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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    Quote Posted by Vicus (here)
    what INFJ describe is what in Astrology the sign Scorpio is...in his highest potentials...

    at that level Scorpio symbol is the Phoenix.



    at the middle level his symbol is the Adler ( the all seeing )



    at the low level is where Scorpio/ scorpion got his bad rap (for normies...)
    here are all negative things from INFJ...


    if there is two thing Scorpio/ INFJ hate/cant stand, that is Hypocrisy and vulgarity.


    if 1/12 world population is under Scorpio , hummm....2% INFJ worldwide come very close...
    I am a classic Gemini/Taurus cusp! 21st May, I am not sure about this Scorpio-INFJ link, surely Scorpio is an extravert sign, fire and sexual passion?

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    Apparently I'm one, not exactly excited about it.

    Don't suppose I'll get a pay rise or super powers on the back of this discovery ?

    I think it was the list of people I'm supposed to be like that left me somewhat disenchanted.

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    It is mostly invalid Spiral I only wish that Carl Jung could be with us, he would soon discredit the MBTI quacks! Our personalities are NOT glued in at birth, we do not have an enduring, persistent nature which never varies, that would be dreary. MBTI merely seeks to gain traction with the masses so it can make lots of money from our vanity and our desire to be divided and exclusive. Always these MBTI 'therapists' set themselves up to fathom our enigmatic little selves and determine our inscrutable qualities. Are there rare and gifted people? Of course, but this cannot be defined by a personality test - no more than your intellectual capacity can be fathomed by a numerical score! Beware the therapy people and their boxes of tricks: Carl Jung would throw them out of the temple, personality is a variable and many faceted manifestation of our unique ontogenesis - I say MBTI is just parlor games for those who seek to limit the human condition and make money from their charts and analysis.

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    Quote Posted by Spiral (here)
    Apparently I'm one, not exactly excited about it.

    Don't suppose I'll get a pay rise or super powers on the back of this discovery ?

    I think it was the list of people I'm supposed to be like that left me somewhat disenchanted.
    Mr Twirly, I'm totally offended by that. I've just been diagnosed as an INFJ - A. I thought we were friends, lol! What surprised me is that we are only 2% of the population. Oh well....

    Might point out that I did this test over 25 years ago, it still came out the same. Leopards can't change their spots apparently.

    Glad we are the same, my long time online friend for at least a million years...
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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    I took the test for the first time just now, and I am a INFJ-A (Advocate).

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    I just found a new source of info about INFJs and just in the first video, questions I didn't even know I had were answered about what I had just thought were murky, undefinable gray areas.

    THE 5 WEIRDEST HABITS OF INFJs (that we usually keep secret)
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: INFJs are often perceived as reserved and quiet people. We're the ones who don't say much, but you know we have something to say. With this in mind, it makes sense that many of us would behaviorally exhibit some very different habits from most everyone else - here’s five we've found ourselves doing time after time again (that we like to keep hidden)."

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    WHY THE INFJ BREAKS EGOS WITHOUT EVEN TRYING
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    (This INFJ coach really has deep insights into the personality type, which is probably the most complex and difficult type to analyze.
    She acts as a great mirror and sheds light on aspects of INFJs that I've never seen before, but which are very valid.
    In this video, just for starters, she reveals the ability that INFJs have to create a personality that they use to interact with others, thus allowing their inner, introverted world to remain safe and unseen.
    But this can put others at a very vulnerable disadvantage, and ultimately alienate the INFJ from others, when what they are actually seeking is to become closer.
    This really gave me a lot to think about.)


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    WHY A TRUE INFJ COMES OUT ON TOP DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: The INFJ is always looking for ways to help others, even if it means they're being targeted by a narcissist. But once the truth about how this person has been harmful comes out and you believe in your gut instincts that something isn't right- then there's no turning back!
    So today we talk about why an INFJ turns into a power play once they finally confront the narcissist."

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    WHEN THE INFJ EMBRACES THEIR DARK SIDE (this is what happens)
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: There are two sides to every person, the light and dark. The INFJ knows this well as they have a deep understanding of others' emotions from both angles -- but it's only when these aspects come together within ourselves in harmony that we reach our full potential! One way you can strengthen your personality is by embracing who we truly want ourselves too be...even if that means embracing some hard truths about ourselves along the way."

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    INFJ-T apparently.

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    5 REASONS THE INFJ GETS GHOSTED SO OFTEN
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: The INFJ is often the subject of ghosting because they have a hard time finding commitment from others. People who are ghosted not only feel uncomfortable but also guilt-ridden after being abandoned by someone. And yet we continue on our merry way without getting an answer why this has become such common practice amongst INFJs - until now..."



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    Why INFJs "WAIT IT OUT“
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today we're talking about what INFJ's love to wait it out. So waiting out has a lot to do with observing. If you're in a position where you say: I don't need to share my opinion right away, I'm going to take a step back, I'm going to wait it out and see how people are going to react. What are their motives? We allow other people and situations to unfold to use that, to create a new image in our mind of how the situation will play out. It can be one of our superpowers if we don't take it too far. And this is also something I want to tackle today, because almost all of us, me included tend to go overboard with this.I have learned my lesson and now go in a different direction. But once we even understand how to stop this, how to not go overboard with this and take action in certain situations, you will see how you will gather that much more benefit from the superpower of being able to wait things out."

