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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    I was kind of hoping you would do a spin-off thread on this one like the one you did with the "I am the True Satan" thread, Mike.
    Plenty of latitude with this subject, I would imagine, and more potential for hilarity than anything Bill Maher ever did...
    But, as always ...

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    What's the point of all that charisma if you can't use it to get laid? That's the whole point of charisma, isn't it?

    As another poster pointed out, obsession dies over time and is replaced by a kind of grounded wisdom. Being a young man really is a kind of torture. Back then, I walked around in a horny stupor most of the time. When you're that young, you really are overwhelmed by the same biological program a lusty wild lion is that just roams the plains and indiscriminately mounts stuff. You almost ,literally, can't help it.

    I don't know how it will be as I get older, but I like where I'm at now. Still a card carrying pervert but much more under control.

    There's a balance in this type of stuff that needs to be achieved, imo, just like in any other area of life. Take it from Mr Miagi, he knows:
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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    In the game of life, masturbating is the single biggest stress release. Its harmless, free and divine.
    Every man can as often as he likes ...ejaculate. But how long can you masturbate without ejaculating?
    Thats where it gets interesting, for you and your partner(s).
    Make it an art!
    Practise (3x)

    Namaste
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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    Men don’t masturbate. We apply lotion to our hands with our willies.

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    Quote Posted by Satori (here)
    Men don’t masturbate. We apply lotion to our hands with our willies.
    Oh yeah --pull the other one.
    Legally correct of course -- smiling.
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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    After getting a vasectomy, I was told the sperm is reabsorbed by the body, surely the sperm being the most difficult to produce and most full of essence, this could be a therapeutic procedure for health without having to fully abstain?

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    I've got some comments, but I've gotta let this ride for a while......So many good comments here...And it's surely a worthy topic that can go into some productive and insightful areas...

    I was gonna say I gotta hand it to the kid for bringing this up, but he's already got his own way of handling it...Koodos for that. And yes, in the states and likely worldwide, it is a good way to get isolated if you mention that you haven't purposely had ANY sex for any length of time. It doesn't bother me, but it does bring out the ignorance of others. Modern peoples are pretty f'd up in some ways, and this is a good example.

    The condition of communication and the need for the healing power of touch and deeper intimacy certainly tells a crude tale and gives light to an unfulfilled area in the lives of many of both sexes. How people call sex intimacy without knowing each other's bodies and physically taking care of each other with massage, is way beyond my understanding of health, or whatever people call love, let alone real, satisfying sex. The state of external diversion, thru porn, and unhealthy, unrealistic societal norms is a state that can only be healed by taking good care of ourselves and nurturing the gift of being in a body.

    The arrogant pretty boy stuff doesn't tell us much about transcendence and the natural reintegration of the energy into healing, but you're still young and if you follow this all beyond the thought, the learning about the energy will come....in time...
    as abstinence without diversion does reinvigorate the blood, which in turn can heal many areas in the body...

    Just mentioning being handsome, while accurate, tells us where the mind, the energy is at. I've known some strikingly beautiful women, and a few men, who could care less about what other people think about them, and it serves their energy well. Their thoughts are often on living, not presenting or influencing.

    However, just you bringing it up this way tells me you are living much closer to the inherent power of being who you want to be, than living the way any society supposes you should live and act. You're talking some truth, that relating to at this age, will serve your journey much better than not bringing it up at all.

    So, here's a little...
    In a very rare world, the redirection of the energy, channeling desire to productive, creative action creates a ridge on the governing vessel meridian on the skull, slight, but noticeable. I've only met one man with that trait. The ridge diminished when he, in his middle years, got intimate and married.
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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    I really don't have any much to think or say about this, except the following

    Why does this reads like it was written for one of those "I'm a self made expert in this topic" blogs? Why do I feel cringe when you mention your looks or charisma? It really adds nothing to your topic

    The way you push that forward right from the start..

    Error 404: Charisma Not Found


    -

    When I turned 18, I got invited to a very high class bar to celebrate, we were only like 5 friends or so. At one point this random guy came by our table and said "hey you skinny, give me your number so I'll take you out tomorrow" and I said "no thanks bye now!"

    He then said "you know I have what you need, I'll be back in 30" all ridiculous confident and walked away like a king, I think he thought that was also charisma and confidence. He looked like a fool

    Anyway we called a friend and the guy came back to apologize 3 times through the night before we left to another place, His confidence was nowhere when he approached multiple times apologizing, so cringe.

