it sounds like Soul business initiations to me. Such are great opportunities for spiritual growth; however sometimes such unravellings might not necessarily be what we first 'expect' - yet offer the greatest of realisations and wisdoms. ;)

I wish you all the best and may clarity be forthcoming. :hug:

You are so right on!

If I had to do it again, I'd approach the situation differently.

This is indeed about soul growth. I know that. I wish the other parties involved would know it too.

Thank you for your wishes.

With love,

DoT

sirdipswitch
24th February 2015, 23:48
Rule #1 - Never disagree with the Boss.

Rule #2 - When asked for support by a co-worker... see rule #1

Major problem when our only friends are those we work with. Especually when taking the wrong side could very well alter your livelyhood... drastically. Then there's always the matter of personal "Ethics" that usually come into play in such situations.

When determining your well being, be it on the Homefront... or Workplace... see Rule #1. chuckle chuckle.

Deega
25th February 2015, 00:02
Hi Daughter of Time, as suggested in the video, I took a deep breath, with intents of healing, on the outtake, I have sent healing thoughts to you.


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The best to you in this difficult situation!

PathWalker
25th February 2015, 08:55
Greetings Daughter of Time,

My heart is full of compassion to you and your situation.
As I was reading your post, I thought of another conflicting situation.
A mother to 2 warring sons. One of them is injured and request medical assistance from his mother (thinking of civil war in Syria or Iraq). What ever the mother will chose she will be in a lose-lose situation. Alienating one or both sides.

The son requesting assistance, did a distress request. Assuming he was not scheming to put his mother on the battle zone.
The other warring son, perceives the motherly assistance as neutrality breach and side taking.

The mother is helpless and cannot change the hate, war and damage. Her suffer duble, since she is compassionate to both sides and alienated by both.

My suggestion is to accept the helpless position, as part of the game. And take the path of least damage possible.

Maybe it is already too late and the case is lost.

It is also very important lesson, that we cannot force spiritual teaching on those who refuse compassion.
Forced spiritual teaching and practices are what you see in the middle ease and religious wars. Stay away, accept that the war is not yours. Accept the personal consequences of letting people learn their lessons the hard way.
The mothers' spiritual lesson is not less important, respecting the son war, and being their comfort zone. No matter what. Being is a state of love and service.
The mother in this analogy is choosing not to chose. But she has several alternatives.
1. Take a side.
2. Take no side and offer support (medical) for both sides.
3. Take no side and disengage from both sides. Allowing each side to approach/contact privately.
4. Disengage from both sides till a condition is met by both sides.
5. Proactive mediation.
6. Passive mediation, on call.
7. Abandon the situation and both sides.

As you can understand diplomacy is a profession.

Sometimes the parents best teaching is to let go, allow children to get hurt and learn on their own. Children can't learn to swim and stay dry. And parents need to let go fear of deep water.

We had a family story of an adult daughter 32 staying with her parents. Unemployed, unsocial, single and bitter. The family was miserable. Eventually the mother (a school principal in profession) , showed the door to the daughter. The daughter was shocked and revengeful, but eventually got employed, found a boy friend and apartment in 3 months.

My heart goes to you, chose your battles wisely, chose your responsibility with spiritual wisdom.

Joy and happiness
PathWalker

Stephanie
25th February 2015, 09:01
Being that these two parties are at war, blindly battling, unaware of the true issues and how to resolve them, my voice is now but a silent scream.

My wish is for both very troubled parties to end the war and go their separate ways in peace. And of course, to see the situation for what it is and not declare me the traitor. I had nothing to do with this war. One side asked for my support and I offered it. Perhaps I was wrong in doing so, but when someone wishes for my support, I give it.



You are not the conflict here, dearest Daughter of Time, you were 'their' battleground,
and now may both parties find their place of harmony, understanding and resolution, and grow in knowledge, love and wisdom.

Bathing you in a gentle, calming river of loving light, and warm and healing harmony.
Blessings to you.

Daughter of Time
25th February 2015, 15:52
Thank you, everyone, for your compassion and sentiments. At a time like this, the support of loving, mindful beings, is truly important and so appreciated. It moves me deeply.

I tearfully reflect on the situation and wonder. There's always been a conflict within me in this matter. I followed my heart, not my head. But then I disengaged. Where is the wisdom in me?

There's so much to be learned as we walk on the bumpy roads of this troubled earth. Unforeseen obstacles seem to present themselves when least expected. I've been blind to the consequences my actions would produce.

Still, no harm was ever meant by me. I did not commit an act of malice, but it is perceived as such by the beings involved as they are blindly battling their war in which I became involved, but only because I was asked for my loving care and understanding, which I gave. But they cannot see beyond their own pain, anger and blame. I feel like a scapegoat.

I send them my love every day. I thank you for the love you send to me. I pray for peace, for all of us.

With love and gratitude,

Daughter of Time