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4th December 2016 20:12
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We know little about love
Subjective Love
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Unconditional Love defined by humans
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Unconditional Love defined by God
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The above illustration depicts my understanding about love, based on an experience I've had in which I was in direct communication with God.
Subjective Love is not a bad love or excluded type of love in any way, all higher loves also contain the Subjective Love as a subset on the physical level. But Subjective Love that is also Unconditional Love is a higher form of love, it still contains Subjective Love, but its nature is ALSO unconditional. Unconditional Love defined by humans is Subjective Love that has great levels of Unconditional Love and Peace as defined by humans. Because it is defined by humans it has limitation, in relative terms it is unconditional because it is love expressed at its fullest human capacity.
When a human being expresses unconditional love beyond its natural human capacity, the inner soul of the human leaves the body because the soul now vibrates at a rate that is beyond the vibrational spectrum of the human and its physical context.
This can happen, I have experienced this level of love, but it was God that did it to me. And what this type of love is, cannot be described, because the words alone put that type of love in too much limitation. It is so deep, so great, so true, so without limitation, that once you experience something like this you for the first time understand the true nature and power of love, the true nature of God and creation.
Prior to making that dimensional shift, I was experiencing a dimension similar to earth but in full peace. This I learned was a place of Unconditional Love and Peace as defined by humans. It was an incredible place, like heaven, at full peace! So I asked God, how can I reach a place like this, because I so much want to...! God replied like this: "Just love unconditionally".
So the thing is that Subjective Love is great but it can be so much more when on top of it you add unconditional love elements as defined by you. When you love someone subjectively, that love is at such a level of limitation that there are a lot of conditions "in the way of" that love blooming. You could reject that love or be rejected by that love, in both of these cases it is still Subjective Love taking place, it is just that it has conditions attached that limit it a lot, maybe so much that you cannot even be together. Rejection itself is a limit attached to that kind of love, that is one of the differences between Subjective Love and Unconditional Love defined by humans, Subjective Love without Unconditional Love (this is Subjective Love) might include rejection, whereas Subjective Love with Unconditional Love (this is Unconditional Love defined by humans) excludes rejection.
So what is important here is to understand that rejection is actually part of the Subjective Love, it is a kind of love that hurts, because it has elements that constrain and apply limitation on love, because it is conditional. One of those conditions may or may not be rejection, it is still Subjective Love. Subjective Love with rejection might be equal to Subjective Love that depends on some other type of condition, such as for instance both having full time jobs. In both cases it is Subjective Love that is limited by some condition(s) that sometimes will cause pain.
Therefore, when you love someone out of Subjective Love, do not get focused on the limitations within that love, instead be aware of its great level of limitation and move beyond it: You reject me, I still love you, because I love you unconditionally.
So just love unconditionally, because that is what breaks down the limitations of the Subjective Love, so that it finds Peace. When you are in Subjective Love and within that love you reach Peace, then you have moved away from the limitations of the Subjective Love, to the limitations of the Unconditional Love defined by humans. But this kind of love is so amazing, because it is at full truth and peace within the capacity of human understanding of truth and peace. (truth and peace are much greater than that in absolute terms).
But what you truly truly desire above all, is the Unconditional Love defined by God. This love is so great that it is beyond your imagination.
How can you then move from Subjective Love to Unconditional Love defined by humans? One important answer to that question is to not act aligned to your fears and ego in relation to or in the context of that person, but instead do to the other person the way you want that person do to you. Moving from Subjective Love to Unconditional Love defined by humans is to a great degree taking a role of being a teacher, a role model. The person that rejects you or when there are other conditions attached that the person attaches, that person is the student in this kind of love relationship. In order to move from Subjective Love to Unconditional Love, one or both needs to take the first step. Whoever that does that, whoever meets his/her fears more and deals more effectively with his/her ego, becomes the teacher. This is the key to transforming Subjective Love into Unconditional Love. So in a way Unconditional Love defined by humans is to a great degree the result of having gone through love lessons with your student as a teacher, or having been a student yourself. When both of you let fears take over, you are both in pain no matter what other relationships you might have. You cannot experience Unconditional Love with person A and Subjective Love with person B. Either you are at a state of Subjective Love or you are at a state of Unconditional Love. Fulfillment, what we call happiness, is the result of the process of moving from Subjective Love all the way to Unconditional Love and experiencing the Peace that this type of love brings into a relationship. Meaning of life is being the teacher or the student.
So when pain strikes, it might be an indication that God wants you to become a love teacher because God knows you are ready and can do it. God is with you.
A person that is in a state of rejection towards someone, will gradually feel fear and unhappiness more and more when turning to ego in contact with someone that is teaching. In the state of Subjective Love you do what you don't want to do and what you want to do that you don't do. In a state of Unconditional Love you do what you want to do and what you don't want to do that you don't do. Winning over your fears and ego is what you truly want, so therefore the student will naturally want to be near the teacher to overcome his/her fears/ego and turn the Subjective Love into Unconditional Love. It is a natural instinct that kicks in. So don't be surprised when the person wants to reject you but also wants to be near you. As a teacher on the other hand, if you at some point are unable to overcome the fears and the ego, for instance when the other person becomes too rejectful or ego centric, walk away, it's not a good time to teach. That will in turn make the other person be aware of the pain he/she is at and is causing (=emptiness) and will naturally soon return to the teachings, in fact both of you will, it is exciting and you have both been in pain and you don't like it much. The moment when Subjective Love turns into Unconditional Love, is when both give love unconditionally mutually the same way. At that point the rejection cannot exist anymore, at that point the love between you is so strong and true that the condition of rejection must be abandoned, because relative to the greater love of unconditional love it is false, it always was. And the truth of that is something really sweet that both feel a great relief in. You are finally happy.
As long as it is God's will, God always finds a way of bringing the student back to the teacher.
Last edited by WhiteLove; 4th December 2016 at 22:37.
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4th December 2016 21:26
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