    Why the need to express like that?, over confidence doesn't really work, it's only for show, transparent, so all that work is whatever at the end, girls know... Unless you go for easy to impress ones, and then it looks like you want to be Sebastian from the Cruel Intentions movie

    P.S. you are ashamed to talk about certain a sexual things because your religious or social upbringing traumatized and conditioned so much that it's taboo, not because it's natural to be ashamed. Just like you probably would not feel ok being fully naked on a public bath, or even a bath with only your father, uncles or grand father in the room

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    What the OP is saying as to ascension is true as I have experience it when I was fifteen. Not by choice but by accident. But since it was told in a manner that does not suite the crowd. The important message which would have benefited the readers was drowned. In this regard I am not going to tell how I go about the ascension thing for fear of being trash . But I am going to tell you the logic how and why it works. We know that ejaculating takes a lot of energy. Now if you do it often and then you stop, logic tells us that there would be an oversupply of energy that you can "convert" or redirect. I have also discover another energy monster that most people go into and is equally satisfying to ejaculating. Guess what is it yet? eating or overeating. Yes it takes a loott of energy to digest the food. And if you are over eating and you suddenly stop, well you'd be fasting . And after a while you'd be experiencing a load of energy. I still do this technique until now. But no I dont stick to the ascension part. But rather I do an ascension descension combo. this is because somewhere on the ascension path I reach the peak and there is of course no other way to go but to descend or stagnate. Stagnation is dead no life. Life is a vibration. So I do the ejaculate and glutton then eat only when hungry and exercise cycle.

    I am going to tell you what it does to my health, I hope I also receive a lot of beating on this one
    around 5 months ago me and my son did a 4 day bike tour. First two days we split the lead. On the third day I did the lead 80 % of the time because I have more stamina than him. On the fourth he lead most of the time because he has more than I. Its a tie stamina wise. One 55 year old and the other 22 year old. My son is also a varsity swimmer in college definitely not a wimpy boy.
    The other good thing about this is that when I am exceptionally healthy it tends to lift the other aspects of me which is emotional and mental. Those 3 of course goes hand and hand and affect each other, negatively or positively.
    One more tip. dont forget the inspiration part it makes up at least 80% of success. So to the OP, get a girlfriend every now and then and dont stick to the ascension part

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    How does the principles of Sex Magik play into this, if it does? Lower chakra type of energy...

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    When I was a child, I used to hear the elders talk to male kids at family gathering "To accomplish great things in life or to become a powerful man, you must treat women like the stone. If not, you will end up as an average husband who becomes nobody. Be careful with girls, boys!"

    I started to practice meditation in late 10s. A few years later my skill moved to high-level that brought Kundalini experiences with blurred reality. And I stopped regular meditation practice to live as a man not a freak. The meditation technique taught what the OP said how to redirect sexual energy and desire for harnessing life (Ki) energy.

    I chose to be a single man, lived like a Buddhist monk, became fearless. I'm at 50 who does not know to kiss. From time to time close friends talk to me "You should get marry." To prevent the wet dream during sleep, I do masturbate regularly by the way. I learned sex is sacred in nature. It needs to be embraced, explored by a couple.

    The finest pleasure human can experience comes from act of creation. Only tiny number of population touches it in daily life. Sex is act of creation given to everybody but most of us do not know how to use it sadly.
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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    NASU/ grew up on that film. always loved it. Yes, inability to get an erection will cause wars so that firm big missel's can be launched to compensate.

    btw , gals you must love being able to make true comments regarding men here. these comments I fully agree with, but outside Avalon, ooooo very sexist!

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    Doug: Is this a mental mining operation on certain female readers?

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    What about alcohol ?

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    giggle... Still chuckling that someone "Went there"... sorry, off topic....

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    Thanks for the lecture and I guess he is too busy charming people to respond to any of the posts for 4 or 5 days

    You should probably give this lecture to a more ignorant crowd. Many of us are already aware of this and have practiced it at least once.

    "chronic ejaculators get NO respect from either sex." <-- lol. That means that practically all youthful men get NO respect at all from anyone. lol Is that why everybody is glued to their phone, they dont respect anyone, so remain distant? We should not respect low energy depressed people?

    Being in SE Asia, I have no shortage of women or attention at a much older age and weaker energy than the OPer. I could whack it all day and i'd still get smiles and loads of messages, action, etc. So, according to this guy it sounds like if i plug my faucet, I'll literally be king of women and just waive my hand at women and put them under my magic mojo spell. lol
    Maybe the ladies here like non-respectable, unconfident men

    The power of being a funny and cool calm guy is totally ignored in the OP. Being youthful, still having youthful ignorances and full of massive energy that you unlikely can fully control are some of the downsides. The inability to handle that much energy can manifest negatively in other ways (even if you feel better)- pride, arrogance, annoying others, self-delusion, dominating/control issues, etc. The ego has soooooooo many traps.

