Some times, i see people who 100% all the time are very nice, never get angry, never argue, they never, ever say anything hard or act upon other people's actions
Somehow, this is identified as being a very spiritual person, or wise or something along those lines
But it is not, it's unnatural and bizarre, it's like 'a spiritual servant' to other people's energies. Someone who doesn't even try to change the order of some things is not a good person really, it opens some bad doors for behavior of others, if you think about it
Also this, if you are 100% of the time a very nice person, and never, ever get angry because of other people's actions, it just means that you are not growing at all, you have a 'wall of nice' around you, and as soon as you lose control over it you'll probably get a mental breakdown and end up in loony town
It makes a person vey bizarre, truly, because it should be normal that other people's actions make you angry or bothered, and you should be able to express it and then the other person, ideally, should be able to reason this and change something in them to avoid causing that bad effect on other people, or somehow talk about the issue, if this is avoided, then it's all fake, isn't it?
When i see people who always smile, even if something very bad happens, i don't think they are optimistic, i think they are a boiler about to explode, holding so much pressure that it becomes bizarre to watch, and the smile is like a human mask facade of some sort, it's not real, it's the opposite of truly being happy and of truly living life to the max
If you don't get upset or bothered by some things, then how do you truly enjoy peaceful moments, if you can't feel the intensity of life anymore? Sometimes going to the river and swimming means it may rain and then you did not get to swim the way you wanted, and it's ok to feel disappointed or bothered by it. It's how nature works, or maybe you twist your ankle in the rocks one second away from entering the water and then there's no swimming anymore, and that's how life works, and if you want to throw rocks at the water to get rid of the frustration so do it!
Not everything is a signal o or lesson from life, and not everything has a special meaning/purpose from the creator, and being 100% perfect spiritual and loving all the time is fake, that's not wisdom or anything but craziness waiting to happen
A twisted ankle hurts like hell, and there's no lesson there, it twisted because the person stepped on a rock and wasn't firm enough and now they day at the river is ruined, cry or yell and feel frustrated and then slowly walk home and take care of the pain somehow, and don't go smiling pretending that 'it's fine, other people must be suffering more' because it's not, it hurts like hell and what other people may be going through has nothing to do with your ruined day and current pain
Or you can end up like this lol
/rant