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    WHY IS A TRUE INFJ SO INTIMIDATING?
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: There are a lot of personality types out there, but none seem to be as polarizing as the INFJ.
    People either love us or hate us. But why?
    Let's take a closer look at what makes an INFJ intimidating to others and what that means for us as INFJs."



    (I really needed to hear this message at this time.
    I just went off recently on someone for constantly interrupting me, and the result really was kind of shocking.
    Not just to the other person, but to me as well.
    Because I tend to repress my anger, but I clearly saw how ineffective that was in getting the respect of the other person, whereas just letting my honest feeling show was the right thing to do.
    Next time I won't wait so long!)
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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    Shout out to ENFJs; we're like INFJ but with our different vowel we have the power of gatecrash. Any free drink in this thread? Turn the volume up, everybody dance time

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    .

    hellooooo .............

    I did the test for the first time many years ago and was INFJ... did it again about 5 years ago and can't remember what it was exactly but one of the letters was different, think the first one was E not I - did it again yesterday and I'm back to a fully fledged INFJ.... I can definitely identify with the INFJ description....

    Quote The results of your personality test are in. Here they are:

    Personality type: Advocate (INFJ-A)
    Traits:
    Introverted – 61%,
    Intuitive – 80%,
    Feeling – 66%,
    Judging – 83%,
    Assertive – 51%
    Role: Diplomat
    Strategy: Confident Individualism

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    holy crap took the test im Advocate: INFJ-T
    Qui animum Vivere

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    WHY THE INFJ HERMIT MODE IS THE KEY TO LEVELING UP
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    (Makes complete sense...)

    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Why the INFJ Hermit Mode is key to leveling up. The hermit mode can be seen as a negative thing, but it's really not. When we're in this state our needs and wants are met without being overstimulated or stressed out by everyone else around us; when you level-up your connection with yourself through self care techniques like meditation then these benefits become available for use on any given day!"



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    HOW THE INFJ GETS OUT OF TOXIC FANTASIES
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: The INFJ can get caught up in toxic fantasies because we are very intuitive, and it's easy for us to slip into a dreamworld where the future seems bright. However this isn't always so innocent; sometimes INFJs will find themselves stuck on scenarios that don’t pan out well at all--for years even!"

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    WHY THE INFJ NEEDS TO START OFFENDING OTHERS
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: So, you're an INFJ right? Congratulations! You need to start offending others and making them feel uncomfortable. Why do I think this is important for your personality type ? Well first of all let's be honest with ourselves - wanting to offend somebody is THE LAST THING we want to do...and therefore go out of our way NOT to do when it reality it would have just been a neccessary byproduct of us being ourselves."



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    WHAT EVERYONE GETS WRONG ABOUT THE INFJ
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: INFJs are often seen as mediators among friends, resolving conflicts and bringing harmony. Nevertheless, the INFJ prefers to stay in the shadows until needed; they're not interested in being foremost at decision making but rather will do what needs to be done without fail even if it goes unnoticed or unappreciated
    The one thing many people think that comes naturally with being an INFJ is mediation - creating peace where there was previously turmoil... But don’t let their reserved nature fool you."

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    Default Re: Are you an INFJ? Do you know one?

    I can relate to the INFJ Hermit Mode. It's interesting to be presented as a "up-level". A helpful perspective, I think.

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    WHY THE INFJ’S IDEAS ARE "TOO OUT THERE" FOR OTHERS
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: We INFJs are a breed of individuals who prefer to think outside the box, and we've experienced success in doing so. Other people may not see how our ideas could work because they don't come up with anything like that every day- but there's no reason it can’t be accomplished if you set your mind towards achieving something!"



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    WHEN THE INFJ FINDS OUT ABOUT MyersBriggs (this is what happens)
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    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: INFJs are often in the shadows, trying to find their way. They see so many people struggling and they feel like it's a personal failing if someone doesn't "get" INFJ type ethics or just lives life as an average person without understanding what real sacrifice means - but that isn't true! I'm here today because of how one discovery changed everything for me: finding out about MBTI (the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) while looking into my personality type helped INFJs learn more than ever before; not only did we gain knowledge on why things happen according do letters falling within categories...but also discovered some pretty amazing facts along with insights from other fascinating individuals whose stories might be similar yours too."

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    WHY PEOPLE ARE SO SHOCKED WHEN THEY SEE THE INFJ SUCCEEDING
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    (This expert on INFJ just keeps on informing me about what being an INFJ is all about.)

    "INFJ Life Coach Lesson: The following is an Intel clip about why people are so shocked when they see an INFJ succeed. It's not that someone thinks INFJS cannot achieve anything, but often times it seems like nobody was really expecting this particular outcome from the introverted intuitionists who spend their time and energy building inner peace in order to be able accomplish great things with ease later on down the road."

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