    We understand there is some truth to this topic, but trying to sell it with all the added 'charisma' is not so productive, since it just weaves in nonsense/exaggerations/distortions to the topic. Reading through the messages hopefully helps you see the problematic side effects of your massive energy. Work on smoothing that out for phase 2 in your training I guess.
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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    I wouldn't touch this topic with a ten foot pole!

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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    What a disappointing thread! All about male ejaculation, and inevitably masturbation since it is only looking at one half of the equation. The whole point of the sex act, it seems to me, is interaction with a partner. My apologies if I stick to the old-school version of man and woman. Ejaculation, we are told, involves a huge expenditure of energy. However, if this energy is directed at someone, it can hardly be described as wasteful, but on the contrary, when properly done, with reciprocity, it will be extremely energizing for the other person. I read somewhere that through this interaction physical energy is transferred to the female, and spiritual energy to the male. But who am I to say? At the risk of appearing even more old-fashioned, maybe some old faithful couples have mastered this two-way energy source better than others who see it as a one-way thing.


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    Default Re: Men, ejaculating is the single biggest handicap you can give yourself in the game of life

    Sex is wasted on the young and ignorant who have not hit the jackpot by having found their literal soul mate, spiritual twin. However, the world is not fussy about the quality of offspring from the previously mentioned set.

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    I hear now in the UK there are medical attendants that visit elderly and disabled patients to "pleasure" them to orgasm with special tools. Apprently this is healthy.

    The "secret" ban of intimate relations in nursing and cares home between residents is slowly being lifted as well. Apparently it is very common, but just not discussed, but was actively discouraged by care home staff. Because they are prudes I expect.

    Not sure why but it is unlikely anyone is going to get pregnant....

    No one really knows what our grandparents get up to when no one is around....

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    Quote Posted by Merkaba360 (here)
    Thanks for the lecture and I guess he is too busy charming people to respond to any of the posts for 4 or 5 days

    You should probably give this lecture to a more ignorant crowd. Many of us are already aware of this and have practiced it at least once.

    "chronic ejaculators get NO respect from either sex." <-- lol. That means that practically all youthful men get NO respect at all from anyone. lol Is that why everybody is glued to their phone, they dont respect anyone, so remain distant? We should not respect low energy depressed people?

    Being in SE Asia, I have no shortage of women or attention at a much older age and weaker energy than the OPer. I could whack it all day and i'd still get smiles and loads of messages, action, etc. So, according to this guy it sounds like if i plug my faucet, I'll literally be king of women and just waive my hand at women and put them under my magic mojo spell. lol
    Maybe the ladies here like non-respectable, unconfident men

    The power of being a funny and cool calm guy is totally ignored in the OP. Being youthful, still having youthful ignorances and full of massive energy that you unlikely can fully control are some of the downsides. The inability to handle that much energy can manifest negatively in other ways (even if you feel better)- pride, arrogance, annoying others, self-delusion, dominating/control issues, etc. The ego has soooooooo many traps.

    We understand there is some truth to this topic, but trying to sell it with all the added 'charisma' is not so productive, since it just weaves in nonsense/exaggerations/distortions to the topic. Reading through the messages hopefully helps you see the problematic side effects of your massive energy. Work on smoothing that out for phase 2 in your training I guess.
    I can't get rid of the MGTOW/Incel vibe, and it also brings up some weird kind of religious stuff going on behind the scenes

    I don't know but the entire "Shame" thing is cringe enough, and the way it was written looks so much like one of those blogs where the owner eventually builds this image of "i'm an expert, listen to me" and then starts giving out coaching sessions or writes a book

    Perhaps this is a way to validate and get feedback to see what sticks and what doesn't, and then reformulate and rewrite the business plan and coaching material?

    Lastly, anyone with real charisma would not have a ruler to measure it, only someone aware of their lack of charisma would look so much into it that it becomes so important and he can compare against other "level of charisma"

    At least for me, real charismatic guys are busy living their lives in real time, caring for other stuff and living the real experience, not writing blog posts about how to become one or look like one, and obsessing over sexual shame and energy that comes from avoiding thinking or acting on sex thoughts

    And who said the only way to be energetic is caffeine? Why is that even mentioned like "i even stopped drinking it!" LOL That's an odd thing to say. And he doesn't need sports to get all build up, that sounds like a very specific profile he is displaying, possibly without knowing he's showing more than he wishes

    He just needs to stop being a sinner, and he has immediate results in energy, charisma, body health and plenty other things, and he doesn't need to deal with the shame of having to commit 'the sin' to become a perfect good looking, charismatic, awesome body, superior male and winner in life

    That's how it looks like to me, but what do i know.. probably reading too much into this

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