Kind of a sticky subject (pun absolutely intended) but someone needs to talk about it. For the record, I’m in my mid-20s and quite the looker. That sounds egotistical, but it must be said - because no one cares about sex advice from someone who can’t get laid.
This post is going to be aggressive and in your face. It needs to be - because currently, there is a 99.9% chance that you are an ADDICT. There’s nothing wrong with being an addict. I used to be one, too. The issues arise when addicts don’t think they’re addicted. If you ejaculate all of the time and don’t think there’s an issue with it, you fall into that category. I’d rather ruffle some feathers than fail to get my point across.
Let us proceed. Men, everything you have been told about ejaculation for your entire life is a big, fat, disgusting LIE. For the past four months, I have been completely celibate - no masturbation, no sex, nothing. Sexual thoughts have entered my mind, but I’ve made every possible effort to transmute them into something more productive...
And I have ascended. My mental acuity is as sharp as a katana. My charisma is off the charts. Both men and women are in absolute awe when I am in their presence. Anxiety does not exist for me. Stress does not exist for me. I never feel awkward. My foundation is as solid as an ancient mountain. This is not an exaggeration. I am playing a different game from all of the other men I see in my day to day. I never see another man who is on my level. EVER! They try to fake it, but it’s clear as day that they’re lying to themselves and others when they’re faced with the real thing. Once again, this may sound egotistical, but I need to clearly tell you about the benefits.
Speaking of, let’s talk about physical benefits. I have never been in better shape… even when I was a gym rat. About a week into celibacy, my body just started sculpting itself. I barely even exercised at the time. Seriously, I did like 15 burpees one day and the muscle gains I acquired were staggering. I was honestly in shock.
Energy levels? Off the charts. I’m never tired like you are. Guess what? I don’t even drink caffeine anymore. That’s just how much energy I have. I need very little sleep. And my skin complexion is nothing short of brilliant. Most men look sullen, weak, and dead inside. Not me! (Feel free to chalk this up to my age - then go ahead and look around at the other mid-20s “men” you see walking around. They’re not like this.)
Onto the specifics we go. Most consider sperm to be a waste fluid that needs to be released every day, or at least every week. This is patently false. Consider the nature of sperm. You ejaculate and a human life is literally created. How is that a waste product? Do you think fluid that literally CREATES LIFE... is easy to generate?
No. IT’S NOT. You are exhausting yourself by ejaculating to an absurd degree. You simply do not notice how exhausted you are... because you have been doing it for your entire life! In other words, you’ve adjusted. But you can’t really adjust to something like that, just like a heroin addict cannot truly adjust to injecting heroin. Perhaps he can become functional, but he’ll always be a shell of his true potential.
Consider the effects that pregnancy has on a woman. Nine months. Very draining, or so I’ve heard. Do you really think that the male does not have to put in some sort of equivalent effort as the female does? That the man just gets a free pass? Absolutely not. How does that make any sense? Like the woman, you sacrifice a part of yourself to create a new life. The woman does it over the span of nine months… you do it when you ejaculate and when you regenerate your sperm after the fact.
“Hold your horses, buddy. When I don’t ejaculate for more than a couple days, I feel on edge and aggressive. I’m too horny to function. I don’t sleep well. Maybe it worked for you, but I’m different. I need to ejaculate constantly to feel healthy.”
No, you don’t. You’re simply addicted to ejaculating. More than that, you’re addicted to sexual arousal. You’re just like a cigarette smoker. The smoker doesn’t understand how non-smokers can get through the day without a cigarette. Even more hilariously, smokers think their addiction benefits them - that it’s “worth it”. You are just like them. To the outsider, the smoker looks foolish. To me, you look foolish for ejaculating all of the time. Fool! I apologize for being so obtuse, but someone needs to drive this point home!
(Did you know? The only animals that masturbate are low-status monkeys in captivity. Say hello to your brethren!)
The truth is, you are currently addicted to sexual arousal, just like the smoker is addicted to the cigarette. When a woman walks by, you stare like a creep. What happens then? Well, you think you’re going to have sex! But you’re not. So the sexual frustration just builds. And it keeps building, because you keep thinking about sex, just like a smoker keeps thinking about a cigarette.
