Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
Dougie, it certainly isn't just you - as these posts attest to.
Sometimes nostalgia overwhelms me, but as I consider selling out after sixty years in the trenches, the nostalgia is wearing off. Now I think of why did I go in late twice last week and miss a day because of heat stroke. Now my paycheck will be short. And not six months ago I was living off less than what my check today is short. Go figure. I watched all my friends sell out and most of my generation, but I stubbornly held out, resisted.
At sixty years of age I unfortunately have to think of my retirement which will not be all that comfortable. But I don't mind, I sleep with a clear conscience.
Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
I grew up in the Midwest and then snobbish Connecticut before falling in love with my now husband on a trip to Scotland. So I now live in rural Scotland as an ex-pat and I can say that no, the whole world isn't zombified. In our towns and villages, people do indeed talk to each other and I regularly chat to folks on the bus. Young people aren't always on their phones and do have things to say. And mercifully, no bearded tattoo dudes and yoga pant women :)
That said, there's a different kind of sleepwalking here to some extent, more like how I imagine the 50s and early 60s to be, with folks (who are mostly white, mostly middle class) being concerned with their day to day lives, as opposed to looking for a deeper significance or purpose to their lives. And I find that stifling at times, which I why I come to this forum -- because I'm certainly not going to be discussing how media controls the populace through fear down at the local butchers!
There's also a very clear line for me between being anti-sleepwalking and groupthink and being anti-PC. Too often I see someone complaining about being PC as a nostalgia for the days when people like them had the power and people not like them "knew their place". And that's not okay with me. I have no nostalgia for my childhood in the 80s -- it was all TV and shopping malls, so I much prefer today with the Internet allowing me to interact with lovely people like you.
Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
mike good stuff! thanks everyone. I'm going back in to the "land of pre offended" cover me
Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
Awwww, I think y'all just need to do some Angry Yoga...
(She's uncannily like what Kate Hudson might be like 40 lbs and 20 years from now..)
Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
Onawah, I laughed so hard. That is really funny.
Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
I feel it too. But I get a lot of joy from the animal world and nature. The human world just doesn't have what it used to.
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Onawah thank you! Wonderfully refreshing! Im not cured, but smiling
Re: The malaise ! Can anyone relate ?
Doug those numerous reasons are exactly why I feel compelled to gaze upwards...