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avid
Iota, I posted a complimentary comment to you regarding the new proposed thread, about ‘muddying the waters’.
This was a constructive observation that if all those new ‘breaking news’ items were hidden under a thread on an open forum, many folk would never see or commentate, on your thread, therefore cancelling out ‘news’, whether relevant or irrelevant. So, the ‘breaking news’ should always be posted as separate threads, to ensure maximum research and diagnoses on our forum.
Thank you for your absolute enthusiasm, and your valuable research on the current situation in the USA.
I understand your frustration in these times of conflict, and hope truth will overcome adversity. All the best Avid
got it Avid ... and appreciate your desire to be constructive
there is just a difference between "i think" (suggestion)
and statements of SHOULD (that is a directive and does not leave open avenue to choose otherwise)
and even now, the "suggestion" aspect is a little bit obscured and sounds more like a directive ...
i actually coach people on this subject
everyone we know is subjected to well meaning folks who don't realize that their "suggestions" are not leaving enough "wiggle room" to clarify
respect that the person they are making the 'suggestion' to is an adult, perfectly capable of thinking for themselves.
if we don't communicate that it was JUST a "suggestion" ~ and if the person thinks otherwise, THEIR ideas would be respected? ... then that point is not understood
because it is not made
because its kinda my subject? i can't fail to give example of how to effectively communicate and/or terminate unwanted infringements
because by the same token, people can't be expected to "know" what one has failed to communicate, right? they are NOT responsible for our UNspoken input ...
in personal relationships that usually creates a breakdown of relationships because people want their own agency
yours alone, might have been ok ... but it kinda turned into a free for all with everyone chiming in what
they "thought" it should look like or how it
should be instead of implement THEIR ideas in THEIR own projects and leaving me (allowing me) to do mine in mine ...
granting THIS thread
at least as much validity as their ideas of what it "SHOULD", you see? and when it seemed to snowball? that really derailed the thread. all the excitement at this shinny new project seemed to get mud thrown on it ..
not very nice and i wouldn't do that to someone .... anyone else would have been completely discouraged and given up, even i was a little deflated ... :( does that make sense?
now what i wanted here?
i was tired of Twitter being the "source", they disrespect our President, the President of the United States!
he speaks
(or tries to), they chime in, stepping in to "evaluate" him and censor
(maybe i was relating a bit, hahahaha)
so anyways as i explained at the onset the intention here, is quick news or stories or what is being discussed right now
just to give a heads up
some will be fleeting news for the day
others may gain legs and someone might want to start and dedicate a whole thread to it
either way ... that is THIS thread. and it would be great if those that like the idea and can support, enjoy or contribute? visit here, and others find the things they enjoy and visit there ...
we're good Avid, and thanks for taking the time to explain and thanks for noticing the work i have put into my contributions here!
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