What happens then? Eventually, you drive yourself insane, just like the smoker who keeps thinking about cigarettes without getting his fix. Then, you do in fact need a release, just like the smoker needs a cigarette.
But the release itself is not intrinsically necessary, just like the cigarette is not intrinsically necessary! You have simply convinced yourself that it is necessary by forming an addiction - one that likely began when you were a teenager, or maybe even 11 or 12 years of age, before you had a f***ing clue what you were doing in the game of life.
In other words, up until this very moment, as far as ejaculation goes, you have played yourself. You have a habit of expending your single biggest source of life force energy… for literally no reason, other than the fact that you’re addicted to it.
Now, this does not mean that you can never have sex again. I plan to try tantric sex at some point in the future with a worthy partner. But masturbation? Give me a break. NO. Never again. Neither should you. Unless you want to expend life force energy for absolutely no reason and give yourself a major handicap in the game of life. You are better off getting completely inebriated from an assortment of different drugs. (I’m harping on masturbation in particular because I don’t expect people to make the jump to full-blown celibacy right away.)
I can now INSTANTLY tell when a man masturbates. It’s so obvious - the ways their eyes shift around, the weakness of their gait, their timidness, their awkwardness, their lack of self-confidence. And you know what? SO CAN WOMEN. They have built-in sensors and can pick up what you’re putting out from a mile away. I would sometimes get glances from women in the past, but many would seem to look at me in disgust, which didn’t make much sense due to my looks. Now I get it. They know. I promise you, they know. They don’t know how they know, but they do. And they automatically treat you differently if you’re one of the ejaculators.
Let me be perfectly clear. Men, whether or not you ejaculate takes all priority in the social dynamics of human existence. Chronic ejaculators get NO respect from EITHER sex.
Now for some good news. 99.99% of men in today’s society are chronic masturbators, to the tune of at LEAST once per week. By stopping this degenerate practice, you are going to gain a MAJOR EDGE in the game of life. You are going to be literally shocked at how quickly your life improves and how differently people start treating you. And that’s not even including the extra energy, strength, stamina, health benefits, etc. that you will receive. (If you are already doing pretty well for yourself... I can assure you, you haven't even begun to peak!)
But it takes more than simply not touching your dick or having casual sex. You need to also purify your mind. Or else you are going to drive yourself insane and eventually “relapse”.
How do you purify your mind? You need to transmute your sexual energy. Yoga, meditation, exercise, creative outlets - anything! When you get a sexual thought, take a deep breath and imagine the energy flowing from your lowest chakra straight to your crown chakra. You can literally feel the energy travel up your spine. Don’t repress sexuality - simply move the energy around your body, HARNESS IT, and become the person who you always wanted to be with almost no effort at all. Life becomes very easy when you are not constantly exhausting yourself for a spurt of pleasure that lasts for three damn seconds.
I’m going to stop here - either I’ve piqued your curiosity or I haven’t. If I have, I will link to three resources below. If you read these three resources, or even a portion of one of them, you will never look at ejaculation in the same way ever again. In fact, you will look back and wonder how on earth you spent such a significant portion of your life needlessly expending life force energy for absolutely no reason at all. Count on it!
The Coiled Serpent - download file and go to fviewer.com/view-epub to read it
The Practice of Brahmacharya - download file and go to fviewer.com/view-epub to read it
A Treatise on the Diseases Produced By Onanism, Masturbation, Self-Pollution, and other excesses - this was written about a century ago and as such is somewhat hard to read, but it’s a gem
P.S. No hate towards smokers - I was a nicotine addict for eight years (half+ pack per day / 1+ pod per day). I was easily able to become completely sober - I even quit caffeine! - once I stopped ejaculating. The benefits you will receive from not doing this single activity far outweigh any temporary pleasure you get from it. Once you get a grip on your masturbation habits, you will want to look into tantric sex - or just realize that there is a whole freaking lot more worth living for than fleeting sexual pleasure.
P.P.S. I have NO IDEA what is to be said about masturbation/sex for women - this thread is aimed exclusively at men.
P.P.P.S. If you are so confident in your masturbation habits, why are you so ashamed of them? Would you brag about how many times you masturbated each week to a member of the opposite sex? Would you make a post on Facebook detailing your masturbation habits? Of course not! Because deep down, you’re ashamed. Okay… now I’m done. God bless this wonderful forum where I have learned so much.
