Chris, in the universe there are both constants and variables if i am to use mathematical language. I believe that as the most important constant we can safely choose God. He cannot cease to exist, and He cannot alter the way He exists, i.e. being creative, compassionate or full of bliss, however wide we open our minds. Kundalini shakti is beyond our concepts since she is not a concept. But concepts can have a more or less accurate descriptions of reality, especially when we deal with rather fundamental things, with Kundalini shakti being among them.Posted by greybeard (here)
I think its very important to be open minded and in a surrendered state.
Kundalini, being Divine intelligence, knows exactly what is best for each aspirant.
There has been times when my sex drive was non existent and even if I mentally created a desire by force of will, no erection was forthcoming.
There have been other times when just walking down the street a sexual though would come spontaneously to mind and up it would come effortlessly.
Thankfully there was never an embarrassing situation caused by this.
Basically what Im suggesting is that you cant put Kundalini Shakti into a concept box----it does as it does in-spite of this self.
God probably laughs at our concepts, rules and regulations.
Chris
I've become quite certain about the nature of Kundalini or what i am calling as "Kundalini", if you will. Based on my experience, observations and study of religious literature i concluded that Kundalini has some inherent qualities and is missing others. First of all, she is a living, responsive energy, and what she definitely has is purity, chastity, love, patience, forgiveness, intelligence, determination, all-in-one. What she doesn't possess is lust, greed, and malice. I personally have never had an experience when my Mooladhara chakra was sexually excited and my Kundalini was strongly up at the same time. This kind of excitement would always feel as warmth, and if i direct my attention to its source it may cool down, and after some time i would feel my Kundalini strongly again. I guess only when you have a similar experience you can differentiate between sexual energy and Kundalini shakti as well as understand how much they are far from each other and why i become rather adamant when people try to equate or somehow mix them. That's why i'd tried before to define what i understand as "Kundalini" and how other experiences fit or don't fit into this description.
I'll try to put it this way. In my understanding Kundalini is a living, intelligent and benevolent energy that cannot be misused somehow against her will, and her will would be based upon fundamental qualities i've pointed out. Sexual energy doesn't have any intelligence on its own since it works purely in automatic, instinctive way. For this energy it doesn't matter if it's used for a healthy sex or gang rape, so it's both blind and "dead" in a sense. And i'm really curious how this dead energy can be worked on in such a way that it gets transformed into something living and intelligent. Well, only evolutionists who do not recognize spiritual realm could agree to this possibility. To put it differently, why to transform sexual energy into something higher if there's already something higher without any transformation whatsoever, just patiently waiting to be triggered?
But it's my personal experience, knowledge and common sense. I presented them and not going to argue or convince anyone in their validity. And i will only agree to revise my experience if someone gives a more substantiated view that would map my experience into even a larger picture, along with all other experiences people might be having, will all confidence and expertise.
Peace